5 سوشل ميڊيا جي Pitfalls

Jessica Barefield کان مهمان پوسٽ

مون کي هڪ ڊسڪليمر ڪاري جي شروع ڪريون. هي مضمون ڪيئن بڇڙو سماجي ميڊيا آهي جي باري ۾ نه آهي. چڪاس ۾ استعمال, حق دل پورڻ سان, اهو هڪ عجيب شيء ٿي سگهي ٿو. هن مضمون جو نڪتو ڪجهه طريقن سان ته سوشل ميڊيا عيسائي زندگي لاء هڪ pitfall ٿي سگهي ٿو ۽ پنهنجي دل کي ٻڌڻ لاء توهان حوصلا افزائي ڪرڻ جي نشاندھي ڪرڻ مھل ان کي توهان جي سماجي ميڊيا واپرائڻ ۽ شرڪت ڪرڻ لاء ايندو آهي. انهن پنجن طريقن ته سوشل ميڊيا اسان جي ڪنھن ٻٽاڪيء گنھگار سڌن کي کارائين ٿا آهن.

1. سوشل ميڊيا پنهنجو وقت ضايع ڪري سگهو ٿا

هن ڪجھ اسان کان اڳ ٻڌو نه ڪيو آهي, پر ان جي ڪڍيل لڳي آهي. اسان افسيون ۾ نصيحت آهن 5:16-17 هن جي ڏينهن ۾ برائي آهي ۽ اسان کي اسان کي ڏنو ويو ان وقت جي بهترين استعمال ڪرڻ گهرجي ته. هڪ پل لاء غور جيڪي اوھان تن سڀني سائيٽن جو چيڪ ڪرڻ جي بدران ڪم ٿي سگهي ٿو. جڏهن ته هڪ مقرري تي انتظار, اسان کي اسان جي فون تي جي لاء دعا ڪرڻ لاء ماڻهن جي هڪ فهرست رکيو ۽ اسان جي گھر وارن ۽ دوستن جي لاء نماز ۾ اضافو منٽ خرچ ڪري سگهي. بيشڪ, هڪ وقت يا ڪنهن ٻئي تي, اسان سڀني کي هڪ ڏينهن ۾ ڪريو تي ڪلاڪن خرچ ۽ الله جي حڪم کلڻ لاء ڪڏهن به ڏوهه جو ڏوهاري ٿا. تنهنڪري هر پل جي پالڻھار کان ھڪ کٽ آهي, ان کي پاڻ پڇڻ لڳي آهي, "اتي وڌيڪ worthwhile ته مون تي منهنجي وقت خرچ ٿي سگهي شيء آھي.?" اڪثر اوقات, جي جواب شايد آھي ها.

2. سوشل ميڊيا پنهنجو هر فڪر کي هڪ پليٽ فارم ڏئي ٿو

مون کي خيال سماجي ميڊيا تي پوسٽ جي استحڪام کي سوچڻ اهو صرف ڪجھ جي باري ۾ تحرير کي ٺيڪ آهي ۾ اوھان کي چالاڪيء سان ڪري سگهو ٿا. اسان کي شڪايت, اسان anonymously bash ماڻهو, اسان اٿارٽي ۾ ماڻهن جي نموني, ۽ اسان کي چون ٿا جيڪي اسان Celebrities جي باري ۾ سوچيو, ڄڻ ته اهي حقيقي ماڻهن کي نه ٿيا. ۽ اسان کي مڃيندا آھن اسان کي حقيقت ان جي ڪنهن کي جواب نه ٿا. پنهنجي ڪمري جي خانگي نوعيت جي fooled نه ٿي ڪريو حق هاڻي-اتي نجي ڪجھ جنھن مھل اسان جو رهندڙ خدا کان اڳ اٿي ٿي ۽ اسان جي لفظن لاء هڪ اڪائونٽ ڏيندو. متي اسان کي پيارو پڌرو ڪجو, "قيامت جي ڏينھن تي, ماڻهن کي هر ڪيستائين لفظ اھي ڳالهائڻ لاء حساب ڏيندو. "جڳائي ته اسان هن چتاء جي ايندڙ وقت نصيحت ٿي اسان کي اسان جي حيثيت تازه.

3. Social media can fuel discontentment

جڏهن اسان پکڙيل وقت خرچ ٻيا جيڪي ڪندا آھن ۽ چوندا تي وسندڙ, اهو سڀ شيون اسان کي نه ٿا ڪري اسان جو ڌيان هنڌن تي يا تي ٻاهر مليل آهن. اها ڳالهه اسان جي سوال ڪرڻ ڇو ته اسان جي سرن جو هڪ ئي نظر نه ٿو لڳي سگهن ٿا. مون کي ته اقتباس جي ڇو خيال نه ڪيو? مون کي جيڪر آء طرز جي زال جو احساس پيو. سندن نئين گهر اسان کان رستو چئي آهي! اسان کي محتاط نه آهي ته, ڪريو يا Pinterest تي ٽيهه منٽ غیر محسوس اوھان کي ڇڏي ڪري سگهو ٿا, unattractive, ۽ پنهنجي زندگي سان underwhelmed. عبرانيون اسان exhorts, "دولت جي محبت مان پنهنجي زندگي جي آزاد رکو, ۽ اوھان کي ڇا ڪيو سان مواد ٿي, هن چيو آهي ته لاء, 'آء اوھان کي ڪڏهن به ڇڏي ويندو ۽ نڪي اوھان کي ڇڏيندا.' "اسان لآخر مؤمنن جي طور تي اسان جي سرن سان مواد ڇاڪاڻ ته اسان کي مسيح ۾ سڀ ته اسان جي ضرورت ڏنو آهي ٿي سگهي ٿو. پنهنجي پاڻ کان پڇو سوشل ميڊيا جي استعمال جي مدد ڪري رهيو آهي ته ڇا توهان هن سچ تي ايمان.

4. Social media can fuel pride and keep you inwardly focused

سوشل ميڊيا تڪڙو خود واڌاري لاء اسان کي پنهنجي سوال اٿاريو بڻجي سگهو ٿا. We have to ask ourselves what our motivation really is for posting the things that we do. اسان همدردي يا ساراھ کي ڳولي رھيا آھن? اسان سان گڏ جي مزي شيء اسان کي ڪم ڪيو ويو وڃان جي باري ۾ brag جو فڪر ڪيو وڃي ٿو يا چاھيو ٿا? اوھان کي مسلسل چيڪ ڪريو ڪيترا "ورتل" يا "اسدي" پنهنجي عهدي روانو ٿيو? انهن شين جو ٻارڻ فخر جي سڀ ۽ پاڻ تي روشني وڌي اسان کي رکڻ. هيء ڪنهن جو هڪ پليٽ فارم آهي ته سندن دوستن ۽ خاندان کان ڪئي اٿس لاء هڪ خاص محنت pitfall ٿي سگهي ٿو. Whether you do music or have a popular blog, صرف ڇاڪاڻ ته ماڻهن جي هزارين ٻڌيون آهن هرگز نه ڪندو هر شئي آهي ته ذهن کي اچي چوڻ لڳي آهي. اسان کي ياد رکڻ گهرجي ته اسدي, رايا, ۽ ورتل خودڪار طريقي سان اسان کي ڇا تحرير موڪلڻ لاء جواز ڏئي نه ڪندا آھن. خدا اسان جي دلين جي motivation ڏسي ٿو ۽ هڪ چڱي-crafted پوسٽ جي fooled ڪڏهن به آهي. مون کي انهي جيئن 2:3 cautions, "پوء ملٽي ڳالهائڻ رکيو يا پنهنجي وات اهڙي وڏائي ڳالهائڻ گھرجي نه ڪريو, جي پالڻھار لاء هڪ خدا جو ڄاڻندڙ آھي، ۽ الله جي ڪم ڳرو آهي. "

5. Social media can distort our view of relationships

هر طور سماجي ميڊيا رشتي لاء ڪئي آهي سک, اتي هڪ drawback آهي. ان جي گهرن اوھان کي پيار سان مٿي رکڻ لاء آسان آهي (ٿي سگهي ٿو ته تمام آسان?). تون اڃا جون پاڙون آهن ڪريو, جيء ۾ معني ڳالهه ٻولهه? It is easy to keep up with a lot of people you love—and a lot of people you don’t even know (ٿي سگهي ٿو ته تمام گھڻا?). توهان جو تفصيل سان oversaturated آهن 300 ماڻهن جي جان آهي ته توهان جي پسند جي هڪ سٺي نوڪري نه ڪري رهيا آهيو 10 قوم اوھان کي هفتي لاء هفتي ڏسي? اسان کي جلدي ماڻهن جي عاشق جي بدران معلومات جي صارفين ٿي پاڻ سکيا ڪري سگهو ٿا. ماڻهو جي زندگي جي باري ۾ ڄاڻڻ ۽ سوشل ميڊيا جي ذريعي توهان پنهنجي زندگي جي باري ۾ سڀڪنھن شيء کي حصيداري هڪ حقيقي دوست ٿي رهيو طور تي اهو ساڳيو نه آهي. جي حقيقت عيسي جيڪي ان کي هڪ سچو دوست ٿي مطلب جي ڀرپور مثال آهي. عيسي جي تعليم جيئن, "منھنجي حڪم هي آهي: Love each other as I have loved you. وڏو پيار هن جي ڀيٽ ۾ ڪو هڪ ڇڏيو آهي, ته هن چيو ته سندس دوستن لاء پنهنجي زندگي نازل ٿا رکون. "دوستي حيثيت تازه ۽ تصويرن جي پڄاڻي جي ڀيٽ ۾ وڌيڪ آهي. دوستي قرباني آهي. ان جي ھڪ ٻئي بار رکڻ جي. اهو صرف مجازي-ان جو جواب هجي نه آهي.

Jessica Barefield واشنگٽن ۾ لکين ماڻهو D.C. زال مڙس ڪائنات سان, ۽ سندن پٽ ق. تون سندس بلاگ تي زال کان وڌيڪ پڙهي سگهو ٿا, محبت ڪرڻ چاهيو.

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  1. Xavierجواب

    This is so true. I will openly admit that I waste hours and hours of my time and days on social media and all the points brought forward, I can directly relate to. I know in my mind and heart that I want to and have to cut it out, or greatly diminish it, but it isn’t easy. But the message you have conveyed and the words of God that you’re using to reinforce this speak to me clearly. هن مضمون جي لاء توهان جي مهرباني :)

  2. Tyronجواب

    Very good read! Was never involved in social networks until a little over a year ago and these are some of the reasons why. I have actually been thinking about deleting my social networks to focus on what needs to be focused on. Lot of good points here. Thank you for taking your time to write it and share.

  3. Staceyجواب

    Thank you so much for posting this. I have been fighting with myself about getting on Facebook. Seems lately all it does is make mad angry. This was everything I needed to hear and will reread when I need to be reminded. Thank you and Trip. خدا رحم ڪري.

  4. Oyishoma Emmanuelجواب

    That is so true. We waste precious time on social networks without purpose, and whenever purpose is not on ground, abuse is inevitable. I myself i’m guilty of this at times; but i pray for the grace to redirect my priorities.

  5. Josephجواب

    Exactly why I PERMANENTLY deleted my Fakebook in early 2012. Just like how I gave up cable TV in 2001, I don’t miss either Fakebook or TV. FB makes it easy to love yourself, which is idolatry. Being on the computer for work (video editing) is all the more reason why I do not want to spend time on it in my free time, but it is so easy to waste time on the computer. If I’m on YouTube, it’s to watch edifying videos from other Christians. I HIGHLY recommend every Christian to read this article: “Forming our Souls with Facebookby Shane Hipps (Second Nature Journal dot com)

  6. Rozجواب

    توهان هن لکڻ جي مهرباني. It is so very insightful and has helped me a lot in recognizing that I need to limit my time with social media. Many of the things you’ve described are all things I can relate to. Spending too much time on social media is not beneficial for my spirit your blog has really put it in words for me. Again thanks so much

  7. Adamجواب

    This article caught my eye quick because my job is online and a big part of it is social media. Before this was my job I could completely relate to this. It really can be a time waster if there is no self control. It should be something approached with caution for sure!

  8. Naishaجواب

    I saw this link on my Facebook and was dreading to read it because I knew it would convict me and today I said, “ٺيڪ آهي… Let me have it.” ايل او ايل. Just about everything in here is true about how I spend my time online and I am going to assume that the person who wrote this article would not have posted this if she had not struggled with this herself in some way. So it is nice to know that there are other people who carry or did carry the same burden. At church you tend to feel like you shouldn’t admit to stuff like this, because we have created the idea that no one else struggles with it. Just the other day I was talking to my husband and telling him how I deleted some apps on my ipod (yes I still have an ipod and not an iphone, by choice) because it created unhealthy/ungodly thinking. I use to play Home Design where you can create your dream home and in turn I would become so depressed with the house we live in. I still love playing Mall World on FB and confessed to my husband that I like it because my avatar is someone I am not, she is pretty, skinny, independant and it is fantasy that I enjoy living through. Maybe I sound weird or people may think I shared too much but this is my own conviction. Thank you for reinforcing what I know by sharing your own conviction with us writer and other commenters.

  9. ChinaJohnsonجواب

    I will be deleting my Facebook and Instagram for a while. This was my wake up call. My husbands has been telling me about this and the discontentment has gone too far! توهان جي مهرباني Jessica!

  10. Tylerجواب

    Fantastic stuff! I’m a high school student and the part about putting so much stock into retweets and likes is so true! I definitely think their are some good things that can come out of Twitter/Facebook but it’s all about where you heart is!

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  12. THOMASSINGWAجواب

    Wow thank God that was written for me,may the life giver always bless you and your family.Trip has always been the man of days The music,writtens etc keeps me awake.we thank God for you

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  14. Mirandaجواب

    Really good post! Social media can be a little too much but when I see souls reach and they are planted into a church with their families and serving in church and in their community with the families.. That’s amazing to me.

  15. katجواب

    awesome read. admittedly, i spend too much time looking at pretty boys and pretty things and getting caught up by all these superficial things on tumblr that i tend to push God aside. it’s a sad, sad thing; i could be reading up on His word and spending more time with Him….thanks for the eye opener!

  16. Charityجواب

    واو. I thought I was doing good because I was just on two networks. This definitely helped me check myself. I thought because I wasn’t sinning I was okay, and of course there is always room for improvement.

  17. Yashiraجواب

    God bless you for sharing this and thank you! This post just got me thinking about the time I waste with social media and its networks. It has helped me to re-think what I’m doing with time.

  18. رحمتجواب

    I agree with every point. I for sure have been avoiding instagram because I found myself comparing my self to other girls on there. It’s not good to feel ungrateful. I like looking at cute animals. Lol
    I considered deleting my fb, instagram accounts numerous times. I do think it’s good for keeping up with family members far apart though. :)

  19. home decorجواب

    تمام سٺو بلاگ! Do you have any tips and hints for aspiring writers?
    I’m planning to start my own website soon but I’m a little lost on everything.

    Would you propose starting with a free platform like WordPress or go for a paid option? There are so many options out there that I’m totally overwhelmed ..
    Any ideas? توهان جي مهرباني!