5 Pasti socialnega Media

Gost objava od Jessica Barefield

Naj začnem s tem, odklonitev. Ta članek ni o tem, kako zlo družabni mediji. Uporablja se v zmernih količinah, s pravo srčno drže, je lahko čudovita stvar. Bistvo tega članka je opozoriti na nekaj načinov, da lahko socialni mediji se pasti za krščansko življenje in vas spodbujajo, da preuči svoje srce, ko gre za vaše družabno uporabe medijev in sodelovanje. To so pet načinov, da lahko socialni mediji nahraniti naše grešne želje.

1. Socialni mediji lahko izgubljate čas

To ni nič nismo slišali, vendar je vredno ponoviti. Mi opozarjamo na Efežanom 5:16-17 da so dnevi zlo in da moramo kar najbolje izkoristiti čas, ki nam. Razmislite za trenutek, kaj bi počeli namesto preverjanje vseh teh mestih. Med čakanjem na imenovanje, smo lahko vodi seznam oseb, da bi molili za naš telefon in preživite teh dodatnih minut v molitvi za našo družino in prijatelji. zagotovo, na enem ali drugem času, Vsi smo krivi za veliko ur na Facebooku na dan in nikoli ne odpirajo božjo besedo. Ker je vsak trenutek je dar od Gospoda, je vredno sprašujete, "Ali obstaja kaj bolj smiselno, da bi lahko preživel svoj čas na?" Večino časa, Odgovor je najverjetneje pritrdilen.

2. Socialni mediji daje platformo za vsako vašo misel

Mislim, da je solidarnost objavo na socialnih medijev lahko napeljejo v razmišljanje, da je v redu, da bi objavili skoraj nič. Mi se pritožujejo, smo anonimno bash ljudi, smo nespoštovanje ljudi v organu, in smo rekli, kar mislimo o osebnosti, kot da niso bili pravi ljudje. In verjamemo, da ni res, da odgovori na katero koli od tega. naj vas ne zavede zasebnost svoje sobe prav zdaj, ne bo nič zasebna, ko stojimo pred živim Bogom in dati račun za naše besede. Matthew nas opozarja precej jasno, "Na dan sodbe, ljudje bodo dajali odgovor za vsak nepreviden besede govorijo. "Naj nam bo spomnil tega opozorila naslednjič, ko bomo posodabljali naš status.

3. Social media can fuel discontentment

Ko smo porabili več časa lije nad tem, kaj počnejo drugi in pravijo,, opozarja nas na vse stvari, ki jih nimajo ali pa manjkajo izvajajo na. To lahko povzroči nam na vprašanje, zakaj naša življenja ne videti enako. Zakaj ne mislim o tem citatom? Rada bi imela svoj občutek za stil. Njihova nova hiša je veliko večji od naše! Če ne bomo previdni, trideset minut na Facebooku ali Pinterest lahko pustil občutek neproduktivno, neprivlačno, in underwhelmed s svojim življenjem. Hebrejcem nas spodbuja, "Naj bo vaše življenje brez ljubezni denarja, in biti zadovoljni s tem, kar imate, kajti on je rekel,, "Nikoli vas ne bo pustil niti te zapustil." "Mi lahko končno biti zadovoljni s svojim življenjem, kot verniki, saj smo glede na vse, kar potrebujemo v Kristusu. Vprašajte se, ali je vaša uporaba socialnih medijev pomagali mislite, da to resnico.

4. Social media can fuel pride and keep you inwardly focused

Socialni mediji lahko hitro postanejo naše stopničke za samo-promocijo. We have to ask ourselves what our motivation really is for posting the things that we do. Iščemo za simpatije ali pohvale? Ali želimo biti dobro premišljena ali hvalil o zabavnih stvari smo počeli? Ali ste nenehno preveriti, koliko "všeč" ali "retweets" vaš post dobil? Vse te stvari goriva ponos in da bomo osredotočeni na nas. To je lahko še posebej težko past za vsakogar, ki ima platformo, ki sega izven svoje prijatelje in družino. Whether you do music or have a popular blog, samo zato, ker na tisoče ljudi posluša, ne pomeni vse, kar pride na misel, je treba reči. Ne smemo pozabiti, da retweets, komentarji, in rad samodejno ne zagotavlja legitimnost, kar smo objavili. Bog vidi motivacijo naših srcih in je nikoli ne zavede dobro oblikovana-pošti. Kot I Samuelu 2:3 opozorila, "Ne govorite tako ponosno ali naj usta govorijo takšno aroganco, za Gospoda, je Bog, ki pozna in mu dejanja stehtajo. "

5. Social media can distort our view of relationships

Za vsak korist socialnih medijev je za odnose, je pomanjkljivost. To je enostavno, da se s tistimi, ki jih imate radi (morda preveč enostavno?). Ali imate še vedno globoko, pomembnih pogovorov na osebo? It is easy to keep up with a lot of people you love—and a lot of people you don’t even know (Mogoče preveč?). Ali ste prenasičen s podrobnostmi 300 življenje ljudi, ki si ne delaš dobro delo za ljubeč 10 ljudi, ki jih vidite tedna do tedna? Mi lahko hitro vlak sebe, da bi potrošniki informacij namesto ljubitelji ljudi. Vedel o življenju nekoga in izmenjavo vse o svojem življenju preko socialnih medijev ni isto kot pravi prijatelj. Seveda Jezus je odličen primer, kaj pomeni biti pravi prijatelj. Jezus uči, "Moja zapoved je ta: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, da dá življenje za svoje prijatelje. "je Prijateljstvo več kot vsota posodobitve stanja in slik. Prijateljstvo je žrtvovanje. To je ob bremena drug drugega. To ni le navidezna, mora biti oprijemljiv.

Jessica Barefield živi v Washingtonu enosmerno. z možem Trip, in njun sin Q. Več si lahko preberete iz nje na svojem blogu, Like Love.

DELNICE

59 komentarji

  1. XavierOdgovori

    This is so true. I will openly admit that I waste hours and hours of my time and days on social media and all the points brought forward, I can directly relate to. I know in my mind and heart that I want to and have to cut it out, or greatly diminish it, but it isn’t easy. But the message you have conveyed and the words of God that you’re using to reinforce this speak to me clearly. Thank you for this article :)

  2. TyronOdgovori

    Very good read! Was never involved in social networks until a little over a year ago and these are some of the reasons why. I have actually been thinking about deleting my social networks to focus on what needs to be focused on. Lot of good points here. Thank you for taking your time to write it and share.

  3. DanielaOdgovori

    Wow! So true. I definitely need to work on my social media intake. It’s very consuming one of the very reasons I stopped getting on Pinterest. Hvala za delitev.

  4. StaceyOdgovori

    Thank you so much for posting this. I have been fighting with myself about getting on Facebook. Seems lately all it does is make mad angry. This was everything I needed to hear and will reread when I need to be reminded. Thank you and Trip. God Bless.

  5. Eulaivi ClutarioOdgovori

    You are an inspiration! So many good points you have here. Praise God for your wisdom that’s understandable and very relevant to our generation! :)

  6. kaseweOdgovori

    I have been cut to heart by this powerful sharing. I believe we are all found wanting in this area. Thanks Trip and Jessica. May God continue to use you .

  7. MarkOdgovori

    Thank you so much, for thelittle peoplewith out a voice it speaks numbers to think oursocialvalue is derived from social media. Thanks for the wake up call !

  8. Oyishoma EmmanuelOdgovori

    That is so true. We waste precious time on social networks without purpose, and whenever purpose is not on ground, abuse is inevitable. I myself i’m guilty of this at times; but i pray for the grace to redirect my priorities.

  9. ADIN MOOREOdgovori

    This is a really good post. Thank you for sharing it with us, enjoyed reading it and it opening my eyes to the pitfalls of social media. :) Grace & Peace.

  10. JosephOdgovori

    Exactly why I PERMANENTLY deleted my Fakebook in early 2012. Just like how I gave up cable TV in 2001, I don’t miss either Fakebook or TV. FB makes it easy to love yourself, which is idolatry. Being on the computer for work (video editing) is all the more reason why I do not want to spend time on it in my free time, but it is so easy to waste time on the computer. If I’m on YouTube, it’s to watch edifying videos from other Christians. I HIGHLY recommend every Christian to read this article: “Forming our Souls with Facebookby Shane Hipps (Second Nature Journal dot com)

  11. BarbaraOdgovori

    Omg I was so convicted last week by exactly what you saidspending hours on facebook that should be spending in the word! I love this blogkeep the knowledge coming!

  12. PriscillaOdgovori

    I like your balanced position; not completely condemning social media, yet pointing out the issues/tendency for sinfulness. Reminds me of iLove.

  13. RozOdgovori

    Najlepša hvala za pisanje tega. It is so very insightful and has helped me a lot in recognizing that I need to limit my time with social media. Many of the things you’ve described are all things I can relate to. Spending too much time on social media is not beneficial for my spirit your blog has really put it in words for me. Again thanks so much

  14. AdamOdgovori

    This article caught my eye quick because my job is online and a big part of it is social media. Before this was my job I could completely relate to this. It really can be a time waster if there is no self control. It should be something approached with caution for sure!

  15. NaishaOdgovori

    I saw this link on my Facebook and was dreading to read it because I knew it would convict me and today I said, “V redu… Let me have it.lol. Just about everything in here is true about how I spend my time online and I am going to assume that the person who wrote this article would not have posted this if she had not struggled with this herself in some way. So it is nice to know that there are other people who carry or did carry the same burden. At church you tend to feel like you shouldn’t admit to stuff like this, because we have created the idea that no one else struggles with it. Just the other day I was talking to my husband and telling him how I deleted some apps on my ipod (yes I still have an ipod and not an iphone, by choice) because it created unhealthy/ungodly thinking. I use to play Home Design where you can create your dream home and in turn I would become so depressed with the house we live in. I still love playing Mall World on FB and confessed to my husband that I like it because my avatar is someone I am not, she is pretty, skinny, independant and it is fantasy that I enjoy living through. Maybe I sound weird or people may think I shared too much but this is my own conviction. Thank you for reinforcing what I know by sharing your own conviction with us writer and other commenters.

  16. ChinaJohnsonOdgovori

    I will be deleting my Facebook and Instagram for a while. This was my wake up call. My husbands has been telling me about this and the discontentment has gone too far! Thank you Jessica!

  17. RJOdgovori

    Hvala! I’m gonna take a week long break from Facebook, E-naslov, and Instagram and work on those relationships I have with people I see in my daily life.

  18. TylerOdgovori

    Fantastic stuff! I’m a high school student and the part about putting so much stock into retweets and likes is so true! I definitely think their are some good things that can come out of Twitter/Facebook but it’s all about where you heart is!

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  20. THOMASSINGWAOdgovori

    Wow thank God that was written for me,may the life giver always bless you and your family.Trip has always been the man of days The music,writtens etc keeps me awake.we thank God for you

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  22. MirandaOdgovori

    Really good post! Social media can be a little too much but when I see souls reach and they are planted into a church with their families and serving in church and in their community with the families.. That’s amazing to me.

  23. KeinyaOdgovori

    Wow. This really spoke to me and I appreciate it. It’s so well articulated and has some great advice on ways to reflect. Hvala!

  24. JerdonOdgovori

    I love coming to this blog and reading all of these awesome posts by Trip and his wife. Keep up the good work you two!!! Bog požegnaj.

  25. TheMesengerOdgovori

    That is sooooo true it can take time away from god also you won’t seem to have the time 4 him we’ll cut it off make the time

  26. katOdgovori

    awesome read. admittedly, i spend too much time looking at pretty boys and pretty things and getting caught up by all these superficial things on tumblr that i tend to push God aside. it’s a sad, sad thing; i could be reading up on His word and spending more time with Him….thanks for the eye opener!

  27. CharityOdgovori

    Wow. I thought I was doing good because I was just on two networks. This definitely helped me check myself. I thought because I wasn’t sinning I was okay, and of course there is always room for improvement.

  28. YashiraOdgovori

    God bless you for sharing this and thank you! This post just got me thinking about the time I waste with social media and its networks. It has helped me to re-think what I’m doing with time.

  29. MercyOdgovori

    I agree with every point. I for sure have been avoiding instagram because I found myself comparing my self to other girls on there. It’s not good to feel ungrateful. I like looking at cute animals. Lol
    I considered deleting my fb, instagram accounts numerous times. I do think it’s good for keeping up with family members far apart though. :)

  30. home decorOdgovori

    odličen blog! Do you have any tips and hints for aspiring writers?
    I’m planning to start my own website soon but I’m a little lost on everything.

    Would you propose starting with a free platform like WordPress or go for a paid option? There are so many options out there that I’m totally overwhelmed ..
    Any ideas? Hvala!