Idi ti mo ti ni iyawo Nítorí náà, Young: Lati My Wife ká Irisi

Nipa osu kan seyin ni mo ti kowe kan bulọọgi enikeji awon eniya idi ti mo ti ni iyawo ki odo. Mo ti a ti jinna iwuri nipa awọn ti şe lati gbogbo ti o ka ki o si adura mi ti pe Oluwa yoo ran wa lati ro siwaju sii biblically nipa igbeyawo. Ti o ba ko gba lati ka pe atilẹba post ṣayẹwo ti o jade nibi: Idi ti Ǹjẹ mo ti Gba ṣe ìgbéyàwó Nítorí náà, Young?

Daradara lẹhin ki ọpọlọpọ awọn awon eniya ami jade si mi, o si so fun mi bi wulo ti o wà fun wọn, Mo ro o yoo wa ni o kan bi wulo lati jẹ ki aya mi, Jessica, dahun awọn kanna ibeere lati rẹ irisi. Ki nibi ti o jẹ. Ohun ti ṣe iyawo mi pinnu lati gba iyawo ki odo? O wi ...

1. Mo ti ri kan-bi- ọkunrin

Nigbati mo akọkọ ti pade Trip, Mo ti a ti ko gbimọ lori nini iyawo nigbakugba laipe. Sugbon lati gan igba akọkọ ti a si jade lọ, Mo ti mọ nibẹ wà nkankan ti o yatọ nipa rẹ. O si wà kepe nipa Ihinrere ni ona kan ti mo ti ko ri ṣaaju ki o to ni a eniyan mi ori. Mo tun kò pade ẹnikan pẹlu iru awọn ọlọgbọn kan irisi lori ibaṣepọ. O ṣeun si rẹ vhin ṣaaju ki o to kọlẹẹjì o mọ gangan ohun ti o ro a bi- ibasepo yẹ ki o wo bi on ko si setan lati fi ẹnuko pe.

Mo ti yoo gba wipe mo ti ti gbiyanju pẹlu yi ni akọkọ. O dabi enipe ju to ṣe pataki ati ki o nmu. Ṣugbọn lori akoko Oluwa bẹrẹ si han mi ọgbọn ni a ibasepo po lopolopo pẹlu awujo, ibalopo ATI ẹdun ti nw, ki o si ibaṣepọ fun awọn idi ti igbeyawo. Ti o ba ti o ba ko setan lati wa ni iyawo, ki o si awọn oniwe-jasi ko kan ti o dara agutan lati olukoni kọọkan miran ọkàn. Ni Song ti Solomoni ti a ti wa kìlọ ko lati ji ife ṣaaju ki o to awọn oniwe-akoko. bi obinrin, ti a ba wa gan imolara eeyan ati ki nigbati mo pade ọkunrin kan ti o wà kepe nipa ifọnọhan ibasepo wa ni ona kan ti yoo ṣọ ọkàn mi, Mo ti mọ Mo ti ri a olutọju :)

2. A ni won iwuri nipa awọn enia ninu aye wa

Nigba wa courtship a beere awọn eniyan lati wa ni intimately lowo ninu wa ibasepo. Won yoo pa wa jiyin si wa aala ati ki o ran wa ṣe ọlọgbọn ìpinnu nipa ibasepo wa. A tun lọ nipasẹ premarital Igbaninimoran ki a to ani ni išẹ ti. Awọn wọnyi meji ohun laaye fun wa lati wá ọgbọn agbalagba, gbọn awọn arakunrin ati arabirin nipa boya tabi ko o je kan ti o dara agutan lati gba iyawo. Ọlọrun ti fún wa pastors ati mentors lati wa agbegbe ijo fun idi kan. Ti won ran wa ro nipasẹ wa ipinu wisely ki o si fun a bi- ita irisi. Ibasepo ti o ti wa ni o waiye ni ipinya wa ni o nri tọkọtaya ni pataki ewu ti ese ati alaigbọn ipinu. Mo ti yoo gan iwuri fun ibaṣepọ tọkọtaya lati ni miiran onigbagbo lati rẹ awujo intimately lowo ninu wọn ibasepọ.

3. Oluwa hàn mi awọn ẹwa ti igbeyawo

Bi awọn kan fireshmanu ni kọlẹẹjì Mo ní ohun ti mo fẹ lati pe Superwoman Saa. Mo ti wà gan ominira ati ọmọ ìṣó, gan tako si awọn agutan ti nílò ọkunrin kan. Emi ko ro pe nibẹ ni ohunkohun ti ko tọ si pẹlu jije ominira tabi ọmọ lé, ṣugbọn ninu okan mi ti o wà diẹ ẹ sii ju ti. Mo ti a ti despising Ọlọrun oniru fun awọn ọkunrin ati awọn obinrin. Emi yoo ti ko so wipe jade ti npariwo wa, ṣugbọn ti o ba mo ti wà mọ, Mo ti a banuje pẹlu ohun ti mo ro ti Bibeli ni lati sọ nipa awọn obirin. A ni o wa alailagbara, a ko le kọ, a ko le yorisi, a wa ni ko ori ti awọn ile, ati awọn mi gan ayanfẹ, ti a ba wa lati ni a irẹlẹ ati ẹmí tutù. Mo ro Mo ní ohunkohun sugbon a irẹlẹ ati ẹmí tutù ati ki o mo ti wà ko nife ninu yiyipada mi eniyan. Gbogbo awọn ti awọn wọnyi ero mu mi lati ro wipe igbeyawo je ohun ti yoo mu mi pada. O yoo pa mi lati tele gbogbo awọn ọmọ ala Mo ní ati diẹ ninu awọn ọjọ Emi yoo mu soke pẹlu 10 ati idaji ikoko lori kan r'oko ibikan.

A dupe, lori awọn ọdun Oluwa ti kọ mi ati ki o fihan mi ohun ti o gan wulẹ bi lati wa ni a bi- obinrin. Ni a bi- obinrin ti ko ba asọye nipa ohun ti o ko tabi ko ṣe. Mo mọ opolopo ti bi- obirin ti o faithfully sin Oluwa ni a ajọ ise ati ki o countless obirin ti o sin awọn ọmọ wọn ati awọn ọkọ faithfully ni ile. Bible womanhood jẹ nipa agbọye Ọlọrun oto ipa fun wa bi awon obirin ati delighting ni awọn ẹwa ti Ọlọrun oniru.

Bi awọn kan iyawo obinrin mo ti kọ ki Elo nipa ohun ti o tumo si lati wa ni a bi- obinrin ati Emi ko lero ni didè si isalẹ nipa ọkọ mi tabi mi igbeyawo. Ọlọrun oniru fun igbeyawo ni fun wa ti o dara ati ki o ogo rẹ. Mọ ki o si gbà ti o si fun mi ni igbekele lati fẹ ni awọn ọjọ ori ti 22. Meji ati idaji odun nigbamii, Emi ko ni eyikeyi regrets, ati ki o Mo le nikan gbadura pe Oluwa tẹsiwaju lati bukun wa igbeyawo.

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43 comments

  1. Jdharden1fesi

    Ti o ni iyanu, bi Ọlọrun le kọ awọn julọ ifẹ itan fun awọn ti o onitohun lori awọn pen fun u. O ṣeun Jessica, Mo gan nilo yi. Eleyi iwuri mi bi a 16yr atijọ lati fi sí Ọlọrun ki o si ni ọna rẹ ninu ifẹ mi aye. Olorun bukun fun o.

  2. Jannon Fitzpatrickfesi

    MO NIFE ELEYI!! A ni o wa odo pastors ni a kekere ijo ati ki o Mo nigbagbogbo so fun awọn awon omo ile iwe, “Nibẹ ni o wa nikan meji ohun ti o yoo lailai ṣe ni a ibasepo… 1) gba iyawo 2) Ya kuro. Kikan soke dun ati ki o ṣẹda ẹru, ki o ba ti o ba wa ni ko setan lati gba iyawo, o ni ti o dara ju ko lati bẹrẹ ni a ibasepọ.” (Ko pe o ko dagba lati wa ni setan fun igbeyawo ni a ibasepo, sugbon Mo n okeene sọrọ si 13-16 ọdun idagbasi.) Ọpọlọpọ eniyan bẹrẹ a ibasepo lerongba o yoo jẹ kekere kan, shortlived, fun ohun. Sugbon ki o si ikunsinu se agbekale, ti o subu sinu ese, ati ki o si o ni le ju lailai lati gba jade. Ti o ba ti a yoo dabobo ọkàn Ọlọrun fún wa bi iyebiye, ki o si lọ ni ibasepo lati yi irisi, awọn irisi ti o opin si soke ni igbeyawo to a Tí Ọlọrun Fi ọkunrin kan tabi obinrin, a yoo jẹ jina kere farapa ki o si dà nipa awọn akoko ti Ọlọrun Fi ọkunrin tabi obinrin Olorun ni o ni fun wa ba wa ni ayika! O ṣeun fun pinpin!!!

  3. Demonslayer4god777fesi

    Mo wa gan yọ ni mo te lori awọn ọna asopọ lati ka yi post. emi ni 25 ati ọkọ mi ati ki o Mo ti a ti ni iyawo fun fere 5 years. bayi, Èmi ni akọkọ lati so fun gbogbo ènìyàn pé Ọlọrun ni idi ti a ti wa ni iyawo. Fẹran rẹ, ni 21, Mo ti a ti ko nwa fun bẹni kò Mo fẹ a ọkọ, iyaworan Emi ko fẹ a omokunrin. 2007 a odun Ọlọrun patapata yi pada aye mi. Ni January Mo ti o kan se awari ohun ti Ọlọrun gan fe je ibasepo kuku ju esin ki ni mo wà lori ga(ẹmí) ati itara bi ohunkohun ti mo ti lailai kari ṣaaju ki o to. Next ohun ti mo mọ a osù nigbamii Mo ti a ti ni iyawo. Crazy Mo mọ. Ṣugbọn ohun ti mo ti le sọ…Ọlọrun sọ fún wa lati se ti o. Ati marun years nigbamii, ti a ba wa si tun pọ, ati ki o dagba jọ ninu Kristi. bayi, Mo ti yoo ko ni imọran si ẹnikẹni lati se ti o bi nyara bi awa ti ṣe. Sugbon mo yoo ko ni imọran lodi si o, ti o ba ti o ba lero mu nipa Olorun, ki o si ti gbadura ati ki o yara. Mo gbadura pe Olorun tesiwaju lati ko nikan dagba rẹ igbeyawo ṣugbọn mu o. Mo gbadura pe ife re fun kọọkan miiran tun tẹsiwaju lati dagba. Mo di soke ohunkohun, anyperson, eyikeyi ẹmí, ti yoo gbiyanju lati pin o. Mo gbadura pe o ti wa ni bukun pẹlu nla ibaraẹnisọrọ ogbon, ati ki o pọ sũru. Kí Ọlọrun pa ọ, ni oruko Jesu.

  4. Matt Novakfesi

    O ṣeun buruku fun lilo rẹ courtship ati igbeyawo bi ohun apẹẹrẹ ati itunu fun awọn ọmọ kekeke ati odo iyawo tọkọtaya. O ṣeun fun nyìn Ọlọrun logo pẹlu rẹ igbeyawo, ati pínpín rẹ ọgbọn ati awọn iriri pẹlu awọn ara Kristi, eyi ti o jẹ ni o daju awọn iyawo ti Kristi, ki yi tun yoo fun wa kan aworan ti bi a ba wa ni lati gbe bi awọn iyawo ti Kristi. Yìn Ọlọrun fun awọn iṣẹ ti o ti ṣe ninu rẹ aye lati ogbo o mejeji ni iru kan ọmọ ori.

  5. Ariep17fesi

    Iro yi je gan nla! bi awọn kan 20 y.o. ppl wo ni mi bi im were fun nini ni ifẹ lati gba iyawo. Emi yoo nifẹ lati ri diẹ ninu awọn imugboroosi lori ohun ti o tumọ si nipa “taratara funfun.” Mo ni ife ni trasparency tun ni ohun tí o sọ. Olorun bukun fun yall

    • Philipns2 5 11fesi

      besikale, nigbati o wi “taratara funfun” ó n sọrọ diẹ ẹ sii nipa ko si tẹlẹ ninu ọkàn rẹ gbiyanju lati fẹ awọn eniyan tabi ro wipe ti o ba wa “iyasọtọ” rẹ kan nitori ti o ba ibaṣepọ. Ti o le ja si awọn ẹlẹṣẹ ero bi, “ibalopo fantasies, ifẹkufẹ,ati be be lo” O mọ ti o ba taratara impure nigbati rẹ iran ti awọn ti miiran eniyan ti ohun kikọ silẹ ni ki clouded wipe ki o ṣe ni ibasepo ere ara rẹ lokan. Ti o ni idi Owe 4:23 jẹ bẹ pataki lati gbe nipa,paapa bi a obinrin nitori ti a wa, bi ti a mẹnuba, “imolara” ẹdá.

      • Ariep17fesi

        Mo ni o bayi o ṣeun. Rẹ Egba ọtun. Mo ti ara mi ti gbiyanju pẹlu ti. Ti o nikan nyorisi si kobojumu ifarapa

  6. Kerai ti jinlefesi

    mo nife eleyi!!!!!!!!! Ma ti o dabi lati gbagbe pe ti o ko nikan ni ọkan nitori ki ọpọlọpọ awọn ayika ti o okeene egbe dabi lati ro rẹ “fo ni ibon” ki ọpọlọpọ awọn eniyan fun mi pe i wasnt setan ati im ju odo, ṣugbọn i iwongba ti gbagbo yi ni ohun ti Ọlọrun ní ni itaja fun mi. Mo ti a ti deruba jade ninu mi lokan ọjọ lẹhin nitori ko nikan ni i gba iyawo ni kutukutu ni awọn ọjọ ori ti 18 i tun iyawo ọkunrin kan i mọ kere ju odun kan ati awọn ti o wà nikan 19. A ti a ese asopọ bi ọkàn wa ti won ti yàn tẹlẹ lati wa ni jọ, i ni ife u siwaju sii ju bayi i lailai ni ko mi alabaṣepọ fun aye ati i ko ni yi o fun ohunkohun. A gbadura papo ati lọ si ijo jọ ni iyawo ati ki o ní ọmọ kan jọ bayi nibi ti a are..It yoo jẹ 3 years ni Kínní ati i si tun ni ko si regrets ti i ṣe yi Gbe :-) ọlọrun ti bukún fun mi pẹlu kan ti o dara eniyan.. Ẹjẹ mi tumo si aye lati mi ati i ko ni adehun wọn.. O ṣeun fun ìrú yi pa o soke i ni ife odo ife… O fee lailai ri tọkọtaya kẹhin digba ikú sugbon i du lati wa ni wipe tọkọtaya digba ikú ni a pín yigi jẹ ko aṣayan!!

  7. Adrienne Kellyfesi

    Olorun bukun fun o meji. O si ti yio yoo nitori ti o gbẹkẹle Re ati Re Ibawi ètò fun awọn ọkunrin / obirin ibasepo ati ki o wá sinu majẹmu adehun ti o yoo ọlá Re ati kọọkan miiran fun aye. Mo wa ki lọpọlọpọ.

  8. M.A.R.V.fesi

    fẹràn o!! AY yall yẹ a Woman-soke a ìjìnlẹ òye lori Bible womanhood ati gbogbo rẹ wifes se o :)

  9. Louib2001fesi

    Ẹ yìn Oluwa fun o arakunrin rẹ ati ẹlẹwà aya ewe rẹ. Mo gbadura pe Oluwa yio tú ojurere continuously jakejado aye re, nitori ti o ti gbọ ọrọ. emi ni 28 ki o si ti a ti ni iyawo bayi fun fere meji ọdun ati iyawo mi ati Mo ni a dun igbeyawo ati ẹlẹwà kan 10 kòkoro atijọ omo. Mo ti nigbagbogbo fe lati gba iyawo kékeré, sugbon mo gbagbo ti o ti ko akoko yet fun mi titi Oluwa mu mi ti o dara ohun fere 5 awọn ọdun sẹyin (lati wa ni kongẹ a pade lori awọn ọjọ ti a ni atunbi 31 Dec 2006). Emi kò si mọ ibi ti a ti yàn tẹlẹ lati wa ni jọ bi mo ti mu u bi arinrin arabinrin lati ijo. Mo ti a ti tun fifokansi lori mi ẹmí idagbasoke, ṣugbọn odun meta seyin oju mi ​​la ati awọn isinmi bi nwọn ti sọ ni itan.

    Ti o wa ni Satani tọn agbese fun awon eniyan ko lati wa ni iyawo, ki nwọn ki o gbe ninu ese ati awọn ti a ti mọ tẹlẹ ohun ti yoo ṣẹlẹ. Ti a wò ni awọn oṣuwọn ti ikọsilẹ ninu ara loni? Bi o nipa awọn arakunrin ati arabinrin fornicating ninu ijo, nitori ti awọn ohun ti awujọ wu.

    Ti a ba wo ni bi ilu wa ti wa ni kún pẹlu odo iwa-ipa loni, ni a ya a akoko lati ro ti diẹ ninu awọn ti root okunfa? Awọn akoko eniyan paṣipaarọ Ọlọrun Fi iye fun ipin kankan gbogbo eyi ṣubu yato si. Ani Christian obi ti wa ni aimọ igbega si ipin kankan nipa discouraging ọmọ wọn ko lati gba iyawo odo (ni awọn ọjọ ori ti ibakcdun o han ni). Awọn idi ti o wa ni mo ti lò”o nilo lati gba eko, boya nigba ti o ba pari rẹ oluwa ati ki o ni a bojumu job, ki o si bẹrẹ lati ro nipa igbeyawo”. Ti ohun ọlọgbọn ko o ? Nítorí náà, ohun ti o ṣẹlẹ nigbati rẹ Christian ọmọ ni lọ si University ati ki o rare ni pẹlu boy / girl ore ti boya Christian tabi ti kii?

    Jọwọ ma ko si gba mi ti ko tọ(o ni o kan diẹ ninu awọn ohun ti mo ti wá kọja), nitori awọn oro yii ko ni waye si gbogbo. Education se pataki bi ọkan acquires imo fun awọn oludari oojo ki nwọn le sise ati ki o pese fun won iwaju idile ati be be lo, ṣugbọn igbeyawo yoo da ọkan lati lásán ni ohun ti lailai agbegbe ni aye kan yàn lati tẹle, bi ọrọ kan ti o daju a igbeyawo ni apapọ nse idagbasoke i.e nla iranse, ti o dara Heath, oro ati awọn akojọ lọ lori. Ranti awọn meji di ara kan ati ki o le lé 10 000 Iro ohun, ti o tumo si wipe ni adehun ohun ti lailai ti won beere Ọlọrun otitọ ti won yoo ni anfaani, oniyi…..

    Ni sunmọ Emi yoo fẹ lati daba pe a bi kristeni bẹrẹ kọ awọn ọmọ wa ni a ọmọ ori lori pataki ti akọkọ alãye fun Ọlọrun ati keji pataki igbeyawo( si awon ti o ti sọ a ti fi fun awọn ebun) ki nwọn ki o dagba soke kéèyàn lati wu Olorun ni agbegbe yi. Lekan si daradara ṣe arakunrin mi ati si gbogbo awon ti ngbe ọrọ Ọlọrun. duro ibukun.

  10. Iwantstate01fesi

    Jessica, le o pin diẹ ninu awọn ti wulo ohun Trip kò nigba rẹ courtship lati dabobo ọkàn rẹ taratara. Mo mọ eto ara ti nw aala. Ṣùgbọn kí ni o wo bi Oba ni imolara agbegbe?

    o ṣeun!

  11. Katherine2cfesi

    Mo bẹ nilo lati ka yi!!! e dupe!! Mo Ijakadi pẹlu awọn ohun ti o ni kete ti ti gbiyanju pẹlu ati Mo fẹ lati buyi Oluwa ati ọkọ mi!!!! Pẹlu ti a wi, Mo ti yoo tesiwaju lati du lati wa ni wipe P31 aya!!! E dupe!!!

  12. ChosenVfesi

    Mo gan dúpẹ lọwọ Ọlọrun fún bulọọgi rẹ. Lẹhin kika o fun awọn 1st akoko Mo ti a wow'd ni Ọlọrun iṣẹ. Osu meta isalẹ awọn ila ti mo ti ka yi lẹẹkansi ati ki o Mo n si tun wow'd. Mo wa a 22 odun atijọ obirin ati pẹlu marraige “looming”, bulọọgi rẹ ti wa ni trully lokun. O ti wa ni adura mi pe mi ọkunrin jẹ bi Ọlọrun ìṣó bi Trip wà ni awọn ofin ti nmu rẹ ipa ti bi ọkunrin kan ninu wa ibasepo. Ki Olorun bukun fun o:-)

  13. Chelsterfesi

    Ni Man Up, THE, a tọkọtaya osu ti okoja, Jess darukọ wipe Trip ni rẹ “ibora,” ati ki o nibi ó ti sọrọ nipa bi o lo lati wa ni a “superwoman,” ṣugbọn wá lati ko eko ohun ti bi- (teriba) abo ni ikure lati wo bi.
    Le boya tabi awọn mejeeji ti o sọ kekere kan diẹ sii pataki lori ohun ti o gbagbọ Olorun agutan ni fun awọn ọkunrin ati obirin ipa ni a igbeyawo? Y'all wa ni a ibukun!!

  14. Nicole Rose Munhawafesi

    Mo gan ro rẹ itan jẹ ìyanu. Mejeeji ti o fà awọn ẹwa ti awọn ebun ti igbeyawo ati awọn ti o ti sọ gan atilẹyin fun mi. Oriire fun igbeyawo ati ki o Mo gbadura fun outrageous ife lati wa ni pín laarin iwọ. Ki dun fun o

  15. Godgiven51fesi

    Iru a ọlọgbọn irisi,iyawo mi ati ki o Mo ti a ti ni iyawo fun 5 ọdun ati emi ni tun ni awọn Ihinrere hip hop oko,awọn oniwe-nigbagbogbo oniyi lati ni rẹ ninu mi igun gbadura nigba ti a ba ajo,o aya mu ohun pataki apakan ninu aye wa,pa ṣe ohun ya doin sis!

  16. Iolene_Branchfesi

    Mo ti fi ara mi lori irin ajo lati wa ni kan ti o dara obinrin ti Kristi ni ibẹrẹ ti 2011 ati ki o Mo gbọdọ sọ mo ti wá a gidigidi jina ọna ati emi ni lalailopinpin lọpọlọpọ ti ara mi. Nigba mi irin ajo Ọlọrun gbe a ibukun enia ni mi ona ati kika yi bulọọgi ti pato dun awọn oniwe-apakan bi awọn ti o kẹhin ami ti nilo lati adura mi.

    Mo tun ti ko ni ero ti wiwa fun ọkunrin kan lati na awọn iyokù ti aye mi pẹlu ni 20 ọdún, sugbon nibi Emi ni, ki o si yi bulọọgi jẹ lalailopinpin wunilori. Fun mi lati duro lẹgbẹẹ rẹ ni gbogbo rẹ tiraka ki o si wa obinrin Ọlọrun dá mi lati wa ni ki o si wa nipa rẹ ẹgbẹ bi Ọlọrun molds fun u lati wa ni awọn ọkunrin ti o nilo lati wa ni.

    O ṣeun fun yi. Mo gan ṣe riri ti o :)

  17. Arnold Moforfesi

    Whao, Trip ati Jessica! O si gangan ko mo bi jina rẹ eko ti wa ni nínàgà-mo wà ninu Cameroon. emi ni 25 ọdun-atijọ ati ki o laipe mu ọjọ kan ni o gbooro sii akoko pẹlu Ọlọrun lati wá Ọlọrun nipa mi iwaju alabaṣepọ. Nigbana ni mo wá soke pẹlu a akosile / Adura ojuami akojọ ti awọn irú ti obinrin Mo fẹ lati ọjọ ati ki o bajẹ fẹ. Ki o si ọjọ kan nigbamii ni mo pade rẹ bulọọgi. Mo ro pe Ọlọrun wa ni ngbaradi fun mi ni pataki ona. Yi ni mi Wife ká akosile / adura ojuami akojọ:
    Arnold aya akosile / ADURA ojuami akojọ
    eroja agbara
    (ite 1-4)
    Ti yasọtọ ati ki o dagba Christian
    Mi o dara Oluranlowo
    Respects her parents, her family, the authority and me in my presence and absence
    Partners with me in my ministry
    Submissive in everything
    Has a Gentle and Quiet Spirit
    Shares similar thoughts, struggles, pains, no secrets
    Does not desire outer beauty-clothes, jewelry, hair styles
    Prudent and Generous
    Hardworking
    Makes me desire to work extremely harder

  18. Angela Johnsonfesi

    What a Blessing You Both Are! Keep On Keeping On With HIM! You Won’t Go Wrong…..lailai! I got married young but without the wisdom of HIM and others who were led of The Spirit to encourage us to seek HIM first……I must say that anyone who chooses HIS Way will be positioning them selves to receive HIS Plan for them and not their plans for themselves which is Far Greater than Anything we could everthink offor ourselves….TRUST IN HIM!:) I am walking by Faith and not by Sight (2 corinthians 5:7) Or I would have killed my self……Without HIM I saw no good thing. Thank You LORD For Sending The Holy Spirit Who Comforts and Guides me. JESUS Is LORD! ( I am still married and we Both <3 The Lord!) Stay Blessed!:) Much <3 and Peace!:) Very Inspiring of you both to have posted, Thank You Very Much!:)

  19. aneetarhfesi

    thank u so much Jessica,dis is exactly wot i need right nw. God rilly bls u guys. I’m 21,in a godly relatnshp n my boyfriend wants us 2 get married ASAP. I wasn’t sure if it’s a gud idea cause i felt i wasn’t matured enuf bt i thank God 4 dis,if it’s God’s will den i totally subscribe 2 o

  20. Rchllnndreherfesi

    WOW the reasons behind you getting marride are the same as mine were and what still make me believe I made the right choice I also felt God saying this is the one it is time to let go of the past only our pastor didnt approve which made it a hard choice in a way other than I was following God. Mo wa 22 and just got married 2 mo ago. It may be a short time but God is growing us together and teaching us so much(for me how to open up be soft and be a woman as God created me to be) It was awsome to read this and I want to thank you for taking the time to write it. May God Bless You and Your House!

  21. Rachel Wrightfesi

    Ya’ll testimony is so awesome! It is is encouraging to hear that ya’ll were able to get married young. I myself am getting married this summer at the age of 21 and God has blessed us in so many ways and continues to amaze us and bless us! Thank you once again from both of you for these uplifting blogs!

  22. Dfletcher812fesi

    I Totally Agree. Mo ti ni iyawo ni awọn ọjọ ori ti 18. Yes I was a baby but, the Lord spoke to me and told me not be afraid to take a leap of faith and being Obedient to the will of God i did. Now Im 24 with Three Kids and my Husband and I are very deep in ministry of music. God has done some impossible things in our lives and I love to hear that other young women and young men of God realize that God has given their soul mate to them and deiced to make the right decision.

    And we cant forget, Mary married Joseph at 14 years of age and Birthed Jesus, She was a virgin and pure in the sight of God. So Ladies and men stay pure for God until u marry!!!

  23. Grabiel Riverafesi

    thats great the same has happened to me and my wife , i was 21 ati ki o wà 18. we let god direct us and be in our marriage and now he showing us his work in our lifes and in our marriage. may god keep blessing yah marriage like he has done in ours god bless

  24. Addis Hunterfesi

    Thank you for your testimony, I can relate to you in many ways. I do have to admit that I struggle daily withhaving a gentle and quiet spiritpart of marrige..Like you, I was and still am very driven and independant , and acknowledging my husband as the head of household and submitting to his ideas (even when I dont agree) is my biggest challenge as a young wife. I ask God every day to help me humble myself and submitt to my husband in every way. O ṣeun fun pínpín.

  25. Cy Hudsonfesi

    You guys are such an incredible blessing to young believers! I love these two blogs and thank the LORD for all he has spoke to me through you two!

  26. Jennifer Ann Sellerfesi

    21 ọdún, and I feel like you’re describing me. I definitely have that Superwoman Syndrome. Thank you so much for your inspiring testimony, it gives me hope :)

  27. Pulemolisefesi

    thnx alot Trip and Jessica,many adults nid 2 see dis,i m truly encouraged by you guys,I luv hw ur sides complement,-Trip met a godly woman and Jessica met a godly man,Iro ohun!(dats why u had 2 gba iyawo,lol!) nd we thnk God 4 u guys,u hv shown dat u can b responsible adults at a young age wen adults at an older age cant evn manage a fraction of wat u r doing,big-ups 2 u,nd may God continue 2 bles ur marriage more and more with each day dt comes

  28. simon paul -----ukfesi

    Thank u so much Jessica for such apowerful encouragement .Am 21 but i alwalys thought growing means focus on a relationship .Sorry to bother you, Does dating someone in a christian relationship meanyou have to marry that very person , though she has got all the intimacy ur looking for..n you dont wanna hurt person..cos she expects uto be her hubbyHow would u handle such a catastrophe?????thxx.

  29. Kailafesi

    I know this was written awhile ago and I finally got a chance to read it. ṣugbọn, I guess this was a good time for me to read it. Seems like God keeps putting little things around to tell me it’s time to put him back into things. And I think not only my relationship with my boyfriend is what’s needs Him back in it, but this shows that He can help smooth things out.

    I also found it interesting that I never thought of my mindset as the Superwomen Syndrome, but I can definitely can say I need help working on mine. That’s how my boyfriend describes me when I try to take on too much whether it be emotionally or work wise.

  30. Coltonfesi

    Hey Trip! I read both of these blogs, and they (along with the godly counsel of family and friends) have been immensely helpful to me in the past few months. I’ve met the girl that I know God has for me to marry, and we’re just waiting on his timing. It’s quite possible that we will end up married even before you were, or at least by then!

    What advice would you give to someone who is in every other way ready to marry, except for the ability to provide a home (because of attending college)?

    Thanks so much!

  31. Nadenefesi

    This was beautiful. Can’t express how much I needed this :'). God is truly faithful!

  32. Femifesi

    Thanks for sharing Jessica. this has surely changed my view on dating; not to awaken love before its time. dope!