5 Pitfalls di Social Media

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Chì mi partendu mettendu un clausole. 'Ssu articulu hè micca circa quantu male a sucetà di cumunicazione è. Agriculture in modération, incù l 'n frunti lu cori drittu, si pò esse una cosa maravigliosa. U puntu di stu articulu hè in a dirizzioni certi modi ca a sucetà di cumunicazione pò esse un pitfall di a vita cristiana è à vulè voi à studià i vostri cori, quannu si veni a vostra cunsumazione di cumunicazione suciale è participazione. Chisti sunnu cincu modi ca a sucetà di cumunicazione pò curà i nostri brami di piccatu.

1. Tecnica Social pò annuiari

Chistu è nenti noi ùn aghju intesu nanzu, ma qualle vò à ripitennu. Seus ricurdata in Efesini 5:16-17 chì i tempi sò gattivi è noi ci fari lu megghiu usu di lu tempu datu à noi. Lagnà per un mumentu di ciò chì vo pudia esse fà nveci di vidiri tutti quelli siti. Mentri aspittava à un appuntamentu, avemu pussutu tene na lista di i populi à pricà per nantu à u nostru telefonu è passanu quelli minuti lettinu in preghiera di a nostra famiglia è amichi. Sicuru, a unu tempu o n'àutru, simu tutti curpevuli di stassi ore à nantu à Facebook in un ghjornu è mai apertura, u Verbu di Diu. Dapoi ogni mumentu hè un donu di u Signore,, qualle vò à dumandendu présenter, "Is t'ha più Fashion chì aghju pussutu esse culà u mio tempu in u?"A maiò parti di u tempu, a risposta hè u sìmbulu sì.

2. Tecnica Social duna un rimpianu à u vostru pinzeru ogni

Credu chì a sulidarità di pustà nantu à a sucetà di cumunicazione pò truccu vo a pinzari qualle OK à bec stavanu qualcosa. avemu lagni, avemu Post & Canzone populu, avemu disrespect populu in auturità, e noi dì tuttu ciò chì ci pensu, célébrités, comu si iddi nun èranu genti vera. È avemu cridutu nun nni avemu propriu di risponde à prò di qualsìasi di lu. Ùn sò d'acqua da u privacidad di a vostra stanza right now-ci sarà nunda privatu quandu no tengu davanti à Diu, Diu vivant è dà un cuntu novu di u nostru parolle. Matthew ni dunanu cunsigli bedda per iscrittu, "On u ghjornu di giudiziu, populu darà a contu per ogni parolla fià di luttà. "Egli s'avanza ramenta di stu rule u prossimu tempu avemu à aghjurnà a nostra statutu.

3. Social media can fuel discontentment

Quand'è no li pozzu spenniri tempu imparu jennu supra chiddu d 'altri sò prufittu, è dicendu:, si tira a nostra primura à tutti i cosi nun nni avemu o sò mancante fora nantu à. Si ci pò puru causari à dumandassi perchè a nostra vita nun taliari lu stissu. Picchì nun aviri pinzatu di chì surpresa? I ultimu, aghju avutu u so sensu di stili. So nova casa hè manera di taglia chè a nostra! Sè ùn simu attentu, trenta minuti, nantu à Facebook o Impressum pò lascià ti jutu bipulare, unattractive, e underwhelmed cù a vostra propria vita. Ebrei noi exhorts, «Tena a to vita libarà si da 'amuri di soldi, è esse cuntenutu cù ciò chì vo avete, di Hà dettu, 'I hà mai cchiù, mai, nè voi rinunzià.' "Omu pò infine esse cuntenutu sanu sanu cù a nostra vita cum'è i cridenti picchì stamu datu tuttu ciò chì ci tocca à Cristu. Mi Manchi présenter agghicaru a to 'usu di a sucetà di cumunicazione hè cuntribuiscia tù credi issa verità.

4. Social media can fuel pride and keep you inwardly focused

Tecnica Social pò divintà prestu a nostra podium, di self-di prumuzioni. We have to ask ourselves what our motivation really is for posting the things that we do. Paulu noi cerca di simpatia, o à ludà? Do ch'è no vulemu esse bè pinsò di o vantami nantu à e cose di piacè avemu a francisata troppu statu jittatu? Nun ti scupriri arricchisci quantu "ùn piace" o "retweet" vostru articulu hè? Tutti sti cosi Fuel orgogliu è tene à noi fighjendu e scumesse di frunti. Chissu pò èssiri na pitfall particularmenti difficiuli per qualchissia chì hà un rimpianu chi si stenni arreri a so 'amici e cumpagni di a famiglia. Whether you do music or have a popular blog, picchì i millai di parsoni sò à sente ùn significheghju micca tuttu ciò chì veni à menti hè u colpu dicendu:. Avemu a arricurdari ca retweet, commenti, e cci piaci ùn dà in autumàticu liggittimazzioni di ciò ch'è no du Plessis. Diu ti vede i mutivazioni di u nostru core è hè mai acqua da un articulu bè artigianale-. As I Samuel 2:3 cautions, "Ùn tena parrannu accussì si misi a vuciari, o chì a vostra bocca parlà tali arruganza, di u Signore hè un Diu chì sà è di malfatte ellu si pisò ".

5. Social media can distort our view of relationships

Pà ogni prò di a sucetà di cumunicazione hà per raporta, Ci hè un drawback. Hè facile à coche l 'ultimi vi tènenu caru (troppu facile?). Nun ti haiu sempri 'abissu, conversations Perciò a persona? It is easy to keep up with a lot of people you love—and a lot of people you don’t even know (forsi è puru assai?). Vous oversaturated cu la scheda di 300 vita d'pòpulu chì vo ùn sona u prufittu un bon travagghiu di l 'amuri lu 10 populu vo vidite settimana a sittimana? Omu pò amparà prestu noi stessi à esse i cunsumatori di nfurmazzioni mmeci di innamurati di pirsuni. Sapennu circa a vita d'un omu è di spartera di tuttu circa i vostri so vita Via suciale di cumunicazione ùn hè micca u listessu cum'è essendu un veru amicu. Di sicuru a Cristu è l 'asempiu perfetta di ciò ch'ella vole dì à esse un veru amicu. Comu Cristu ricìa, "I mo cummandu è stu: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, ch'ellu hà lasciatu a so vita per i so amichi ". Amicizia hè più chè la summa di fighja e images statutu. Amicizia hè u sacrifiziu. Festa chì porta l'autra fiscale. Ùn hè ghjustu Virtual-ciera tangible.

Jessica Barefield stà in Washington D.C. cù u so maritu Viaghju, è u so figliolu Q. Pudete leghje di più da u so à a so bloggu, Like To Love.

Ardu

59 commenti

  1. Xavierrispondi

    This is so true. I will openly admit that I waste hours and hours of my time and days on social media and all the points brought forward, I can directly relate to. I know in my mind and heart that I want to and have to cut it out, or greatly diminish it, but it isn’t easy. But the message you have conveyed and the words of God that you’re using to reinforce this speak to me clearly. Thank you for this article :)

  2. Tyronrispondi

    Very good read! Was never involved in social networks until a little over a year ago and these are some of the reasons why. I have actually been thinking about deleting my social networks to focus on what needs to be focused on. Lot of good points here. Thank you for taking your time to write it and share.

  3. Danielarispondi

    Stupendo! So true. I definitely need to work on my social media intake. It’s very consuming one of the very reasons I stopped getting on Pinterest. Thank you for sharing.

  4. Staceyrispondi

    Thank you so much for posting this. I have been fighting with myself about getting on Facebook. Seems lately all it does is make mad angry. This was everything I needed to hear and will reread when I need to be reminded. Thank you and Trip. Diu benedica.

  5. Markrispondi

    Thank you so much, for thelittle peoplewith out a voice it speaks numbers to think oursocialvalue is derived from social media. Thanks for the wake up call !

  6. Oyishoma Emmanuelrispondi

    That is so true. We waste precious time on social networks without purpose, and whenever purpose is not on ground, abuse is inevitable. I myself i’m guilty of this at times; but i pray for the grace to redirect my priorities.

  7. ADIN MOORErispondi

    This is a really good post. Thank you for sharing it with us, enjoyed reading it and it opening my eyes to the pitfalls of social media. :) A Misericordia & paci.

  8. Josephrispondi

    Exactly why I PERMANENTLY deleted my Fakebook in early 2012. Just like how I gave up cable TV in 2001, I don’t miss either Fakebook or TV. FB makes it easy to love yourself, which is idolatry. Being on the computer for work (video editing) is all the more reason why I do not want to spend time on it in my free time, but it is so easy to waste time on the computer. If I’m on YouTube, it’s to watch edifying videos from other Christians. I HIGHLY recommend every Christian to read this article: “Forming our Souls with Facebookby Shane Hipps (Second Nature Journal dot com)

  9. Barbararispondi

    Omg I was so convicted last week by exactly what you saidspending hours on facebook that should be spending in the word! I love this blogkeep the knowledge coming!

  10. Rozrispondi

    Thank you so much for writing this. It is so very insightful and has helped me a lot in recognizing that I need to limit my time with social media. Many of the things you’ve described are all things I can relate to. Spending too much time on social media is not beneficial for my spirit your blog has really put it in words for me. Again thanks so much

  11. Adamrispondi

    This article caught my eye quick because my job is online and a big part of it is social media. Before this was my job I could completely relate to this. It really can be a time waster if there is no self control. It should be something approached with caution for sure!

  12. Naisharispondi

    I saw this link on my Facebook and was dreading to read it because I knew it would convict me and today I said, “Ok… Let me have it.lol. Just about everything in here is true about how I spend my time online and I am going to assume that the person who wrote this article would not have posted this if she had not struggled with this herself in some way. So it is nice to know that there are other people who carry or did carry the same burden. At church you tend to feel like you shouldn’t admit to stuff like this, because we have created the idea that no one else struggles with it. Just the other day I was talking to my husband and telling him how I deleted some apps on my ipod (yes I still have an ipod and not an iphone, by choice) because it created unhealthy/ungodly thinking. I use to play Home Design where you can create your dream home and in turn I would become so depressed with the house we live in. I still love playing Mall World on FB and confessed to my husband that I like it because my avatar is someone I am not, she is pretty, skinny, independant and it is fantasy that I enjoy living through. Maybe I sound weird or people may think I shared too much but this is my own conviction. Thank you for reinforcing what I know by sharing your own conviction with us writer and other commenters.

  13. ChinaJohnsonrispondi

    I will be deleting my Facebook and Instagram for a while. This was my wake up call. My husbands has been telling me about this and the discontentment has gone too far! À ringrazià vi Jessica!

  14. RJrispondi

    Grazie! I’m gonna take a week long break from Facebook, E-mail, and Instagram and work on those relationships I have with people I see in my daily life.

  15. Tylerrispondi

    Fantastic stuff! I’m a high school student and the part about putting so much stock into retweets and likes is so true! I definitely think their are some good things that can come out of Twitter/Facebook but it’s all about where you heart is!

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  17. THOMASSINGWArispondi

    Wow thank God that was written for me,may the life giver always bless you and your family.Trip has always been the man of days The music,writtens etc keeps me awake.we thank God for you

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  19. Mirandarispondi

    Really good post! Social media can be a little too much but when I see souls reach and they are planted into a church with their families and serving in church and in their community with the families.. That’s amazing to me.

  20. Keinyarispondi

    Stupendo. This really spoke to me and I appreciate it. It’s so well articulated and has some great advice on ways to reflect. Grazie!

  21. TheMesengerrispondi

    That is sooooo true it can take time away from god also you won’t seem to have the time 4 him we’ll cut it off make the time

  22. katrispondi

    awesome read. admittedly, i spend too much time looking at pretty boys and pretty things and getting caught up by all these superficial things on tumblr that i tend to push God aside. it’s a sad, sad thing; i could be reading up on His word and spending more time with Him….thanks for the eye opener!

  23. Charityrispondi

    Stupendo. I thought I was doing good because I was just on two networks. This definitely helped me check myself. I thought because I wasn’t sinning I was okay, and of course there is always room for improvement.

  24. Yashirarispondi

    God bless you for sharing this and thank you! This post just got me thinking about the time I waste with social media and its networks. It has helped me to re-think what I’m doing with time.

  25. Mercyrispondi

    I agree with every point. I for sure have been avoiding instagram because I found myself comparing my self to other girls on there. It’s not good to feel ungrateful. I like looking at cute animals. Lol
    I considered deleting my fb, instagram accounts numerous times. I do think it’s good for keeping up with family members far apart though. :)

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