5 Izingibe Zokufihla Ukuthi Social Media

iposi Guest kusuka Jessica Barefield

Mangiqale ngokunikeza nesitatimende. Lesi sihloko akukhona mayelana nendlela media okubi yezenhlalakahle. Asetshenziswa ngokulinganisela, nangesimo senhliziyo ukuma, kungaba into enhle. Iphuzu yalesi sihloko aveze ezinye izindlela inkundla yezokuxhumana kungaba kuwugibe ngoba impilo yobuKristu futhi kukukhuthaze ukuba uhlole inhliziyo yakho uma kuziwa ukusetshenziswa media social nokuhlanganyela. Lawa ngezindlela ezinhlanu esingagwema ngazo inkundla yezokuxhumana kungaba izifiso zethu eziyisono kodwa.

1. ezokuxhum kungaba ukuchitha isikhathi sakho

Lokhu akulutho asizange lithethwa, kodwa kusuke kukufanelekele ukuli- kokuphindaphinda. Sikhumbula-Efesu 5:16-17 ukuthi izinsuku zimbi futhi kufanele senze ngendlela engcono kakhulu isikhathi esiwuphiwe. Akhe ucabange umzuzwana ukuthi kungakanani ongakufeza ngabe uyakwenza esikhundleni ngibheka yonke kulawo masayithi. Ngesikhathi elinde at aphoyintimenti, sasingakwazi gcina uhlu yabantu ukuthi bathandazele efonini yethu futhi sokuyisebenzisa leyo imizuzu owengeziwe ngomthandazo umkhaya nabangane bethu. Ngokuqinisekile, ngesinye isikhathi noma olunye, thina sonke enecala amahora on Facebook in ngosuku futhi ungalokothi evula iZwi likaNkulunkulu. Njengoba zonke mzuzu kuyisipho esivela eNkosini, kuyakufanelekela uzibuze, "Ingabe kukhona okuthile okungcono konke ngangokuba ngingagudluza uchitha isikhathi engisichitha kuyi?" Isikhathi esiningi, impendulo cishe yebo.

2. ezokuxhum unikeza isiteji emcabangweni wakho zonke

Ngicabanga womfelandawonye ukuthumela zokuxhumana kungaba ukuphamba ucabange kulungile post nanoma yini nje. We akhononde, thina ngokungaziwa bash abantu, thina abadelela abantu abasegunyeni, futhi sisho noma yini esingase sicabange ngayo osaziwayo, njengoba uma bengekho abantu bangempela. Siyakholwa asifuni ngempela ukuphendula ngoba kukho. Ungakhohliswa by ngemsitheleni ngelawini lakho njengamanje-ngeke kube nalutho yangasese lapho simi phambi kukaNkulunkulu ophilayo futhi anikeze i-akhawunti amazwi ethu. UMathewu liyasixwayisa pretty ngokuchachileyo, "Ngosuku lokwahlulela, ke abantu bayonipha akhawunti ngawo wonke amagama abanganaki bakhuluma. "Ake sibone ukhumbule lesi exwayisa ngokuzayo lapho ubuyekeze isimo sethu.

3. Izingosi Zokuxhumana kunga- discontentment

Lapho sizinika isikhathi eside ethela ngalokho abanye abakwenzayo bethi, it ibuyisela izingqondo zethu zonke izinto thina akudingeki noma uphuthelwa. Kungabangela ukuba sihlole ukuthi kungani ukuphila kwethu ungabheki okufanayo. Kungani ngicabanga ukuthi leyo ngcaphuno iqukethe? Ngifisa umuzwa wakhe isitayela. indlu yabo yokuqala sibabi kakhulu kunakuqala kuneyethu! Uma singanakile, imizuzu engamashumi amathathu on Facebook noma Pinterest kungase kukushiye abakhiqizi, alithandeki, futhi underwhelmed ngempilo yakho uqobo. AmaHebheru uyasinxusa, "Gcina ukuphila kwakho kungeyona mahhala kusuka makungabi ngokokufisa imali, yaneliswani lokho onakho, ngoba Uthé, 'Angisoze ngakushiya noma akulahle.' "Singaba ekugcineni yaneliswani izimpilo zethu njengoba amakholwa ngoba sinikwa konke esikudingayo kuKristu. Buza wena ukuthi ukusebenzisa kwakho kokusetshenziswa media social uyakusiza ukholwa leli qiniso.

4. Izingosi Zokuxhumana kunga- yokuziqhenya futhi sigcine wena ngaphakathi igxile

ezokuxhum kungaba ngokushesha baba yesikhulumi yethu siqu self-ukukhuthazwa. Kufanele sizibuze ukuthi iyiphi ngempela isisusa sethu iwukuba ukuthumela izinto senza. Ingabe thina ngifuna nje nomuntu ozozwelana nami noma udumo? Ingabe sifuna ukuba kahle wacabanga noma isifuba ngezinto fun kade ngokwenza? Ingabe njalo hlola zingaki "ukuthandwa" noma "retweets" post yakho got? Zonke lezi zinto uphethiloli ukuqhosha futhi sihlale sigxilile kithi ngokwethu. Lokhu kungaba kuwugibe nzima ikakhulukazi ubani onezinto a platform ukuthi sidlulela ngalé abangane nemindeni yabo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukwenza umculo noma abe blog okuthandwayo, nje kufanele ngoba izinkulungwane zabantu abalalele akusho konke efikayo engqondweni kuwufanele ethi. Kumelwe sikhumbule ukuthi retweets, imibono, futhi ukuthandwa musa ngokuzenzakalelayo ukunikeza semthethweni to uposana thina. UNkulunkulu ubona isisusa wezinhliziyo zethu futhi akakaze yileyo post amathekisthi akheke kahle. Njengoba ngangifunda Samuweli 2:3 ziyaxwayisa, "Musa qhubeka ukhuluma ngakho ngeqholo noma ake umlomo wakho ukukhuluma khukhumala enjalo, ngokuba uJehova unguNkulunkulu wokwazi ngubani owaziyo ngaYe izenzo zilinganiswa nguye. "

5. Izingosi Zokuxhumana ungakwazi ukuba sisibheke ngombono ongafanele ubudlelwano

Ngoba wonke sizuze social media analo ubudlelwano, kukhona ethile. Kulula ukuhambisana nalawo ongase uthande (mhlawumbe lula kakhulu?). Ingabe kusadingeka ejulile, izingxoxo ezakhayo ngesiqu? Kulula ukuhambisana eningi nabantu obathandayo-futhi eziningi kubantu alazi (mhlawumbe abaningi kakhulu?). Ingabe oversaturated enemininingwane 300 ezimpilweni zabantu ukuthi ubhekene awawenzi ngendlela umsebenzi ezinhle omthandayo 10 abantu ubona masonto onke? Singasho ngokushesha siziqeqeshe abathengi kolwazi esikhundleni abathandi abantu. Ukwazi khona ngepilo yomunye umuntu kanye nokwabelana konke ngokuphila kwakho nge ezokuxhum akufani ngokuthi umngane wangempela. Yebo uJesu uyisibonelo esiphelele ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba umngane wangempela. Njengoba uJesu ufundisa, "Umyalo wami yilo: Bethandana njengoba nje nami nginithandile. Ithando elikhulu umuntu kunalokhu, ukuthi adele ukuphila kwakhe ngenxa yabangane bakhe. "Ubungane ingaphezu isamba ozibhalile nezithombe. Ubungane umhlatshelo. It niyothwala imithwalo yomunye nomunye. Akukona nje virtual-kufanele ibe ingabonakali.

Jessica Barefield uhlala eWashington D.C. nomyeni wakhe Trip, nendodana yabo Q. Ungafunda okuningi kusuka ku wakhe ibhulogi yakhe, Like To Love.

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  1. XavierPhendula

    Lokhu kuyiqiniso ngakho. Ngizokwenza obala ngivume ukuthi ukuchitha amahora amahora futhi lithatha isikhathi sami izinsuku zokuxhumana futhi wonke amaphuzu baletha, Angikwazi ngqo ezihlobene. Ngazi engqondweni nasenhliziyweni yami ukuthi ngifuna futhi kufanele uyalusika, noma kunciphise kakhulu ke, kodwa akulula. Kodwa umyalezo uye wadlulisela futhi amazwi kaNkulunkulu oyisebenzisayo ukuze baqinise le ukukhuluma kimi ngokucacile. Ngiyabonga kakhulu ngalesi sihloko :)

  2. TyronPhendula

    ukufunda kakhulu! Aliphindanga ezihilelekile ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi kuze kancane ngaphezu konyaka odlule futhi lezi ezinye izizathu zokuthi kungani. Sengikwenzile ababecabanga mayelana nokususa amanethiwekhi zami zenhlalo ukugxila kulokho kumele igxile. ULoti ngezimfanelo ezinhle anazo lapha. Ngiyabonga ngokuthatha isikhathi sakho ukubhala sabelane.

  3. DanielaPhendula

    Hewu! Kuyiqiniso. I nakanjani okudingeka usebenzele kuzo engayitholi yami zokuxhumana. Lokhu kakhulu esiningi omunye kakhulu izizathu ngayeka zingangeni Pinterest. Siyabonga ngokwabelana.

  4. StaceyPhendula

    Ngiyabonga kakhulu for ukuthumela lokhu. Bengilokhu belwa ngokwami ​​ngokufika Facebook. Kubonakala muva nje bonke akwenzayo kuyinto ukwenza uyahlanya uthukuthele. Lokhu kwaba konke engangikudinga ukuze bayozwa ngiphindelela lapho ngidinga ukhunjuzwe. Ngiyabonga futhi Trip. Inkosi ikubusise.

  5. Eulaivi ClutarioPhendula

    Wena sasikhuthaza! Ngakho amaphuzu eziningi ezinhle unayo lapha. Dumisani uNkulunkulu ukuhlakanipha kwakho lokho kuyaqondakala, uma futhi ingenqophileko isizukulwane sethu! :)

  6. yeboPhendula

    Mina ogawulelwé enhliziyweni yilo ukwabelana onamandla. Ngikholwa ukuthi konke latholakala lisilela kule ndawo. Siyabonga Trip futhi uJessica. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angaqhubeka esisebenzisa wena .

  7. CLARAPhendula

    Ngiyabonga Jessica kakhulu la mazwi ayiqiniso ngakho nokuqiniseka inikezwe. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angaqhubeka esisebenzisa wena nendlu wena :-)

  8. AngelaPhendula

    Siyabonga lokhu okuthunyelwe khanyisa! Lokhu kufanele kusishukumisele ukuba silungise amehlo ethu kuJesu, ngaphansi kwabanye futhi self.

    Izibusiso!

  9. MarkPhendula

    Ngibonga kakhulu, Okwe “abantu kancane” nge out izwi likhuluma izinombolo ukucabanga kwethu “yezenhlalakahle” Inani lisuselwa zokuxhumana. Siyabonga call wake up !

  10. Oyishoma EmmanuelPhendula

    Lokho kuyiqiniso. Thina ukuchitha isikhathi esiyigugu ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi okungenanjongo, futhi noma nini lapho injongo akukhona emhlabathini, ukuhlukunyezwa akunakugwenywa. Mina ngokwami ​​ngiphephile enecala lokhu ngezinye izikhathi; kodwa i uthandazele umusa ukuqondisa kabusha izinto eziza kuqala kimi.

  11. Adin MOOREPhendula

    Lona iposi ezinhle ngempela. Siyabonga ngokwabelana nathi, wayekujabulela ukulifunda futhi amehlo ngibone izingibe zokuxhumana. :) Grace & Ukuthula.

  12. JosephPhendula

    Uqinisile kungani mina unaphakade isusiwe Fakebook yami ekuseni 2012. Njenga nje indlela ngayeka ikhebula TV 2001, Angazi miss noma Fakebook noma i-TV. FB kwenza kube lula ukuba uzithande, okuwukukhonza izithombe. Ukuba kukhompyutha umsebenzi (ukuhlela ividiyo) isizathu esenza Angifuni ukuchitha isikhathi kuso ngesikhathi sami khulula, kodwa kulula ngakho ukuchitha isikhathi kukhompyutha. Uma Ngingumfana ku-YouTube, kungcono ukubuka amavidiyo uyakha kusuka namanye amaKristu. Ngincoma wonke amaKristu ukufunda lesi sihloko: “Owenza Imiphefumulo yethu nge-Facebook” ngu Shane Hipps (Okwesibili Nature Journal dot com)

  13. BarbaraPhendula

    Omg Ngacasuka zinecala by kahle ukuthi kusho …ukuchitha amahora amaningi ku facebook ukuthi kufanele kokuchitha egameni elithi! Ngiyakuthanda lokhu ibhulogi…ukugcina ulwazi uyeza!

  14. PriscillaPhendula

    Ngithanda isikhundla sakho olinganiselayo; ukuthi kubi ngokuphelele zokuxhumana, kodwa saveza izimpikiswano / ukuthambekela ngoba nesono. Kungikhumbuza iLove.

  15. UChristaPhendula

    Hewu! Kuyamangaza lokhu! Njalo iphuzu bangishaya empeleni okwakumelwe zithathwe yithi nikuzwe. Ngibonga kakhulu. inkosi ikubusise!

  16. pinkPhendula

    Ngiyabonga kakhulu ekubhaleni lo. Kuyinto ngakho anokuqonda kakhulu futhi kuye kwangisiza kakhulu ekuboneni ukuthi ngidinga ukunciphisa isikhathi engisichitha nge zokuxhumana. Izinto eziningi esikhathazeka ngazo uke echazwe konke mina bangayiqonda. Ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi kakhulu entweni izingosi zokuxhumana nabantu emoyeni Akuzuzisi umoya wami ibhulogi yakho esebeké ngempela ngamazwi mina. Nalapha ngiyabonga kakhulu

  17. Clement MagomboPhendula

    UNkulunkulu akubusise ngokwabelana lokhu. Ngidinga ukuba okumsulwa futhi ukucabangela e kukho konke engikwenzayo inthanethi / okungaxhunyiwe ku-intanethi. Makube kini umusa nokuthula

  18. AdamPhendula

    Lesi sihloko ebanjwe iso lami esheshayo ngoba umsebenzi wami ku-inthanethi futhi ingxenye enkulu kuba zokuxhumana. Ngaphambi lokhu kwaba umsebenzi wami ngangingakwazi ngokuphelele ezihlobene lokhu. It ngempela kungaba isikhathi umchithi uma kungekho ukuzithiba. Kufanele kube yinto wasondela ngokuqapha ngokuqinisekile!

  19. nishaPhendula

    Ngabona ukuthi lokhu kuxhumana Facebook yami futhi dreading ukusifunda ngoba ngangazi ukuthi ngabe ngecala kimi namuhla Ngathi, “Kulungile… Nginike ke.” lol. Cishe yonke into lapha kuyiqiniso ngendlela ngichitha isikhathi sami inthanethi bese ngiya siphethe ngokuthi umuntu owabhala lesi sihloko kwakungeke uthumele le ukube akazange wahlushwa yena ngokwakhe lokhu ngandlela-thile. Ngakho-ke kuyinto enhle ukwazi ukuthi kukhona nabanye abantu abenza noma sithwale umthwalo efanayo. Esontweni uvamise ukuba nomuzwa wokuthi kufanele alivume izinto kanje, ngoba sidale umqondo wokuthi akekho omunye uzabalaza ke. Vele ngoluny'usuku Bengikhuluma nomyeni wami ngimtshela indlela mina kusulwe ezinye izinhlelo zokusebenza ku-ipod yami (yebo engisenayo i ipod hhayi i iphone, bethanda) ngoba wadala okungenamsoco / wayengacabangi ngendlela kaNkulunkulu. Ngisebenzisa ukudlala Ikhaya Design lapho ungakha iphupho lakho ekhaya bese Ngingathanda bayacindezeleka kanjalo indlu siphila. Mina namanje ukudlala Mall Umhlaba on FB, wavuma umyeni wami ukuthi ngiyasithanda ngoba avatar yami othile Angiyena, yena pretty, Skinny, independant futhi kuba fantasy engiluthandayo nephilayo edabula. Mhlawumbe mina umsindo uyinqaba noma abantu bangase bacabange ngahlanganyela kakhulu kodwa lokhu kuqiniseka yami. Siyabonga yokugcizelela engikwaziyo ngokwabelana ukuqiniseka kwakho siqu nathi umbhali kanye nezinye amazwana.

  20. ChinaJohnsonPhendula

    I uzobe nokusula Facebook yami Instagram isikhashana. Lokhu kwaba call wake up yami. abayeni zami iye ukungitshela ngalokhu kanti discontentment uye babi kakhulu! Ngiyabonga UJessica!

  21. RJPhendula

    Ngiyabonga! Ngingumfana Gonna ukuthatha isonto kwekhefu elide kusuka ku-Facebook, imeyili, futhi Instagram kanye nomsebenzi kulawo ubudlelwano enginakho nabantu ngibona empilweni yami yansuku zonke.

  22. TylerPhendula

    izinto Mangalisayo! Ngingumfana okusezingeni eliphezulu umfundi esikoleni futhi ingxenye mayelana yokuncika kakhulu ku retweets futhi ukuthandwa kuyiqiniso! Ngicabanga yabo ezinye izinto ezinhle ezingaba uphume Twitter / Facebook kodwa kumayelana lapho inhliziyo eyikho!

  23. Yisho: Amagugu Daily | ngazisa uKristu

  24. THOMASSINGWAPhendula

    Wow siyambonga uNkulunkulu, kwalotshwa ngenxa kimi,Kungenzeka okuphe ukuphila njalo ngikubusise, family.Trip yakho bekulokhu indoda sezinsuku Umculo,writtens njll igcina awake.we kimi ukubonga uNkulunkulu njalo ngani

  25. Yisho: Ukuze Uthando Lupe

  26. MirandaPhendula

    iposi ezinhle Ngempela! Izingosi Zokuxhumana kungaba kancane kakhulu kodwa uma ngibona imiphefumulo ukufinyelela futhi zitshalwa ku esontweni nemindeni yabo futhi ukhonza ebandleni, emphakathini yabo nemindeni.. Yilokho amazing kimi.

  27. KeinyaPhendula

    Hewu. Lokhu wakhuluma ngempela kimi ngiyajabula. Kuthinta Lwendzabuko kuvela kahle futhi anezinye iseluleko esihle ngezindlela ezibonisa. Ngiyabonga!

  28. noMarjoriePhendula

    Siyabonga ukuthumela lokhu! Ngijabula kakhulu uNkulunkulu kwangenza ngenza ngokuphambene ibhulogi yakho namuhla ngoba ngangifuna ngempela ukufunda lesi!

  29. JerdonPhendula

    Ngiyakuthanda eza kule blog bese ufunda konke lokhu okuthunyelwe ezesabekayo Trip nomkakhe. Qhubeka nomsebenzi omuhle kuwe ezimbili!!! inkosi ikubusise.

  30. pelumiPhendula

    Hewu
    lokhu nje wanginika Ukubona kangcono ukuthi ngangicabanga ukuthi nganginakho
    Trip nomkhaya wakhe bangama-izibusiso okumsulwa.

  31. TheMesengerPhendula

    Lokho sooooo kweqiniso kungathatha isikhathi kude unkulunkulu futhi ngeke kubonakale bona ube nesikhathi 4 kuye sizobe lunqume wenze isikhathi

  32. katPhendula

    wokufundwayo amangalisayo. Kuyavunywa, i uchitha isikhathi esiningi kakhulu ubuka abafana kuhle nezinto elimtoti futhi ukubanjwa ugibe lwalokho ngazo zonke lezi zinto olukha phezulu ku tumblr ukuthi i bathambekele ngiqhelise Nkulunkulu. kungcono elidabukisayo, into edabukisa; i angase nokufunda ngezindaba izwi lakhe, ukuchitha isikhathi esengeziwe naye….siyabonga ngikwazi ukuqala iso!

  33. -CharityPhendula

    Hewu. Ngangicabanga ukuthi ukwenza okuhle ngenxa nje yokuthi ngangiyisakhamuzi amanethiwekhi nje ezimbili. Lokhu bangisiza hlola ngokwami. Ngacabanga ngoba ngangiyijabulela abangoni mina Beyilungile, futhi yebo kukhona njalo usengathuthuka.

  34. uzifihlaPhendula

    UNkulunkulu akubusise ngokwabelana lokhu futhi siyabonga! Lokhu okuthunyelwe Usanda kimi ecabanga ngesikhathi mina ukuchitha nomphakathi wezindaba namanethiwekhi yayo. Iye yangisiza kabusha ucabanga engikwenzayo nge isikhathi.

  35. MercyPhendula

    Ngivumelana zonke iphuzu. Mina ngokuqinisekile aye ukugwema Instagram ngoba ngazithola sengizibuza Ngokuqhathanisa self yami namanye amantombazane lapho. Akukuhle ukuzizwa ngabongi. Ngiyathanda ebuka izilwane cute. lol
    Ngabuka nokusula fb yami, Instagram akhawunti e izikhathi eziningi. Angicabangi ukuthi kuhle ukuhambisana amalungu omndeni ziqhelelene Nokho. :)

  36. ekhaya lokubhalelaPhendula

    ibhulogi Ovelele! Ingabe kukhona amathiphu kanye namacebo sifisa abalobi?
    Ngithathe uhlela ukuqala iwebhusayithi yami ngokushesha kodwa nginesiqiniseko ngididekile kuyo yonke into.

    Ungathanda ukuphakamisa eziqala platform khulula like WordPress noma iya kukho ikhokhwe? Kube nezindlela eziningi kangaka phandle ukuthi Angivumelani neze sikhungathekile ..
    Noma yimuphi imibono? Ngiyabonga!