Dè nach Kill Me

Nuair a tha thu a 'dol tro àm cruaidh, daoine nach eil an-còmhnaidh fios agam dè chanainn. Mar thoradh chiall clichés no trite oidhirpean gus toileachas thu suas. Bha mi riamh a bha duilgheadas ann le cliché phrases- an t-seòrsa nach eil a 'ciallachadh dad don neach ag ràdh riutha agus chan eil a' cuideachadh an neach a chluinntinn orra. Silly rudan mar, "Cadal suas" agus "Cha fàs nas fheàrr." Really? Ciamar a tha fios agad? Cha leig thu leas a dhèanamh do charaidean fàbharan sam bith le bhith a 'toirt dhaibh solas, mothtanach dòchas nach eil freumhaichte ann an rud sam bith. Nuair domhainn pian buillean cruaidh a dh'fheumas sinn rock fhìrinn a chumail suas dhuinn.

Rè a Bout le aillse, Christopher Hitchens sguireas Cluicheadairean sàrachadh le cuid de na abairtean chiall sinn a thilgeil timcheall. Tha e a 'cosg beagan duilleagan a' toirt ionnsaigh air fear dhiubh anns an leabhar aige, Dead Air. Tha e ag ràdh, "Gu sònraichte, Tha mi air beagan stad cur a-mach teachdaireachd gu robh 'ge b'e air bith nach eil a' dèanamh mo mharbhadh mo nas làidire. ' "Tha e ag ràdh, "Anns a 'bhèisd corporra an t-saoghail ... tha a h-uile cus rudan a dh'fhaodadh a mharbhadh thu, Chan eil thu a mharbhadh, agus an uair sin a 'fàgail thu gu mòr nas laige. "Cha'n urrainn thu dìreach a' faireachdainn an aoibhneas?

'S e fuaimean dubhach, ach tha mi a 'smaoineachadh Hitchens a tha ceart ann an seagh. Tha e gu math comasach gun urrainn dhuinn a dhol tro doirbh rudan a-mhàin lagachadh dhuinn agus tha e gar cuideachadh gu bàs. 'S urrainn dhomh smaoineachadh air cuideigin ag iarraidh a' cheist, “Ciamar a dh'fhaodadh rudeigin uamhasach a bha seo a dhèanamh orm nas làidire?” Fiù 's a' mhòr-chuid de dhaoine matha faodar a bhriseadh sìos leis a 'bhrùidealachd ar tuiteam- t-saoghail. Dòchasachd Chan urrainn beò uiread beatings gus an deach a briseadh, agus da-rìribh mu dheireadh chokes e a-mach. Abairtean a bha uaireigin a Shamhlaich mi cute coltas a-nis gun fheum. Ach tha an tobar-ciallachadh faireachdainn Hitchens ionnsaigh a-riamh fìor? Tha mi a’ smaoineachadh gur e.

Nuair a bheil e fìor?

"Dè Chan eil mo mharbhadh tha gam làidire" a bhith fìor, ach a-mhàin ma tha rudeigin taobh a-muigh seo bheatha. Ma seo bheatha, seo an t-saoghail, agus tha a h-uile buidheann seo tha, Hitchens tha ceart. Tha e breug. Bhiodh e ag ràdh mar, "Dè nach eil làn mo càr ga dhèanamh nas làidire." Sin amaideach. Dh'fheumadh tu a 'toirt feart air an fhìrinn a' creidsinn gu bheil. Ach ma tha ar sealach deuchainnean tha seòrsa de shiorruidh ciall dh'atharraicheas e h-uile rud.

Pòl ag innse dhuinn, "A h-uile nithe ag obair còmhla airson math nan daoine a tha Dia a ghràdhachadh agus a ghairm a rèir adhbhar aige." Tha an rann seo uaireannan tha droch dhìol, ach 'se aon de na bu bhrèagha geallaidhean ann a h-uile de na Sgriobtuiribh. Chan eil seo a 'ciallachadh gun robh Crìosdaidhean a tha neo-bhàsmhor. Dhuinn uile bhios deuchainnean, ach chan urrainn dhuinn a bhith a 'chùis mu dheireadh thall le orra. Fiù 's ar naimhdean as miosa, mar a dh'fhuiling agus a bhàsaich, fàs ar caraidean ann an Criosd, oir tha iad a 'cheann thall ag obair ann ar fàbhar.

Mar sin, ciamar dìreach sgriosail deuchainnean urrainn sin dha-rìribh a dhèanamh nas làidire dhuinn? Seo trì dòighean (le mòr dùblachadh):

1. Tha iad a dhèanamh dhuinn an crochadh air Iosa

Nuair a tha mi a 'faireachdainn mar h-uile càil ann mo bheatha a' dol gu math, mo chridhe anns a 'bhad fasgaidhean a-steach fèin-eisimeileachd. Cha robh ea 'fàilligeadh. Tha mi a 'tòiseachadh a' ùrnaigh nas lugha oir tha mi a 'gabhail subconsciously chan eil mi gann de rud sam bith. Tha mi a bhith moiteil às oir tha mi a 'smaoineachadh mi an t-adhbhar h-uile càil a' dol gu math. Anns na h-amannan, Tha mi a 'dìochuimhneachadh gum tha Dia a' toirt dhuinn deagh thiodhlacan, agus tha mi fhathast a dhìth Him a chumail suas rium. Tha mi a 'gabhail ris gu bheil mi airidh air gach aige tròcairean.

Ach nuair a thig deuchainnean ar slighe, iad a 'sealltainn dhuinn ar laigse fhèin. Bha tinneas a 'cuimhneachadh mar a tha sinn cugallach, luidh-cheangailte ri cur an cuimhne dhuinn gu bheil obair chruaidh Chan eil barantas sam, agus còmhstri 'cur nar cuimhne gum feum sinn Iosa anns gach raon de ar beatha.

2 Corintianaich 12 'S e comhfhurtachd dhomh ann amannan laigse. Pòl ag aithneachadh gu bheil Dia a thug e dha tionndadh deuchainn ri "cumail [ris] bho fàs stràiceil. "Agus tha e ag ràdh ea 'bòstadh dheòin ann a laigse, agus gun robh e riaraichte leis a h-uile seòrsa de na deuchainnean. Ciamar a dh'fhaodadh a bhith Paul susbaint agus fiù 's toilichte mu dheidhinn deuchainnean? Tha mi a 'smaoineachadh Pòl ag ràdh gu bheil na deuchainnean a dhèanamh soilleir gu bheil feum e gràs Dhè agus cumhachd. Fèin-eisimeileachd Tha laigse, agus eisimeileachd air Criosd tha neart. Mar sin Pòl ag ràdh, "Nuair a tha mi lag, an uair sin tha mi làidir. "

2. Iad a 'dèanamh tuilleadh dhuinn mar Iosa

Sinn riamh a bhith comasach air fhulang sgriosail deuchainnean gus am bi sinn a 'tuigsinn gu bheil ar comhfhurtachd agus deagh shlàinte Chan eil dè tha as cudromaiche. Cofhurtachd is slàinte a tha rudan math gu bheil Dia a 'toirt toileachas a thoirt dhuinn. Ach Dhè bun-thoil airson ar beatha a tha sin bhiodh sinn mar Iosa. Agus tha e fiù 's deònach a cleachdadh deuchainnean choilionadh gun. Eabhraich 12 ag ràdh, "[Dia] cuspairean dhuinn airson ar deagh, a dh'fhaodas sinn a roinn a naomhachd. "Trèanadh ann an Dia gym dòcha cron uaireannan, ach tha e gum bi sinn nas làidire.

Seumas 1:2 tighinn gu inntinn, far a bheil e ag innse dhuinn "Count e a h-uile aoibhneas, mo bhràithrean, nuair a choinnicheas tu deuchainnean de dhiofar seòrsa…"An t-adhbhar a bu chòir dhuinn a chunntadh e aoibhneas a tha an caractar Christlike e a 'foillseachadh. Tha ar n-irioslachd e nas cudromaiche na ar sonas. Tha e nas fheàrr a bhith lag corporra agus spioradail làidir.

3. Tha iad a dhèanamh dhuinn fada a bhith maille ri Iosa

Ar cridheachan a tha lagachadh le peacadh, agus tha sinn gu tric a lorg fhìn, làn cianalais airson barrachd air dè an t-saoghal a tha a 'tabhann. Ach an uair a sealach aoibhneasan t-saoghal seo a tha air a thogail bho dhuinn, tha sinn a 'cur an cuimhne gu bheil an Talamh Chan eil ar dachaigh. 'S e ar saoranachd ann an àiteachan eile.

Is toigh leam a bhith a 'fuireach ann an taighean-òsta snog, agus nuair a nì mi mi a 'feuchainn ri brath a ghabhail air a h-uile sochairean. Ach an uair sin tha mi a 'tòiseachadh a' ionndrainn mo bhean, agus an uair sin tha mi a 'tuigsinn mi nach eil an t-aodach mi a' ciallachadh a thoirt, agus an uair sin tha mi a 'tuigsinn an t-seòmar-seirbheis a tha mu leth cho math mo bhean a' còcaireachd. Tha ea 'toirt nam chuimhne gu bheil an taigh-òsta seo chan eil mo dhachaigh. Sàsachadh miann a dhèanamh dhòmhsa fada gu bhith aig an taigh. Tha an talamh far nach eil e 'm buin sinn, agus deuchainnean an cuimhne dhuinn gu bheil ar pàrras e ann an àiteachan eile, le ar Tighearna. Cha bhi sàsachadh miann ann am Flaitheanas, oir ar Tighearna bidh a h-uile riarachadh ar longings. Bidh e cur às do pian agus dòirtidh e gràs a-mach air dhuinn gu bràth.

Mar sin, an ath thuras a tha thu aig a bheil caraid dol tro cruaidh ùine, cuimhne orra gu bheil fiù 's a' mhòr-chuid droch-bhuille dòrainneach urrainn dhuinn a dhèanamh nas làidire. Cha tro deagh smaoineachadh is dòchas, ach tro fhìor dhòchas agus fìor atharrachadh. Agus nuair a tha thu a 'dol tro doirbh seusan, leig e tarraing thu nas fhaisge air Criosd. Na biodh eagal ort, tha 'n Tighearna maille ribh.

Tha chreidmheach an dòchas a tha taobh a-muigh an uaigh, agus anns an ath bheatha sinn a bhith coltach agus maille ris. So even what kills us makes us stronger.

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  1. MichaelCeangalaichean BBC

    This was a little surprising to read. I had never really thought about positive sayings in negative situations being a bad thing. ach, a-rithist, it’s through God’s glory that we can manage through the tough times and realize that there is something greater than this world. What doesn’t kill me, or does, makes me stronger because it draws me closer to God.

  2. FrankyCeangalaichean BBC

    Mr. Tripp Lee

    I woke up this morning feeling conceited and sort of untouchable believing that since most things in my life were going on okay, then I don’t need to trust God even more. I was wrong and was reminded of it quite immediately as the day was progressing on. Thank you for your insight in this manner and I pray the Lord will show me Grace and pick me up from where I am.

    Your brother in Christ

  3. raeneeCeangalaichean BBC

    Dear Mr.trip lee,

    I just love this (: i have a question my church is actually doing a serieswhat on earth am i here for?” n im on of the youth leaders and I’ll be doing a lesson a discipleship and everything you said ties in perfectly cause on of the sections is depending on god during trailsso if its ok could i use some of your stuff? Like lil quotes or scriptures but only with your permisson …. I seriously love your stuff and its diffently helping me grow as christian (: thank you for being a man of god n honoring your calling to go into preaching. Gods gonna do some powerful things in your life and your familys life (:

  4. GabeTavianoCeangalaichean BBC

    Been a rough two years, and this post is just bursting with honest truth. Much needed for this father of three girls, and husband to an author and speaker whose message has changed from the challenges of marriage and motherhood to persevering when all seems lost.

    Your track, Tha mi math, has been my theme song the past two years, Trip. I don’t crank any song louder, and I couldn’t have asked God to pen words that spoke any deeper to my soul. There are moments when even the smallest thoughts of suicide crossed my mind. You sure feel like you’re at war when that’s the honest truth.

    But real hope and real change are much more worth it than giving up. That’s so true. There’s a fight to be fought for each of us. I appreciate you taking the time to pen these words, Trip. I’ll be reading through this post a few more times. Praising God for speaking through you in our earbuds, on the stage, at the pulpit, in your home, and on the web.

  5. CarlotaCeangalaichean BBC

    What you said has help me to understand somethings and will mean alot to me. The message relates alot with what i have been going through for about 5 years and still going through now.Thank you Trip Lee.

  6. TendekaiCeangalaichean BBC

    it’s true for the christian who walks by faith and not by sight.i have been in hard times; where everything was goings against my expectations.It became even harder to keep my trust in the Lord but because i knew that the pain i was experiencing was temporary and designed to make me stronger not to destroy me.i held on Jesus and here i am i prevailed.

  7. TeàrlachCeangalaichean BBC

    I think you have this piece contains a lot of truths. Certainly as a believer what does kill me or does only makes me stronger. God bless you and give you the insight to speak more of His truths to His people.

  8. KathrynCeangalaichean BBC

    Hi Trip

    Thank you for this message. I has really encouraged me because I have been having a tough time for around 12 bliadhna, battling with an unheard of illness and I really want to deepen my relationship with God. I’m at the point where nowadays I just feel numb to emotions, but I believe that the Holy Spirit is urging me to trust Jesus and depend on Him.

  9. AmandaCeangalaichean BBC

    Such an enlightened post and really helps you put things in perspective, just lost my brother 3 months ago to multiple myeloma and my mum is in the severe stages of dementia I know that to be able to cope I have to draw my strength from God, and rejoice that the day before he pass he let me lead him to the Lord and gave his life. Keep up the good work, you are inspiring my 18 year old son to write music and keep up with his piano, stay blessed!

  10. Corrie ReynoldsCeangalaichean BBC

    Hi Trip,

    You always have a way of putting into words what I think but am unable to write. You have many true talents. Thank you for using them for what you were called to do. God bless you brother.

  11. DeniseSheppardCeangalaichean BBC

    Mr. Barefield…….you are a wonderful, shining example of God’s love. He has blessed you in lyric to share His message. I appreciate reading what you write, listening to your music and would love to hear you in person some time. Thanks for being obedient in sharing God’s words; always, deimhinneach, uplifting and right on point! Good Bless You Brother!

  12. BrandonPulleyCeangalaichean BBC

    I lost my job today and I can’t tell you how much of an answer to prayer this is! After I left I kept crying out tell me what to do tell me please. Now I know. I need to stay humble and realize the next job he gives me is from him not of my works!

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  14. KailaCeangalaichean BBC

    I agree that often times when people offer up the sayings you used, they don’t always make you feel better. My family and I experienced that this summer at my cousin’s funeral. He was shot and killed by someone he considered a friend, two days before his 19th birthday. None of the so-called encouraging words were helpful because the main question we all had was, ” Why him, he was just a ‘baby?” ach, afterwards we look back and see that even though it was a sad occasion it brought our family closer together and reevaluate our relationships with each other and with God. We also gained a new family member not soon after in his daughter, who could be his twin.

  15. CynthiaAghomonCeangalaichean BBC

    This is so encouraging..God has never failed and he is not about to start with any of his children..we just need to keep hope alive and believe that He will never leave us nor forsake us. Ròmanaich 8:18 says for I reckon that the sufferings of this present times are not worthy to be compared to the glory which shall be revealed in us..amen

  16. air mhàlCeangalaichean BBC

    Yet again, I have been cut to heart!I am ill at the moment and I was wondering why the Lord was letting these things happened to me. In my boredom I was going through the FB pages of my favourite celebs and I came across your website. Alas! The Lord answered my prayer and spoke directly to me! (Through Trip) It’s like Trips messages are tailored just for me (That’s because the Holy Spirit is using him to minister to us)….God always rebukes me through him (his music,blog posts and sermons) I think I was focusing to much on this hotel that isn’t my home. So now I know why I am ill (what the Lord is trying to teach me through this trial)…God continue to bless you Trip Lee, it’s amazing that your ministry reaches us (the saints in Africa) and though we’ve never met, I feel like I know you personally because I can relate to everything you say. And because your music really rebukes, encourages, corrects, teaches me!….. Fuirich bheannaichte!!!!!!!!!