5 Dolabên Social Media

post mêvan ji Jessica Barefield

Bila ji min re ji aliyê dayîna a disclaimer dest bi. Ev gotar li ser ku çawa medya civakî de xerab e, ne. Bikaranîn, di moderation, bi xeteke dilê mafê, ew dikare bibe tiştekî sodret. Xala ji vê gotarê ew e ku destnîşan hin riyên ku di medya civakî de dikare bibe pitfall ji bo di jiyana Xirîstiyan û ji te re teşwîq lêkolînê dilê te dema ku ew ji bo mezaxtina çapemeniya civakî xwe û beşdariya tê. Van pênc riyên ku medyaya civakî ya dikarin xwestekên nefsî me feed in.

1. medya civakî de dikarin dema xwe wunda

Ev tiştek em li ber bihîst ne e, lê dê hêjayî dubare. Em li Efesî bi bîr anî 5:16-17 ku roj xerab in û divê em herî baş bikaranîna demê da ji bo me bikin. Binêre, ji bo bîskekê çi, tu dikarî bê çi li şûna bikarbîne, hemû kesên ku malperên. Li benda at randevûyê, em dikarin lîsteya gel biparêze, ji bo ku li ser telefonê me dua bikin û derbas yên minutes zêde di duayê de ji bo malbata xwe û hevalên me dike. Bicî, di yek dem an din, em hemû sûcdar xercên saetan li ser Facebookê di rojekê de û qet vekirina Peyva Xwedê de ne. Ji ber ku her kêliyê a gift ji Xudan e,, dê hêjayî pirs ji xwe, "Ma tiştekî bi avêde more ku ez ji were xerc dema xwe li wir?"Gelek caran, bersiva e dibe erê.

2. medya civakî de dide platformeke ji bo raman her te

Ez guman dikim ku piştgiriyê yên bi mesaj û li ser çapemeniya civakî dikarin ji we nav difikirin gûla ev OK to post tenê li ser tiştekî. em gilî dikin, em nediyarkirî gelê şibakên, em gelê li desthilata wê bêhurmetiyê, û em dibêjin, tiştê ku em li ser celebrities difikirin, mîna ko ew kesên rast ne. Û em bawer dikin ku em bi rastî jî ji bo bersiv ji bo ji wê. Ma ji alîyê nepeniya ji odeya xwe mafê neyên xapandin, ne niha-li wê derê tiştek taybet dema ku em li ber Xwedayê jîndar û xwe hesab ji bo gotina me. Metta haydar pretty bi eşkereyî, "Li ser di Roja Dawî de, gel dê hesabê ji bo her xebereke p'ûç ew xeber bidin. "Werin, em ji vî hişyar dema careke din em statûya me, rojane bi bîr anî.

3. Social media can fuel discontentment

Dema ku em li wir jî demekê dirêj dikizirandin, li ser tiştên ku kesên din bi çi û got:, ew balê dikişîne me ji bo hemû tiştên ku em ne xwedî yan jî winda li ser. Ev ji me re çewtiyan ji bo bipirse çima di jiyana me de eynî tiştî binêrin ne. Çima ne ez ji ku quote difikirin? Min dixwest ez wateya wê ya style hebû. mala xwe ya nû e way mezintir e ji me re bimîne! Ger em baldar ne, sîh deqîqan li ser Facebook an Pinterest dikarin dev ji te hest û bêber, herduyan, û underwhelmed bi jiyana xwe bi xwe. Îbranî me şîret, "Bila jiyana we ji hezkirina peran, û naveroka bi tiştê ku bi te re be, ji bo Wî got hatiye, 'Ez tu caran te nahêlim, ne jî we ji bîr kiriye.' "Em di dawiyê de dikarin naveroka bi jiyana me çawa bawermend be, ji ber ku em daye bi hemû tiştên ku em di Mesîh de divê. xwe bipirsin ka gelo bikaranîna xwe ya medyaya civakî de alîkariya we bawer vê rastiyê.

4. Social media can fuel pride and keep you inwardly focused

medya civakî de bi lez bibin kursîyê xwe me ji bo self-pêşvebirina. We have to ask ourselves what our motivation really is for posting the things that we do. Ma em digerin ji bo sempatî û pesnê? Ma em dixwazin baş bê guman an pesnê xwe li ser tiştên ku fun em çi bûne? Ma tu her tim jî çawa gelek "likes" an "retweets" post xwe rabû? Hemû ji van tiştan sotemeniyê serbilindî û me bihêlî li ser xwe sekinîn. Ev dikare bibe pitfall bi taybetî jî ji bo kesekî ku platforma ku ji derveyî malbat û hevalên xwe bi Aqûb. Whether you do music or have a popular blog, ji ber ku bi hezaran kes bi guh nade tiştên ku ji bo hişê tê wê wateyê ne hêjayî û got e. Divê em bînin bîra xwe ku retweets, comments, û likes ma bi automatically rewa bide bo çi em binivîse.. Xwedê motîvasyona ku ji dilê me dibîne û qet bi destê post baş-neqişandî xapandin. Dema ku ez Samuel 2:3 kirêt, "Ma nagire dipeyivîn, da bi quretî an bila devê te diaxivin ev quretiya, ji bo Xudan, Xwedayê ku dizane û bi kirinên wî û maqûl e. "

5. Social media can distort our view of relationships

Ji bo her sûdê medya civakî de heye ji bo têkiliyên, e a drawback hene. Ev hêsan e ku heta bi yên ku ji te hez dikim (belkî jî bi hêsanî?). Ma hûn hê jî kûr hene, axaftinên bi wate li kesekî? It is easy to keep up with a lot of people you love—and a lot of people you don’t even know (belkî jî gelek?). Ma hûn bi detayên oversaturated 300 jiyana mirovan, ku hûn çi dikin ne karekî baş ji hezkirina ji 10 gel we hefteya bibînin, ji bo hefteya? Em dikarin bi lez xwe perwerde bibin serfkarên agahiyên li şûna lovers ya gelê. Bi naskirina li ser jiyana mirovekî û parvekirinê her tişt li ser jiyana xwe bi xwe bi rêya medyaya civakî ye, di heman weke hevalê xwe rast ne. Bê guman Îsa mînakeke ka ev tê wê wateyê bibe dostê rast e. Gava ku Îsa hîn, "Emrê min ev e: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, ku wî jîyana xwe ji bo hevalên xwe. "Friendship bêtir ji yekûna updates status û pictures e. Friendship qurbanê e. Ev der hilgirt barê hev. Ev ne tenê virtual-divê berçav be.

Jessica Barefield li Washington D.C dijî. bi Seredaneka ji mêrê xwe, û xwe kurê Q. Hûn dikarin zêdetir ji wê re li bloga xwe xwendin, Like To Love.

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59 comments

  1. XavierBersiv

    This is so true. I will openly admit that I waste hours and hours of my time and days on social media and all the points brought forward, I can directly relate to. I know in my mind and heart that I want to and have to cut it out, or greatly diminish it, but it isn’t easy. But the message you have conveyed and the words of God that you’re using to reinforce this speak to me clearly. Thank you for this article :)

  2. TyronBersiv

    Very good read! Was never involved in social networks until a little over a year ago and these are some of the reasons why. I have actually been thinking about deleting my social networks to focus on what needs to be focused on. Lot of good points here. Thank you for taking your time to write it and share.

  3. DanielaBersiv

    wow! So true. I definitely need to work on my social media intake. It’s very consuming one of the very reasons I stopped getting on Pinterest. Spas dikim ji bo parvekirinê.

  4. StaceyBersiv

    Gelek spas dikim ji bo destbikarbûna vê. I have been fighting with myself about getting on Facebook. Seems lately all it does is make mad angry. This was everything I needed to hear and will reread when I need to be reminded. Thank you and Trip. Dizanim çawa.

  5. Eulaivi ClutarioBersiv

    You are an inspiration! So many good points you have here. Praise God for your wisdom that’s understandable and very relevant to our generation! :)

  6. bi kirêBersiv

    I have been cut to heart by this powerful sharing. I believe we are all found wanting in this area. Thanks Trip and Jessica. May God continue to use you .

  7. CalebBersiv

    baş got:! I’ve had some of these same thoughts about social media over the past fee years. Keep writing!

    Caleb

  8. CLARABersiv

    Thank you so much Jessica for these words that are so true and conviction given. May God continue to use you and you household :-)

  9. AngelaBersiv

    Thank you for this enlightening post! This should prompt us to fix our eyes on Jesus and less on others and self.

    Pîroziya!

  10. DelîlBersiv

    Gelek sipas, for thelittle peoplewith out a voice it speaks numbers to think oursocialvalue is derived from social media. Thanks for the wake up call !

  11. Oyishoma EmmanuelBersiv

    That is so true. We waste precious time on social networks without purpose, and whenever purpose is not on ground, abuse is inevitable. I myself i’m guilty of this at times; but i pray for the grace to redirect my priorities.

  12. ADIN MOOREBersiv

    This is a really good post. Thank you for sharing it with us, enjoyed reading it and it opening my eyes to the pitfalls of social media. :) Narînî & Aşîtî.

  13. JosephBersiv

    Exactly why I PERMANENTLY deleted my Fakebook in early 2012. Just like how I gave up cable TV in 2001, I don’t miss either Fakebook or TV. FB makes it easy to love yourself, which is idolatry. Being on the computer for work (video editing) is all the more reason why I do not want to spend time on it in my free time, but it is so easy to waste time on the computer. If I’m on YouTube, it’s to watch edifying videos from other Christians. I HIGHLY recommend every Christian to read this article: “Forming our Souls with Facebookby Shane Hipps (Second Nature Journal dot com)

  14. BarbaraBersiv

    Omg I was so convicted last week by exactly what you saidspending hours on facebook that should be spending in the word! I love this blogkeep the knowledge coming!

  15. PriscillaBersiv

    I like your balanced position; not completely condemning social media, yet pointing out the issues/tendency for sinfulness. Reminds me of iLove.

  16. ChristineBersiv

    Spas dikim ji bo parvekirinê! Excellent reminders of how we should caution ourselves when it comes to social media.

  17. SusanBersiv

    Thank you Jessica for this article & thank you Trip for posting on fb so I could see it & come to the blog to read it.

  18. RozBersiv

    Thank you so much for writing this. It is so very insightful and has helped me a lot in recognizing that I need to limit my time with social media. Many of the things you’ve described are all things I can relate to. Spending too much time on social media is not beneficial for my spirit your blog has really put it in words for me. Again thanks so much

  19. Clement MagomboBersiv

    God bless you for sharing this. I need to be pure and thoughtful in whatever I do online/offline. Kerem û aştî

  20. AdamBersiv

    This article caught my eye quick because my job is online and a big part of it is social media. Before this was my job I could completely relate to this. It really can be a time waster if there is no self control. It should be something approached with caution for sure!

  21. NaishaBersiv

    I saw this link on my Facebook and was dreading to read it because I knew it would convict me and today I said, “ok… Let me have it.” pir ken. Just about everything in here is true about how I spend my time online and I am going to assume that the person who wrote this article would not have posted this if she had not struggled with this herself in some way. So it is nice to know that there are other people who carry or did carry the same burden. At church you tend to feel like you shouldn’t admit to stuff like this, because we have created the idea that no one else struggles with it. Just the other day I was talking to my husband and telling him how I deleted some apps on my ipod (yes I still have an ipod and not an iphone, by choice) because it created unhealthy/ungodly thinking. I use to play Home Design where you can create your dream home and in turn I would become so depressed with the house we live in. I still love playing Mall World on FB and confessed to my husband that I like it because my avatar is someone I am not, she is pretty, skinny, independant and it is fantasy that I enjoy living through. Maybe I sound weird or people may think I shared too much but this is my own conviction. Thank you for reinforcing what I know by sharing your own conviction with us writer and other commenters.

  22. ChinaJohnsonBersiv

    I will be deleting my Facebook and Instagram for a while. This was my wake up call. My husbands has been telling me about this and the discontentment has gone too far! Spas dikim Jessica!

  23. RJBersiv

    Spas dikim! I’m gonna take a week long break from Facebook, Email, and Instagram and work on those relationships I have with people I see in my daily life.

  24. TylerBersiv

    Fantastic stuff! I’m a high school student and the part about putting so much stock into retweets and likes is so true! I definitely think their are some good things that can come out of Twitter/Facebook but it’s all about where you heart is!

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  26. THOMASSINGWABersiv

    Wow thank God that was written for me,may the life giver always bless you and your family.Trip has always been the man of days The music,writtens etc keeps me awake.we thank God for you

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  28. MirandaBersiv

    Really good post! Social media can be a little too much but when I see souls reach and they are planted into a church with their families and serving in church and in their community with the families.. That’s amazing to me.

  29. KeinyaBersiv

    wow. This really spoke to me and I appreciate it. It’s so well articulated and has some great advice on ways to reflect. Spas dikim!

  30. MarjorieBersiv

    Spas dikim ji bo destbikarbûna vê! I’m so glad God led me to your blog today because I definitely needed to read this!

  31. JerdonBersiv

    I love coming to this blog and reading all of these awesome posts by Trip and his wife. Keep up the good work you two!!! Dizanim çawa.

  32. TheMesengerBersiv

    That is sooooo true it can take time away from god also you won’t seem to have the time 4 him we’ll cut it off make the time

  33. katBersiv

    awesome read. admittedly, i spend too much time looking at pretty boys and pretty things and getting caught up by all these superficial things on tumblr that i tend to push God aside. it’s a sad, sad thing; i could be reading up on His word and spending more time with Him….thanks for the eye opener!

  34. MirovhezîBersiv

    wow. I thought I was doing good because I was just on two networks. This definitely helped me check myself. I thought because I wasn’t sinning I was okay, and of course there is always room for improvement.

  35. YashiraBersiv

    God bless you for sharing this and thank you! This post just got me thinking about the time I waste with social media and its networks. It has helped me to re-think what I’m doing with time.

  36. MercyBersiv

    I agree with every point. I for sure have been avoiding instagram because I found myself comparing my self to other girls on there. It’s not good to feel ungrateful. I like looking at cute animals. Pir ken
    I considered deleting my fb, instagram accounts numerous times. I do think it’s good for keeping up with family members far apart though. :)

  37. home decorBersiv

    blog Nayab! Do you have any tips and hints for aspiring writers?
    I’m planning to start my own website soon but I’m a little lost on everything.

    Would you propose starting with a free platform like WordPress or go for a paid option? There are so many options out there that I’m totally overwhelmed ..
    Any ideas? Spas dikim!