Axaftina serbilind û rûmeta Xwedê

Pêşkêş

I love kids. Yek ji sedemên I love kids e ji ber ku ew ji me re xwe nîşan. Ew mîna wan mirêkên kêm in. Bihêle ku ez ji we re dibêjim çi wateyê ez. Kids hene hema hemû pirsgirêkên di heman em, di heman demê de kesên ku pirsgirêkan de ne, tenê gelek diyar zêdetir ji ber ku ew nizanin ku çawa ji ber wan veşart yet. Ev e bi rastî jî zelal dema kids tiştên ku zarok guman ne ji bo ku ez.

We qet dîtiye ku tiştekî kid touch: ew guman ne ji bo deyne? Ew ê li derdorê dinêrin ji bo dîtina eger hûn lê digerin. Ew ne xema eger kid din digere; ew tenê dixwazin bi mezinan an dê û bavan ji bo dîtina. Çima ew çi ku, çira? Ji ber ku ew dizanin ku tu di belaş in, û ew dixwazin bi we bikin, ji bo, ji ber ku ew dizanin ku tu yek ji wan hene ji bo bersiv ji bo yî.

Mezinan in, bi heman awayî. Gelek caran em OK bi tiştên em guman ne ji bo ku ez î, heta ku kesê em ji bo bersiv ji bo does not find out. Te bi şahî lezkirin, heta ku hûn ji polîs pêşiya xwe bibînim î. Dibe ku em bi şahî dev ji kar zû Heta ku patronê me does not find out in. Maybe some of us cheat on tests as long as the professor doesn’t catch us. We don’t usually care if people know we’re doing something wrong, heger ew bi desthilatî ye em ji bo bersiv ji bo.

Li 1 Samuel 2, Hannah prays in response to the birth of her son Samuel. And in this prayer, ew daxwaz ji yên din jî ji bo komisyonê yek guneh taybetî ne, ji ber ku dadgerê wan temaşe. Berê xwe bi min re ji bo 1 beşa Samuel 2, ayet 3.

Ma nagire dipeyivîn, da bi quretî an bila devê te diaxivin ev quretiya, ji bo Xudan, Xwedayê ku dizane e, û destê wî kirinên maqûl in.
(1 Samuel 2:3)

Di vê text, Hannah me hişyarî li dijî axaftina prideful, because God will find out and He’ll hold us accountable for it. Ji ber vê Ez çi difikirim, xala sereke ya vê rêzikê de ye: If you talk proudly, hûn ê bi xwe bersiva ji Xwedê ji bo ku ev.

We may be tempted to think our prideful words don’t matter much. But if you think your prideful words don’t matter, I’m afraid for you. They should matter to you, ji ber ku ew ji Xwedê madeyê,, and He’s the One you have to answer to. We won’t finally answer to our parents, an jî hevalên me, an jî şivan me, di heman demê de ji bo Xwedê.

Bi ku di hişê, Ez dixwazim çend pirsan ji bo fêm kirina text baştir.

Pirs 1: Çi Ev Mean To Nîqaş Proudly?

Ev tê wê wateyê ku bikaranîna gotinên xwe, xwe bilind bike.

Paşî

Now typically we would think of self-exalting words as just simply bragging about how amazing we are, lê ne bi gelek awayan, bi axivin bi quretî tune. Û ez bawerim ku yek ji riyên ku Hannah di heşê e ku em di beşa bibînin 1.

Hannah was the wife of a man named Elkanah. She wasn’t his only wife though. Ew yek zêdetir jina ku navê Peninnah bû. Peninnah zarokan, di heman demê de Hannah bêber bû. Û Peninnah giringiyê dê neheqiyê Hannah li ser ew. Û ji ber û adan wê û ev jî henekên Hannah xemgîn bû û ew ê bigirî.

Ez bawer Peninnah mînaka axaftina prideful Hannah me hişyarî li dijî e. Peninnah bû, çawa bi aşkira kirin ji ber ku ew zarok bû. Ew ne tenê bi hewl didin bi bîr Hannah ji layenên. She was taunting her, boasting over her, tormenting her.

That just sounds like she’s being mean. How is it talking proudly? Well it seems like Peninnah was using this as a way to assert herself over Hannah. It seems like she was assuming that somehow her bearing of children made her better than Hannah, ku ne rast bû. Scripture clearly says that children are a gift from the Lord. Peninnah was talking proudly, û ew dê ji bo bersiv ji bo Xwedê, ji bo ku ev.

Riyên Em Nîqaş Proudly

Pirsek ev e, em qebûl an ne, we all talk proudly and speak with arrogance in a variety of ways:

1. One obvious way is bragging about our accomplishments. Sometimes we can’t wait to tell others about what we have and what we’ve accomplished. Lê belê, em Xwedê ji bo ew pesnê ne; the goal is making ourselves look better. I’ve caught myself doing this on many occasions. Dibe ku bi bez nav hevalekî kevn û ew ji min re çi ez qaçaxiyê kiriye bipirsin. Min nikaribû rapping dibêjin, lê ez hê bêtir dixwazim ji bo xelat an destkeftên din destnîşan dikin.

2. An jî çawa li ser tiştên ku em li ser hinekên din jî dibêjin? Sometimes we slander others. Em dixwazin ku bi wan bidin boyax di ronahiya xerab, da em ê binêrin baş. Maybe at work we point out that a particular co-worker is pretty lazy, da ku mirov wê cudahiya di navbera we de her du fehm. An jî dibe ku li şûna yên merdane, bi din, we’re self-righteous. We stand as a judge over them, ji ber ku ew jî ji me re çêtir his serkeftinên giyanî me. Ku axaftina prideful e.

3. Or sometimes even when we say good things. Maybe it’s a testimony on a Sunday night. It could be a gripping story about God’s work in a friend’s life, but your motives could be your glory instead of God’s. Or letting someone know you’ve been praying for them. Or teaching a Sunday School class. Even good things can be proud speech if your goal is exalting yourself.

Hin ji van wergerandî ne diyar zêdetir ji yên din. Îcar çawa ma hûn nizanin, eger ew e? Çi axaftina serbilind ji facts diyar ji hev vediqetînin? Talking proudly is when you don’t acknowledge God as the One who’s sovereign and deserving of glory, di dilê xwe de an bi peyvên xwe. Û di gava ku em çi bikin ku, em bigirin rûmeta ku ji Xwedê ye.

peyvên te, dibe ku Xwedê qebûl, lê tiştê ku li ser dilê xwe,? Other people may not be able to tell the difference, but Hannah reminds us that the Lord is a God who knows. Û eger em bi kar tînin bi gotinên me xwe bi xwe bilind bike, em ê ji bo bersiv ji bo Wî ji bo ku ev.

Di text Hannah ji me re dibêje ku axaftina bi vî tehrî, û paşê ew ji me re dibêje çima: Çimkî Xudan Xwedayê ku dizane û bi giranî bi kirinên e.

Pirs 2: Çima em ji bo bersiv ji Xwedê ji bo Speech Proud?

Ji ber ku ev êrîşa li ser rûmeta xwe.

Eger bi tenê yek ji wan du komepeyvên me yên cara rastîn bû, it would change a lot. If God knew, di heman demê de bû ku dadgerê ne, or if God was the judge but didn’t know. But the perfectly just Judge is also the all-knowing God. Ne bi tenê wê Xwedê bibîne, Ew guhdariya. God is at all times tuned in to every conversation that’s happening. Almost like He has an infinite amount of security cameras placed in every square foot of the earth. Ew zane. Û eger em êrîşî rûmeta wî bi axaftina xwe serbilind, Ew dê nizanin.

şêlandîye Xwedê

Eger min bû ku herin hesabê bankê te, bigire û pere û serî jî ji bo hesabê min, e ku dizî? Of course it is. Ez ku tiştekî ku ji te, û pêkanîna wê bi xwe. Ez nikarim bi xwe yek ji pereyên xwe, bêyî ku ev ji te re bide. Û ev şaş e ji ber ku ew ji bo we, yê.

Dema ku mirov hewl bidin ku xwe bi rûmet bike, they rob God of His. You cannot ascribe to yourself praise and glory, bê dizî ji Xwedê. Pride is an attack on God’s glory. Çima? Because an overestimation of self comes from an underestimation of God. Bila ji min re dibêjin, ku dîsa: an Mubalexekirina xwe tê ji kêmnirxandina Xwedê. Û wek ku em di dîtina 1 Samuel 1, ev kêmnirxandina Xwedê, jî bi kêmnirxandina din jî dibe sedema. Bi vî awayî fikrên jî gelekî ji xwe tê ji difikire jî, hevaltiyê ya Xwedê, û ber bi difikirin jî, hevaltiyê yên din.

Peninnah de şaş derket. Ew bi xwe, bi ar- xwe li ser text hukumdar ji bîran, as if she opened her own womb. And we’re often guilty of the same. Em difikirin ku em ji kesên ku divê krediyê ji bo ku pêşvebirina get î, an kesên ku zarokên baş-quretiya, an jî rewşa aborî me. Erê, Xwedê wê xebata dijwar me xelat bike, but that doesn’t guarantee anything. God’s will is the real deciding factor in every situation. Tiştê girîng di dawiyê de e hêza me ne, şehrezayiya me, an jî tevî dilsoziya me.

Axaftina Prideful

So pride is wrong. All of us have some pride in our hearts that we must fight. Gava ku hûn di dilê xwe de difikirî ku tu hêjayî rûmeta, that itself is a sin. But prideful speech is taking it to another level. How could we, hebûnên gunehkar mirovan, xwedî helwęsta, ne bi tenê ji bo ku em hêjayî rûmeta Xwedê ya in, lê ji bo ku di rastiyê de ew pêşkêşî ku rê ji bo yên din jî? To try to convince others to give us the glory that belongs to God alone. Talking proudly is like not only robbing someone, lê re dibêjim, her kesê li ser û cesaret da wan ji bo ku ez bi heman.

Tenê tişt e, God doesn’t need video footage to know you’re guilty. God will not tolerate human beings trying to rob Him of His glory and encouraging others to do the same. Ku vê yekê ye ku Hannah dibêje: em divê ew çi ne.

axaftina Prideful duxwuye a şer bi Xwedê, which is why it’s inconsistent with the life of a believer. Wekî ku em bihîst vê sibê, "Xwedê li hember pozbilindan, Lê keremê li nefsbiçûkan dike. "

kirinên maqûl

Eger em di Mesîh de ne, peyvên serbilind me, will be yet another reason for God to punish us. Our evil deeds will continue to help the overwhelming case against us. If you’re not in Christ, there is nothing more terrifying than an all-knowing Judge. So if you’re here tonight and you don’t Jesus, Ji kerema xwe ji bo wî nas. Berê xwe ji gunehên xwe, and throw yourself on His mercy. He was incredibly humble—humble enough to die so that sinners like you and me can live. Ew ji ser gorê bi hemû hêza rabû, û bangên mêr li pey wî. Em dixwazim ku bi te re bipeyivin more about ku paşê.

Lê belê, weke Xiristiyan, çi ji bo me kirine wê wateyê ku ew ji xwe hebin? Every believer in this room will have to answer to God for every proud word they speak, but our judgment will be different. Christ has already taken our sins on the cross. But this warning should still impact the way we live. Dema ku em li ber Xwedê rawestabûn, our deeds will either testify to the fact that we’ve trusted in Christ or that we were too proud to trust in Christ alone.

Jî, we want to please the Father. Of course He’s pleased with us in Christ, di heman demê de em dixwazin wî bibin bi karên qenc me dike ku ji baweriya ku bi Mesîh bên razî. Em dixwazin ku ji Xwedê hezkirina me.

Divê em rê nadin gotinên qure ji bo ku ji devê me de bê. Û tevî ko em dê ji bo bersiv ji Xwedê ji bo axaftina serbilind me, divê em pesnê Xwedê da ku gunehên me bi di Mesîh de nixumandî.

Îcar, eger em dixwazin ku Xwedê bi destê axaftina me bi rûmet were, Ez çawa dikarim em vê gotûbêj qure şer?

Pirs 3: Çawa em di tekoşîna li Speech Proud?

Em vê bi Xwedê şa.

Divê em axaftina me watch, but that’s not enough. It’s like telling someone with a cold the solution is just to hold their sneeze in. Na, ji nexweşî ye ku divê ji bo êrîş bibin.

The proud heart rejoices in itself. But the humble heart rejoices in God. li gotinên pêşî yên dua Hannah di ayetê de binêrin 1: “My heart rejoices in the Lord.” Hannah shows us the proper response to the Lord’s blessing. Ne tenê di şahiyê de li çi ku Xudan daye, di heman demê de li ku bê baha bi xwe. Bersiva me jî dikare bibe serbilind, lê li şûna ku divê ev bi nefsbiçûkî li me berhemên, ji ber ku em bi wergirtina diyariya Xwedê

God gives and takes away. God distributes and withholds. Lê ew hemû ev nake ji bo me û rûmeta wî. We falter when we begin to depend on those things too much. Rejoicing in God kills both pride and hopelessness.

Ez çawa dikarim we bi Xwedê şa? Do what it takes to remind yourself who’s behind everything. Praise God when you receive that check. Ji ber vê yekê em ji Xwedê berî xwarina me re spas. Remembering that it’s arrogant to assume our plans will always go forth. Dibêjin amade Xudan. Give glory to God when others congratulate you on your accomplishments. Ma ji bo çend deqeyan bi destûrê dilê we bi xwe krediyê. Watch axaftina prideful te. Find koka serbilindî di dilê xwe de.

Xelasî

Her yek ji me re hatiye derfeteke nedîtî bi her peyva em diaxivin dayîn. Em ji bo bikaranîna gotina me ji Xwedê re yê ku ji me ji bo bi rûmet. Em ji bo bikaranîna gotina me ji bo alîkarîya kesên din Xwedê bibîne ji bo Xudan berz, ew, Ew e.

So my encouragement is not to use your words to exalt yourself. Di ber, bikaranîna wan ji bo tiştên ku te ji bo ku ez-pesnê Xwedê bidin tên kirin. hemû ji Wî ye, jixwe.

Werin, em dua bikin.

Parvekirinên

20 comments

  1. aimsbakerBersiv

    This was so refreshing and convicting. Gelek sipas! I’ve got some studying to do to build my convictions on this for sure.
    Aims

  2. faithchanda171Bersiv

    dear lord,our rejoice in for you alone deserve all the glory.help us lord to rejoice in you always and not to rob you of your glory and may we all be humbled before. Forgive us for hurting you and people when we speak with pride. Please dear help to be more conscience with the things we say…Amîn

  3. ChristopherBersiv

    Man the introduction pulled me init is the truth! Ever since I’ve have children of my own I see myself in them daily. The whole message you delivered blessed me! Grace and Peace!

  4. BlessedBersiv

    So nourishing! Spas dikim! Ez ji vê hez dikim: “Talking proudly is when you don’t acknowledge God as the One who’s sovereign and deserving of glory, di dilê xwe de an bi peyvên xwe. Û di gava ku em çi bikin ku, em bigirin rûmeta ku ji Xwedê ye” and this:”Dema ku em li ber Xwedê rawestabûn, our deeds will either testify to the fact that we’ve trusted in Christ or that we were too proud to trust in Christ alone.

  5. Eveno M.Bersiv

    This was a wonderful read. Even in our humility, we need to be careful that we are not doing to make men see that we are humble, which in itself is prideful.
    It explains why the Greek philosophers did not believe that humility was a virtue because many can fake it.
    Spas ji bo parvekirina.

  6. jasonBersiv

    I don’t mean to throw Trip under the bus or have any intention in starting a debate online. I only ask for clarification. I am a recent graduate looking for a job. How do we not speak proudly in a job interview where we have to in some way be comfortable about explaining the good achievements to possible employers?

    • Geştname LeeBersiv

      Hey Jason
      You’re not throwing me under the bus bro! I think that’s a great question. As I said above, proud speech is when you use your words to exalt yourself. It’s when you refuse to acknowledge God as Sovereign and deserving of the glory.

      You can explain your achievements and convince someone you’d do a good job without robbing God of His glory (after all, our devotion to Him should lead us to work with excellence). You don’t have to sayto God be the gloryafter every sentence, but you should do it all with a humble posture recognizing God as the giver of all good gifts. There’s a big difference between humbly pointing to your competence or arrogantly boasting. Make hesta?

      • JesseBersiv

        How, in a culture that frowns upon Christian values being expressed, are we suppose to get, and hold an honest paying job, without our pride getting the best of us? I’m also not trying to throw you under the bus and find faults, but as a teenager who wants desperately to live anunashamed lifestyleand spread the gospel in everything they do, I also need a job. I think the problem is not being able to express our self at a workplace without the fear of being fired.

  7. JohnBersiv

    Jason,
    Like he said, speaking proudly isn’t just stating facts. It’s seeking to exalt yourself instead of God. You can convince someone you’d do a good job, without robbing God of the glory he deserves for your skill and excellent work

  8. DaughterofGodBersiv

    I am having a hard time with this quote: “Gava ku hûn di dilê xwe de difikirî ku tu hêjayî rûmeta, that itself is a sin.When I do something excellently, I desire a pat on the back, a word of encouragement, or some indication that my work is received as excellent. We praise athletes and sports teams tirelessly, and our entire world operates on awards and platforms that honor excellence. So how do I practically ‘deadenthis desire of mine when, bi awayekî serfiraz, I don’t want to? I guess just by, in our hearts, acknowledging that our excellence and the work of our hands comes from Him, and attributing all accolades we receive to Him.

  9. MichaelBersiv

    I just want to take this opportunity to thank you (Geştname Lee) for letting God use you to glorify him. Me and my wife really enjoy your music. Our favorite song of course is “tiştekî baş”. I read that you discontinued making music to further pursue your ministry, is this true? We need more rappers like you bro.

  10. JBBersiv

    Trip I agree with most of everything you mentioned in this blog regarding the value of our words except the statement you made thatGod gives and takes away and he distributes and withholds”. God is 100% good! There is not an ounce of bad in him to try to do harm or take anything away from us. Satan steals (takes/withholds), kills, and destroys. We as believers (or non-believers) do it to ourselves by disobeying (or being ignorant of) the spiritual standard God has already set on the earth. God hates pride primarily because it causes a blockage to receive the full goodness he so dearly wants us to have which can give Satan (and his forces) legal right to come in and capitalize on our prideful ways. This is not hate speech or trying to talk down to you but an open dialogue which I believe is the benefit of a blog.

    • Geştname LeeBersiv

      Hey JB
      Spas ji bo xwendina! And for your encouraging words. I agree with you that God is 100% good. There’s no doubt about that. But that doesn’t mean He doesn’t take away. What about Job 1:21? Some of what I said above was an exact quotation from that verse. “Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked I will depart. The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away; may the name of the Lord be praised.”

      So God does take away, and He’s still good. The beautiful thing is, God uses even bad things for good in the lives of His people. Romayî 8:28 is a good example of this. I may write a whole post on this so I can make it more clear. Thanks again for reading!

      Gerr

  11. RWBersiv

    Jesse,
    As Trip mentioned, God knows all. Whether you give God glory out loud or take credit for your accomplishments out loud, God knows who your heart is giving glory to. Speaking to God’s glory aloud can also be pride speech if your heart is not truly giving glory to God. When we constantly speak of God’s glory around nonbelievers, we are like Peninnah and the nonbelievers are like Hannah. As Christians we have a tendency to feel threatened when we cannot openly praise God. Among nonbelievers we are like Penenniah with a spiritual blessing instead of children and the nonbelievers are Hannah that are left without such blessings as Hannah was without children. What we feel is praise to God, is actually boasting of our blessings. We must be ready to give praise to God at all times but we must not forget about the lost souls who choose not be with Him. You can take recognition of your accomplishments and even take responsibility without taking glory away from God. You received those blessings because you chose to walk His path. Give God glory in your heart, ramanên, and prayers. Your words are just that, peyvên. Never lie either. If an interviewer were to ask how you’ve done the things you’ve done, use the word faith. Faith is your choice, by your choice God has chosen to bless you, by giving glory to god for those blessings He will continue to do so. On another note, if you are struggling to find work try to reach out to God even more.

  12. JonathanBersiv

    This is a message I definitely needed to hear. I find myself battling with self-righteousness even on Facebook posts that are about God. I guess I need to look deep into my motives for everything I do. My brothers and sisters in Christ, if y’all would, pray for me!

  13. MeganBersiv

    thanks so much for sharing your messages. i’m 14 and my family doesn’t go to church so i really need this and other Christian resources and stuff to help me figure out what’s what about faith if that makes any sense so thank you for sharing its really helpful and encouraging.

  14. JBBersiv

    Dig that Trip. Appreciate the feedback bro but unfortunately we’ll have to agree to disagree on this one. Lol.. There is a verse in Job that statesGod gives and he takes awaybut it was the words of Job not God. Job was righteous and blameless in the sight of the Lord but the moment he spoke those words it came from an ignorant point of view of how he perceived God operated. Reading through the rest of Job (specifically chapters 38-41) God speaks to Job about how ignorant he has spoken of him and asks him questions regarding his assumptions. In Job 42:3 (NIRV) Job replied to God and said: “You asked me, ‘Who do you think you are to disagree with my plans? You do not know what you are talking about.I spoke about things I didn’t completely understand. I talked about things that were too wonderful for me to know.Then in the 6th verse Job said: “So I hate myself. I’m really sorry for what I said about you. That’s why I’m sitting in dust and ashes.After he repented that’s when things started to go real well for him again. God wanted him to see he didn’t take away all his stuff (it was Satan) and it was the fear Job displayed in the beginning of the book that allowed Satan access to enter his life. Trip I don’t want to make a show of our conversation on the ‘comment sectionso if you see necessary just contact my email for reply. I admire your talent and your heart to serve God man. Later

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