Qhua ncej ntawm Jessica Barefield
Cia kuv pib los muab ib disclaimer. Tsab xov xwm no tsis hais txog kev phem kev tawm yog. Siv nyob rau hauv moderation, nrog rau lub plawv posture, Nws yuav ua tau ib tug zoo tshaj plaws. Tus taw tes ntawm tsab xov xwm no yog taw tes tawm tej txoj kev uas kev tawm yuav yog ib pitfall rau lub neej Christian thiab txhawb koj kuaj koj lub plawv thaum nws tawm los rau koj kev tawm noj thiab kev koom tes. Cov no yog tsib txoj kev uas kev tawm yuav pub peb lub siab ntshaw.
1. Kev tawm yuav khib koj lub sij hawm
Qhov no yog tsis muaj dab tsi uas peb tsis tau hnov ua ntej, Tiam sis nws puas tsim nyog repeating. Peb yeej qhia rau Efexau 5:16-17 Hnub ntawd yog siab phem thiab peb yuav tsum ua qhov zoo tshaj plaws ntawm lub sij hawm muab rau peb. Xav txog ib pliag koj yuav tau ua xwb tsis txhob xyuas tag nrho cov chaw. Thaum tos ib lub sij hawm teem tseg, Peb yuav khaws ib daim ntawv teev cov neeg thov vaj tswv rau peb lub xov tooj thiab siv cov feeb ntxiv rau peb tsev neeg thiab cov phooj ywg. yeej, ib zaug los yog ib zaug, Peb yeej muaj txim txhaum siv sij hawm nyob Facebook hauv ib hnub thiab yeej tsis qhib tau lo lus ntawm Vajtswv. Vim txhua lub caij yog ib tug phij cuam los ntawm tus tswv, Nws puas tsim nyog nug koj tus kheej, "Yog muaj ib yam dab tsi ntxiv worthwhile tias kuv yuav tau siv kuv lub sij hawm rau?" Feem ntau, Cov lus teb yog tej zaum muaj.
2. Kev tawm muab ib platform rau koj txhua xav
Kuv xav tias cov solidarity ntawm xo rau kev tawm yuav ua kom yuam kev koj xav tias nws yog lawv xav tshuaj mus ncej xwb txog dab tsi. Peb yws, Peb anonymously bash neeg, Peb saib taus cov uas saib tsis taus peb, Thiab peb hais xijpeem peb xav txog celebrities, Txhais tau hais tias lawv tsis tiag tiag. Thiab peb ntseeg tias peb tsis tshua tau teb rau tej yam uas nws. Tsis txhob fooled los ntawm tus kheej ntawm koj chav tam sim no—yuav muaj ib yam dabtsi ua ntej thaum peb sawv ntsug ua ntej tus vaj tswv thiab muab ib tug account rau peb lo lus. Matthew warns peb zoo nkauj plainly, "Rau hnub ntawm cov lus txiav txim, Neeg yuav muab nyiaj rau txhua lo lus careless lawv hais lus." Peb yuav tsum qhia txog cov lus ceeb toom no lub sij hawm tom ntej peb hloov peb raws li txoj cai.
3. Kev tawm yuav roj discontentment
Thaum peb siv sij hawm ncua sij hawm pouring dua lwm tus ua dab tsi thiab hais tias, Nws draws peb xim rau tag nrho tej yam uas peb tsis muaj los yog uas ploj lawm rau. Nws yuav ua rau peb nug vim li cas peb lub neej tsis zoo li qub. Vim li cas ho tsis kuv xav tias tsocai? Kuv xav tias kuv muaj nws kev txiav txim zoo style. Lawv lub tsev tshiab yog txoj kev loj dua peb li! Yog peb tsis ceev faj, Peb caug feeb rau Facebook los yog Pinterest yuav tawm koj lawm unproductive, rho tawm, thiab underwhelmed nrog koj tus kheej lub neej. Henplais xaus, "Cia li nyob ntawm koj lub neej dawb huv, thiab ua tib zoo xav txog tej uas koj tau kawm, Rau nws tau hais tias, 'Kuv yuav tsis tawm hauv koj los yog forsake koj.'" Peb yuav thaum kawg yuav tsum nrog peb lub neej raws li ntseeg vim peb muab txhua yam uas peb xav tau hauv Khetos. Nug koj tus kheej seb koj siv kev tawm yog pab koj ntseeg tias qhov tseeb.
4. Kev tawm yuav roj muaj nuj nqis thiab khaws koj inwardly teem
Kev tawm yuav sai ua peb tus kheej podium rau nws tus kheej promotion. Peb yuav tsum nug peb tus kheej li cas peb paab yeej yog rau xo tej yam uas peb ua. Peb tab tom nrhiav sympathy los yog qhuas? Peb xav kom zoo xav los yog brag txog tej yam kev lom zem uas peb twb tau ua? Koj lossi xyuas ntau npaum li cas "nyiam" los yog "retweets" koj ncej tau txais? Tag nrho cov roj muaj nuj nqis thiab kom peb teem rau peb tus kheej. Qhov no yuav yog ib qho nyuaj pitfall rau leej twg uas muaj ib platform uas extends dhau lawv cov phooj ywg thiab tsev neeg. Seb koj ua suab paj nruag los yog muaj ib tug nrov blog, Vim txhiab tus neeg muaj mloog tsis txhais hais tias txhua yam uas los mloog yog tsim nyog hais tias. Peb yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias retweets, lus, Thiab nyiam tsis txhob muab legitimacy rau peb ncej. Vaj tswv pom qhov kev paab ntawm peb lub siab lub ntsws thiab yeej tsis fooled los ntawm ib tug zoo crafted ncej. Raws li Kuv Xamuyee 2:3 ceev faj, "Tsis txhob tham kom zoo siab los yog cia koj lub qhov ncauj hais xws li arrogance, Rau tus Tswv yog ib tug Vaj tswv uas paub thiab los ntawm nws deeds yog weighed."
5. Kev tawm yuav distort peb saib ntawm kev sib raug zoo
Rau txhua cov kev pab cuam kev tawm muaj rau kev sib raug zoo, Nws muaj nws ib drawback. Nws yog ib qho yooj yim uas yuav tau nrog cov sawv daws hlub (tej zaum ib yam nkaus thiab yooj yim?). Koj puas tseem muaj sib sib zog nqus, sib tham hauv tus neeg? Nws yog ib qho yooj yim uas yuav tau nrog ntau tus neeg koj hlub—thiab muaj coob tus neeg koj tsis txawm paub (tej zaum ntau dhau lawm?). Koj puas oversaturated nrog cov lus ntawm 300 Neeg lub neej uas koj nyob nraum tsis ua ib txoj hauj lwm zoo hlub tus hlub 10 koj pom ib lub limtiam twg rau lub limtiam ntawd? Peb yuav ceev nrooj qhia peb tus kheej kom tau txais kev pab ntawm cov ntaub ntawv tsis txhob lovers ntawm cov neeg. Paub txog ib tug neeg lub neej thiab sib koom txhua yam txog koj tus kheej lub neej ntawm kev tawm tsis yog tib yam li yog ib tug phooj ywg tiag tiag. Yexus yog ib tug phoojywg zoo kawg nkaus uas muaj tiav. Raws li Yexus cov lus qhia, "Kuv hais kom ua qhov no: Hlub sib raws li kuv tau hlub koj. Ntau dua hlub muaj tsis muaj leej twg tshaj qhov no, Uas nws pw hauv nws lub neej rau nws cov phooj ywg." Friendship yog ntau tshaj qhov summ ntawm raws li txoj cai tshiab thiab duab. Txojkev sib raug zoo nrog Yehauvas ruaj rua. Nws yog bearing sib tus burdens. Nws tseem tsis tau yog virtual—nws yuav tsum tangible.
Jessica Barefield nyob Washington D.C. Nrog nws tus txiv mus txawv tebchaws, thiab lawv tus tub Q. Koj yuav nyeem ntxiv los ntawm nws ntawm nws blog, Nyiam hlub.
Yeej muaj tseeb li ntawd tiag.. Kuv yuav tab neeg lees tias kuv khib teev thiab teev ntawm kuv lub sij hawm thiab hnub rau kev tawm thiab tag nrho cov ntsiab lus coj tuaj rau pem hauv ntej, Kuv yuav ncaj qha mus rau. Kuv paub nyob rau hauv kuv lub siab thiab lub plawv uas kuv xav tau thiab yuav tsum tau txiav nws tawm, los yog diminish nws, Tiam sis nws tsis yog ib qho yooj yim. Tab sis hais tias koj muaj conveyed thiab cov lus ntawm Vajtswv uas koj nyob nraum siv los reinforce no hais lus rau kuv kom meej meej. Ua tsaug rau tsab xov xwm no :)
Qho zoo kawg thiab! Yeej ua kuv xav tias thiab xav txog kuv kev tawm siv!
nyeem ntawv zoo heev! Twb yeej tsis muab kev koom tes rau hauv kev tes hauj lwm mus txog rau thaum me ntsis ib xyoo dhau los thiab cov no yog ib co txheej xwm seb yog vim li cas. Kuv tau ua tau xav txog deleting kuv kev tes hauj lwm tes hauj lwm kom kub siab rau dab tsi yuav tsum tau teem rau. Ntau cov ntsiab lus zoo ntawm no. Ua tsaug rau koj noj koj lub sij hawm sau nws thiab muab.
Wow! Li ntawd, yeej muaj tseeb. Kuv mas nws yeej yuav tsum tau mus ua hauj lwm rau kuv kev tawm intake. Nws yog noj ib yam ntawm cov txheej xwm heev kuv tso tseg tsis tau rau Pinterest. Ua tsaug koj mus sib qhia.
Tsis muaj dab tsi luv ntawm foom koob hmoov
Ua tsaug ntau heev rau xo qhov no. Kuv tau raug ntaus nrog kuv tus kheej txog tau rau Facebook. Nkawd lig tag nrho nws yog ua npau taws. Qhov no yog txhua yam kuv yuav tsum tau hnov thiab yuav nyeem thaum kuv yuav tsum tau qhia. Ua tsaug thiab dawm. Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov.
Txaus!
Koj yog ib inspiration! Muaj coob ntsiab lus zoo koj muaj ntawm no. Qhuas Vajtswv lub tswvyim uas to taub thiab muaj ntau yam rau peb tiam! :)
Kuv tau raug txiav rau lub plawv los ntawm no haib sib koom. Kuv ntseeg tias peb yeej nrhiav tau nyob rau hauv cheeb tsam no. Tsaug dawm thiab Jessica. Thov kom Vajtswv siv koj lub tswvyim los siv koj .
Zoo hais! Kuv twb muaj ib txhia cov qub xav txog kev tawm xyoo dhau los. Sau ntawv!
Caleb
Kuv nyiam qhov no!!!! Li ntawd, muaj tseeb thiab kuv xav kom coob tus neeg to taub cov ntsiab lus no!
Koj nyob nraum inspiration rau no tiam. Zoo hais!!!
Ua tsaug ntau Jessica rau cov lus uas muaj tseeb thiab txim ua txhaum muab. Thov kom Vajtswv pub koj thiab koj tsev neeg :-)
Ua tsaug rau no enlightening ncej! Qhov no yuav tsum ceev faj peb kho peb lub qhov muag rau Yexus thiab tsawg dua lwm tus thiab nws tus kheej.
Blessings!
Txaus…. Glory rau Vaj tswv ib leeg kheej….
Ua tsaug ntau, rau qhov “neeg me ntsis” Nrog ib lub suab nws hais lus tooj xav tias peb “kev sib raug zoo” tus nqi yog derived ntawm kev tawm. Tsaug rau lub caij hu !
Kuv xav tau no!!
Yeej muaj tseeb li ntawd tiag.. Peb khib precious sij hawm rau kev tes hauj lwm tsis muaj lub hom phiaj, thiab thaum twg lub hom phiaj tsis nyob hauv av, Kev tsim txom yog inevitable. Kuv tus kheej kuv muaj txim ntawm lub sij hawm no lub sij hawm; Tab sis kuv thov Vaj tswv rau lub hlub rau redirect kuv tej.
Qhov no yog ib tug ncej zoo tiag tiag. Ua tsaug rau koj sib koom nws nrog peb, enjoyed nyeem nws thiab nws qhib kuv ob lub qhov muag rau lub pitfalls ntawm kev tawm. :) hlub & Kev sib haum xeeb.
Raws nraim vim kuv ZWM deleted kuv Fakebook thaum ntxov 2012. Ib yam li cas kuv muab cable TV hauv 2001, Kuv tsis nco xws li Fakebook los yog TV. FB ua rau nws yooj yim hlub koj tus kheej, dab mlom. Nyob rau hauv lub computer rau kev ua hauj lwm (yees duab editing) Yog vim li cas vim li cas kuv tsis xav siv sij hawm nyob rau hauv kuv lub sij hawm dawb, Tiam sis nws yog ib qho yooj yim rau khib nyiab lub sij hawm rau lub computer. Yog hais tias kuv nyob rau YouTube, Nws yog saib edifying yeeb yaj duab los ntawm lwm christians. Kuv XAV kom txhua christian nyeem tsab xov xwm no: “Ua peb Souls nrog Facebook” Shane Hipps (Qhov xwm Journal dot com)
Heev xav provoking!
Wow, ncej zoo kawg thiab, Kuv yeej foom koob hmoov rau kuv.
Omg kuv yog li txhaum xya hnub los raws nraim li koj hais dab tsi …siv sij hawm nyob rau facebook uas yuav tsum tau siv nyob rau hauv lo lus! Kuv nyiam no blog…khaws cov kev paub los!
Kuv nyiam koj txoj hauj lwm balanced; Tsis kiag li condemning kev tawm, Tau taw tawm cov teeb meem/nyiam rau sinfulness. Reminds kuv ntawm iLove.
ntsiab lus zoo. Tsaug sib koom kuv xav tau nws .
Ua tsaug koj mus sib qhia! Excellent reminders ntawm li cas peb yuav tsum ceev faj peb tus kheej thaum nws tawm los rau kev tawm.
Ua tsaug koj Jessica rau tsab xov xwm no & ua tsaug rau xo rau fb ces kuv pom nws & tuaj rau blog nyeem nws.
Zoo kawg thiab sau tau! Xav provoking kom paub tseeb…nco ntsoov qhia nws tus kheej!
Wow! Qhov no yog amazing! Txhua taw tes ntaus kuv thiab kuv yeej yuav tsum tau hnov nws. Ua tsaug ntau. Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov!
Ua tsaug ntau heev rau sau qhov no. Nws yog li insightful heev thiab tau pab kuv heev nyob rau hauv recognizing tias kuv yuav tsum tau txwv kuv lub sij hawm nrog kev tawm. Muaj ntau yam uas koj twb piav yog tag nrho tej yam uas kuv yuav txheeb rau. Siv sij hawm ntau heev rau kev tawm tsis beneficial rau kuv dab blog muaj yeej muab tso rau lo lus rau kuv. Dua tsaug heev
Chaw rau cov xov tooj 4 rau kuv. Ib tug saib – Tsaug
Tsaug sau tsab xov xwm no; Tsab xov xwm no yog muab sau ua lus teb.
Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov rau koj sib koom no. Kuv yuav tsum tau ntshiab thiab xav xijpeem kuv ua hauv online/offline. Hlub thiab muaj kev sib haum xeeb
Tsab xov xwm txaus! Zoo articulated thiab balanced. Tsaug rau sib koom
Muaj txim txhaum raws li them rau tag nrho 5 ntsiab lus…Ua tsaug rau qhov koj.
Tsab xov xwm no ntes tau kuv qhov muag ceev vim kuv txoj hauj lwm yog hauv internet thiab ib feem ntawm nws yog kev tawm. Ua ntej qhov no yog kuv txoj hauj lwm kuv yuav kiag li txheeb rau qhov no. Nws yeej yuav yog ib lub sij hawm yog hais tias tsis muaj tswj nws tus kheej. Nws yuav tsum tau ib yam dab tsi approached uas ceev faj kom paub tseeb tias!
Kuv pom qhov txuas rau kuv Facebook thiab yog dreading nyeem nws vim kuv paub nws yuav txhaum kuv thiab hnub no kuv hais tias, “ua li… Cia kuv muaj nws.” lol. Cia li txog txhua yam nyob rau hauv no yog muaj tseeb txog li cas kuv siv kuv lub sij hawm hauv internet thiab kuv yuav xav tias tus neeg uas sau tau tsab xov xwm no yuav tsis tau muab lo qhov no yog hais tias nws twb tsis struggled nrog nws tus kheej nyob rau hauv tej txoj kev. Li ntawd, nws tseem zoo paub tias muaj lwm tus neeg nqa los yog puas tau nqa tib yam tab kaum. Thaum lub tsev teev ntuj koj yuav xav hais tias koj tsis lees txais khoom li no, Vim peb tau tsim lub tswv yim tias tsis muaj leej twg struggles nrog nws. Yog lwm hnub kuv twb tham rau kuv tus txiv thiab qhia nws li cas kuv deleted tej apps rau kuv ipod (Yog kuv tseem muaj ib tug ipod thiab tsis muaj iphone, xaiv) Vim hais tias nws tsim unhealthy/ungodly xav. Kuv siv ua si tsev tsim uas koj yuav tsim koj npau suav tsev thiab tig kuv yuav ua li depressed nrog lub tsev peb nyob hauv. Kuv tseem hlub ua si mall ntiaj teb rau FB thiab confessed rau kuv tus txiv uas kuv nyiam nws vim kuv avatar yog ib tug neeg kuv tsis, Nws yog zoo nkauj, tawv nqaij, Ywj siab thiab nws yog fantasy tias kuv txaus siab nyob ntawm. Tej zaum kuv suab weird los yog neeg yuav xav tias kuv muab ntau dhau lawm tab sis qhov no yog kuv tus kheej txim ua txhaum. Ua tsaug rau reinforcing dab tsi kuv paub los sib koom koj tus kheej txim ua txhaum nrog peb txawj sau ntawv thiab lwm commenters.
Kuv yuav tau deleting kuv Facebook thiab Instagram rau ib pliag. Qhov no yog kuv tsim hu. Kuv tus txiv twb tau qhia kuv txog qhov no thiab cov discontentment tau ncaim deb deb! Ua tsaug koj Jessica!
lol qhov no yog li muaj tseeb tiag.. qhov zoo ces, Kuv twb tshem tawm kuv kev networking nyiaj txog 3 xyoo dhau los :D
Ncej zoo kawg thiab!
Uas yog tiag! Tau kuv xav!
ua tsaug! Kuv yuav coj ib lub limtiam ntev so ntawm Facebook, Tug, Thiab Instagram thiab ua hauj lwm rau cov kev sib raug zoo kuv muaj nrog cov neeg kuv pom nyob rau hauv kuv lub neej txhua hnub.
Khoom zoo heev! Kuv yog ib tug me nyuam kawm ntawv qib high school thiab qhov hais txog muab npaum li cas Tshuag rau hauv retweets thiab nyiam yog li muaj tseeb! Kuv mas nws yeej xav tias muaj tej yam zoo uas yuav tuaj ntawm Twitter/Facebook tab sis nws yog txog qhov twg koj lub plawv yog!
Pav: Treasures txhua hnub | Treasuring Christ
Wow ua Vaj tswv uas yog sau rau kuv,Tej zaum lub neej yuav foom koob hmoov rau koj thiab koj tsev neeg. Dawm yeej ib txwm tau tus txiv neej hnub lub suab paj nruag,Tej zaum kuv yuav ua tib zoo xav txog tej uas kuv nyeem hauv phau Vajlugkub.
Facebook dawb Fridays?! Koom kuv! :P tag nrho lub hlis ntawm lub kaum hli ntuj!
Pav: Rau tus hlub ntawm Lupe
Yeej zoo ncej! Kev tawm yuav muaj me ntsis ntau heev tab sis thaum kuv pom souls mus txog thiab lawv yuav cog rau hauv ib lub tsev teev ntuj nrog lawv tsev neeg thiab muab rau neeg noj nyob rau hauv lub tsev teev ntuj thiab nyob rau hauv lawv lub zej zog nrog tsev neeg.. Uas yog amazing rau kuv.
Wow. Qhov no yeej hais rau kuv thiab kuv txaus siab rau nws. Nws yog li articulated thiab muaj ib co tswv yim zoo kawg thiab rau txoj kev los muaj kev cuam tshuam. ua tsaug!
Ua tsaug rau koj xo no! Kuv thiaj zoo siab Vaj tswv coj kuv mus rau koj blog hnub no vim kuv mas nws yeej yuav tsum tau nyeem qhov no!
Kuv hlub los no blog thiab nyeem tag nrho cov posts txaus los dawm thiab nws tus poj niam. Khaws cov hauj lwm zoo koj ob leeg!!! Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov.
wow
Qhov no cia li muab kuv pom tias kuv xav tias kuv muaj
Dawm thiab nws tsev neeg yog pure blessings.
Uas tshwm sim tej zaum tsis nws ????
lolz !!!
Yog li ntawd, yeej muaj tseeb tiag, koj yuav siv sij hawm kom deb ntawm vajtswv kuj yuav tsis zoo li muaj lub sij hawm 4 Nws peb mam li txiav nws tawm ua lub sij hawm
txaus nyeem ntawv. tuaj nyob, Kuv siv sij hawm ntau heev saib zoo nkauj tub thiab zoo nkauj yam thiab tau ntes tau los ntawm tag nrho cov superficial yam rau tumblr tias kuv yuav thawb Vaj tswv sab nraud. Nws yog ib tug tu siab, tu siab tshaj plaws; Kuv yuav tau nyeem ntawv rau nws lo lus thiab siv sij hawm ntau nrog nws….Tsaug rau lub qhov muag opener!
Wow. Kuv xav tias kuv twb ua zoo vim kuv twb nyuam qhuav rau ob tes hauj lwm. Qhov no mas nws yeej pab kuv xyuas kuv tus kheej. Kuv xav tias vim kuv tsis sinning kuv twb kheej, Thiab tau kawg muaj ib txwm chav rau kev txhim kho.
Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov rau koj sib koom no thiab ua tsaug! Ncej no cia li tau kuv xav txog lub sij hawm kuv khib nrog kev tawm thiab nws tes hauj lwm tes hauj lwm. Nws tau pab kuv rov xav li cas kuv tabtom ua nrog lub sij hawm.
Kuv pom zoo nrog txhua kis. Kuv kom paub tseeb tias muaj tau tsis txhob instagram vim kuv nrhiav tau kuv tus kheej piv kuv tus kheej piv kuv tus kheej rau lwm cov ntxhais nyob ntawd. Yog tsis zoo xav ungrateful. Kuv nyiam saib tej tsiaj txhu. Lol
Kuv pom tias deleting kuv fb, instagram nyiaj heev heev. Kuv xav tias nws yog zoo kom nrog tsev neeg nyob deb apart ho. :)
Yav tom ntej blog! Koj puas muaj tswv yim thiab hints rau aspiring writers?
Kuv npaj pib kuv lub website sai tab sis kuv yog me ntsis poob rau txhua yam.
Koj puas npaj siab pib nrog ib platform dawb platform xws li WordPress los yog mus rau ib txoj kev xaiv them? Muaj ntau txoj kev xaiv muaj tias kuv lig overwhelmed ..
Tswv yim? ua tsaug!