Cén fáth a raibh mé Get Pósta sin Young?

Inné rinne mé stad go déanach san oíche ag an siopa a grab roinnt rudaí agus bhí mé comhrá an-spéisiúil leis an airgeadóir. Rinne muid labhairt beag mar scanta sí mo míreanna, agus ansin thairg sí dom cárta lascaine, ach dúirt mé léi mo bhean chéile a bhí ar cheann cheana. Sin é nuair a fuair an comhrá spraoi. Tá a fhios agam an chomhrá ar fad go maith freisin mar tá mé go raibh sé go leor uair roimh. Téann sé rud éigin mar seo ...

duine: Cad!? Tá tú pósta?

Me: Yeah Tá mé pósta ar feadh dhá bhliain go leith bliain iontach.

duine: Cén aois thú? Fhéachann tú cosúil le leanbh.

Me: Tá mé fiche trí.

duine: Tá tú chomh óg! Cén fáth a mbeadh ar fud an domhain a dhéanann tú go?

Me: Cén fáth nach ba mhaith liom?

i 2009, Fuair ​​mé pósta ar an aois barely dlíthiúil agus barely respectable de fiche bliain d'aois. Le linn mo courtship, rannpháirtíocht, agus pósadh gearr, Tá mé ag iarradh arís agus arís eile ar nós ceisteanna, "Cén fáth a bheith pósta amhlaidh óg? Cad é an Rush?”, agus mo is fearr leat pearsanta, "Ba chóir duit a bheith waited agus taitneamh do shaol!”

Bhí cuid de na folks ag cur na gceisteanna strainséirí, ach bhí roinnt teaghlach. Bhí mé ar mire chun pósadh ag a leithéid de "óg” aois?

Bhuel lig dom a thabhairt duit trí chúis chinn mé a bheith pósta nuair a rinne mé.

1. Casadh bean godly

Mar freshman ocht mbliana d'aois i Bíobla gcoláiste, Ní raibh mé ag lorg go gníomhach do bhean chéile, ach chonaic Dia oiriúnach a thabhairt isteach dom le bean óg tar éis a chroí. Bhí sí go hálainn, ach níos tábhachtaí grá sí Íosa. Bhí sí ar an eolas go raibh sí ina peacach bhfuil gá acu le grásta Dé, agus bhí sí ina humble, croí teachable. Dar críoch muid suas a bheith mar chuid den séipéal céanna, mar sin fuair mé chun féachaint ar a sheirbheáil, fás, agus go dílis a thabhairt di am do dhaoine eile. Thosaigh mé chun labhairt le mo ciorcal istigh faoina. Mo chairde, meantóirí, agus pastors go léir aontaithe – Bhí sí ina bean godly. Raibh mé in ann a fheiceáil mé féin ag siúl léi agus grámhara a don chuid eile de mo shaol.

2. Bhí mé réidh

Faoin am seo thosaigh mé ag smaoineamh ar an réaltacht an phósta agus cad a chiallaíonn sé a thiomnú féin do dhuine ar feadh an tsaoil. D'iarr mé féin an bhfuil nó nach raibh mé aibí agus atá freagrach go leor. Chuardaigh mé tríd an Scrioptúir agus shíl mé faoi na freagrachtaí a fear céile, agus labhair siad le cairde pósta agus meantóirí. Tar éis go leor de urnaí agus comhrá, mo meantóirí agus na pastors i mo eaglais dúradh liom cheap siad go raibh mé réidh le dul sa tóir uirthi. Bhí elated mé. Ach ní ba mhaith liom a shaothrú léi má shíl mé nach raibh mé sásta a bheith i gceannas spioradálta di, chur ar fáil dá, agus a bheith ar an ceann an teaghlaigh.

3. Tá Marriage blessing

Ar dtús, bhraith mé mar a bhí mé a chruthú do na lucht tuathail go dul ag pósadh óga ceart go leor uaireanta. Ach nuair a d'fhéach mé sna Scrioptúir Ní raibh mé ag teacht rudaí mar, "Is ionann Pósadh báis! Teitheadh ​​ó sé!” nó, "Cuir pósadh amach go dtí nach féidir leat é a chur amach ar bith níos faide,” nó, "Ach a bheith pósta nuair a bhíonn tú ró-shean saol chun taitneamh a bhaint,” nó, "Seinn an réimse ar feadh tamaill agus ansin roghnaigh an ceann is fearr.”

orduithe áit sin fuair mé mar, "Teitheadh ​​lust óige”, agus léigh mé pasáistí cosúil Seanfhocal 18:22 a deir, "An té a fhaigheann a bhean fhaigheann rud maith agus faigheann bhfabhar ón Tiarna.”

Mar sin, nuair a rá le daoine, "Cad a possessed tú a bheith pósta amhlaidh óg?” Is é mo fhreagra nua, "Tá tú ag iarraidh ar an cheist mícheart.” I mo thuairimse, ag an fhréamh an cheist an toimhde go steals pósadh rud éigin ar shiúl ó dom, amhail is dá mba é m'óige á chur amú i ngrá íobartach tiomanta nuair a d'fhéadfadh é a úsáid do phléisiúr ócáideach, agus flakiness.

Tá Marriage bronntanas álainn ó Dhia! Is modh de ghrásta. Fuair ​​mé bean chéile, agus go bhfuil an rud maith. Ní aontaím leis an loighic a deir, a chur amach blessings saibhre Dé chomh fada agus is féidir leat. Ina áit sin, ba mhaith liom a rá go taitneamh a bhaint as bronntanais maith Dé agus iad maor as a chuid ghlóir.

Ní hé seo a rá gur chóir gach duine a fháil pósta nuair a rinne mé. Bheadh ​​sé imithe dona má ba mhaith liom iarracht a bheith pósta sula raibh mé réidh. Tá cuid de dúinn gá chun aibí níos, agus daoine eile de dúinn gá guí contentment agus muinín an Tiarna agus a chuid uainiú. Níl mo sprioc a rá go bhfuil an óige a fháil tú pósta, an níos naofa a bhfuil tú. Ba mhaith liom ach a dispel an miotas go mba cheart dúinn moill fásta agus nach mbreithneoidh siad ach pósadh nuair a bhíonn muid ag tríocha nó níos sine.

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Tá sé ar cheann de na cinntí is fearr a rinne mé riamh. Tá mé sásta agus holier ná mar a bhí mé dhá bhliain go leith ó shin, agus sin rud maith. Níl mé ag iarraidh a dhéanamh dealraíonn sé cosúil Tá mé roinnt aimhrialtacht Super annamh. Tá a fhios agam go leor folks a phós díreach chomh óg nó níos óige ná mise. Chonaic siad ró-pósadh mar bhronntanas agus tá siad le feiceáil ar an toradh sin bhronntanais. may mé féin agus mo bhean chéile a bheith óg anois, ach tá mé ag guí ar son grásta chun grá mo bhean chéile go maith go dtí deireadh ár saol. Go dtí sin ba mhaith liom a déanamh de réir an eagna an Seanfhocal agus "rejoice i an bhean chéile m'óige.”

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  1. Jannon FitzpatrickFreagra

    Agam nach respectfully aontaíonn le Kevin Ferere. Ní féidir leat a fhios cad is grá go dtí go tá a fhios agat atá Dia, toisc go bhfuil Dia grá! Ní dhéanann an Bíobla rud ar bith faoi dul timpeall nó idirghníomhú le daoine eile a fháil go ceann rá. Go deimhin, Isaac layed ar ar Rebecca agus bhí a fhios go raibh sí an ceann dó. Ní raibh sé an dáta thart nó labhairt Leah sin más rud é go raibh sí níos fearr mar sin bheadh ​​a fhios aige an bhfuil nó nach raibh Rachel ndáiríre cad a bhí sé nó nach bhfuil.

    Ag labhairt dó ó mo thaithí féin, Rinne mé an dáta daoine eile agus fuair cén grá nach raibh. Ní amháin ó mo caidrimh féin, ach ó mo thuismitheoirí’ agus deirfiúracha’ caidrimh. Ba é an fhadhb, Bhí siad caidrimh atá bunaithe ar an Word nó grá Dé agus sin an fáth nach raibh siad ag obair amach. Rinne mé teacht ar Man Godly, ionas gur féidir sé ag obair amach ar an mbealach sin a deir tú, ACH creidim ó chroí go más rud é go mbeadh mé tar éis fanacht agus cosanta mo chroí ó na caidrimh eile nach raibh ceart dom, Ba mhaith liom a bheith i riocht i bhfad níos fearr agus níos lú briste, a recieve mo fhear céile ó thaobh an bhean Godly ar seachas bean briste pheirspictíocht le bagáiste a bheith ag obair trí mheán.

    Gan easpa measa atá beartaithe, ach creidim go bhfuil ráiteas blaincéad den chuid is mó mícheart a d'fhéadfadh a stiúradh i ndáiríre hearts óga sa treo mícheart. (Google faisnéis maidir le godly ag dul vs. Ag dul Nua-Aimseartha. Níl roinnt rudaí gur maith i ann.)

    • KevinFerereFreagra

      éirigh tú chomh maith dom ceart. Is féidir leis an Bíobla a rá is cuma cad is mian leis, ach tá tú eispéiris ar fad agat a dul amach ar. Agus an té a ghlaonn tú Dia thagann ó bhuaic de an méid a múintear agus do thaithí. Ag an gcríoch, cad a chreideann tú go bhfuil rogha, ach cad a fhios agat go bhfuil a fhorchuirtear bheidh formheasta ag réaltacht.

      agus yeah, D'fhéadfadh an ráiteas a bheith ina ginearálta giotán, ach ba chóir é a ghlacadh le grán salainn, mar atá i rud ar bith.

      • Lokelani70Freagra

        Mé freisin go measúil Ní aontaím leis Kevin Ferere.
        Is é an rud amháin go bhfuil cruthaithe go rinne tú le cinneadh coinsiasa gan cónaí do shaol ar Dhia trína focal, an Bíobla. De bharr an méid, atá déanta againn an cinneadh chun cónaí ar ár saol i pósadh Godly, trí focal Dé. Is é fírinne an scéil, Ní bheidh duine a bhfuil an tuiscint iomlán an bhlag mura bhfuil Dia a chur ar dtús i amháin i saol.
        Ag guí ar GACH Póstaí! Dia Bless!

        • KevinFerereFreagra

          Rinne mé cinneadh comhfhiosach a aimsiú Dia dom féin agus ní ag an méid bhfuil duine éigin mhúin mé. Ná bíodh imní ort, Úsáid mé a bheith díreach cosúil leat.

          • AC

            Ba mhaith liom ach a rá, Ní féidir leat teacht ar Dhia. Dúirt an Bíobla táimid marbh. Is féidir le daoine Dead aon rud a. Dia fhaigheann dúinn.

        • Lokelani70Freagra

          Oh… Tá mé chomh leithscéal Kevin, ní mór duit a bheith ar dhaoine eatarthu. An Dia Freastal mé nach bhfuil Dia féin-iarrthóirí. Níl Buartha an toil Dé, ach grámhara eachother an oiread agus is loves sé dúinn go bhfuil! Cosúil scríobh mé cheana, cur Dia ar dtús a bhfuil ag teastáil a thuiscint go hiomlán an bhlag, mar a gcruthaíonn do fhreagra ar mo phointe. Bealtaine gach rud a rá linn agus a dhéanamh a bheith taitneamhach do Dhia. Dia Bless agus tá tú féin oíche iontach.

        • Lady Mukete ArnoldFreagra

          hahaha, choinneáil ag iarraidh, gheobhaidh tú Eisean- cuimhnigh Nochtann chruthú Eisean freisin. Infact, Feicfidh mé a thabhairt duit a trick, ach Pioc an Bhíobla agus téigh é a chaitheamh mar a bheadh ​​leabhar scéal faoi deara go léir na héilimh a dhéanann sé agus fiú iad a memorizing Ansin, seiceáil amach leabhair eile agus comparáid a dhéanamh ar na héilimh. Ach is cinnte beidh ort duine éigin a mhíniú duit somethings, ná a shealbhú ar ais toisc go bhfuil tú ag iarrthóir na fírinne.

        • KevinFerereFreagra

          Má chreideann tú i nDia an oiread agus is a deir tú a dhéanann tú, cén fáth a bhraitheann tú ar an ngá a chruthú dó an oiread sin? Ní dóigh liom go do Dhia, mar tá sé i dom. Tá mé Eisean agus tá sé dom. Ach Tá brón orm, Ní féidir leat a comprehend gur féidir leat?

        • DelinabiniFreagra

          aontaím conas is féidir leat a bheith le Dia agus conas is féidir Dia a bheith raibh tú a chruthú duit i ndáiríre tú féin má bhí tú a Dhia?

        • KevinFerereFreagra

          Tá brón orm, typo: *Ní féidir liom a chruthú Dhia. *

          Ach ciallaíonn an trácht méid a deir sé. Cibé rud a bhfuil tú taobh istigh, go bhfuil an méid a bhfuil tú. Ná bíodh eagla ort a glacadh leis go fhírinne díreach toisc go bhfuil tú múinte go bhfuil sé mícheart.

  2. addis HunterFreagra

    100 % Le túsa! Bhuail mé ró mo fhear céile ag 20 agus bliain ina dhiaidh bhí againn pósta. Tá mé go raibh go bhfuil an comhrá céanna le strainséirí randamach, teaghlach agus cairde agus mé ag iarraidh a spreagadh leat chun fanacht dílis don Tiarna agus do bhean álainn i ngach slí atá discribed sa focal. Mo fhear céile agus mé anois 30 bliain d'aois agus nuair a Deirim le daoine Tá mé “thugann” pósta ar feadh beagnach 10 blianta gasp siad!!! “Tá sé an-”?? Ag déanamh na tuairimí céanna doiléir de “wasting ár n-óige” etc etc. Ach tá Dia amhlaidh trócaireach agus maith dúinn go cant a chur in iúl i bhfocail conas a bheannaigh mé gur bhuail mo fhear céile nuair a rinne mé. Is breá linn reminising ar ár bliana coláiste le chéile, agus dreaming faoi na rudaí is fearr go bhfuil ár son saol atá amach romhainn! Táimid tar éis 2 cailíní álainn agus buachaill leanbh ar an mbealach (go bhfuil muid prayed humbly don bhliain seo agus Dia deonaíodh) , (atually tá mé dlite inniu ;-))..agus couldnt linn a bheith níos CINNTE go raibh sé ina aontas Devine ó Dhia a thabhairt dúinn le chéile.

    Ar ndóigh, NACH bhfuil muid foirfe (cé gur cosúil mo chairde a bhfuil sin mar níl muid aghaidh ar na fadhbanna coitianta worldly de unfaithfulness, drochmheas agus ag argóint leanúnach), ach dhéanaimid easaontais, swings giúmar, dificulties airgeadais srl, is é an difríocht go Ag brath muid ar Dhia a threorú ár céimeanna, meas againn ar a chéile agus iarracht ár ndícheall chun riamh chailleann FAITH, cumarsáid, agus treoir a lorg ón Spiorad Naomh mar lánúin agus tá individually..My fear céile na pearsan aonair is uathúil Bhuail mé riamh agus muid araon a thuiscint go bhfuil an eochair do sonas i pósadh NACH dhéanamh nó a cheannach “rudaí” a dhéanamh eachother sásta ach A fhios agam cé sinn i gCríost, tar éis a fheictear anois faoi phósadh agus grámhar a chéile gan choinníoll, beag beann ar ár flaws nó conas is féidir linn a “bhraitheann” ag an nóiméad , Beidh a fhios agam go SONAS a bheith i gcónaí ina emotion sealadach a théann amach, ach tagann Joy fíor ach amháin ón Tiarna.

    Ba mhaith liom tú féin agus do bhean chéile blianta fada de JOY Beannaithe!!!
    I love do cheol freisin ag an mbealach ;)..

  3. JoshFreagra

    turas,

    Tá tú sampla iontach do Críostaithe óga atá ag iarraidh a Móraim Dia ar an gcaoi a chóireáil siad mná! Go raibh maith agat! Fuair ​​mé díreach tar éis gabháil, Táim 22, agus táim ag tnúth le freastal ar an Tiarna i pósadh ar feadh na mblianta atá le teacht!

  4. Johnny_renteriaFreagra

    Creid nó ná creid, ach fuair mé pósta ag aois 18. Bhí mé ar aon bhealach réidh le bheith ina fhear céile sa chiall airgeadais agus bhí mé cheana athair. Ach amháin bhí thug mé mo shaol go dtí Críost agus bhí a fhios agam go mbeadh na mná a bhí mé leis an ceann ag fás le liom. Daoine a iarraidh orm na rudaí céanna chomh maith. Bhfaighidh mé brónach cé go bhfuil an pósadh le feiceáil mar droch-rud. Inniu, Bhí mé ag smaoineamh faoi sin agus tháinig mé ar an tuairim go bhfuil daoine a bheith chomh santach go an cumha glacadh freagrachta an duine eile beagnach dodhéanta. Ní Pósadh faoi cathain agus cén fáth a fuair tú pósta ach faoi cé atá dírithe ar fud phósadh. Agus ba chóir é a christ…

  5. DeborahFreagra

    i smaoineamh u r bhfuil trip..i ceart a frnd a phós @ 19 (iad hv bhí pósta 4 6 nw bl)n tá lkng @ di anois tuigimid seachas glacadh le Críost i rith a saoil dat d cinneadh is fearr a rinne sí riamh….cé go mór mé a admháil nach bhfuil mé réidh 2 a fháil married..it scares me cos nach bhfuil mé ag iarraidh 2 a hooked 2 d duine mícheart 4 Ní bheidh chuid d de mo shaol ach tá a fhios agam Íosa lig dom a dhéanamh d rogha mícheart…chomh maith i Wonder uaireanta y bheith pósta nuair a fháil i ar fad i mhaith ó Íosa n ní féidir leis a BRK mo HRT?….Bhí cinneadh ur ceart n gv u thumbs suas 4 a!:)

  6. Lance PetersonFreagra

    Awesome. Mo mhac phós freisin 2 1/2 bliain ó shin le bean godly iontach agus bhí siad araon an aois aibí d'aois de 19. Do Scéal gcuimhne dom acu.

  7. Brandon ClementsFreagra

    Is breá liom an Turas! Fuair ​​mé pósta ar 22 agus is breá liom go hiomlán mo phósadh. Tá sé greannmhar mar bhí mé díreach tar éis comhrá cosúil le comhghafach stáisiún gáis tuairim is mí ó shin. Tharraing sí an t-iomlán, “Cén fáth a fháil pósta nuair is féidir leat a bheith ar an bainne saor in aisce?” ceist agus mo chroí bhris ar a son. Ansin, chuaigh mé ar a insint di nach raibh mo bhean chéile bó–go raibh sí uamhnach agus is breá liom í.

    Go raibh maith agat do roinnt!

  8. Louib2001Freagra

    Mol an Tiarna duit dheartháir agus do bhean chéile álainn ar do óige. Guím go mbeidh an Tiarna Doirt bhfabhar go leanúnach ar fud do shaol, toisc go bhfuil tú Deineadh a chuid focal. tá mé 28 agus tá siad pósta anois le beagnach dhá bhliain agus mo bhean chéile agus tá mé le pósadh sona agus álainn 10 leanbh moth sean. Bhí mé i gcónaí a bheith pósta níos óige, ach creidim ní am fós dom go dtí go thug an Tiarna mo rud maith beagnach 5 fadó (a bheith beacht chasamar ar an lá fuair muid rugadh arís 31 nollaig 2006). Ní raibh a fhios agam againn nuair ndán a bheith le chéile mar a ghlac mé léi mar deirfiúr gnáthchomhalta a chur as séipéal. Bhí mé ag díriú chomh maith ar mo fás spioradálta, ach trí bliana ó shin mo shúile oscailte agus tá an chuid mar a deir siad stair.

    Tá sé i clár oibre Satan do dhaoine gan a bheith pósta, ionas go bhfuil cónaí orthu i pheaca agus tá a fhios againn cheana féin cad a tharlóidh. An bhfuil d'fhéachamar ar an ráta colscartha sa chorp inniu? Cad é faoi deartháireacha agus deirfiúr fornicating sa séipéal, mar gheall ar cad dictates sochaí.

    Má táimid ar conas ár gcathracha a líonadh le foréigean óige sa lá atá inniu, féidir linn a ghlacadh nóiméad chun smaoineamh ar roinnt de na cúiseanna fréimhe? Na luachanna nóiméad fear mhalairt Godly do Turasóireachta ciorclán ar fad a thit seo ar leith. Fiú tuismitheoirí Críostaí ag cur chun cinn ignorantly Turasóireachta ciorclach trí discouraging a gcuid leanaí gan a bheith pósta óga (ag aois imní ndóigh). Is iad na cúiseanna ceanglófar mé”ní mór duit a fháil ar oideachas, b'fhéidir nuair a chríochnaíonn tú do chuid máistreachta agus post réasúnta, ansin tosú ag smaoineamh ar phósadh”. Go fhuaim nach bhfuil ciallmhar é ? Mar sin, cad a tharlaíonn nuair a bhfuil do leanbh Críostaí théann chuig ollscoil agus ansin bogann isteach le cara buachaill / cailín a bhfuil a ceachtar Críostaí nó neamh?

    Ní le do thoil a fháil dom mícheart(go ach cuid de na rudaí a tháinig mé trasna), toisc nach bhfuil an ráiteas thuas i bhfeidhm ar gach. Tá oideachas an-tábhachtach mar bhfaigheann duine eolas dá ngairm faoi seach ionas go mbeadh siad ag obair agus a chur ar fáil dá dteaghlaigh sa todhchaí srl, ach pósadh wont stop amháin ó ina dhiaidh sin i cén réimse riamh i saol roghnaíonn duine a leanúint, mar cheist fhíorais chun cinn pósadh i gcoitinne fás i.e aireacht mór, fraochmhá maith, Téann saibhreas agus an liosta ar. Cuimhnigh an dá thiocfaidh chun flesh amháin agus is féidir a chase 10 000 WOW, ciallaíonn sé sin ag teacht cad a bhí riamh a iarraidh siad Dia dílis beidh siad a bhaint amach, uamhnach…..

    I ndlúth Ba mhaith liom a mholadh go bhfuil muid mar thosú Críostaithe a mhúineadh ár bpáistí ag aois óg ar an tábhacht a bhaineann an chéad ina gcónaí do Dhia agus ar an dara ar an tábhacht a bhaineann le pósadh( dóibh siúd atá tugtha ar an bronntanas) ionas go mbeidh siad ag fás suas ar mian leo le do thoil Dia sa réimse seo. Arís eile a dhéanamh go maith mo dheartháir agus dóibh siúd go léir ina gcónaí ar an briathar Dé. Fan bheannaigh.

  9. annaFreagra

    Seo labhair i ndáiríre dom. Tá mé 21 i gcaidreamh agus ní féidir liom a insint duit cé mhéad uair tá mé i mo inis go bhfuil mé “ró-óg a bheith ag smaoineamh faoi socrú síos”, ba chóir dom fanacht go dtí “saol beo ar dtús”, chríochnú an scoil agus slí bheatha a bhunú sula dtéann mé suirí / pósadh. Tá tú le fianaise iontach agus spreagúil. Ba mhaith liom tú féin agus do bhean chéile ar feadh an tsaoil de blessings agus sonas le chéile!

  10. gan ainmFreagra

    tá mé 20 agus riamh a bheith i gcaidreamh sin nach bhfuil mé ag gabháil 'a pósadh ag 21 ach is meas agam cinnte do loighic. Tá mé i gcónaí ar an meon “gach a chuid féin”. Sílim go mbeidh tú féin agus do bhean chéile dul cinnte an t-achar agus tá mé chomh bródúil as na céimeanna a ghlac tú roimh phósadh. Breathnaíonn sé cosúil ghlac an dá de tú ar an tiomantas an-dáiríre, a Molaim.

  11. Tony DoyleyFreagra

    An-bheannaigh a léamh do bhlag faoi phósadh ag aois luath. fuair mo bhean pósta ar 18 agus ní mór dúinn a pósta sona sásta ar feadh 10 blianta anois. Cinnte tá muid go raibh roinnt ups agus downs, ach creidim Dia treoraithe dúinn go seasta gach bliana seo agus anois táimid níos láidre ná mar a bhí riamh. Go raibh maith agat as do chuid fianaise iontach.

  12. KLE GrianghrafadóireachtFreagra

    Congrats ar do phósadh óga! Mo fear céile agus mé chuaigh tríd an rud céanna nuair a phós muid 8 bliain ó shin ag 20 bliana d'aois! Mar sin, tá a fhios againn go díreach cad tá tú ag dul trí! Daoine a shíl phós muid mar go raibh mé ag iompar clainne (Ní raibh mé) nó toisc go raibh sé alien neamhdhleathach (tá sé ina shaoránach Meiriceánach). Nach raibh againn i bhfad ar ár gcairde inár cúinne mar a bhí siad ag déanamh an rud amháin. Ach anois ag 28 siad ag teacht thart agus ag iarraidh a “teacht suas.” Tá mé sásta Dia bheannaigh mé le m'fhear céile gan aird ar mo aois. Dia bheirt agaibh!

    BTW Tá cónaí orainn i gceantar DMV! (MD) b'fhéidir gur féidir linn go léir freastal ar suas nó téigh go dtí séipéal le chéile! Táimid fós nach bhfuil cairde pósta lol.

  13. KevinFerereFreagra

    Ní dóigh liom go bhfuil rud ar bith bheith goidte ó tú, tá sé cad a bhfuil tú ag tabhairt suas. tá sé fionnuar a bheith acu ar struchtúr sa Bhíobla, ach tá sé suas chun tú a dheachtú do shaol, Ní leabhar; d'ainneoin na treorach a sholáthraíonn sí.

    Tá sé inmholta a bheith tiomanta agus óg, ach cuid de sin “lust óige” Is é an fhoghlaim agus ag fás a fhaigheann tú ó bualadh agus go sóisialta páirt mná éagsúla. Foghlaim cad is mian leat agus nach mhaith a dhéanamh, féach, agus sílim; ionad do raon feidhme a bheith teoranta mar sin go dtí díreach duine amháin.

    Ní féidir leat a rá i ndáiríre tá a fhios agat cé tú féin agus cad tá tú ar tí, nó fiú an méid a ba mhaith leat i ndáiríre, mura bhfuil idirghníomhú ach an méid sin le mná eile dóibh chun a thaispeáint go bhfuil a thabhairt duit. Níl a fhios agat cad é grá más rud é nach bhfuil a fhios agat cad é nach bhfuil sé.

    • GuestFreagra

      Ní gá duit a fháil amach cad é grá nach má tá a fhios agat cad é grá. Conas a bheadh ​​a fhios agat má thugann duine tú ar falsa $100 bille amháin má tá a fhios agat cad é an fíor- $100 bille cuma mhaith. Níl ach amháin fíor $100 bille, ach staidéar a dhéanamh go agus is féidir leat insint nuair a thugann duine tú ar falsa. An rud céanna le grá. Tá go leor amach ann ghóchumadh, ach má tá a fhios agat cad é an fíor, ansin beidh tú in ann a láthair an falsa. Ós rud é go bhfuil Dia grá, aon rud ungodly ní féidir a bheith grá.

      • KevinFerereFreagra

        Mar sin, ní mór leat dáta thart agus bualadh le chéile agus tá gnéas le daoine eile. Mo phointe go díreach. Cad é ungodly is suibiachtúla. Is féidir leat iarracht a bheith dleathaíoch mar gheall air toisc go bhfuil sé in ár nádúr a dhéanamh, ach, ní mór dúinn a ligean dul ar na hidéil a bheith go bhfuil limistéar liath iomarca i measc an comhthéacs.

        • Angeldoll1Freagra

          aontaím le do ráiteas ag gnéas le daoine eile- STD s, SEIF agus toircheas nach dteastaíonn, Is iad na hiarmhairtí a bhaineann le gaoil den sórt sin. Má shaothraíonn duine gaoil den sórt sin, Ní bheadh ​​siad ag foghlaim mar gheall ar thiomantas cuí agus na gnéithe níos doimhne agus spioradálta an ghrá in ionad lust. Chomh maith leis sin aontaím le do chuid tuairimí maidir le dul timpeall roimh mian leat a tiomantas gheall “dul timpeall” Ní réamhriachtanas a fhios céile ó nonspouse. Cuireadh súirí Godly / ag dul rinneadh maidir leis an duine mar a léirítear sa Bhíobla ach a bheith mutiple comhpháirtithe, ag gnéas randamach iad na tréithe na n-ainmhithe.

          • AJ

            Angeldoll1it leor i naive de tú chun smaoineamh go thoradh uile gnéas neamhphósta gá go “STD s, SEIF agus toircheas nach dteastaíonn”… ach ar ndóigh, Ní bheadh ​​a fhios agat go más rud é nach bhfuil tú ag glacadh go ham a fháil do cheann as do leabhar dusty d'aois agus roinnt taithí saoil.

        • KevinFerereFreagra

          fhéachann tú ar sé diúltach. Má tá tú aibí agus ciallmhar go leor beidh tú ag dul faoi ar an mbealach ceart. An níos mó tú a sheachaint rud éigin, an níos dlúithe a thagann tú chun é a. Fócas ar na rudaí dearfacha agus sin an méid a mbainfidh tú a fháil. Ach ar ndóigh, ní do reiligiún a mhúineadh tú go.

    • JoshFreagra

      “Tá grá níos mó ná aon duine seo, go leagan éigin síos ar a shaol as a chuid cairde.” (John 15:13) Tá a fhios agat cad is grá má tá a fhios agat Críost.

      • KevinFerereFreagra

        le do thoil a dhuine uasail, má tá tú ag dul scripture a regurgitate, an laghad, is féidir leat a dhéanamh ná iarratas a dhéanamh do mothú féin dó. Tá sé ina tagairt, Ní treoir urlabhra.

        • Freagra

          Tá do ghlacadh ar Scrioptúir an mícheart agus ar an mbealach a cheapann tú go bhfuil tú ag teilgean féin mar Chríostaí nach bhfuil a leanann an Bíobla ach “tagairtí” sé ach roghnaíonn chun cónaí ag do chód féin agus picks agus roghnaíonn cad, más rud ar bith a leanúint go Dé maidir….

          An chuid is mó de cad tá tú ag éileamh a seasamh ar fhoirceadal bréagach.

  14. Gabe TavianoFreagra

    Nice a fheiceáil blogging tú anseo Trip! Go raibh maith agat as guí dom an tseachtain seo, Dia Tá cinnte gur maith.

    Is é an rud dÚsachtach faoi tú ag dul ag pósadh chomh óg go bhfuil do chluasa agus súile oscailte do Dhia níos mó i do cúpla bliain ná roinnt a dúnadh Eisean amach i bhfad níos faide. Tá a fhios agat go bhfuil Dia ina chuid de do phósadh ach an oiread agus is go bhfuil an bheirt tú, agus sin ollmhór. Go raibh maith agat do roinnt!

  15. madeleine FarrellFreagra

    This is an excellent thought process. Fuair ​​mé pósta ar 17 and my husband was 19. At the time we were not Christian, and also, we did not ‘have to’ fháil Pósadh. Still for some reason we did. We have been married almost 28 1/2 blianta anois, are parents of 5 and grandparents of 2. I LOVE my life. Not to say there were times in our marriage that one of us just wanted to walk away and never come back, not to say anger and resentment were not part of our daily lives for a season, or that thinking ew made the biggest mistake of our lives was not a thought process. But we committed. And when divorce is not an option, GOD brings the healing in time.

    My daughter got married at 20 and there was not one encouragement she ever got from people. She didn’t understand why people feel it is a last resort instead of a timely blessing. Even among the Christian community.

    Our son on the other hand got married at Christmas time, at the age of 27. Just hadn’t found the right girl. One thing.. the right boy/girl is going to e the right boy/girl even through the tough times. Just cling to The Cross.

  16. CLFreagra

    I couldn’t agree more. So many people seem to think that marriage is awful and there is especially no reason torushinto it, but it is something that God wants to use to bless and sanctify us. Thank you for the post!

    >>But when I looked in the Scriptures I didn’t find stuff like, "Is ionann Pósadh báis! Teitheadh ​​ó sé!"nó, "Cuir pósadh amach go dtí nach féidir leat é a chur amach ar bith níos faide,"nó, "Ach a bheith pósta nuair a bhíonn tú ró-shean saol chun taitneamh a bhaint,"nó, “Play the field for a while and then pick the best one.”

    • AnaFreagra

      Thank you so much for the visit to my blogI think I figured out the feed adedrss for you (I posted it in my comments). You have a darling family, by the way! Congrats on your anniversary!

  17. PraisemovementFreagra

    Thanks for your transparency and formaking Jesus look good”. Mad respect for the way you livin’and bringinglory to the Word.

  18. Andrea Paige JacksonFreagra

    That is a fantastic testimony. And you posted it on mine and my husband’s tenth anniversary! (We got married OLD, though.) : )

  19. JcsmsoulFreagra

    god bless u brother! i know exactly what u mean although i found the lord later in life and i wish i was married to a godly man thats loyal to his wife! these dayz its very hard to find that! and another reason i hope and pray i get married and find the one is because u dont feel guilt when making love when ur married! god bless u!

  20. JazminFreagra

    Thank you so much not every one will see marriage as a blessing. Only those that trust and believe in our Lord Jesus Christ will. I to got married at a very young age and at 28 years old me and my husband have 3 beautiful children and our lives are devoted to adore and worship our father in heaven. Marriage isn’t easy though, it has it’s ups and downs but through the grace and mercy of God and surrendering to his will one is able to grow. Thank you very much for your amazing story it is a true blessing. My the Lord continue to let you and your wife grow I ask for his wisdom and most of all many blessings in your favor.

  21. Tachy MusicaFreagra

    I got married so “óg” freisin, and this is a blessing, we always together (including our daughter of course), we share everything, and help each other, some ppl think that if you get married so young it will be for a short time, but thanks God we almost 8 years married and the most important trying to servinGod at all times…beannachtaí

  22. Agopylove09Freagra

    that is so awesome!! im 25 and ive been thinking about what all comes along with being a good wife and truly being submissive and having god as your center and always seeking his counsel for it all and just truly letting christ take the lead and building that relationship on the solid ground of christ jesus..falling in love with our savior first is truly a must!! having that intimate relationship with HIM alllows you to grow and know what love really is and GOD provides that love that u give to your spouse.. so greatful for a savior Who always provides..<3

  23. Joe StevensFreagra

    Am an oldee who agrees fully with Triplee. Though of course it is different strokes (ages) for different folks. And everyone must marry at their God-designed time. tá mé 50 bl d'aois, got married to my sweetheart when I was 23 agus bhí sí 20! anois 27 years and 1 month later, there is continuous (maith) fireworks between us, still madly in love, best friends and walking together in God’s purpose. Wouldn’t trade the age I married for 6 months later! But even my kids must know their circumstacces are not necessarily identical to ours, nor are God’s timings and plans for them exactly the same.

  24. Femi OlowoFreagra

    Am an oldee who agrees fully with Triplee. Though of course it is different strokes (ages) for different folks. And everyone was marry at their God-designed time. tá mé 50 bl d'aois, got married to my sweetheart when I was 23 agus bhí sí 20! anois 27 years and 1 month later, there is continuous (maith) fireworks between us, still madly in love, best friends and walking together in God’s purpose. Wouldn’t trade the age I married for 6 months later!

  25. ReverandjeffFreagra

    I know this one all too wellJust celebrated our 13th year of marriage, and i’m 35.. I had the same folks question me the same way, but we both just knew God had ordained it and designed it. We intersected each other’s lives at PIVOTAL moments where we ended up being each others anchor, with a common anchor of Christ. The best part is when we get the chance to talk to younger people who are struggling with relationships/marriage and we get to tell our exceptional testimony !!! Mar cheist fhíorais, had some of these discussions with JPaul some years ago.. Small world !!! God has given those who seek it the RIGHT VALUE system, and we VALUE our rib instead of runnin after chickenbones. :)

  26. BobshumakerFreagra

    My Dad & Mom were high school sweethearts and they got married after graduation (both were 18 bliana d'aois). They are still happily married to this day and have never express any regrets about their lives together. Becoming an adult might begin with marriageand your attitude concerning your decision mirrors my parents. Godly marriages are few and far between in this century….God will bless you and keep you happy for at least 50 nó 60 blianta!

  27. Jeffreycotton7Freagra

    I thank you and your wife so much for sharing your stories. Tá mé 21 and feel like i’m going through almost the same situation. I’m just not married yet. I have that mindset of why wait if you and your partner are in love, both are spiritual, dearfach, and perfect through each others eyes. My girl and I have no doubt that we are going to be married one day. But even though we both want to be married, she’s more of a take her time; we have all the time in the world type person. I’m more of an ASAP we are not promised tomorrow type person. So why wait? She is a very smart girl. She reminds me of your wife and her story a little. Thinking that things might get in the way of school and career goals. But that’s more towards the talk of kids after marriage. I always tell her that I don’t want to have our first child close to 30 bliana d'aois. I don’t want my body to start getting weaker because of age, which would make it harder and more tiring to play around with my kids. I want 7 at the most and 3 at the least. So its good to get started at a decent age. But I will continue to try to leave it in God’s hands and not worry about it too much.

  28. aneetarhFreagra

    thank u so much Trip n Jess, n everyone hu dt has shared an encouragement in one way or d oda. now i’m no longer scared of gettn married early especially considern d fact dt we both love God. God bls u

  29. DashFreagra

    Jannon Fitzpatrick, I agree that God is love. The only way to experience true love is to experience the one who created love. Between to people we can create nothing to that caliber unless we are letting God guide our love lives as well. “Tá grá níos mó ná aon duine seo, that he lay down his life for his friendsJhn 15:13. Love is not finding a self satisfaction (KevinFerere), or finding someone who can satisfy and stimulate electrical impulses in your brain. ironically, your picture of theCreation of Adamon your page comes from the Renaissance period which was when the ideology of love and dating turned into something for the individual gratification no matter what the cost to someone else. That painting in itself is heretical stating that Adam is reaching out to God and took part in his creation. The Irony is this, Michelangelo at the end of his life saw what he had done and repented, trying to mix Christianity and Humanism (Man being the measure of all things). This ideology of love is where is I think you are coming from ? which is the same thing they practiced in Greek, Renaissance, and today’s culture. There really isnothing new under the sun”-Solomon, also from the Bible.

  30. Paul JonesFreagra

    hey trip been married since i was 22 agus 28 anois. just had our 6th anv. god has bless us with 4 young ones. i pray that he keep blessing you and your family.

  31. CLLFreagra

    What a lovely testimony to the goodness of God and what He can do in lives that are totally surrendered to Him. My husband and I were married relatively young (ag 24) and like you and your wife, God saw fit to bring us together for His glory. Our son married young, at age 20 earlier this yeargasp :-) and he definitely found a good thing in his godly wife. We wanted nothing more for him and it’s a blessing.

  32. KarendaFreagra

    Cad alt iontach! My husband and I got married young as well, Bhí mé 22 and my husband was 25. We just celebrated 15 years of marriage. jesus, has brought us closer together as a couple over the years, teaching us todie to ourselvesin order to better love and serve each other. Selfishness is the number one destroyer of most marriages.

    Thank you for your willingness to be up front and honest about the topic of marriage as it relates to Scripture!

  33. michaelFreagra

    My wife and I married at 21 freisin, and that was 11 years and 6 children ago (bio/adopted/foster). I didn’t know I wastoo youngto marry, I just knew she was the one I didn’t want to live without! God has been good.

  34. AJFreagra

    Reading between the lines: we loved Jesus and we were horny.

    I see this happen all the time among Christians and think arguments such as these that dance around the real motivation are hilarious. It’d be sinful to just have sex, so it’s far wiser to rush into a lifelong commitment.

  35. JOBFreagra

    Fuair ​​mé pósta ag aois 21 and in the same year as you Trip Lee, in 2009. I met her in church when I was 16 years old and we have been together for almost 8 blianta anois. We served God together with AYCM ministries, reaching out to villages and sharing the word of God in the Philippines. We told each other everydayI love you because I see how much you love God”. I do not ever regret asking her for her hand in marriage. The past 4 years of marriage has been a blessing.

  36. IsaacFreagra

    God’s word is indeed supreme. Seanfhocal 18:22 clearly spells this out.
    Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord´´.
    My take for whoever wants to get married is to first and foremost ask for God’s direction in choosing the right partner. We as humans shouldnt make our own choices and forcifully ask God to bless it. Ina ionad sin, we should surrender in total obedience, reach out for God’s grace and ask for guidance to follow his direction for our lives.

  37. SteveMcMillonFreagra

    I respect this so much!! Its so encouraging because I have had a desire to be married ever since I was 6 yrs old and alot of people put me down for it. In many ways it created insecurities in me. Thank you again for this!

  38. TerriFreagra

    A little over 35 years ago I married my high school sweetheart. We were both 18, beagnach 19. We had many naysayers and my dad even hoped I would get divorced and find a doctor. When God arranges a marriage it doesn’t matter what the age of the bride and groom. Many blessings!

  39. MissyFreagra

    I was married young as well (20 to be exact). Now at 32, I feel as though you can be married at any given age and at any given time to whoeverand God will use a person that loves Him in any circumstance to draw Himself closer to that personall you have to be is willing to be holy as He is holy. That’s why I don’t believe there isthe one”… Any persons who choose to get married, becomethe one’sfor eachother :)

  40. LiseFreagra

    Thank you for this article! tá mé 36 years old and I have been married for 19yrsyep, Bhí mé 17 when I married my 18yr old husband! We have six kids, love The Lord and are very happy :) we are asked similar questions all the time and while it may not be a popular choice or the right choice for many, I am so happy and confidant everyday that we made the right choice for us.

  41. SteffanFreagra

    This is amazing. I know plenty of people who think this is the biggest mistake of your life. tá mé 22 and have really been considering this with someone I have known and loved since my sophomore year of high school. I am sure things aren’t sunshine and rainbows for you, nor do I expect it to be for me. I commend you for putting aside all of the negativity and looking at the larger picture and what you felt God lead you to. If no one else is ever happy for you, I truly am.

  42. Kim HunterFreagra

    I met my husband at 14 we got married when I was 21 agus bhí sé 23 we have been together for 22 years and married for 15 of those 22 there’s nothing wrong with getting married young its just how a person looks at life….because really your lifr is what you make it….and yes me and my husband are saved and believe in god and we are living our life for him with god all things are possible especially a long healthly loving marriage nothing easy but with god you can make it…….BE BLESSED!!

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  44. CherisseFreagra

    What a blessing to know the Lord and to understand his word. I wish there were more people like you. Don’t let the Devil discourage you. We know he is everywhere.

  45. GrantYoungFreagra

    My wife and I got married when we were 22 and I had the same experience. Friends that were saved and unsaved wanted to let me know I had more life to live. My barber reminded me of all the clubbing and partying I could do. Mo “closefriends explained that there were other fish in the sea to explore. Well, we actually got married around the same time 3 other couples our age did! We’re a minority but definitely not alone and it’s encouraging to remember that.

    By God’s grace we just celebrated 3 years and it’s been awesome! Thank you for sharing Trip!

  46. MarkFreagra

    My take would be that if you are going to get married so young, you better know the consequences of doing so. It is very difficult even in the very best of circumstances. If you aren’t ready to work the hardest you’ve ever worked and totally sacrifice and deal with lots of disappointments and heartache, don’t sign up for it. Ach, if you can endure (and some people do) if can be rewarding at times.

  47. kevinFreagra

    I love this biblically based perspective. It’s rare among American Christian, where the cultural and social structures are so anti-marriage, to see a young person, even an older person, have such a spiritually mature view on the value of God’s institution. Based on many of the comments I’ve read, this perspective sounds so foreign to people, even in the Church because we’ve allowed ourselves to lean towards the social norms of the day rather than the biblical truth of what God holds to be valued and treasured. Praying for you Trip, keep sharing the Gospel and the truth of God’s word made practical and real in the believer’s life.

  48. PastorRobFreagra

    I want to let you know Trip- Lee I got married 2 months after I turned 21. Is God all in it? Was He all in it despite people opinion and their reasoning on why I shouldn’t get married that I needed to wait. Man of God I have been married for 16 years now with 2 Beautiful girls and I am thoroughly greatful to God for a Godly wise, honorable precious jewel. The beauty about your testimony is it was meant for you to tell it!!!

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  50. MavisFreagra

    I have advice for all young people. If you are 18 or over, start looking for a spouse! Sex outside if marriage will bring you nothing but heartache, leaness of soul and bad health, mental and physical. Being married is a joy and economic booster! You can get so much more done and enjoy lufe so much more if you are not alone. Your parents probably got divorced because they did not follow their hearts in their youth! I don’t have the space to explain it all, but you are built to be mated. Start making yor list of must have traits right away and marry young while you have your whole heart to give. tá mé 53 and very grayeful to be happily married. I was married at 31 -heartbroken many times and lots if wasted youth-way way too late. Hope done if you will be wise in your youth and enjoy it by being present in it!

  51. GOSPELMAGDOTCOMFreagra

    Turas A chara Lee,
    We appreciate reading your articles.
    Could you give us the authorization to translate your articles into french and to publish them on our website: gospelmag.com?
    Thank you very much in advance for your answer.
    Best in Christ,
    Marcel

  52. trócaireFreagra

    My friend bought me this book when we were teens about being a young, dignified Christian woman. Of course it encouraged waiting until after marriage and everything and had verses throughout. It mentioned and she brought it up herself that God doesn’t want for us to date. I made a vow to myself that I would have boundaries with guys (I think I almost am completely done with outgrowing my shyness). I would save certain things for marriage but on and off the past 2 years I’ve gotten depressed. I’ve felt lonely. I wondered what’s wrong with me and if I’m good enough. I’m not. I don’t know every bible verse. I need to study a lot more. I’ve been trying and I don’t want to get to know just any guy because I can become heartbroken and he can lead me down a path God doesn’t want me down but I get lonely. It’s always beautiful to see other young people in love. It’s even BETTER if they’re married and I know it’s not good to be jealous but everyone says “OH, it’ll come during YOUR time”. I think about it regularly lately. I met this really nice guy. We have very similar personalities but he said he doesn’t go to church. He said he believes in God and I know I’m not perfect myself but I can’t help but wonder because I don’t think he’s actively seeking God if I’m going to regret something. Women aren’t supposed to try and change men I heard. It leads to disappointment supposedly. Well, I’m tired of waiting. I guess I’ll learn the hard way. I’m not having sex though. Tá mé 23 and still stand strong on that but I’m confused why I don’t deserve a husband now. Everybody else gets what they want. It’s so annoying that I can’t stop thinking about guys. I get so depressed sometimes. If I marry this guy and he hasn’t changed will we be unequally yoked? Some people have everything. And I’m not saying money. I just want someone who appreciates me. It’s too much to explain.

    • NatalieFreagra

      trócaire:
      You are still only 23! :) Don’t worry about not finding the “ceart” one, there is not just one person out there that is a good option. And just to clarify: YOU ARE WORTH IT. There is a reason that you are you and on this earth at this time. You are precious to Jesus, just read and claim His promises when you start to think that you are not worth it. My favorite is: “I will never leave you or forsake you.
      Someone I knew recently got divorced, and a huge issue in their marriage was that she was a believer and he was not. A decision you will have to make will beis God worth it?” Keep seeking the Lord with all your heart, and HE will direct you. He will guide you. He will provide the encouragement you need when you feel overwhelmed and depressed. Something I have found very helpful is reading Scripture out loud before I go to bed, and especially when I feel down and under attack from the enemy. You never know what God has just around the corner.. if only you wait. I know it sounds so hard and honestly, annoying, but if you will keep seeking the Lord, He will satisfy you in this season. There is a reason you are in the season! You never know how God will use it as a testimony to help other young girls who are struggling with the same thing! :) I hope this helped in some way! beannachtaí!

  53. MichealaFreagra

    Fuair ​​mé pósta ar 21 and it was beautiful
    You can’t help who you fall in love with or when you fall in love with them,
    I never thought I would be the type to marry young and miss out on thefun thingsin life .. but i don’t think i did, I just shared myfun thingswith someone I love and couldn’t imagine living without.

  54. GisselleFreagra

    Hi I’m Gisselle I’m from Honduras. Tá mé 18 years old and my boyfriend is 19. We met 15 months ago in his church in New York! I live in Honduras.. Therefore it has been a long distance relationship. I’m in my second year of college and so as he. We’ve talked about getting married. And some of our relatives and elders from his church supports us and tell us is the best thing to do. I’m still insecure about it.. My mom isn’t too open about me getting married so young and so as my sisters. We have been praying since we first thought about marriage as a possibility. If you could write me to my email i would be grateful!

  55. JenniferFreagra

    We were married 21 fadó. Bhí mé 19 and my husband was 21. We have drawn closer to each other and to God. Three kids later we are looking forward to the next 20.

  56. CharlesFreagra

    I just wanted to say thank you for the straight forward way that you preach Gods word. I just watched the ‘Fallinmusic video after a day of trails and temptations and feel as though God spoke right into what I’m going through. The amazing Gift of Grace that we share cannot be measured or taken for granted. Thank you so much for re-opening my eyes to something so foundational in my walk with God. I also pray that God will bless you in your ministry.

  57. ChideraFreagra

    Once God shows you someone and the person has the same passion for God as you and ready to walk with you all the way. it doesn’t matter what age, once the time comes you marry. The thing is just acknowledge him in all of thy ways, he’ll make your paths straight (Seanfhocal 3:6). Just have the passion and love for God, at the right time he’ll provide you with your helpmate who’ll stand with you through it all. Don’t wanna part, then don’t part with God. In ALL of thy ways acknowledge him, he’ell make your path straight.

  58. StacyFreagra

    My husband is 3/4 black and a quarter white.(Tá mé bán). My husband I got married young also I 18 going to 19 and my husband was 20. People told us not to, we were making a mistake and will send in divorce. We didn’t listen we got married and now we have been 16 blianta. God is in control.

  59. jaysmithFreagra

    kevin–you seem like you have a few things down. And you are working your way up. Keep going, kid! Ag an gcríoch, to know yourself half as well is most of the vattle, despite any shortcomings. beannachtaí!

  60. TheRealHonestTruthFreagra

    Well for the people out there that have been BLESSED with very Excellent luck with NO health problems at all and being married with a family with a lot of money certainly have so much to be very thankful for since they really should have NO reason to complain when many of us are NOT that lucky at all even though many of you did get married too young which there are a lot of you that are still together today.

  61. RachelSanchezFreagra

    My husband and I got married earlier this year. He is 22, and I am 21. I get asked all the time why I wouldthrow my youth awayor why I would even think about getting married in college. I surprisingly get the most hurtful comments from older women who seem to look down on me. It’s heartbreaking that others can’t recognize that I am actually really enjoying my youth with my most favorite person in the world. It’s sad when people (even older generations) think that it’s perfectly fine for people in their 20s to sleep around, but when they get married it’s shocking and horrible. We just hope our marriage can inspire others to take the leap when they feel ready, regardless of what society tells them.

  62. The Very Sad TruthFreagra

    Then there are many of us good single men that were really hoping to meet a good woman to settle down with, but unfortunately it still hasn’t happened for us. And for the men and women that were very extremely blessed to have met one another and have a family which you really have so very much to be thankful for.

  63. alvina.rebornFreagra

    Thanks alot Trip. For years I’ve been telling myself that I can only get married past a certain age. But now I know better.