5 Pitfalls o Social Media

Lahaina lāʻau kū mai Jessica Barefield

E ake au e hoʻomaka ma ka haawi ana i ka Akahana. Keia pauku, aole ia e pili ana i ka hewa nohona Media, he. Hoʻohana 'ia i loko o akahai i, me ka'ākau naau kulou, ka mea, ke lilo i mea kupanaha mea. Ka welau o keia pauku no e kuhikuhi aku e lawelawe me Media, ke lilo i pitfall no ka Karistiano ola, a me ka paipai ia oukou i ko oukou naau, e ninaninau i ka wa e hele mai ai i ko oukou nohona Media hokii, a me ke komo 'ana i kekahi mau aoao. O lakou aoao elima e lawelawe me Media, ke hanai ko kakou hewa makemake.

1. Social Media e mae ko oukou manawa

Aole keia he mea makou i lohe mua, aka, he kumukuai hou. Makou ua hoʻomanaʻo ma Epeso 5:16-17 i na la he ino a kakou e hana i ka mea maikaʻi hoʻohanaʻana o ka manawa i haawiia mai ai ia kakou. Noonoo no ka mea, i ka manawa mea hiki e ia oukou hana ma kahi o kéu a pau ia mau kahua. Oiai e kali ana i ka hookohu, ia makou ke malama i ka papa inoa o ka poʻe kānaka, e pule no ka mea, ma luna o ko kakou kelepona a me ka pana aku au i ka poe Oiai he minuke ma ka pule, no ko kakou ohana a me na makamaka. oiaio, i kekahi manawa, a me kekahi, makou poe a pau hewa ka Noho hora ma Facebook, i ka la a me ka ole wehe ae la i ka olelo a ke Akua. No ka kēlā manawa kēia manawa,ʻo ia ka haawina mai ka Haku, he kumukuai e noi ana oe ia oe iho, "He hou aku i mea makepono ana au hiki e Noho i koʻu manawa ma?"Ka hapa nui o ka manawa, ka pane mea paha Oiaio.

2. Social Media haawi i ka pola no koʻoukou kēlā kanaka kēia manaʻo

I manao i ka solidarity o ka memo ma luna o ka lawelawe Media hiki ia paena ia oukou iloko o manaʻo he OK e Mail pono e pili ana i kekahi mea. makou hoohewa, makou anonymously bash kanaka, makou disrespect poe kanaka i ka mana, a makou e olelo aku nei na mea a pau kakou manao e pili ana i kaulana a, me he mea la he ole maoli poe kanaka. A makou manaoio nei makou, aole maoli i ke pane no kekahi o ka mea,. Mai e, ka lapuwale ma nā kuleana hūnā 'ike o kou lumi pono Ano, aole au he mea kekahi i ka wa a makou i ku imua o ke Akua ola, ae haawi aku i ka mooolelo no ko makou mau olelo. Matthew, noka mea ia makou nani maopopo, "Ma ka la o ka hookolokolo, poe kanaka, e hoike no kela makaʻuʻole olelo a lakou i olelo mai. "E kakou e hoʻomanaʻo o keia ka aʻe manawa ao makou update ko makou kūlana.

3. Social media can fuel discontentment

I ka wa a makou i lilo, ua kīkoʻo akula manawa ninini ana ma luna o ka mea a kekahi poe e ae e hana ai i ka i ana, ka mea, ua kokoke mai ko makou noonoo ana i na mea a pau i na mea a makou aʻole 'oe i' ole e nalowale aku maluna o. Ka mea, ke kauoha ia makou ke aha ko kakou mau ola i nana i ka mea e niele ia. No ke aha la, aole au i manao o ia i nā kaha puana'ī? I makemake au i kona hoohalike no ka heihei '. ʻO Ko lākou hou ka hale, ua ala ko Salisbury mau ma mua o kākou! Ina aole makou manao, kanakolu minuke ma Facebook a me Party ke haʻalele 'oe e manao ana unproductive, unattractive, a underwhelmed me ko oukou ola iho. Poe Hebera, e hooikaika mau makou, "E mālamaʻoukou i kou ola mai ke aloha o ke kala, ae oluolu oukou i ka mea a oukou i, no ka mea, ua olelo mai, 'I e loa haalele ia oe, aole hoi e haalele ia oe. "" E hiki ultimately oluolu oukou i ko makou ola, e like me manaoio, no makou, ua haawiia mai i na mea a pau kakou pono iloko o Kristo. E noi aku oe ia oe iho paha oukou i ka lawelawe Media, ua kōkua manaoio nei anei oe i keia oiaio.

4. Social media can fuel pride and keep you inwardly focused

hiki koke Social Media lilo ko makou podium iho, no ka hoʻoponopono paipai '. We have to ask ourselves what our motivation really is for posting the things that we do. Ua kakou e kakali no ka manao a pau, e hoolea? Hana makou makemake e pono manaʻo no paha brag e pili ana i na mea leʻaleʻa makou i hana? Anei oukou mau huli i ka nui "Likes" ai 'ole "retweets" kou wahi i? A pau o keia mau mea a pau wahie haaheo ae malamaʻeleu makou maluna o makou iho. Keia ke lilo i maopopo paakiki pitfall no ka mea ka mea, he anuu ma kŰlń ma kela aoao o ko lakou mau makamaka a me ka ohana. Whether you do music or have a popular blog, pono no na tausani o ka poe kanaka e hoolohe aʻole i manaʻo 'na mea a pau e hiki mai ana i ka naau, ua ke kumukuai i ka i ana. Kakou e hoomanao i retweets, pākuʻi, a me na Likes aole paha e legitimacy i ka mea a makou Mail. Ke Akua ike i ka ways o ko kakou mau naau, a ua loa, ka lapuwale ma ka luawai,ʻano lāʻau kū. Like me I Samuela 2:3 cautions, "Mai malama e kamailio ana pela haʻaheo ai ole ia e ko oukou waha olelo ai i na naau haakei, no ka mea,ʻo Iēhova,ʻo ia ke Akua ka mea i ike ai ma ua kaupaona ia hana. "

5. Social media can distort our view of relationships

No ka mea, kela pono ai ka nohona me Media, i no ka pili ma, aia no he drawback. He oluolu e mālama ai i nā mea a oukou aloha (paha pū oluolu?). Mau nei no anei hohonu, ka manaʻoi i kamaʻilio i ka mea? It is easy to keep up with a lot of people you love—and a lot of people you don’t even know (paha nui loa?). Nei anei oe oversaturated me nā mea kiko'ī o 300 poe kanaka ke ola, ka mea e huli i hana i ka oihana maikai o aloha i ka 10 poe kanaka oukou i ike i ka pule pule? Kakou e hiki koke lńkou ia makou iho i nā mea kūʻai mai o ka ike ma kahi o ipo o na kanaka. Me ka ike e pili ana i kekahi kanaka ke ola, a kaʻana like na mea a pau e pili ana i kou ola iho Via lawelawe Media, aole ka ia e like me he hoaaloha maoli. O ka papa mai la o Iesu, oia no ka lea mamuli o ka mea ia ia hoʻi, e lilo i hoaloha oiaio. E like me ka Iesu i ao, "E kuu olelo oia i keia: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, ka mea āna i waiho aku i kona ola no kona mau hoaaloha. "Peace, ua oi aku mamua o ka huina o ke kūlana IeAIIeXIAaIEE, a me nā kiʻi. Aloha, he mōhai. He hana e hali ana i kekahi i kekahi mea kaumaha. It Aole ponoʻike kamepiula-he mea pono e tangible.

Jessica Barefield ola ma Hawaii D.C. me kana kane huakai, a me ko lakou mau keiki Q. Oe ke heluhelu hou mai ia ma kona Blog, I like no.

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59 pākuʻi

  1. Xavierpane

    This is so true. I will openly admit that I waste hours and hours of my time and days on social media and all the points brought forward, I can directly relate to. I know in my mind and heart that I want to and have to cut it out, or greatly diminish it, but it isn’t easy. But the message you have conveyed and the words of God that you’re using to reinforce this speak to me clearly. Thank you for this article :)

  2. Tyronpane

    Very good read! Was never involved in social networks until a little over a year ago and these are some of the reasons why. I have actually been thinking about deleting my social networks to focus on what needs to be focused on. Lot of good points here. Thank you for taking your time to write it and share.

  3. Danielapane

    Wow! pela oiaio. I definitely need to work on my social media intake. It’s very consuming one of the very reasons I stopped getting on Pinterest. Mahalo no ka mea, kaʻana like.

  4. Staceypane

    Thank you so much for posting this. I have been fighting with myself about getting on Facebook. Seems lately all it does is make mad angry. This was everything I needed to hear and will reread when I need to be reminded. Thank you and Trip. Na ke akua e hoʻopōmaikaʻi aku.

  5. Eulaivi Clutariopane

    You are an inspiration! So many good points you have here. Praise God for your wisdom that’s understandable and very relevant to our generation! :)

  6. eiaaioa?pane

    I have been cut to heart by this powerful sharing. I believe we are all found wanting in this area. Thanks Trip and Jessica. May God continue to use you .

  7. CLARApane

    Thank you so much Jessica for these words that are so true and conviction given. May God continue to use you and you household :-)

  8. Angelapane

    Thank you for this enlightening post! This should prompt us to fix our eyes on Jesus and less on others and self.

    mea pomaikai!

  9. Markpane

    Mahalo nui iā ʻoe, for thelittle peoplewith out a voice it speaks numbers to think oursocialvalue is derived from social media. Thanks for the wake up call !

  10. Oyishoma Emmanuelpane

    That is so true. We waste precious time on social networks without purpose, and whenever purpose is not on ground, abuse is inevitable. I myself i’m guilty of this at times; but i pray for the grace to redirect my priorities.

  11. ADIN MOOREpane

    This is a really good post. Thank you for sharing it with us, enjoyed reading it and it opening my eyes to the pitfalls of social media. :) ka lokomaikai & maluhia.

  12. Josephpane

    Exactly why I PERMANENTLY deleted my Fakebook in early 2012. Just like how I gave up cable TV in 2001, I don’t miss either Fakebook or TV. FB makes it easy to love yourself, which is idolatry. Being on the computer for work (video editing) is all the more reason why I do not want to spend time on it in my free time, but it is so easy to waste time on the computer. If I’m on YouTube, it’s to watch edifying videos from other Christians. I HIGHLY recommend every Christian to read this article: “Forming our Souls with Facebookby Shane Hipps (Second Nature Journal dot com)

  13. Barbarapane

    Omg I was so convicted last week by exactly what you saidspending hours on facebook that should be spending in the word! I love this blogkeep the knowledge coming!

  14. Priscillapane

    I like your balanced position; not completely condemning social media, yet pointing out the issues/tendency for sinfulness. Reminds me of iLove.

  15. Christinepane

    Mahalo no ka mea, kaʻana like! Excellent reminders of how we should caution ourselves when it comes to social media.

  16. Susanpane

    Thank you Jessica for this article & thank you Trip for posting on fb so I could see it & come to the blog to read it.

  17. Christapane

    Wow! This is amazing! Every point hit me and I really needed to hear it. Mahalo nui iā ʻoe. Na ke akua e hoʻopōmaikaʻi aku!

  18. Rozpane

    Mahalo nui no ka kākau i keia. It is so very insightful and has helped me a lot in recognizing that I need to limit my time with social media. Many of the things you’ve described are all things I can relate to. Spending too much time on social media is not beneficial for my spirit your blog has really put it in words for me. Again thanks so much

  19. Clement Magombopane

    God bless you for sharing this. I need to be pure and thoughtful in whatever I do online/offline. Ko oukou alohaia mai, a me ka maluhia

  20. Adampane

    This article caught my eye quick because my job is online and a big part of it is social media. Before this was my job I could completely relate to this. It really can be a time waster if there is no self control. It should be something approached with caution for sure!

  21. Naishapane

    I saw this link on my Facebook and was dreading to read it because I knew it would convict me and today I said, “Ok… Let me have it.” lol. Just about everything in here is true about how I spend my time online and I am going to assume that the person who wrote this article would not have posted this if she had not struggled with this herself in some way. So it is nice to know that there are other people who carry or did carry the same burden. At church you tend to feel like you shouldn’t admit to stuff like this, because we have created the idea that no one else struggles with it. Just the other day I was talking to my husband and telling him how I deleted some apps on my ipod (yes I still have an ipod and not an iphone, by choice) because it created unhealthy/ungodly thinking. I use to play Home Design where you can create your dream home and in turn I would become so depressed with the house we live in. I still love playing Mall World on FB and confessed to my husband that I like it because my avatar is someone I am not, she is pretty, skinny, independant and it is fantasy that I enjoy living through. Maybe I sound weird or people may think I shared too much but this is my own conviction. Thank you for reinforcing what I know by sharing your own conviction with us writer and other commenters.

  22. ChinaJohnsonpane

    I will be deleting my Facebook and Instagram for a while. This was my wake up call. My husbands has been telling me about this and the discontentment has gone too far! Mahalo oe Jessica!

  23. RJpane

    Mahalo! I’m gonna take a week long break from Facebook, Email, and Instagram and work on those relationships I have with people I see in my daily life.

  24. Tylerpane

    Fantastic stuff! I’m a high school student and the part about putting so much stock into retweets and likes is so true! I definitely think their are some good things that can come out of Twitter/Facebook but it’s all about where you heart is!

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  26. THOMASSINGWApane

    Wow thank God that was written for me,may the life giver always bless you and your family.Trip has always been the man of days The music,writtens etc keeps me awake.we thank God for you

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  28. Mirandapane

    Really good post! Social media can be a little too much but when I see souls reach and they are planted into a church with their families and serving in church and in their community with the families.. That’s amazing to me.

  29. Keinyapane

    Wow. This really spoke to me and I appreciate it. It’s so well articulated and has some great advice on ways to reflect. Mahalo!

  30. Marjoriepane

    Mahalo oe no ka pūʻulu keia! I’m so glad God led me to your blog today because I definitely needed to read this!

  31. Jerdonpane

    I love coming to this blog and reading all of these awesome posts by Trip and his wife. Keep up the good work you two!!! Na ke akua e hoʻopōmaikaʻi aku.

  32. TheMesengerpane

    That is sooooo true it can take time away from god also you won’t seem to have the time 4 him we’ll cut it off make the time

  33. katpane

    awesome read. admittedly, i spend too much time looking at pretty boys and pretty things and getting caught up by all these superficial things on tumblr that i tend to push God aside. it’s a sad, sad thing; i could be reading up on His word and spending more time with Him….thanks for the eye opener!

  34. Charitypane

    Wow. I thought I was doing good because I was just on two networks. This definitely helped me check myself. I thought because I wasn’t sinning I was okay, and of course there is always room for improvement.

  35. Yashirapane

    God bless you for sharing this and thank you! This post just got me thinking about the time I waste with social media and its networks. It has helped me to re-think what I’m doing with time.

  36. alohapane

    I agree with every point. I for sure have been avoiding instagram because I found myself comparing my self to other girls on there. It’s not good to feel ungrateful. I like looking at cute animals. Lol
    I considered deleting my fb, instagram accounts numerous times. I do think it’s good for keeping up with family members far apart though. :)

  37. home decorpane

    maikai moʻomanaʻo! Do you have any tips and hints for aspiring writers?
    I’m planning to start my own website soon but I’m a little lost on everything.

    Would you propose starting with a free platform like WordPress or go for a paid option? There are so many options out there that I’m totally overwhelmed ..
    Any ideas? Mahalo!