Svečias Pranešimas iš Jessica Barefield
Leiskite man pradėti duoti Atsakomybės apribojimas. Šis straipsnis yra ne apie tai, kaip blogis socialinės žiniasklaidos yra. Naudota saikingai, su teise širdies laikysena, ji gali būti nuostabus dalykas. Šio straipsnio esmė yra atkreipti dėmesį į keletą būdų, kad socialinės žiniasklaidos, gali būti spąstai už krikščioniško gyvenimo ir paskatinti jus ištirti savo širdį, kai jis ateina į jūsų socialinės žiniasklaidos vartojimo ir dalyvavimo. Tai yra penkis būdus, kad socialinės žiniasklaidos gali išmaitinti mūsų nuodėmingus norus.
1. Socialinė žiniasklaida gali gaišti laiko
Tai nieko negirdėjome iki, bet tai verta kartoti. Mes primename Efeziečiams 5:16-17 kad dienos yra piktos ir turėtume kuo geriau panaudoti laiką suteiktą mus. Apsvarstykite akimirką ką galima daryti, o ne tikrinti visas šias svetaines. Laukdamas ne paskyrimo, galėtume laikyti žmonių sąrašą melstis už mūsų telefoną ir praleisti tas papildomas minutes maldoje už mūsų šeimai ir draugams. tikrai, vienu ar kitu metu, mes visi esame kalti dėl išlaidų valandas Facebook per dieną ir niekada atveria Dievo Žodį. Nuo kiekvienu momentu yra dovana iš Viešpaties, verta užduoti sau klausimą,, "Ar yra kažkas labiau apsimoka, kad galėčiau išleisti savo laiką?" Daugiausia laiko, atsakymas yra tikriausiai taip.
2. Socialinė žiniasklaida suteikia platformą kiekvieną jūsų mintį
Manau skelbimą socialinės žiniasklaidos solidarumas gali apgauti jus į mąstymą, viskas OK, kad galėtumėte tiesiog apie ką nors. mes skundžiasi, mes anonimiškai bash žmonių, mes nepagarba žmonėms institucijos, ir sakome, ką mes galvojame apie įžymybes, tarsi jie būtų ne realūs žmonės. Ir mes manome, mes do not really turite atsakyti už bet ji. Neapsigaukite dėl savo kambarį privatumą dabar-nebus nieko privataus, kai mes stovime prieš gyvojo Dievo ir duoti apyskaitą už savo žodžius. Mato perspėja mus gana aiškiai, "Dėl teismo dieną, žmonės duos apyskaitą už kiekvieną pasakytą tuščią žodį jie kalba. "Leiskite mums būti priminta apie šį įspėjimą, kitą kartą mes atnaujiname mūsų statusą.
3. Social media can fuel discontentment
Kai mes praleisti ilgesnį laiką pilti, ką kiti daro ir sako:, ji atkreipia mūsų dėmesį į visų dalykų mes neturime arba nepasinaudos. Tai gali sukelti mums klausimą, kodėl mūsų gyvenimai nežiūri tas pats. Kodėl manau, kad tos citata? Linkiu Aš turėjau savo stiliaus pojūtį. Jų naujas namas yra būdas didesnis nei mūsų! Jei nesame atsargūs, trisdešimt minučių "Facebook" ar Pinterest gali palikti jums jausmas nederlinga, nepatrauklus, ir underwhelmed su savo gyvenimo. Hebrajams ragina mus, "Laikykite savo gyvenimą be meilės pinigų, būkite patenkinti tuo, ką turite, nes Jis sakė, "Aš niekada paliks nepaliks tavęs." "Mes galiausiai gali būti turinio su mūsų gyvenime, kaip tikinčiųjų, nes mes suteikta visa tai mes turime Kristuje. Paklauskite savęs, ar jūsų naudoti socialinės žiniasklaidos yra padėti manote, kad tai tiesa.
4. Social media can fuel pride and keep you inwardly focused
Socialinė žiniasklaida gali greitai tapti mūsų pačių podiumas savireklamai. We have to ask ourselves what our motivation really is for posting the things that we do. Ar mes ieškome užuojautos ar pagirti? Ar mes norime būti gerai suvokiami arba girtis apie smagius dalykus mes jau daro? Ar jūs nuolat tikrinti, kiek "Patinka" arba "Retweets" Jūsų pranešimas gavo? Visi šie dalykai kuro išdidumą ir saugo mus orientuota į save. Tai gali būti ypač sunku spąstai tiems, kurie turi platformą, kuri tęsiasi už savo draugais ir šeima. Whether you do music or have a popular blog, tik todėl, kad tūkstančiai žmonių klausytis nereiškia viską, kas ateina į galvą, yra verta pasakyti. Turime prisiminti, kad Retweets, komentarai, ir mėgsta ne automatiškai suteikti teisėtumo, ką mes po. Dievas mato mūsų širdyse motyvaciją ir niekada supainiojo gerai meistriškai paštu. Kaip aš Samuelio 2:3 perspėja, "Negalima laikyti kalbėti taip išdidžiai arba tegul jūsų burna kalbėti tokią aroganciją, nes Viešpats Dievas, kuris žino ir jo poelgiai yra sveriami. "
5. Social media can distort our view of relationships
Už kiekvieną naudinga socialinės žiniasklaidos ir ryšių, yra trūkumas. Tai lengva suspėti su mylimais (gal per lengva?). Ar jūs vis dar turite giliai, prasmingi pokalbiai asmeniškai? It is easy to keep up with a lot of people you love—and a lot of people you don’t even know (gal per daug?). Ar jūs persotinta su informacijos 300 žmonių gyvenimai, kad jūs nedarote gerą darbą mylintis 10 žmonių matote kiekvieną savaitę? Mes galime greitai mokyti save, kad mėgėjai žmonių vartotojai informacijos vietoj. Žinios apie kažkieno gyvenimą ir dalintis viską apie savo gyvenimą per socialinės žiniasklaidos yra ne tas pats kaip tikras draugas. Žinoma Jėzus yra puikus pavyzdys, ką reiškia būti tikras draugas. Kaip Jėzus moko, "Mano komanda tai: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, kad jis savo gyvybę už draugus atiduoti. "Draugystė yra daugiau nei būsenos atnaujinimus ir nuotraukas sumą. Draugystė yra auka. Tai turint vieni kitų naštas. Tai ne tik virtualus-ji turi būti apčiuopiama.
Jessica Barefield gyvena Vašingtono Kolumbijos apygarda. su vyru Trip, ir jų sūnus K. Galite paskaityti daugiau iš jos į savo dienoraštį, Like To Love.
This is so true. I will openly admit that I waste hours and hours of my time and days on social media and all the points brought forward, I can directly relate to. I know in my mind and heart that I want to and have to cut it out, or greatly diminish it, but it isn’t easy. But the message you have conveyed and the words of God that you’re using to reinforce this speak to me clearly. Thank you for this article :)
Didžiosios paštu! Really made me think and consider my social media usage!
Very good read! Was never involved in social networks until a little over a year ago and these are some of the reasons why. I have actually been thinking about deleting my social networks to focus on what needs to be focused on. Lot of good points here. Thank you for taking your time to write it and share.
Oho! So true. I definitely need to work on my social media intake. It’s very consuming one of the very reasons I stopped getting on Pinterest. Ačiū, kad dalinatės.
Nothing short of blessed
Thank you so much for posting this. I have been fighting with myself about getting on Facebook. Seems lately all it does is make mad angry. This was everything I needed to hear and will reread when I need to be reminded. Thank you and Trip. Telaimina Dievas.
Nuostabu!
You are an inspiration! So many good points you have here. Praise God for your wisdom that’s understandable and very relevant to our generation! :)
I have been cut to heart by this powerful sharing. I believe we are all found wanting in this area. Thanks Trip and Jessica. May God continue to use you .
Gerai pasakyta! I’ve had some of these same thoughts about social media over the past fee years. Keep writing!
Caleb
I love this!!!! So so true and I wish more people understood these points!
you’re really inspiration to this generation. Gerai pasakyta!!!
Thank you so much Jessica for these words that are so true and conviction given. May God continue to use you and you household :-)
Thank you for this enlightening post! This should prompt us to fix our eyes on Jesus and less on others and self.
Palaiminimai!
Nuostabu…. Glory to God alone….
Thank you so much, for the “little people” with out a voice it speaks numbers to think our “social” value is derived from social media. Thanks for the wake up call !
Man reikia tai!!
That is so true. We waste precious time on social networks without purpose, and whenever purpose is not on ground, abuse is inevitable. I myself i’m guilty of this at times; but i pray for the grace to redirect my priorities.
This is a really good post. Thank you for sharing it with us, enjoyed reading it and it opening my eyes to the pitfalls of social media. :) malonė & Peace.
Exactly why I PERMANENTLY deleted my Fakebook in early 2012. Just like how I gave up cable TV in 2001, I don’t miss either Fakebook or TV. FB makes it easy to love yourself, which is idolatry. Being on the computer for work (video editing) is all the more reason why I do not want to spend time on it in my free time, but it is so easy to waste time on the computer. If I’m on YouTube, it’s to watch edifying videos from other Christians. I HIGHLY recommend every Christian to read this article: “Forming our Souls with Facebook” by Shane Hipps (Second Nature Journal dot com)
Very thought provoking!
Oho, puikus postas, I am really blessed.
Omg I was so convicted last week by exactly what you said …spending hours on facebook that should be spending in the word! I love this blog…keep the knowledge coming!
I like your balanced position; not completely condemning social media, yet pointing out the issues/tendency for sinfulness. Reminds me of iLove.
Good points..thanks for sharing I needed it .
Ačiū, kad dalinatės! Excellent reminders of how we should caution ourselves when it comes to social media.
Thank you Jessica for this article & thank you Trip for posting on fb so I could see it & come to the blog to read it.
Great write up! Thought provoking for sure…note to self!
Oho! This is amazing! Every point hit me and I really needed to hear it. Thank you so much. Telaimina Dievas!
Labai ačiū už tai rašau. It is so very insightful and has helped me a lot in recognizing that I need to limit my time with social media. Many of the things you’ve described are all things I can relate to. Spending too much time on social media is not beneficial for my spirit your blog has really put it in words for me. Again thanks so much
Spot on with number 4 man. One to watch – thanks
Thanks for writing this article; this article was edifying.
God bless you for sharing this. I need to be pure and thoughtful in whatever I do online/offline. Malonė ir ramybė
nuostabus straipsnis! Well articulated and balanced. Ačiū už dalinimąsi
Guilty as charged on all 5 points…Ačiū jums už tai.
This article caught my eye quick because my job is online and a big part of it is social media. Before this was my job I could completely relate to this. It really can be a time waster if there is no self control. It should be something approached with caution for sure!
I saw this link on my Facebook and was dreading to read it because I knew it would convict me and today I said, “Gerai… Let me have it.” daug juoko. Just about everything in here is true about how I spend my time online and I am going to assume that the person who wrote this article would not have posted this if she had not struggled with this herself in some way. So it is nice to know that there are other people who carry or did carry the same burden. At church you tend to feel like you shouldn’t admit to stuff like this, because we have created the idea that no one else struggles with it. Just the other day I was talking to my husband and telling him how I deleted some apps on my ipod (yes I still have an ipod and not an iphone, by choice) because it created unhealthy/ungodly thinking. I use to play Home Design where you can create your dream home and in turn I would become so depressed with the house we live in. I still love playing Mall World on FB and confessed to my husband that I like it because my avatar is someone I am not, she is pretty, skinny, independant and it is fantasy that I enjoy living through. Maybe I sound weird or people may think I shared too much but this is my own conviction. Thank you for reinforcing what I know by sharing your own conviction with us writer and other commenters.
I will be deleting my Facebook and Instagram for a while. This was my wake up call. My husbands has been telling me about this and the discontentment has gone too far! Thank you Jessica!
lol this is so true.. fortunately, i’ve removed my social networking account about 3 prieš metus :D
Great Post!
That’s real! Got me thinkin!
Ačiū! I’m gonna take a week long break from Facebook, paštas, and Instagram and work on those relationships I have with people I see in my daily life.
Fantastic stuff! I’m a high school student and the part about putting so much stock into retweets and likes is so true! I definitely think their are some good things that can come out of Twitter/Facebook but it’s all about where you heart is!
paminėjimas: Dienos lobiai | treasuring Kristus
Wow thank God that was written for me,may the life giver always bless you and your family.Trip has always been the man of days The music,writtens etc keeps me awake.we thank God for you
Facebook free Fridays?! Join me! :P the entire month of October!
paminėjimas: For the Love of Lupe
Really good post! Social media can be a little too much but when I see souls reach and they are planted into a church with their families and serving in church and in their community with the families.. That’s amazing to me.
Oho. This really spoke to me and I appreciate it. It’s so well articulated and has some great advice on ways to reflect. Ačiū!
Ačiū, kad parašėte šį! I’m so glad God led me to your blog today because I definitely needed to read this!
I love coming to this blog and reading all of these awesome posts by Trip and his wife. Keep up the good work you two!!! Telaimina Dievas.
Oho
this just gave me more insight that i thought i had
Trip and his family are pure blessings.
That happens sometimes doesn’t it ????
lolz !!!
That is sooooo true it can take time away from god also you won’t seem to have the time 4 him we’ll cut it off make the time
awesome read. admittedly, i spend too much time looking at pretty boys and pretty things and getting caught up by all these superficial things on tumblr that i tend to push God aside. it’s a sad, sad thing; i could be reading up on His word and spending more time with Him….thanks for the eye opener!
Oho. I thought I was doing good because I was just on two networks. This definitely helped me check myself. I thought because I wasn’t sinning I was okay, and of course there is always room for improvement.
God bless you for sharing this and thank you! This post just got me thinking about the time I waste with social media and its networks. It has helped me to re-think what I’m doing with time.
I agree with every point. I for sure have been avoiding instagram because I found myself comparing my self to other girls on there. It’s not good to feel ungrateful. I like looking at cute animals. Daug juoko
I considered deleting my fb, instagram accounts numerous times. I do think it’s good for keeping up with family members far apart though. :)
puikus dienoraštis! Do you have any tips and hints for aspiring writers?
I’m planning to start my own website soon but I’m a little lost on everything.
Would you propose starting with a free platform like WordPress or go for a paid option? There are so many options out there that I’m totally overwhelmed ..
Any ideas? Ačiū!