Yog vim li cas Kuv Tau txij nkawm li ntawd Hluas?

Nag hmo kuv ua ib tug lig hmo ntuj nres rau ntawm lub khw mus lob ib tug ob peb yam thiab kuv muaj ib tug heev interesting sib tham nrog tus luj khoom. Peb ua me me tham raws li nws luam kuv cov khoom, thiab ces nws muaj kuv ib tug luv nqi card tab sis kuv hais rau nws kuv tus poj niam twb muaj ib tug. Yog tias thaum qhov kev sib tham tau txais kev lom zem. Kuv paub qhov no sib tham tag nrho thiab zoo vim hais tias kuv twb tau nws muaj ntau lub sij hawm ua ntej. Nws mus ib yam dab tsi zoo li no ...

Tus neeg: Yuav ua li cas!? Koj nyob nraum sib yuav?

kuv: Yog kuv twb tau sib yuav rau lub ob thiab ib tug ib nrab amazing xyoo.

Tus neeg: Yuav ua li cas xyoo? Koj zoo li ib tug me nyuam.

kuv: Kuv nees nkaum peb.

Tus neeg: Koj nyob nraum li cov! Yog vim li cas nyob rau hauv lub ntiaj teb no yuav ua li cas hais tias?

kuv: Yog vim li cas yuav tsis yog kuv?

Nyob rau hauv 2009, Kuv tau sib yuav thaum lub NW nyuam qhuav cai lij choj thiab nyuam qhuav respectable muaj hnub nyoog ntawm nees nkaum ib xyoos. Thaum lub sij hawm kuv courtship, koom tes, thiab luv luv sib yuav, Kuv twb tau nug lub sij hawm thiab lub sij hawm dua cov lus nug zoo li, "Vim li cas thiaj sib yuav li cov? Yuav ua li cas yog maj?”, thiab kuv tus kheej nyiam, "Koj yuav tsum tau tos thiab enjoyed koj lub neej!”

Ib txhia ntawm cov folks nug cov lus nug no twb neeg, tab sis ib txhia twb tsev neeg. Kuv thiaj vwm tau sib yuav nyob rau hauv xws li ib tug "hluas” muaj hnub nyoog?

Zoo cia kuv muab rau koj peb yog vim li cas kuv txiav txim siab los sib yuav thaum kuv puas tau.

1. Kuv tau ntsib ib tug godly poj niam

Raws li ib tug kaum yim xyoo-laus freshman nyob rau hauv phau Vajlugkub kawm ntawv qib siab, Kuv twb tsis txawj nrhiav rau ib tug poj niam, tab sis Vajtswv pom zoo yuav ua kom paub kuv mus rau ib tug poj niam hluas tom qab nws lub siab. Nws yog zoo nkauj, tab sis tseem ceeb tshaj mas nws hlub Yexus. Nws twb paub hais tias nws yog ib tug neeg txhaum nyob rau hauv kev xav tau ntawm Vajtswv txoj kev tshav ntuj, thiab nws tau ib tug, lub siab xav kawm lub plawv. Peb twb tuaj ua ib feem ntawm tib lub tsev teev ntuj, yog li ntawd kuv saib nws pab, loj hlob, thiab rau siab ntso ua muab nws lub sij hawm rau lwm tus neeg. Kuv pib tham nrog kuv tus puab vajvoog txog nws. kuv cov phooj ywg, mentors, thiab cov xibhwb tag nrho pom zoo – nws yog ib tes dej num poj niam. Kuv pom kuv tus kheej mus taug kev nrog nws thiab hlub nws rau tus so ntawm kuv lub neej.

2. Kuv yeej npaj txhij

By lub sij hawm no kuv pib xav txog cov kev muaj tiag ntawm kev sib yuav yog dab tsi thiab nws txhais tau tias kuas nyuas siv zug koj tus kheej rau ib tug neeg rau ib tug lub neej. Kuv nug kuv tus kheej seb puas los yog tsis kuv yog mature thiab lub luag hauj lwm txaus. Kuv nrhiav los ntawm Vajtswv Txojlus thiab xav txog cov luag hauj lwm ntawm ib tug txiv, thiab tham mus rau txij nkawm phooj ywg thiab cov xib hwb. Tom qab ntau ntau ntawm kev thov Vajtswv thiab kev sib tham, kuv mentors thiab cov xibhwb nyob rau hauv kuv lub tsev teev ntuj hais rau kuv lawv xav tias kuv twb npaj mus caum nws. Kuv twb elated. Tab sis kuv yuav tsis tau caum nws yog hais tias kuv xav tias kuv yog tsis npaj rau sab ntsuj plig ua rau nws, muab rau nws, thiab yuav tsum tau lub taub hau ntawm ib tsev neeg.

3. Kev sib yuav yog ib txoj koob hmoov

Thaum xub thawj kuv muaj li kuv tau los ua pov thawj rau lub naysayers uas tsis tau sib yuav tub ntxhais hluas yog ok tej zaum. Tab sis thaum kuv ntsia nyob rau hauv lub vaj lug kub kuv nrhiav tsis tau cov khoom xws li, "Txoj kev sib yuav sib npaug tuag! Khiav tawm ntawm nws!” los yog, "Muab sib yuav tawm mus txog rau thaum koj tsis tau muab nws tua lawm,” los yog, "Tsuas yog tau sib yuav thaum uas koj nyob nraum qub dhau yuav txaus siab rau lub neej,” los yog, "Ua si qhov teb rau ib pliag thiab ces tos qhov zoo tshaj plaws ib tug.”

Xwb kuv pom commands zoo li, "Khiav hluas zog tuaj hlob”, thiab kuv nyeem nqe vaj lug kub zoo li Paj Lug 18:22 uas hais tias, "Nws uas pom ib tug poj niam pom ib tug zoo tshaj plaws thiab lijchoj haum los ntawm Yawmsaub.”

Yog li ntawd thaum cov neeg hais, "Yuav ua li cas muaj koj tau sib yuav li cov?” kuv tus tshiab teb yog, "Koj nyob nraum hais tus tsis ncaj ncees lawm lo lus nug.” Kuv xav hais tias nyob rau hauv lub hauv paus ntawm cov lus nug uas yog lub assumption uas sib yuav steals ib yam dab tsi deb ntawm kuv, raws li yog hais tias kuv cov tub ntxhais hluas yog lub sij hawm nyob rau hauv ua sacrificial hlub thaum nws yuav siv tau rau xws li Library thiab flakiness.

Kev sib yuav yog ib tug zoo nkauj khoom plig los ntawm Vajtswv! Nws yog ib tug txhais tau tias ntawm txoj kev hlub. Kuv pom ib tug poj niam, thiab hais tias yog ib tug zoo tshaj plaws. Kuv tsis pom zoo nrog qhov logic uas hais tias, muab tso tawm Vajtswv lub richest koob hmoov raws li ntev raws li koj ua tau. Xwb kuv yuav hais txaus siab rau Vajtswv txoj kev zoo khoom plig thiab tus tub qhe lawv rau Nws lub yeeb koob.

Qhov no yog tsis tau hais tias txhua leej txhua tus yuav tsum tau sib yuav thaum kuv puas tau. Nws yuav tau ncaim phem hais tias kuv yuav tau sim kom tau sib yuav ua ntej kuv twb npaj txhij. Ib txhia ntawm peb yuav tsum tau paub tab ntau, thiab lwm tus neeg ntawm peb yuav tsum thov Vajtswv rau contentment thiab tso siab rau tus Tswv thiab Nws cov sij hawm poob. Kuv lub hom phiaj tsis yog hais tias tus hluas koj tau sib yuav, lub neeg dawb huv dua koj. Kuv cia li xav mus dispel lub tswvyim hais ua dabneeg hais tias peb yuav tsum ncua adulthood thiab tsuas xav txog kev sib ib zaug peb nyob nraum peb caug los yog laus dua.

tsis Khuv Xim

Nag hmo nyob rau ntawm twitter ib tug neeg nug kuv tias kuv tu siab tsis tau sib yuav li cov. kuv cov lus teb? kiag li tsis.

Nws yog ib tug ntawm qhov zoo tshaj plaws kev txiav txim siab kuv puas tau. Kuv muaj kev zoo siab thiab tsum raws nws tshaj kuv ob thiab ib nrab xyoo dhau los, thiab hais tias yog ib tug zoo tshaj plaws. Kuv tsis xav kom nws zoo li zoo li kuv ib co super tsawg anomaly. Kuv paub kom ntau folks uas tau sib yuav raws li cov tub ntxhais los yog yau dua kuv. Lawv heev pom sib yuav raws li ib tug khoom plig thiab lawv twb pom lub txiv hmab txiv ntoo ntawm lub txiaj ntsim ntawd. Kuv thiab kuv tus poj niam tej zaum yuav cov tub ntxhais hluas tam sim no, tab sis kuv thov Vajtswv rau txoj kev tshav ntuj los hlub kuv tus poj niam zoo kom txog thaum kawg ntawm peb lub neej. Kom txog rau thaum ces kuv xav kom ua raws li lub tswvyim ntawm tus Paj Lug thiab "muaj kev zoo siab nyob rau hauv tus poj niam ntawm kuv cov hluas.”

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  1. Jannon FitzpatrickTeb

    Kuv respectfully tsis pom zoo nrog Kevin Ferere. Koj muaj peev xwm tsis paub dab tsi txoj kev hlub no mus txog rau koj paub Vajtswv yog leej twg, vim hais tias Vajtswv yog kev hlub! Phau Vajlugkub tsis hais dab tsi txog yos ib ncig los yog sib txuas lus nrog lwm tus neeg mus nrhiav tau hais tias ib tug. Nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, Isaac layed rau ntawm Rebecca thiab paub nws yog ib tug rau nws. Nws tsis tau hnub nyob ib ncig ntawm los yog tham nrog Le-a mus li yog hais tias nws yog zoo dua ces nws yuav paub seb puas los yog tsis Rachel yog tiag tiag yog dab tsi nws xav los yog tsis.

    Hais lus los ntawm kuv tus kheej kev, Kuv puas tau hnub lwm tus thiab pom li cas kev hlub yog tsis. Tsis tsuas yog los ntawm kuv tus kheej kev sib raug zoo, tab sis los ntawm kuv niam kuv txiv’ thiab cov muam’ kev sib raug zoo. Qhov teeb meem yog, lawv twb tsis sib raug zoo raws li nyob rau hauv cov lo lus los yog Vajtswv txoj kev hlub thiab hais tias yog vim li cas lawv ho tsis ua hauj lwm tawm. Kuv puas tau nrhiav tau ib tug Vajtswv txiv neej, ces nws yuav ua hauj lwm tawm ntawm txoj kev uas koj hais, TAB SIS KUV wholeheartedly ntseeg hais tias yog kuv yuav tau tos thiab saib kuv lub siab los ntawm cov neeg lwm kev sib raug zoo uas tsis zoo rau kuv, Kuv xav tau nyob rau hauv ib tug zoo npaum li cas thiab tsawg tawg txoj hauj lwm, rau recieve kuv tus txiv los ntawm ib tug Vajtswv poj niam lub foundations es ib tug tawg poj niam lub foundations nrog hnab nqa taug kev mus ua hauj lwm los ntawm.

    Tsis saib tsis taus npaj, tab sis kuv ntseeg tau hais tias yog ib tug kev lom zem ntau tsis ncaj ncees lawm daim pam daim ntawv qhia tias yuav yeej tsav hluas lub siab lub ntsws nyob rau hauv lub yuam kev. (Google ntaub ntawv hais txog Vajtswv sib tam vs. Niaj hnub nimno yos. Muaj ib co yeej zoo khoom nyob rau hauv muaj.)

    • KevinFerereTeb

      Koj kuj muaj pov thawj kuv txoj kev. Phau Vajlugkub tau hais tias txawm nws xav kom, tab sis koj nyob nraum yaam puab paub yog tag nrho cov koj yuav tsum mus tawm ntawm. Thiab uas koj hu xov tooj rau Vajtswv los ntawm ib tug culmination ntawm dab tsi koj nyob nraum qhia thiab koj yaam puab paub. Nyob rau hauv lub kawg, dab tsi koj ntseeg tias yog ib qho kev xaiv, tab sis koj paub dab tsi yog yuam li los ntawm kev muaj tiag.

      thiab yog, cov nqe lus tej zaum yuav ib tug me ntsis kev, tab sis nws yuav tsum tau noj nrog ib tug grain ntawm ntsev, raws li nyob rau hauv dab tsi.

      • Lokelani70Teb

        Kuv kuj respectfully tsis pom zoo nrog Kevin Ferere.
        Qhov tshaj plaws xwb uas pom tau tias yog hais tias koj tau ua ib tug lub siab txiav txim siab tsis mus nyob koj lub neej rau Vajtswv los ntawm nws lo lus, phau Vajlugkub. whereas, peb tau txiav txim siab los nyob peb lub neej nyob rau hauv ib tug Vajtswv sib yuav, los ntawm Vajtswv txoj lus. Qhov tseeb ntawm qhov teeb meem yog, ib tug yuav tsis muaj lub to taub tag nrho ntawm no blog yog hais tias Vajtswv yog tsis muab tso rau thawj nyob rau hauv ib tug lub neej.
        Thov Vajtswv rau cov TXHUA kev sib yuav! Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau!

        • KevinFerereTeb

          Kuv twb ua tau ib tug ras kev txiav txim siab mus nrhiav Vajtswv rau kuv tus kheej thiab tsis los zoo li cas ib tug neeg tau qhia kuv. Tsis txhob txhawj, Kuv siv yuav cia li zoo li koj.

          • AC

            Kuv yuav cia li nyiam hais, koj yuav nrhiav tsis tau Vajtswv. Cov ntawv Vajtswv hais tias peb nyob nraum tuag. Tuag neeg yuav ua li cas tsis muaj dab tsi. Vajtswv pom peb.

        • Lokelani70Teb

          Oh… Kuv thiaj thov txim Kevin, koj yuav tsum tau tsis meej pem. Tus Vajtswv Kuv ua hauj lwm tsis yog tus Vajtswv ntawm nws tus kheej-cov neeg nrhiav. Worrying yog tsis yuav qhov uas Vajtswv, tab sis kev hlub eachother ntau li ntau raws li Nws hlub peb yog! Zoo li kuv sau tau yav tas los, muab Vajtswv ua ntej yog dab tsi yog yuav tsum tau mus kiag li to taub no blog, raws li koj teb proves kuv taw tes. Tej zaum TXHUA YAM peb hais thiab ua tau haum Vajtswv siab. Vajtswv Foom koob hmoov rau thiab muaj koj tus kheej ib tug amazing yav tsaus ntuj.

        • Fru-Mukete ArnoldTeb

          hahaha, kom nrhiav, koj yuav nrhiav tau nws- nco ntsoov creation qhia Nws kuj. Infact, Kuv Hlub muab rau koj ib tug ua kom yuam kev, cia li tuaj tos hauv phau Vajlugkub thiab mus muab pov nws zoo li ib zaj dab neeg phau ntawv sau cia tag nrho cov neeg pab leg ntaubntawv nws ua thiab txawm nco lawv Ces, mus saib lwm cov phau ntawv thiab muab piv rau lub neeg pab leg ntaubntawv. Tab sis mas nws koj yuav tsum tau ib tug neeg los mus piav qhia koj somethings, tsis txhob tuav rov qab vim koj yog ib tug neeg nrhiav qhov tseeb.

        • KevinFerereTeb

          Yog hais tias koj ntseeg hais tias nyob rau hauv Vajtswv raws li ntau li ntau koj hais tias koj ua, yog vim li cas koj xav tias qhov yuav tsum tau los ua pov thawj nws heev npaum li cas? Kuv tsis tau Vajtswv, vim hais tias Nws yog nyob rau hauv kuv. Kuv Nws thiab Nws yog kuv. Tab sis kuv thov txim, koj yuav tsis to taub hais tias tau koj?

        • DelinabiniTeb

          kuv tsis pom zoo yuav ua li cas koj yuav tsum tau Vajtswv thiab yuav ua li cas Vajtswv yuav koj koj yeej tsim koj tus kheej hais tias koj yog Vajtswv?

        • KevinFerereTeb

          kuv phem, typo: *Kuv tsis muaj los ua pov thawj Vajtswv. *

          Tab sis tus saib txhais tau tias dab tsi nws hais tias. Txawm yog nyob rau hauv koj, ntawd yog dab tsi koj yog. Tsis txhob ntshai mus txais qhov tseeb xwb vim hais tias koj nyob nraum qhia hais tias nws yog tsis ncaj ncees lawm.

  2. Addis HunterTeb

    100 % nrog koj! Kuv dhau lawm ntsib kuv tus txiv ntawm 20 thiab ib xyoos tom qab peb tau sib yuav. Kuv twb muaj tib yam kev sib tham nrog random neeg, tsev neeg thiab cov phooj ywg thiab kuv xav xav kom koj muaj kev ntseeg rau tus Tswv thiab koj ntxim hlub tus poj niam nyob rau hauv txhua txhua txoj kev uas yog discribed nyob rau hauv lo lus. Kuv tus txiv thiab kuv yog tam sim no 30 xyoo thiab thaum kuv qhia rau cov neeg kuv twb tau “kaj siab lug” sib yuav rau yuav luag 10 xyoo lawv ncia!!! “tiag”?? Ua tib vague comments ntawm “nkim peb cov hluas” thiab lwm yam thiab lwm yam. Tab sis VAJTSWV tau lawm ces lub siab hlub thiab zoo rau peb hais tias kuv tsis tau qhia nyob rau hauv lus yuav ua li cas foom koob hmoov rau kuv tau ntsib kuv tus txiv thaum kuv puas tau. Peb hlub reminising rau peb kawm ntawv qib siab xyoo ua ke, thiab dreaming txog tag nrho cov zoo thiab tej yam uas lub neej muaj rau peb ua ntej! peb muaj 2 zoo nkauj hluas nkauj thiab ib tug me nyuam tub nyob rau hauv txoj kev (hais tias peb txo hwj chim thov Vajtswv rau lub xyoo no thiab Vajtswv tso cai) , (atually kuv vim niaj hnub no ;-))..thiab peb couldnt yuav ntau SURE uas Nws yog ib tug devine union los ntawm Vajtswv coj peb ua ke.

    lawm, peb yog TSIS meej (txawm hais tias kuv cov phooj ywg zoo li xav li ntawd vim hais tias peb tsis fim cov worldly cov teeb meem ntawm tsis muab siab npuab, saib tsis taus thiab qhov arguing), tab sis peb tsis muaj qhov tsis pom zoo, mus ob peb vas swings, nyiaj txiag dificulties thiab lwm yam, qhov txawv yog hais tias peb cia siab rau Vajtswv ua tus coj peb cov kauj ruam, peb hwm ib leeg thiab sim peb zoo tshaj plaws los yeej tsis poob NTSEEG, kev sib txuas lus, thiab nrhiav kev taw qhia los ntawm cov hwj huam dawb huv raws li ib tug ob peb lub thiab individually..My tus txiv yog lub feem ntau nws ib tug neeg kuv tau puas tau ntsib thiab peb ob leeg to taub hais tias tus yuam sij rau kev zoo siab nyob rau hauv ib tug sib yuav yog tsis nyob rau hauv ua los yog yuav “tej yam uas” yuav ua rau eachother zoo siab tab sis Paub peb yog leej twg nyob rau hauv Tswv Yexus, nram qab no Nws cov lus txib txog kev sib yuav thiab hlub ib leeg unconditionally, hais txog ntawm peb cov flaws los yog yuav ua li cas peb thiaj yuav “xav” nyob rau ntawm lub sij hawm ntawd , paub txog hais tias ZOO SIAB yeej yuav ib ntus xav tias mus deb, tab sis yeej muaj tseeb SIAB tsuas los ntawm tus Tswv.

    Kuv xav tias koj thiab koj tus poj niam ntau xyoo ntawm Blessed SIAB!!!
    Kuv hlub koj music heev los ntawm txoj kev ;)..

  3. JoshTeb

    dawm,

    Koj yog ib tug piv txwv zoo kawg rau cov hluas ntseeg uas xav tau koob meej Vajtswv nyob rau hauv txoj kev uas lawv kho cov poj niam! Ua tsaug rau koj! Kuv cia li tau koom, yog 22, thiab saib rau pem hauv ntej yuav tau pab tus Tswv nyob rau hauv sib yuav rau lub xyoo yuav tuaj!

  4. Johnny_renteriaTeb

    Ntseeg tias nws los yog tsis, tiam sis kuv tau sib yuav thaum muaj hnub nyoog 18. Kuv yog nyob rau hauv tsis muaj txoj kev npaj yuav ib tug txiv nyob rau hauv cov nyiaj txiag kev txiav txim zoo thiab kuv yog ib tug twb tau txiv. Tab sis kuv twb cia li muab kuv lub neej mus txog rau Tswv Yexus thiab kuv paub hais tias cov poj niam kuv twb nrog yuav ib tug loj hlob nrog kuv. Cov neeg nug kuv tib yam li zoo. Kuv nrhiav nws tu siab tab sis yog hais tias sib yuav yog pom raws li ib tug phem tshaj plaws. Niaj hnub no, Kuv twb xav hais txog ntawd thiab kuv tuaj mus rau lub xaus hais tias cov neeg tau ua thiaj li qia dub hais tias cov kev xav ntawm kev noj lub luag hauj lwm ntawm lwm tus neeg yuav luag tsis yooj yim sua. Kev sib yuav yog tsis yog hais txog thaum twg thiab yog vim li cas koj tau sib yuav tab sis hais txog leej twg yog nyob ib ncig ntawm uas sib yuav. Thiab nws yuav tsum tau khe…

  5. DeborahTeb

    kuv xav tias u r cai trip..i muaj ib tug frnd uas tau sib yuav @ 19 (lawv HV tau sib yuav 4 6 yrs NW)n lkng @ nws tam sim no peb twb paub lawm sib nrug los ntawm kev ntseeg Yexus Khetos nyob rau hauv nws lub neej le ntawd yog d zoo tshaj plaws kev txiav txim siab nws puas lawm….tab sis yog kuv yuav tsum lees kuv yog tsis npaj txhij 2 tau married..it scares kuv cos kuv tsis xav 2 yuav hooked 2 d tsis ncaj ncees lawm neeg 4 d so ntawm kuv lub neej tab sis kuv paub Yexus yeej yuav tsis cia kuv ua d tsis ncaj ncees lawm kev xaiv…kuj kuv tej zaum xav y tau sib yuav thaum kuv tau txais tag nrho cov kuv xav tau los ntawm Tswv Yexus n nws yuav tsis brk kuv HRT?….koj kev txiav txim siab yog txoj cai n kuv GV u thumbs up 4 uas!:)

  6. Lance PetersonTeb

    txaus. Kuv tus tub tseem tau sib yuav 2 1/2 xyoo dhau los rau ib tug zoo kawg nkaus godly poj niam thiab nkawd ob leeg lub ripe laus muaj hnub nyoog ntawm 19. Koj zaj dabneeg qhia kuv txog lawv.

  7. Brandon ClementsTeb

    Kuv hlub no dawm! Kuv tau sib yuav ntawm 22 thiab kuv kiag li hlub kuv lub neej. Nws yog funny vim hais tias kuv cia li muaj ib tug uas zoo sib xws sib tham nrog ib tug roj tsheb attendant txog ib lub hlis dhau los. Nws rub tag nrho cov, “Yog vim li cas sib yuav thaum koj yuav tau cov mis nyuj dawb?” lo lus nug thiab kuv lub plawv tsoo rau nws. Ces kuv mus qhia rau nws tias kuv tus poj niam tsis yog ib tug nyuj–hais tias nws yog txaus thiab kuv hlub nws.

    Tsaug rau sib koom!

  8. Louib2001Teb

    Qhuas tus Tswv rau koj tij laug thiab koj zoo ntxim nyiam kawg tus poj niam ntawm koj tseem hluas. Kuv thov Vajtswv kom tus Tswv yuav nchuav haum tsis tu ncua thoob plaws hauv koj lub neej, vim hais tias koj tau mloog nws tej lus. kuv 28 thiab muaj tau sib yuav tam sim no rau yuav luag ob xyoos thiab kuv tus poj niam thiab kuv muaj ib tug zoo siab sib yuav thiab ib tug ntxim hlub 10 npauj qub tus me nyuam. Kuv yeej ib txwm xav tau sib yuav yau, tab sis kuv ntseeg hais tias nws twb tsis hawm tsis tau rau kuv kom txog rau thaum tus Tswv coj kuv zoo tshaj plaws yuav luag 5 xyoo dhau los (yuav leej peb ntsib nyob rau hauv lub hnub peb tau txais yug dua 31 Dec 2006). Kuv tsis paub tias peb nyob qhov twg destined ua ke raws li kuv coj nws raws li ib tug dog dig hluas los ntawm lub tsev teev ntuj. Kuv twb tseem ywm rau kuv sab ntsuj plig kev loj hlob, tab sis peb xyoo dhau los kuv ob lub qhov muag qhib thiab tus so raws li lawv hais yog keeb kwm.

    Nws yog nyob rau hauv tus dab ntxwg nyoog cov txheej txheem rau cov neeg yuav tsum tsis txhob sib yuav, yog li ntawd lawv nyob rau hauv txoj kev txhaum thiab peb twb paub tias dab tsi yuav tshwm sim. Peb ntsia ntawm tus nqi ntawm txoj kev sib nrauj nyob rau hauv lub cev niaj hnub no? Yuav ua li cas hais txog cov kwv tij thiab muam fornicating nyob rau hauv lub tsev teev ntuj, yog vim li cas haiv neeg dictates.

    Yog hais tias peb saib yuav ua li cas peb lub zos uas tau sau nrog cov tub ntxhais hluas ua nruj ua tsiv niaj hnub no, ua li cas peb coj ib lub caij mus xav seb ib co ntawm cov hauv paus ua rau? Lub caij txiv neej pauv Vajtswv tej qhov tseem ceeb rau yeej ism tag nrho cov no poob sib nrug. Txawm Christian niam thiab txiv tsis paub txhawb yeej ism los ntawm poob lawv cov me nyuam tsis tau sib yuav hluas (thaum lub hnub nyoog ntawm kev txhawj xeeb obviously). Yog vim li cas yog kuv hais ib co lus”koj yuav tsum tau txais ib txoj kev kawm ntawv, tej zaum thaum koj tag koj masters thiab muaj ib tug dlej txoj hauj lwm, ces pib xav txog kev sib yuav”. Uas suab txawj ntse tsis nws ? Yog li ntawd yog dab tsi tshwm sim thaum koj Christian tus me nyuam yog mus rau tsev kawm ntawv thiab ces tsiv nyob rau hauv nrog me nyuam tub / ntxhais cov phooj ywg uas nws yog Christian los yog tsis?

    Thov tsis txhob muab rau kuv tsis ncaj ncees lawm(uas yog cia li ib co ntawm cov yam uas kuv tau tuaj nyob thoob plaws), vim hais tias cov saum toj no daim ntawv qhia no tsis siv rau tag nrho cov. Kev kawm ntawv yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev raws li ib tug acquires txuj ci rau lawv cov profession yog li lawv yuav ua hauj lwm thiab muab rau lawv neej yav tom ntej tsev neeg thiab lwm yam, tab sis sib yuav tsis nres ib tug ntawm zoo nyob rau hauv dab tsi puas tau cheeb tsam nyob rau hauv lub neej ib tug nhro ua raws li, raws li ib tug teeb meem ntawm qhov tseeb ib tug sib yuav nyob rau hauv kev txhawb txoj kev loj hlob i.e zoo hauj lwm qhuab qhia, zoo heath, wealth thiab daim ntawv mus rau. Nco ntsoov ob tug yuav ib tug cev nqaij daim tawv thiab muaj peev xwm caum 10 000 wow, uas txhais tau hais tias nyob rau hauv daim ntawv cog lus dab tsi puas tau lawv thov Vajtswv rau siab ntso ua lawv yuav tau, txaus…..

    Nyob rau hauv ze kuv xav hais tias peb raws li cov Khixatia pib qhia peb cov me nyuam nyob rau ib tug hluas uas muaj hnub nyoog nyob rau hauv qhov tseem ceeb ntawm thawj nyob rau Vajtswv thiab tib ob qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev sib yuav( rau cov neeg uas twb tau muab lub txiaj ntsim) yog li ntawd lawv loj hlob mus txog xav ua haum Vajtswv siab nyob rau hauv cov cheeb tsam no. Ib zaug ntxiv zoo li cas kuv cov kwv tij thiab rau tag nrho cov neeg nyob lo lus ntawm Vajtswv. nyob twj ywm foom koob hmoov rau.

  9. AnnaTeb

    Qhov no yeej hais rau kuv. kuv 21 nyob rau hauv ib tug kev sib raug zoo thiab kuv yuav tsis qhia rau koj yuav ua li cas muaj ntau zaus kuv twb tau hais tias kuv “hluas heev yuav tsum tau xav txog hauv down”, Kuv yuav tsum tau tos rau “nyob lub neej ua ntej”, tiav tsev kawm ntawv thiab tsim kom muaj ib txoj hauj lwm ua ntej kuv nkag mus rau restore / sib yuav. Koj muaj ib tug amazing thiab inspiring zaj lus tim khawv. Kuv xav tias koj thiab koj tus poj niam ib tug lub neej ntawm tej koob hmoov thiab muaj kev zoo siab ua ke!

  10. anonymousTeb

    kuv 20 thiab yeej tsis tau tau nyob rau hauv ib tug kev sib raug zoo ces kuv tsis xav sib yuav los ntawm 21 tab sis kuv twv yuav raug hu hwm koj logic. Kuv yeej ib txwm muaj lub mindset “rau txhua tus nws tus kheej”. Kuv xav tias koj thiab koj tus poj niam yuav twv yuav raug hu mus rau hauv lub deb thiab kuv thiaj li zoo siab rau cov kauj ruam uas koj coj ua ntej sib yuav. Nws zoo li ob qho tib si ntawm koj coj lub committment heev tiag, uas kuv npuaj teg.

  11. Tony DoyleyTeb

    Heev foom koob hmoov rau nyeem koj cov blog txog kev sib yuav ntawm ib tug thaum ntxov muaj hnub nyoog. Kuv tus poj niam tau sib yuav ntawm 18 thiab peb tau tau kaj siab lug sib yuav rau lub 10 xyoo tam sim no. Paub tseeb tias peb twb muaj ib co tuag ib ce thiab downs, tab sis kuv ntseeg hais tias Vajtswv tau ua rau peb tsis tshee tag nrho cov xyoo thiab tam sim no peb yuav muaj zog dua puas tau. Ua tsaug rau koj zaj lus tim khawv amazing.

  12. KLE PhotographyTeb

    Congrats rau koj cov tub ntxhais sib yuav! Kuv tus txiv thiab kuv mus txog rau ib yam khoom thaum peb tau sib yuav 8 xyoo tas los lawm thaum 20 xyoo! Yog li ntawd peb paub raws nraim li cas koj yuav los ntawm! Cov neeg xav tias peb tau sib yuav vim hais tias kuv yog cev xeeb tub (Kuv tsis yog) or because he was an illegal alien (he’s an American citizen). We didn’t have much of our friends in our corner as they were doing the single thing. But now at 28 they are coming around and trying tocatch up.I’m glad God blessed me with my husband regardless of my age. God bless both of you!

    BTW We live in the DMV area! (MD) maybe we all can meet up or go to church together! We still don’t have married friends lol.

  13. KevinFerereTeb

    I don’t think anything is being stolen from you, it’s what you’re giving up. It’s cool to have structure in the Bible, but it’s up to you to dictate your life, not a book; despite the guidance that it provides.

    It’s commendable being committed and young, but part of thatyouthful lust” yog txoj kev kawm thiab loj hlob uas koj tau txais los ntawm lub rooj sib tham thiab kev pib sib txawv cov poj niam. Kawm dab tsi koj nyiam thiab tsis nyiam ua, saib, thiab xav tias; es tsis txhob ntawm koj tau raug li tas rau ib tug neeg.

    Koj muaj peev xwm tsis yeej hais tias koj paub koj yog leej twg thiab zoo li cas koj nyob nraum, los yog txawm li cas koj yeej xav, Yog hais tias koj tsis tau tham tab sis ntau npaum li ntawd nrog lwm tus poj niam rau lawv los qhia hais tias kom koj. Koj tsis paub dab tsi Hlub yog hais tias koj tsis paub dab tsi nws yog tsis.

    • qhuaTeb

      Koj tsis tas yuav paub tias dab tsi Kev hlub yog tsis yog hais tias koj paub dab tsi Kev hlub yog. Yuav ua li cas yuav koj paub yog hais tias ib tug neeg muab rau koj ib tug fake $100 nqi yog tias koj paub dab tsi tiag tiag $100 nqi zoo li. Nws muaj tsuas yog ib tug tiag tiag $100 daim nqi, cia li kawm ntawd thiab koj yuav qhia rau thaum ib tug neeg muab rau koj ib tug fake. Cov tib yam nrog kev hlub. Muaj ntau ntau counterfeits tawm muaj, tab sis yog tias koj paub dab tsi tiag tiag yog, ces koj yuav tsum tau hnov ​​qhov fake. Txij li thaum Vajtswv yog kev hlub, dab tsi tsis ntseeg tsis tau kev hlub.

      • KevinFerereTeb

        Li no koj yuav tsum sau hnub nyob ib ncig ntawm thiab sib ntsib thiab muaj kev sib deev nrog lwm tus neeg. Kuv taw tes raws nraim. Yuav ua li cas yog tsis ntseeg yog subjective. Tej zaum koj yuav sim yuav legalistic txog nws vim hais tias nws yog nyob rau hauv peb qhov mus ua tau li ntawd, Txawm li cas los, peb yuav tsum cia mus ntawm cov hom phiaj ua uas muaj ntau npaum li cas qhov chaw gray amid lub ntsiab lus teb.

        • Angeldoll1Teb

          Kuv tsis pom zoo nrog koj daim ntawv qhia nrog txiv neej pw nrog lwm tus neeg- STD tus, AIDS thiab pliaj me nyuam, yog lub txim ntawm kev li kev sib raug. Yog hais tias ib tug pursues li kev sib raug, lawv yuav tsis kawm paub txog cov kev cog lus thiab lub tob thiab sab ntsuj plig sib nrauj ntawm kev hlub es tsis ntshaw. Tsis tas li ntawd kuv tsis pom zoo nrog koj views txog yos nyob ib ncig ntawm ua ntej koj xav mus ua vim hais tias “yos nyob ib ncig ntawm” yog tsis yog ib tug yuavtsum tau kawm uantej paub ib tug txij nkawm los ntawm ib tug nonspouse. Godly courting / sib tam tau ua rau tib neeg raws li xwm nyob rau hauv phau Vajlugkub whereas muaj mutiple cov neeg koom tes, muaj random nrog txiv neej pw yog cov sijhawm ntawm cov tsiaj.

          • AJ

            Angeldoll1it zoo nkauj naïve ntawm koj xav tias tag nrho cov uas tsis yog-muaj txij nkawm pw ua niam txiv tas ua rau “STD tus, AIDS thiab pliaj me nyuam”… tab sis, ntawm cov hoob kawm, koj yuav tsis paub hais tias yog koj tsis tau coj mus rau lub sij hawm kom tau koj lub taub hau tawm ntawm koj plua plav phau qub thiab nce ib co lub neej kev.

        • KevinFerereTeb

          Koj saib nws tsis zoo. Yog hais tias koj nyob nraum paub tab thiab paub qab hau txaus koj mam li mus txog nws txoj kev. Qhov ntau koj tsis txhob ib yam dab tsi, lub closer koj tuaj rau nws. Tsom ntsoov rau cov positives thiab hais tias yog dab tsi koj yuav tau txais. Tab sis ntawm cov hoob kawm koj kev ntseeg tsis qhia rau koj tias.

    • JoshTeb

      “Greater kev hlub twb tsis muaj ib tug tshaj no, tias ib tug neeg muab nws txoj sia rau nws cov phooj ywg.” (John 15:13) Koj paub dab tsi txoj kev hlub no yog hais tias koj paub Tswv Yexus.

      • KevinFerereTeb

        thov sir, Yog hais tias koj yuav regurgitate vaj lug kub, lub kawg yog koj yuav tau ua yog thov rau koj tus kheej xav mus rau nws. Nws yog ib tug siv, tsis yog ib tug hais lus qhia.

        • nwsTeb

          Koj mus rau cov vaj lug kub yog tsis ncaj ncees lawm thiab txoj kev uas koj xav hais tias koj nyob nraum projecting tus kheej raws li ib tug ntseeg uas tsis ua raws li phau Vajlugkub, tab sis “ua tim khawv” nws tab sis xaiv mus nyob ntawm koj tus kheej cov cai thiab kim thiab xaiv li cas, yog tias dab tsi ua raws li ntawd yog Vajtswv yog hais txog….

          Feem ntau ntawm dab tsi koj nyob nraum thov kom sawv rau yog cov lus qhia cuav.

  14. Gabe TavianoTeb

    Zoo saib koj sib tham no dawm! Tsaug rau kev thov Vajtswv rau kuv lub lim tiam no, Vajtswv paub hais tias tau zoo.

    The crazy thing about you getting married so young is that your ears and eyes have been opened to God more in your few years than some that have closed Him off for much longer. You know that God is a part of your marriage just as much as the two of you are, and that’s huge. Tsaug rau sib koom!

  15. Madeleine FarrellTeb

    This is an excellent thought process. Kuv tau sib yuav ntawm 17 and my husband was 19. At the time we were not Christian, and also, we did not ‘have to’ tau sib yuav. Still for some reason we did. We have been married almost 28 1/2 xyoo tam sim no, are parents of 5 and grandparents of 2. I LOVE my life. Not to say there were times in our marriage that one of us just wanted to walk away and never come back, not to say anger and resentment were not part of our daily lives for a season, los yog tias xav txhab ua tus loj tshaj yuam kev ntawm peb lub neej tsis yog ib tug thought txheej txheem. Tab sis peb cog lus. Thiab thaum sib nrauj tsis yog ib qho kev xaiv, VAJTSWV theem zoo nyob rau hauv lub sij hawm.

    Kuv tus ntxhais tau sib yuav ntawm 20 thiab muaj tsis yog ib tug kev txhawb nws puas tau txais los ntawm cov neeg. Nws tsis to taub yog vim li cas cov neeg xav tias nws yog ib lub xeem chaw uasi es tsis txhob ntawm ib tug raws sij hawm foom koob hmoov rau. Txawm ntawm cov Christian lub zej lub zos.

    Peb tus tub nyob rau lwm cov tes tau sib yuav ntawm Christmas sij hawm, thaum lub hnub nyoog ntawm 27. Cia li tsis tau pom txoj cai ntxhais. Ib yam.. txoj cai tus tub / tus ntxhais yuav e txoj cai tus tub / ntxhais txawm los ntawm cov tawv lub sij hawm. Cia li lo rau Lub Cross.

  16. CLTeb

    Kuv yuav tsis pom zoo ntau. Yog li ntawd muaj coob tus neeg zoo li xav hais tias sib yuav yog phem phem thiab muaj tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tsis muaj yog vim li cas rau “maj” mus rau hauv nws, but it is something that God wants to use to bless and sanctify us. Thank you for the post!

    >>But when I looked in the Scriptures I didn’t find stuff like, "Txoj kev sib yuav sib npaug tuag! Khiav tawm ntawm nws!"los yog, "Muab sib yuav tawm mus txog rau thaum koj tsis tau muab nws tua lawm,"los yog, "Tsuas yog tau sib yuav thaum uas koj nyob nraum qub dhau yuav txaus siab rau lub neej,"los yog, “Play the field for a while and then pick the best one.”

    • AnaTeb

      Thank you so much for the visit to my blogI think I figured out the feed adedrss for you (I posted it in my comments). You have a darling family, by the way! Congrats on your anniversary!

  17. JcsmsoulTeb

    god bless u brother! i know exactly what u mean although i found the lord later in life and i wish i was married to a godly man thats loyal to his wife! these dayz its very hard to find that! and another reason i hope and pray i get married and find the one is because u dont feel guilt when making love when ur married! god bless u!

  18. JazminTeb

    Thank you so much not every one will see marriage as a blessing. Only those that trust and believe in our Lord Jesus Christ will. I to got married at a very young age and at 28 years old me and my husband have 3 beautiful children and our lives are devoted to adore and worship our father in heaven. Marriage isn’t easy though, nws muaj nws yog ib ce thiab downs tab sis los ntawm txoj kev thiab txoj kev hlub tshua ntawm Vajtswv thiab rau koj kam zwm rau nws lub siab nyiam ib tug yog tau loj hlob. Ua tsaug ntau ntau rau koj cov amazing zaj dabneeg nws yog ib tug yeej muaj tseeb foom koob hmoov rau. Kuv tus Tswv tseem yuav tau qhia rau koj thiab koj tus poj niam loj hlob Kuv nug rau nws txawj ntse thiab feem ntau ntawm tag nrho cov ntau yam koob hmoov nyob rau hauv koj lub haum.

  19. Tachy MusicaTeb

    Kuv tau sib yuav li “hluas” zoo li, thiab qhov no yog ib txoj koob hmoov, peb yeej ib txwm ua ke (xws li peb cov ntxhais ntawm cov hoob kawm), peb yuav muab txhua yam, thiab pab txhua lwm yam, ib co ppl xav hais tias yog koj tau sib yuav li cov nws yuav tsum yog rau ib tug luv luv lub sij hawm, tab sis ua Vajtswv tsaug peb yuav luag 8 xyoo sib yuav thiab cov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws sim servin’ Vajtswv txhua lub sij hawm…Koob Hmoov

  20. Agopylove09Teb

    tias yog li ntawd txaus!! im 25 and ive been thinking about what all comes along with being a good wife and truly being submissive and having god as your center and always seeking his counsel for it all and just truly letting christ take the lead and building that relationship on the solid ground of christ jesus..falling in love with our savior first is truly a must!! having that intimate relationship with HIM alllows you to grow and know what love really is and GOD provides that love that u give to your spouse.. so greatful for a savior Who always provides..<3

  21. Joe StevensTeb

    Am an oldee who agrees fully with Triplee. Though of course it is different strokes (ages) for different folks. And everyone must marry at their God-designed time. kuv 50 yrs old, got married to my sweetheart when I was 23 thiab nws yog 20! Tam sim no 27 years and 1 lub hlis tom qab, muaj tas mus li (zoo) foob ​​pob hluav taws ntawm peb, tseem madly nyob rau hauv kev hlub, phooj ywg zoo tshaj thiab taug kev ua ke nyob rau hauv Vajtswv lub hom phiaj. Yuav tsis pauv tus muaj hnub nyoog kuv sib yuav rau lub 6 lub hlis tom qab! Tab sis txawm kuv cov me nyuam yuav tsum paub lawv cov circumstacces yog tsis tas zoo tib yam rau peb li, tsis yog Vajtswv lub timings thiab cov kev npaj rau lawv raws nraim tib yam.

  22. Femi millionaireTeb

    Am an oldee who agrees fully with Triplee. Though of course it is different strokes (ages) for different folks. Thiab txhua leej txhua tus twb yuav ntawm lawv tus Vajtswv tsim lub sij hawm. kuv 50 yrs old, got married to my sweetheart when I was 23 thiab nws yog 20! Tam sim no 27 years and 1 lub hlis tom qab, muaj tas mus li (zoo) foob ​​pob hluav taws ntawm peb, tseem madly nyob rau hauv kev hlub, phooj ywg zoo tshaj thiab taug kev ua ke nyob rau hauv Vajtswv lub hom phiaj. Yuav tsis pauv tus muaj hnub nyoog kuv sib yuav rau lub 6 lub hlis tom qab!

  23. ReverandjeffTeb

    Kuv paub qhov no yog ib tug tag nrho thiab zoo… Cia li zoo siab rau peb 13th xyoo ntawm kev sib yuav, thiab kuv 35.. Kuv tau tib folks nug kuv tib txoj kev, tab sis peb tsuas paub Vajtswv tau tsa nws thiab tsim nws. Peb Tshooj txhua lwm yam lub neej ntawm pivotal sij hawm uas peb twb tuaj ua txhua tus thauj tog rau nkoj, nrog ib qho thauj tog rau nkoj ntawm Khetos. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws ib feem yog thaum peb tau txais rau lub sij hawm los tham rau neeg hluas uas yog tawm tsam nrog kev sib raug zoo / kev sib yuav thiab peb tau mus qhia rau peb cov exceptional zaj lus tim khawv !!! Raws li ib tug teeb meem ntawm qhov tseeb, muaj ib co ntawm cov kev sib tham nrog JPaul ib txhia xyoo dhau los.. Me ntiaj teb no !!! Vajtswv tau muab rau cov neeg uas nrhiav nws lub CAI TUS NQI system, thiab peb rau nqi saib peb tav es tsis txhob ntawm runnin tom qab chickenbones. :)

  24. BobshumakerTeb

    kuv Dad & Niam twb high school sweethearts thiab lawv tau sib yuav tom qab kawm tiav (ob qho tib si nyob 18 xyoo). Lawv yog cov tseem kaj siab lug yuav ua rau hnub no thiab yeej tsis tau qhia khuv xim dab tsi txog lawv lub neej ua ke. Ua ib tug neeg laus tej zaum yuav pib nrog sib yuav – thiab koj tus cwj pwm uas hais txog koj kev txiav txim siab mirrors kuv niam kuv txiv. Godly ua txij ua nkawm ob peb thiab deb deb nrab nyob rau hauv no caug xyoo….Vajtswv yuav foom koob hmoov rau koj thiab kom koj zoo siab rau yam tsawg 50 los yog 60 xyoo!

  25. Jeffreycotton7Teb

    Kuv ua tsaug rau koj thiab koj tus poj niam heev npaum li cas rau kev sib koom koj cov dab neeg. kuv 21 thiab xav tias zoo li kuv yuav los ntawm yuav luag tib yam teeb meem. Kuv yuav cia li tsis tau sib yuav tsis tau. Kuv muaj tias mindset ntawm vim li cas tos hais tias koj thiab koj tus khub yog nyob rau hauv kev hlub, ob leeg yog sab ntsuj plig, zoo, thiab zoo meej los ntawm txhua lwm tus ob lub qhov muag. Kuv tus ntxhais thiab kuv muaj tsis muaj tsis ntseeg tias peb yeej yuav tau mus yuav tau sib yuav muaj ib hnub. Tiam sis txawm peb xav kom tau sib yuav, nws yog ntau tshaj ib tug coj nws lub sij hawm; peb muaj tag nrho cov sij hawm nyob rau hauv lub ntiaj teb no hom neeg. Kuv xav paub ntxiv txog ib tug ASAP peb tsis tau cog lus tseg tag kis hom neeg. Yog li ntawd yog vim li cas tos? Nws yog ib tug heev ntse ntxhais. Nws rau kuv nco txog koj tus poj niam thiab nws zaj dabneeg rau ib tug me ntsis. Xav tias tej yam uas tej zaum yuav tau txais nyob rau hauv txoj kev ntawm lub tsev kawm ntawv thiab cov hauj lwm lub hom phiaj. Tab sis hais tias yog ntau ntawm cov kev sib tham nrog cov me nyuam tom qab sib yuav. Kuv yeej ib txwm qhia rau nws tias kuv tsis xav kom peb muaj peb thawj tus me nyuam nyob ze rau 30 xyoo. Kuv tsis xav kom kuv lub cev mus pib tau txais weaker vim hais tias muaj hnub nyoog, uas yuav ua rau nws nyuaj thiab ntau tiring mus ua si nyob ib ncig ntawm nrog kuv cov me nyuam. kuv xav 7 ntawm cov feem coob thiab 3 nyob rau tsawg kawg. Yog li ntawd nws zoo tau pib nyob rau hauv ib tug dlej muaj hnub nyoog. Tab sis kuv yuav tseem yuav ua kom tawm nws nyob rau hauv Vajtswv txhais tes thiab tsis txhob txhawj txog nws heev npaum li cas.

  26. aneetarhTeb

    ua tsaug rau u thiaj li ntau dawm n Jess, n txhua leej txhua tus hu dt tau muab qhia ib kev txhawb zog nyob rau hauv ib txoj kev los d Oda. tam sim no kuv tsis muaj lawm ntshai ntawm gettn sib yuav thaum ntxov tshwj xeeb tshaj yog considern d fact dt peb ob hlub Vajtswv. Vajtswv BIS nyob rau hauv…

  27. khiav ceevTeb

    Jannon Fitzpatrick, Kuv pom zoo tias Vajtswv yog kev hlub. Tib txoj kev kom muaj kev hlub tiag tiag yog los ua ib tug neeg uas tsim kev hlub. Ntawm rau cov neeg peb muaj peev xwm tsim tsis muaj dab tsi rau cov uas caliber tshwj tsis yog tias peb yog cia Vajtswv coj peb kev hlub lub neej zoo li. “Greater kev hlub twb tsis muaj ib tug tshaj no, hais tias nws muab nws txoj sia rau nws cov phooj ywg” Jhn 15:13. Hlub tsis yog nrhiav tus kheej txaus siab (KevinFerere), los yog nrhiav ib tug neeg uas ua haujlwm los thiab kov hluav taws xob impulses nyob rau hauv koj lub paj hlwb. Ironically, koj daim duab ntawm lub “Creation ntawm Adas” nyob rau hauv koj nplooj los ntawm lub Renaissance lub sij hawm uas yog thaum lub ideology ntawm kev hlub thiab kev sib tam tig mus rau hauv ib yam dab tsi rau tus neeg gratification tsis muaj teeb meem dab tsi rau tus nqi rau lwm tus neeg. Qhov ntawd painting nyob rau hauv nws tus kheej yog heretical hais tias Adas yog xeeb rau Vajtswv thiab coj ib feem nyob rau hauv nws creation. Lub Irony no, Michelangelo thaum kawg ntawm nws lub neej pom dab tsi nws tau ua li cas thiab hloov siab lees txim, sim sib tov cov ntseeg Vajtswv thiab tib neeg (Tus txiv neej ua ntsuas ntawm tag nrho cov yam). Qhov no ideology kev hlub yog qhov twg yog kuv xav tias koj yuav los ntawm ? uas yog tib yam uas lawv xyaum nyob rau hauv Greek, Renaissance, thiab hnub no tus kab lis kev cai. Muaj tiag tiag yog “tsis muaj dab tsi tshiab nyob rau hauv lub hnub”-Solomon, kuj los ntawm phau Vajlugkub.

  28. Paul JonesTeb

    hav dawm tau sib yuav vim kuv yog 22 thiab 28 tam sim no. cia li muaj peb 6 anv. Vaj tswv muaj foom koob hmoov rau peb nrog 4 cov hluas. kuv thov Vajtswv hais tias nws kom foom koob hmoov rau koj thiab koj tsev neeg.

  29. Danz_17unlockedTeb

    Qhov no yog zoo ntxim nyiam kawg dawm, Thov kom Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau u thiab koj tus poj niam… thiab tej zaum yuav lwm tus b foom koob hmoov rau los ntawm no ^ _ ^ <3

  30. CLLTeb

    Yuav ua li cas ib tug ntxim hlub los hais lus rau lub siab zoo ntawm Vajtswv thiab dab tsi nws yuav tau ua nyob rau hauv lub neej uas yog lig surrendered mus rau Nws. Kuv tus txiv thiab kuv tau sib yuav tus hluas (ntawm 24) and like you and your wife, God saw fit to bring us together for His glory. Our son married young, at age 20 earlier this yeargasp :-) and he definitely found a good thing in his godly wife. We wanted nothing more for him and it’s a blessing.

  31. KarendaTeb

    What a great article! My husband and I got married young as well, I was 22 and my husband was 25. We just celebrated 15 years of marriage. Yexus, has brought us closer together as a couple over the years, teaching us todie to ourselvesin order to better love and serve each other. Selfishness is the number one destroyer of most marriages.

    Thank you for your willingness to be up front and honest about the topic of marriage as it relates to Scripture!

  32. MichaelTeb

    My wife and I married at 21 zoo li, and that was 11 years and 6 children ago (bio/adopted/foster). I didn’t know I wastoo youngto marry, Kuv tsuas paub tias nws yog ib qhov kuv tsis xav ua neej nyob tsis muaj! Vajtswv tau zoo.

  33. AJTeb

    Nyeem ntawm cov kab: peb hlub Yexus thiab peb twb horny.

    Kuv saib qhov no tshwm sim txhua lub sij hawm cov ntseeg thiab xav hais tias cov lus sib cav li no hais tias las voos nyob ib ncig ntawm lub tiag tiag txug yog lom zem heev. Nws yuav muaj kev txhaum los cia li muaj kev sib deev, li ntawd nws yog nyob deb wiser mus maj mus ua ib tug neej siab.

  34. ClaraTeb

    Tus Vajtswv uas pib hais tias sib yuav yuav tsum muaj tseeb saib koj los ntawm nws tag nrho cov. Koj yog ib tug txhawb zog rau cov tub christian hluas thiab ib khub niam txiv kev mus txawv tebchaws. Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau koj!!

  35. TXOJ HAUJ LWMTeb

    Kuv tau sib yuav thaum muaj hnub nyoog 21 thiab nyob rau hauv tib lub xyoo raws li koj mus txawv tebchaws Lee, nyob rau hauv 2009. Kuv tau ntsib nws nyob rau hauv lub tsev teev ntuj thaum kuv yog 16 xyoo laus thiab peb tau ua ke rau yuav luag 8 xyoo tam sim no. Peb ua Vajtswv ua ke nrog AYCM ministries, reaching out to villages and sharing the word of God in the Philippines. We told each other everydayI love you because I see how much you love God”. I do not ever regret asking her for her hand in marriage. The past 4 years of marriage has been a blessing.

  36. IsaacTeb

    God’s word is indeed supreme. Proverbs 18:22 clearly spells this out.
    Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord´´.
    My take for whoever wants to get married is to first and foremost ask for God’s direction in choosing the right partner. We as humans shouldnt make our own choices and forcifully ask God to bless it. es, we should surrender in total obedience, reach out for God’s grace and ask for guidance to follow his direction for our lives.

  37. SteveMcMillonTeb

    I respect this so much!! Its so encouraging because I have had a desire to be married ever since I was 6 yrs old and alot of people put me down for it. In many ways it created insecurities in me. Thank you again for this!

  38. TerriTeb

    A little over 35 years ago I married my high school sweetheart. We were both 18, almost 19. We had many naysayers and my dad even hoped I would get divorced and find a doctor. When God arranges a marriage it doesn’t matter what the age of the bride and groom. Many blessings!

  39. MissyTeb

    I was married young as well (20 to be exact). Now at 32, I feel as though you can be married at any given age and at any given time to whoeverand God will use a person that loves Him in any circumstance to draw Himself closer to that person… tag nrho cov koj yuav tsum tau zoo siab hlo coj dawb huv raws li Nws yog dawb huv. Yog vim li cas kuv tsis ntseeg hais tias yog “ib tug”… Tej neeg uas xaiv tau sib yuav, ua “ib tug lub” rau eachother :)

  40. JohnnyTeb

    Ua tsaug rau koj heev npaum li cas. Kuv tus poj niam thiab kuv muaj ib tug zoo li zaj dabneeg. Ib tug phooj ywg muab tso rau no niaj hnub no thiab nws yog dab tsi kuv yuav tsum tau. Qhuas Tswv Yexus!

  41. LiseTeb

    Ua tsaug rau koj qhov no tsab xov xwm! kuv 36 xyoo thiab kuv muaj tau sib yuav rau 19yrs…yep, I was 17 thaum kuv sib yuav kuv 18yr laus tus txiv! Peb muaj rau cov me nyuam, hlub Tus Tswv thiab yog zoo siab heev :) peb yuav hais kom zoo xws li cov lus nug tag nrho cov sij hawm thiab thaum tej zaum nws yuav tsis yog ib tug nrov xaiv los yog tus xaiv txoj kev rau ntau, Kuv zoo siab thiab siab rau txhua hnub uas peb tau muab rau txoj kev xaiv rau peb.

  42. SteffanTeb

    Qhov no yog amazing. I know plenty of people who think this is the biggest mistake of your life. kuv 22 and have really been considering this with someone I have known and loved since my sophomore year of high school. I am sure things aren’t sunshine and rainbows for you, nor do I expect it to be for me. I commend you for putting aside all of the negativity and looking at the larger picture and what you felt God lead you to. If no one else is ever happy for you, I truly am.

  43. Kim HunterTeb

    I met my husband at 14 we got married when I was 21 and he was 23 we have been together for 22 years and married for 15 of those 22 there’s nothing wrong with getting married young its just how a person looks at life….because really your lifr is what you make it….thiab yog kuv thiab kuv tus txiv dim thiab ntseeg hais tias nyob rau hauv vaj tswv thiab peb nyob peb lub neej rau nws nrog vajtswv tag nrho tej yam uas yog ua tau tshwj xeeb tshaj yog ib tug ntev healthly hlub sib yuav tsis muaj dab tsi yooj yim tab sis nrog vajtswv koj yuav ua tau nws…….yUAV BLESSED!!

  44. mention: Vim li cas kuv tau sib yuav li cov? - Kingdom Cakers Kingdom Cakers

  45. CherisseTeb

    Yuav ua li cas foom koob hmoov rau paub tus Tswv thiab to taub nws lo lus. Kuv xav muaj ntau cov neeg zoo li koj. Tsis txhob cia lub dab ntxwg nyoog thuam koj. Peb paub nws yog qhov txhia chaw.

  46. GrantYoungTeb

    Kuv tus poj niam thiab kuv tau sib yuav thaum peb twb 22 thiab kuv tau muaj tib txoj kev. Cov phooj ywg uas tau txais kev cawmdim thiab tseem tsis tau ntseeg xav qhia rau kuv paub tias kuv muaj ntau lub neej nyob. Kuv txiav nco kuv ntawm tag nrho cov clubbing thiab partying kuv yuav ua li cas. kuv “ze” cov phooj ywg piav qhia hais tias muaj lwm cov ntses nyob rau hauv lub hiav txwv mus tshawb. zoo, peb yeej tau sib yuav nyob ib ncig ntawm lub tib lub sij hawm 3 lwm khub niam txiv peb muaj hnub nyoog puas tau! Peb nyob nraum ib haiv neeg tsawg, tiam sis mas nws yeej tsis nyob ib leeg thiab nws txhawb tau nco ntsoov hais tias.

    Los ntawm Vajtswv txoj kev tshav ntuj peb cia li zoo siab rau 3 xyoo thiab nws tau txaus! Ua tsaug rau koj sib koom dawm!

  47. MarkTeb

    Kuv nqa mus yuav hais tias yog hais tias koj yuav tau sib yuav li cov, koj zoo dua paub lub txim ntawm kev ua li ntawd. Nws yog nyuaj heev txawm nyob rau hauv lub heev tshaj plaws ntawm tej yam. Yog hais tias koj tseem tsis tau npaj txhij mus ua hauj lwm hnyav tshaj plaws pub koj twb tau ua hauj lwm thiab lig txi thiab nrog ntau ntau disappointments thiab tu siab, tsis tau tso npe rau nws. Txawm li cas los, Yog hais tias koj muaj peev xwm ua siab ntev nyiaj (thiab ib co neeg ua) yog tias yuav ua tau ib txoj muaj nqi ntawm lub sij hawm.

  48. KevinTeb

    Kuv hlub no biblically raws li foundations. Nws tsis tshua muaj cov American Christian, qhov twg cov kev cai thiab kev sib raug zoo lug yog li ntawd, anti-sib yuav, mus ntsib ib tug neeg hluas, txawm ib tug neeg laus, muaj xws li ib tug sab ntsuj plig paub tab saib rau ntawm tus nqi ntawm Vajtswv lub tsev kawm ntawv. Raws li rau ntau ntau cov lus kuv twb nyeem, no foundations suab li txawv teb chaws mus rau cov neeg, txawm nyob rau hauv lub Koom Txoos vim hais tias peb twb tso cai rau peb tus kheej rau lean ntawm cov kev sib raug cai ntawm lub hnub es tus Biblical tseeb ntawm yog dab tsi Vajtswv tuas yuav tsum tau muaj nuj nqis thiab treasured. Thov vaj tswv rau koj mus txawv tebchaws, kom qhia txoj Moo Zoo thiab qhov tseeb ntawm Vajtswv txoj lus tau cov tswv yim thiab tiag tiag nyob rau hauv lub believer lub neej.

  49. PastorRobTeb

    Kuv xav qhia rau koj paub dawm- Lee kuv tau sib yuav 2 lub hlis tom qab kuv muab 21. Yog Vajtswv tag nrho cov nyob rau hauv nws? Yog Nws tag nrho cov nyob rau hauv nws txawm neeg lub tswv yim thiab lawv kev xav txog vim li cas kuv yuav tsum tsis txhob tau sib yuav hais tias kuv yuav tsum tau mus tos. Tus txiv neej ntawm Vajtswv kuv tau sib yuav rau lub 16 xyoo tam sim no nrog 2 Zoo nkauj hluas nkauj thiab kuv kom huv si greatful rau Vajtswv rau ib tug Vajtswv txawj ntse, honorable precious pob zeb diamond. Txoj kev zoo nkauj hais txog koj zaj lus tim khawv yog nws yog meant rau koj los qhia rau nws!!!

  50. mention: Tib v. sib yuav… | Lub ntsiab lus ntawm lub neej

  51. MavisTeb

    Kuv muaj tswv yim rau tag nrho cov tub hluas ntxhais hluas. Yog hais tias koj yog 18 los yog tshaj, pib nrhiav ib tug txij nkawm! Pw ua ke sab nraum yog sib yuav yuav coj koj tsis muaj dab tsi tab sis tu siab, leaness ntawm tus ntsuj plig thiab phem noj qab haus huv, puas siab puas ntsws thiab lub cev. Tau sib yuav yog ib tug xyiv fab thiab economic koob! Koj yuav tau txais heev npaum li cas ntxiv ua li cas thiab txaus siab rau lufe li ntau npaum li cas yog hais tias koj tsis nyob ib leeg. Koj niam koj txiv tej zaum tau sib nrauj vim hais tias lawv tsis ua raws li lawv lub siab lub ntsws nyob rau hauv lawv cov hluas! Kuv tsis muaj lub chaw mus piav qhia txog tag nrho nws, tab sis koj ua yuav tsum tau mated. Pib ua yor daim ntawv teev cov yuav tsum muaj qhov zoo tam sim ntawd thiab yuav cov tub ntxhais thaum koj muaj koj tag nrho lub siab muab. kuv 53 thiab heev grayeful yuav tsum tau kaj siab lug sib. Kuv twb sib yuav ntawm 31 -lub siab tawg ntau lub sij hawm thiab ntau ntau yog tias lub sij hawm cov tub ntxhais hluas-txoj kev lig dhau lawm. Vam tias ua tau yog tias koj yuav tsum tau paub qab hau nyob rau hauv koj cov tub ntxhais hluas thiab txaus siab rau nws los ntawm ua tam sim no nyob rau hauv nws!

  52. GOSPELMAGDOTCOMTeb

    Nyob zoo dawm Lee,
    Peb zoo siab nyeem koj cov khoom.
    Ua koj muab rau peb lub tso cai txhais lus rau koj cov khoom rau hauv Fabkis txoj thiab luam tawm tsab lawv nyob rau peb lub website: gospelmag.com?
    Ua tsaug ntau ntau ua ntej rau koj cov lus teb.
    Qhov zoo tshaj plaws nyob rau hauv Tswv Yexus,
    Marcel

  53. txoj kev hlub tshuaTeb

    Kuv tus phooj ywg yuav kuv phau ntawv no thaum peb twb cov hluas hais txog ua ib tug hluas, dignified Christian poj niam. Of course it encouraged waiting until after marriage and everything and had verses throughout. It mentioned and she brought it up herself that God doesn’t want for us to date. I made a vow to myself that I would have boundaries with guys (I think I almost am completely done with outgrowing my shyness). I would save certain things for marriage but on and off the past 2 years I’ve gotten depressed. I’ve felt lonely. I wondered what’s wrong with me and if I’m good enough. I’m not. I don’t know every bible verse. I need to study a lot more. I’ve been trying and I don’t want to get to know just any guy because I can become heartbroken and he can lead me down a path God doesn’t want me down but I get lonely. Nws yog ib txwm zoo nkauj mus saib lwm cov neeg nyob hauv kev hlub. Nws yog txawm ZOO yog hais tias lawv nyob nraum sib yuav thiab kuv paub tias nws yog tsis zoo yuav khib tab sis txhua leej txhua tus hais tias “huag, nws mam li tuaj thaum lub sij hawm lub sij hawm KOJ”. Kuv xav hais tias txog nws tsis tu ncua lately. Kuv tau ntsib no tiag tiag zoo txiv leej tub. Peb muaj heev zoo xws li cov personalities tab sis nws hais tias nws tsis mus rau lub tsev teev ntuj. Nws hais tias nws ntseeg hais tias nyob rau hauv Vajtswv thiab kuv paub tias kuv yuav tsis zoo tag nrho kuv tus kheej tab sis kuv yuav pab tsis tau tab sis xav vim hais tias kuv tsis xav tias nws yog nquag nrhiav Vajtswv yog hais tias kuv yuav mus khuv xim ib yam dab tsi. Cov poj niam yuav tsis tsum mus sim thiab hloov cov txiv neej kuv tau hnov. Nws ua rau yus chim siab supposedly. zoo, Kuv nkees ntawm tos. Kuv twv kuv mam li kawm txoj kev nyuab. Kuv tsis nrog txiv neej pw tab sis yog. kuv 23 thiab tseem sawv muaj zog nyob rau hauv uas tab sis kuv tsis meej pem vim li cas kuv tsis tsim nyog ib tug txiv tam sim no. Txhua leej txhua tus lwm tus tau txais qhov lawv xav tau. Nws yog li ntawd annoying tias kuv yuav tsis txhob xav txog hais mav. Kuv tau thiaj li muaj kev nyuaj siab tej zaum. Yog hais tias kuv yuav no txiv leej tub thiab nws tsis tau hloov peb yuav unequally lo tsheej xeeb? Ib txhia neeg muaj txhua yam. Thiab kuv tsis tau hais tias cov nyiaj. Kuv cia li xav ib tug neeg uas txaus li kuv. Nws yog ntau heev los mus piav qhia.

    • NatalieTeb

      txoj kev hlub tshua:
      Koj tseem tsuas 23! :) Tsis txhob txhawj txog tsis nrhiav tus “txoj cai” ib tug, muaj yog tsis yog ib tug neeg muaj sia uas yog ib tug zoo xaiv. Thiab cia li hais: KOJ YOG nqis. Muaj yog ib tug yog vim li cas hais tias koj yog koj thiab nyob rau lub ntiaj teb no ntawm lub sij hawm no. Koj uas muaj nqi heev rau Yexus, cia li nyeem thiab thov Nws cog lus tseg thaum koj pib xav hais tias koj yuav tsis tsim nyog nws. My favorite is: “I will never leave you or forsake you.
      Someone I knew recently got divorced, and a huge issue in their marriage was that she was a believer and he was not. A decision you will have to make will beis God worth it?” Keep seeking the Lord with all your heart, and HE will direct you. He will guide you. He will provide the encouragement you need when you feel overwhelmed and depressed. Something I have found very helpful is reading Scripture out loud before I go to bed, and especially when I feel down and under attack from the enemy. You never know what God has just around the corner.. if only you wait. I know it sounds so hard and honestly, annoying, but if you will keep seeking the Lord, He will satisfy you in this season. There is a reason you are in the season! You never know how God will use it as a testimony to help other young girls who are struggling with the same thing! :) I hope this helped in some way! Koob Hmoov!

  54. MichealaTeb

    Kuv tau sib yuav ntawm 21 and it was beautiful
    You can’t help who you fall in love with or when you fall in love with them,
    I never thought I would be the type to marry young and miss out on thefun thingsin life .. but i don’t think i did, I just shared myfun thingswith someone I love and couldn’t imagine living without.

  55. GisselleTeb

    Hi I’m Gisselle I’m from Honduras. kuv 18 years old and my boyfriend is 19. We met 15 months ago in his church in New York! I live in Honduras.. Therefore it has been a long distance relationship. I’m in my second year of college and so as he. We’ve talked about getting married. And some of our relatives and elders from his church supports us and tell us is the best thing to do. I’m still insecure about it.. My mom isn’t too open about me getting married so young and so as my sisters. We have been praying since we first thought about marriage as a possibility. If you could write me to my email i would be grateful!

  56. JenniferTeb

    We were married 21 xyoo dhau los. I was 19 and my husband was 21. We have drawn closer to each other and to God. Three kids later we are looking forward to the next 20.

  57. CharlesTeb

    I just wanted to say thank you for the straight forward way that you preach Gods word. I just watched the ‘Fallin’ music video tom qab ib hnub twg ntawm txoj ke thiab tej kev ntxias thiab xav li tab sis Vajtswv hais txoj cai rau hauv dab tsi kuv yuav los ntawm. Lub amazing Gift ntawm Hlub tias peb qhia tsis tau ntsuas los yog coj rau pom zoo. Ua tsaug ntau heev rau koj rov qhib kuv ob lub qhov muag rau ib yam dab tsi li ntawd, ntsiab nyob rau hauv kuv taug kev nrog Vajtswv. Kuv kuj thov Vajtswv hais tias Vajtswv yuav foom koob hmoov rau koj nyob rau hauv koj lub hauj lwm qhuab qhia.

  58. ChideraTeb

    Thaum Vajtswv qhia tau hais tias koj yog ib tug neeg thiab tus neeg uas muaj tib lub mob siab rau Vajtswv raws li koj thiab npaj txhij mus taug kev nrog koj tag nrho txoj kev. nws tsis muaj nqi dab tsi muaj hnub nyoog, ib zaug lub sij hawm los koj yuav. Qhov yog cia li lees paub nws nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov ntawm koj txoj kev, nws mam li ua rau koj txoj kev kom ncaj (Proverbs 3:6). Cia li muaj tus mob siab rau thiab kev hlub rau Vajtswv, thaum lub sij hawm nws mam li muab koj nrog rau koj helpmate uas yuav sawv nrog koj los ntawm nws tag nrho cov. Don’t wanna part, then don’t part with God. In ALL of thy ways acknowledge him, he’ell make your path straight.

  59. StacyTeb

    My husband is 3/4 black and a quarter white.(Kuv dawb). My husband I got married young also I 18 going to 19 and my husband was 20. People told us not to, we were making a mistake and will send in divorce. We didn’t listen we got married and now we have been 16 xyoo. God is in control.

  60. jaysmithTeb

    Kevin–you seem like you have a few things down. And you are working your way up. Keep going, kid! Nyob rau hauv lub kawg, to know yourself half as well is most of the vattle, despite any shortcomings. Koob Hmoov!

  61. TheRealHonestTruthTeb

    Well for the people out there that have been BLESSED with very Excellent luck with NO health problems at all and being married with a family with a lot of money certainly have so much to be very thankful for since they really should have NO reason to complain when many of us are NOT that lucky at all even though many of you did get married too young which there are a lot of you that are still together today.

  62. RachelSanchezTeb

    My husband and I got married earlier this year. He is 22, and I am 21. I get asked all the time why I wouldthrow my youth awayor why I would even think about getting married in college. I surprisingly get the most hurtful comments from older women who seem to look down on me. It’s heartbreaking that others can’t recognize that I am actually really enjoying my youth with my most favorite person in the world. It’s sad when people (even older generations) think that it’s perfectly fine for people in their 20s to sleep around, but when they get married it’s shocking and horrible. We just hope our marriage can inspire others to take the leap when they feel ready, regardless of what society tells them.