5 Pitfalls de Meáin Shóisialta

Post aoi ó Jessica Barefield

Lig dom tosú ag tabhairt séanadh. Ní hé seo an t-alt faoi conas is na meáin shóisialta olc. Úsáidte i moderation, leis an staidiúir croí ceart, Is féidir é a bheith ina rud iontach. Is é an pointe an t-airteagal seo a chur in iúl ar roinnt bealaí gur féidir na meáin shóisialta a bheith ina pitfall don saol Críostaí agus a spreagann tú a scrúdú a dhéanamh do chroí nuair a thagann sé do thomhaltas na meáin shóisialta agus rannpháirtíocht. Is iad na cúig bealaí gur féidir na meáin shóisialta beatha ár mianta Nós Nua.

1. Is féidir le meáin Sóisialta dramhaíl do chuid ama

Tá an rud ar bith nach mór dúinn a éisteacht a fháil sula, ach is fiú athrá. Táimid i gcuimhne i Eifisigh 5:16-17 go bhfuil na laethanta olc agus ba chóir dúinn a dhéanamh ar an úsáid is fearr as an am a tugadh dúinn. Smaoinigh ar feadh nóiméad cad a d'fhéadfaí tú a bheith ag déanamh in ionad seiceála na suímh go léir. Cé ag fanacht ag coinne, d'fhéadfadh muid a choinneáil liosta de na daoine a guí ar son ár ghuthán agus a chaitheamh leis na nóiméad breise ag guí le haghaidh ár theaghlach agus lena chairde. cinnte, ag aon am amháin nó eile, tá muid go léir a bheidh ciontach i uair an chloig a chaitheamh ar Facebook in aghaidh an lae agus ní oscailt suas an Briathar Dé. Ós gach nóiméad Is bronntanas ó na Tiarna, is fiú ag iarraidh féin, "An bhfuil rud éigin níos mó fiú go raibh mé in ann a bheith ag caitheamh mo chuid ama ar?"An chuid is mó den am, Is é an freagra is dócha yes.

2. Tugann na meáin shóisialta ardán do smaoinimh gach

I mo thuairimse, is féidir leis an dlúthpháirtíocht postála ar na meáin shóisialta trick tú isteach ag smaoineamh tá sé ceart go leor a phost díreach faoi aon rud. gearán a dhéanamh againn, táimid ag Eabhrac gan ainm dhaoine, táimid ag easpa measa lucht údaráis, agus deirimid cuma cad a cheapann againn faoi cáiliúla, amhail is dá mba nach raibh siad daoine fíor. Agus creidimid nach bhfuil againn i ndáiríre a fhreagairt chun aon cheann de é. Ná bí ag fooled ag an príobháideachta do sheomra ceart anois-a bheidh ann aon rud príobháideach nuair a bheith againn roimh an Dia beo agus cuntas a thabhairt dár focal. Matthew warns dúinn go leor soiléir, "Ar an lá breithiúnas, Beidh daoine a cuntas a thabhairt ar gach focal míchúramach labhraíonn siad. "Lig dúinn a chur i gcuimhne ar an an chéad uair eile rabhadh muid a thabhairt cothrom le dáta ár stádas.

3. Social media can fuel discontentment

Nuair a chaitheamh linn am sínte ag stealladh thar an méid atá daoine eile a dhéanamh agus a rá, Tarraingíonn sé ár n-aird do na rudaí nach bhfuil againn, nó ag iarraidh a dhéanamh ar. Is féidir é a chur faoi deara linn chun ceist cén fáth nach bhfuil ár saol breathnú mar an gcéanna. Cén fáth nach raibh dóigh liom an ceanglófar? Is mian liom go raibh mé léi tuiscint ar stíl. Is é an teach nua ar bhealach níos mó ná linne! Más rud é nach bhfuil muid cúramach, Is féidir le tríocha nóiméad ar Facebook nó Pinterest fhágann tú ag mothú neamhtháirgiúil, unattractive, agus underwhelmed le do shaol féin. Eabhraigh spreagann dúinn, "Coinnigh do shaol saor ó grá airgid, agus dúil inti an méid atá agat, do tá sé ag rá, 'Ní bheidh mé a fhágann tú ná forsake tú. "" Is féidir linn a bheith ar deireadh thiar sásta leis ár saol mar believers mar go bhfuil muid go léir a tugadh gur gá dúinn i gCríost. Fiafraigh duit féin cibé an bhfuil do úsáid na meán sóisialta ag cabhrú chreideann tú an fhírinne.

4. Social media can fuel pride and keep you inwardly focused

Is féidir le meáin Sóisialta a bheith go tapa ár podium féin-chur chun cinn féin. We have to ask ourselves what our motivation really is for posting the things that we do. An bhfuilimid ag lorg comhbhrón nó moladh? Ar mhaith linn a bheith shíl go maith nó brag faoi na rudaí spraoi againn ag déanamh? An bhfuil tú seiceáil i gcónaí cé mhéad "maith" nó "retweets" fuair do phost? Gach ceann de na rudaí seo breosla bród agus a choinneáil orainn dírithe ar féin. Is féidir seo a bheith ina pitfall háirithe deacair do dhuine ar bith a bhfuil ardán a leathnaíonn thar a n-chairde agus do mhuintir. Whether you do music or have a popular blog, ach mar gheall mílte daoine ag éisteacht chiallaíonn gach rud a thagann chun cuimhne fiú a rá. Ní mór dúinn cuimhneamh go retweets, tuairimí, agus nach bhfuil maith a thabhairt go huathoibríoch dlisteanacht leis an méid post a chuirimid. Dia Feiceann an spreagadh ár gcroí agus tá sé riamh fooled ag post dea-crafted. Mar I Samuel 2:3 rabhaidh, "Ná choinneáil ag caint chomh proudly nó lig do bhéal a labhairt arrogance den sórt, an Tiarna is Dia a bhfuil aithne aige agus ag gníomhais Eisean a mheá. "

5. Social media can distort our view of relationships

Le haghaidh gach sochar meáin shóisialta Tá do chaidrimh, tá míbhuntáiste. Tá sé éasca a choimeád ar bun leis na cinn grá agat (b'fhéidir ró-éasca?). An bhfuil tú fós domhain, comhráite brí pearsanta? It is easy to keep up with a lot of people you love—and a lot of people you don’t even know (b'fhéidir iomarca?). An bhfuil tú oversaturated le sonraí 300 saol na ndaoine sin nach bhfuil tú ag déanamh jab maith de grámhara an 10 daoine a fheiceann tú sheachtain go seachtain? Is féidir linn a traein go tapa sinn féin a bheith tomhaltóirí eolais ionad lovers de dhaoine. Ós eol faoi beatha duine agus gach rud faoi do shaol féin roinnt trí na meáin shóisialta nach bhfuil a bheith ina chara fíor mar an gcéanna. Ar ndóigh, Is é Íosa an sampla iontach de cad a chiallaíonn sé a bheith ina cara fíor. Mar Múineann Íosa, "Is é mo orduithe seo: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, go leagfaidh sé síos ar a shaol as a chuid cairde. "Is Cairdis níos mó ná suim na nuashonruithe stádas agus pictiúir. Is Cairdeas íobairt. Tá sé ar a bhfuil a chéile ualaí. nach bhfuil sé ach fíorúil-é a bheith inláimhsithe.

Jessica Barefield ina chónaí i Washington D.C. lena fear céile Turas, agus a mac Q. Is féidir leat tuilleadh a léamh as a ar a bhlag, Cosúil Le Grá.

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59 tuairimí

  1. XavierFreagra

    This is so true. I will openly admit that I waste hours and hours of my time and days on social media and all the points brought forward, I can directly relate to. I know in my mind and heart that I want to and have to cut it out, or greatly diminish it, but it isn’t easy. But the message you have conveyed and the words of God that you’re using to reinforce this speak to me clearly. Thank you for this article :)

  2. TyronFreagra

    Very good read! Was never involved in social networks until a little over a year ago and these are some of the reasons why. I have actually been thinking about deleting my social networks to focus on what needs to be focused on. Lot of good points here. Thank you for taking your time to write it and share.

  3. DanielaFreagra

    WOW! So true. I definitely need to work on my social media intake. It’s very consuming one of the very reasons I stopped getting on Pinterest. Go raibh maith agat as a roinnt.

  4. StaceyFreagra

    Thank you so much for posting this. I have been fighting with myself about getting on Facebook. Seems lately all it does is make mad angry. This was everything I needed to hear and will reread when I need to be reminded. Thank you and Trip. Dia Bless.

  5. Eulaivi ClutarioFreagra

    You are an inspiration! So many good points you have here. Praise God for your wisdom that’s understandable and very relevant to our generation! :)

  6. cíosFreagra

    I have been cut to heart by this powerful sharing. I believe we are all found wanting in this area. Thanks Trip and Jessica. May God continue to use you .

  7. MarkFreagra

    Thank you so much, for thelittle peoplewith out a voice it speaks numbers to think oursocialvalue is derived from social media. Thanks for the wake up call !

  8. Oyishoma EmmanuelFreagra

    That is so true. We waste precious time on social networks without purpose, and whenever purpose is not on ground, abuse is inevitable. I myself i’m guilty of this at times; but i pray for the grace to redirect my priorities.

  9. ADIN MOOREFreagra

    This is a really good post. Thank you for sharing it with us, enjoyed reading it and it opening my eyes to the pitfalls of social media. :) Grace & síochána.

  10. JosephFreagra

    Exactly why I PERMANENTLY deleted my Fakebook in early 2012. Just like how I gave up cable TV in 2001, I don’t miss either Fakebook or TV. FB makes it easy to love yourself, which is idolatry. Being on the computer for work (video editing) is all the more reason why I do not want to spend time on it in my free time, but it is so easy to waste time on the computer. If I’m on YouTube, it’s to watch edifying videos from other Christians. I HIGHLY recommend every Christian to read this article: “Forming our Souls with Facebookby Shane Hipps (Second Nature Journal dot com)

  11. BarbaraFreagra

    Omg I was so convicted last week by exactly what you saidspending hours on facebook that should be spending in the word! I love this blogkeep the knowledge coming!

  12. PriscillaFreagra

    I like your balanced position; not completely condemning social media, yet pointing out the issues/tendency for sinfulness. Reminds me of iLove.

  13. RozFreagra

    Go raibh míle maith agat an méid sin do scríobh seo. It is so very insightful and has helped me a lot in recognizing that I need to limit my time with social media. Many of the things you’ve described are all things I can relate to. Spending too much time on social media is not beneficial for my spirit your blog has really put it in words for me. Again thanks so much

  14. AdamFreagra

    This article caught my eye quick because my job is online and a big part of it is social media. Before this was my job I could completely relate to this. It really can be a time waster if there is no self control. It should be something approached with caution for sure!

  15. NaishaFreagra

    I saw this link on my Facebook and was dreading to read it because I knew it would convict me and today I said, “OK… Let me have it.” lol. Just about everything in here is true about how I spend my time online and I am going to assume that the person who wrote this article would not have posted this if she had not struggled with this herself in some way. So it is nice to know that there are other people who carry or did carry the same burden. At church you tend to feel like you shouldn’t admit to stuff like this, because we have created the idea that no one else struggles with it. Just the other day I was talking to my husband and telling him how I deleted some apps on my ipod (yes I still have an ipod and not an iphone, by choice) because it created unhealthy/ungodly thinking. I use to play Home Design where you can create your dream home and in turn I would become so depressed with the house we live in. I still love playing Mall World on FB and confessed to my husband that I like it because my avatar is someone I am not, she is pretty, skinny, independant and it is fantasy that I enjoy living through. Maybe I sound weird or people may think I shared too much but this is my own conviction. Thank you for reinforcing what I know by sharing your own conviction with us writer and other commenters.

  16. ChinaJohnsonFreagra

    I will be deleting my Facebook and Instagram for a while. This was my wake up call. My husbands has been telling me about this and the discontentment has gone too far! Go raibh maith agat Jessica!

  17. RJFreagra

    Go raibh maith agat! I’m gonna take a week long break from Facebook, Ríomhphost, and Instagram and work on those relationships I have with people I see in my daily life.

  18. TylerFreagra

    Fantastic stuff! I’m a high school student and the part about putting so much stock into retweets and likes is so true! I definitely think their are some good things that can come out of Twitter/Facebook but it’s all about where you heart is!

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  20. THOMASSINGWAFreagra

    Wow thank God that was written for me,may the life giver always bless you and your family.Trip has always been the man of days The music,writtens etc keeps me awake.we thank God for you

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  22. MirandaFreagra

    Really good post! Social media can be a little too much but when I see souls reach and they are planted into a church with their families and serving in church and in their community with the families.. That’s amazing to me.

  23. TheMesengerFreagra

    That is sooooo true it can take time away from god also you won’t seem to have the time 4 him we’ll cut it off make the time

  24. katFreagra

    awesome read. admittedly, i spend too much time looking at pretty boys and pretty things and getting caught up by all these superficial things on tumblr that i tend to push God aside. it’s a sad, sad thing; i could be reading up on His word and spending more time with Him….thanks for the eye opener!

  25. CharityFreagra

    WOW. I thought I was doing good because I was just on two networks. This definitely helped me check myself. I thought because I wasn’t sinning I was okay, and of course there is always room for improvement.

  26. YashiraFreagra

    God bless you for sharing this and thank you! This post just got me thinking about the time I waste with social media and its networks. It has helped me to re-think what I’m doing with time.

  27. trócaireFreagra

    I agree with every point. I for sure have been avoiding instagram because I found myself comparing my self to other girls on there. It’s not good to feel ungrateful. I like looking at cute animals. Lol
    I considered deleting my fb, instagram accounts numerous times. I do think it’s good for keeping up with family members far apart though. :)

  28. home decorFreagra

    blog scoth! Do you have any tips and hints for aspiring writers?
    I’m planning to start my own website soon but I’m a little lost on everything.

    Would you propose starting with a free platform like WordPress or go for a paid option? There are so many options out there that I’m totally overwhelmed ..
    Any ideas? Go raibh maith agat!