N'chifukwa Chiyani Ndiyenera pabanja Choncho Young?

Dzulo ine ndinapanga usiku amasiya pa sitolo kuti akathyole zinthu zingapo ndipo ndinali kucheza kwambiri ndi anawapatsa ndalama ndi. Tinalengeza nkhani yaing'ono monga iye scanned zinthu zanga, ndipo anandipatsa khadi kuchotsera koma ndinamuuza mkazi wanga kale mmodzi. Pamene kukambirana nawo zosangalatsa. Ine ndikudziwa nkhaniyi zonse bwino chifukwa ine ndakhala nalo ilo kambirimbiri. Zimakhalira motere ...

munthu: Chani!? Mutalowa m'banja?

ine: Eya Ndakhala pa banja kwa awiri ndi theka zaka chodabwitsa.

munthu: Muli ndi zaka zingati? Mukuwoneka ngati mwana.

ine: Ine ndiri makumi atatu.

munthu: Ndiwe wamng'ono! Chifukwa mu dziko mungachite chiyani kuti?

ine: Chifukwa chiyani ine?

mu 2009, Ine anakwatiwa ali ndi zaka sadzachitanso malamulo ndipo sakonda olemekezeka a zaka makumi awiri mmodzi. Pachibwenzi wanga, chinkhoswe, ndi waufupi ukwati, Ine ndakhala nthawi ndi nthawi kachiwiri mafunso ngati, "N'chifukwa kukwatiwa wamng'ono? Kodi liwiro?”, ndipo ndimaikonda munthu, "Inu akanayembekezera ndipo anali moyo wanu!”

Ena mwa anthu a mafunso amenewa anali alendo, koma ena anali banja. Anali ine wopenga kukwatiwa pa chotero "achinyamata” m'badwo?

Chabwino ine ndikupatsa zifukwa zitatu ndinaganiza kukwatiwa pamene ine ndinatero.

1. Ndinakumana ndi mkazi Mulungu

Monga oyamba kumene khumi wazaka ku koleji Baibulo, Sindinali mwachangu kufunafuna mkazi, koma Mulungu anaona kuti atchule ine Mtsikana amene mtima wake. Anali wokongola, koma makamaka chofunika kwambiri adakonda Yesu. Iye ankadziwa kuti iye anali wochimwa akufunika chisomo cha Mulungu, ndipo iye anali wodzichepetsa, wophunzitsika mtima. Tinasamukira kukhala gawo la mpingo chimodzimodzi, kotero ine ndiyenera penyani wake amatumikira, kukula, ndi mokhulupirika nthawi anthu ena. Ndinayamba kulankhula kwa bwalo mkati mwanga za iye. Anzanga, akuthandizeni, ndi azibusa onse anagwirizana – iye anali mkazi woopa Mulungu. Ndimatha kuziona ndekha kuyenda naye ndi kukoma kwake chifukwa cha moyo wanga wonse.

2. Ndakonzeka

Ndi nthawi iyi ndinayamba kuganizira za choonadi cha ukwati ndi tanthauzo kuchita nokha kuti munthu moyo wonse. Ndinadzifunsa kapena ndinali okhwima ndi okonzeka. I anafufuza Malemba ndi kuganizira za udindo wa mwamuna, ndipo anayankhula kwa anzawo m'banja ndi akuthandizeni. Pambuyo zambiri pemphero ndi kucheza, akuthandizeni anga ndi abusa mu mpingo wanga anandiuza iwo ankaganiza kuti ine ndinali wokonzeka wake. Ine umakondwera. Koma ine sindikanati ayamba ngati ine ndinaganiza ine sindinali wokonzeka mwauzimu zimamufikitsa, azimuthandiza, ndi kukhala mutu wa banja.

3. Ukwati ndi dalitso

Poyamba ndinkaona ngati ndinali kuzindikira naysayers kuti kukwatira achinyamata ndi bwino nthawi zina. Koma pamene ine ndinayang'ana mu Malemba sindinamupeze zinthu monga, "Banja liri imfa! Kuthawa!” kapena, "Ikani m'banja ndipo mpaka inu simungakhoze kuyika izo kenanso,” kapena, "Only kukwatiwa pamene inu muli wokalamba kwambiri ndi moyo,” kapena, "Masewera munda kwa kanthawi ndiyeno amanyamula wabwino kwambiri.”

M'malo ndinapeza malamulo ngati, "Thawani achinyamata chilakolako”, Ine kuwerenga nkhani ngati Miyambo 18:22 kuti anati, "Wopeza mkazi apeza chinthu chabwino ndipo amalandira chisomo kwa Yehova.”

Choncho pamene anthu amanena, "Kodi wogwidwa inu kukwatiwa wamng'ono?” yankho langa latsopano ndi, "Inu funso yolakwika.” Ine ndikuganiza pa muzu wa funsoli ndi maganizo oti ukwati abera kuchokera kwa ine, ngati mnyamata langa adadzonga m'chikondi anachita nsembe pamene izo zikhoza kugwiritsidwa ntchito zosangalatsa wamba flakiness.

Banja ndi mphatso yochokera kwa Mulungu! Zimatanthauza chisomo. Ndinapeza mkazi, ndi kuti chinthu chabwino. Ine simukugwirizana ndi mfundo imene akunena, kuvula madalitso olemera a Mulungu monga mmene mungathere. M'malo ine ndinganene kusangalala mphatso zabwino Mulungu ndi Mtumiki iwo kwa ulemerero Wake.

Izi sizikutanthauza kuti aliyense ayenera kukwatiwa pamene ine ndinatero. Zikanakhala wapita zoipa ngati ine ndayesera kukwatira kale ndinali wokonzeka. Ena a ife afunika kukhala okhwima more, ndi ena tiyenera kupemphera wokhutira ndi kukhulupirira Yehova ndi nthawi Yake. Cholinga changa sizikutanthauza kuti achinyamata inu kukwatiwa, kwambiri woyera inu. Ine ndikungofuna kuthetsa nkhani zimene tiyenera sachedwa akula ndipo kokha kuganizira ukwati kamodzi ndife makumi atatu kapena kuposerapo.

Sakudandaula

Usiku watha on Twitter wina anandipempha bondo kukwatiwa wamng'ono. yankho langa? Nkhabe.

Ndi chimodzi cha zinthu zabwino ndapangapo. Ndine wokondwa olungama kwambiri kuposa ine zaka ziwiri ndi theka chapitacho, ndi kuti chinthu chabwino. Ine sindikufuna kuoneka ngati ine ndiri ena anomaly wapamwamba osowa. Ine ndikudziwa zambiri anthu amene anakwatira monga mmene kapena wamng'ono ine. Nawonso kuti ukwati ndi mphatso ndipo iwo anawona chipatso cha mphatso. Ine ndi mkazi wanga akhale wamng'ono tsopano, koma ine ndikuwapempherera chisomo kukonda mkazi wanga mpaka mapeto a moyo wathu. Mpaka ine ndikufuna kumvera nzeru ya Miyambo ndi "Kondwerani mwa mkazi wa ubwana wanga.”

amauza

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  1. Jannon Fitzpatrickanayankha

    Ine mwaulemu samagwirizana ndi Kevin Ferere. Simungadziwe chikondi mpaka inu mukudziwa Mulungu ndi amene, chifukwa Mulungu ndiye Chikondi! Baibulo silinenapo za chibwenzi padziko kapena zimavuta ndi anthu ena kupeza kuti wina. Pamenepo, Isaac layed pa pa Rebecca ndipo anadziwa kuti iye anali mmodzi iye. Iye sanatero tsiku padziko kapena kulankhula Leah kuti ngati anali bwino kotero iye akanadziwa kapena Rakele anali kwenikweni chimene iye ankafuna kapena ayi.

    Kuchokera pa zimene changa, Ndinachita tsiku ena anapeza chikondi sanali. Osati kuchokera mabwenzi anga, koma kwa makolo anga’ ndi alongo’ maubale. Vuto linali, iwo sanali mabwenzi pa Mau kapena Chikondi cha Mulungu ndicho chifukwa chake iwo sizinatero. Ndinapeza munthu waumulungu, choncho sangathe kugwira ntchito njira inu munene, KOMA INE mtima wonse amakhulupirira kuti ngati ndingakonde ndayembekezera nadzitchinjiriza mtima wanga ubale zina zosayenera kwa ine, Ine kukanakhala bwino kwambiri kwambiri ndi zochepa wosweka, ukatenga mwamuna wanga mmene mkazi Mulungu m'malo kaonedwe wosweka mkazi ndi katundu ndithetse.

    Achipongwe anafuna, koma ine ndikukhulupirira kuti ndi kwakukulukulu cholakwika bulangeti mawu amenewa akhoza kwenikweni mukulephera kusintha mitima wamng'ono kolakwika. (mudziwe Google za chibwenzi Mulungu vs. Modern Chibwenzi. Pali zinthu zabwino kwenikweni mmenemo.)

    • KevinFerereanayankha

      Inu linali ine pakali. Baibulo anganene chirichonse chimene akufuna, koma ndinu zokumana nazo zili zonse muli n'kupita kwa. Ndipo amene mumati Mulungu amachokera kukwaniritsidwa kwa zimene inu mwaphunzitsidwa ndi zinakuchitikirani. Pomaliza pake, zimene mumakhulupirira ndi chisankho, koma zimene inu mukudziwa chikangoperekedwa pa ndi chowonadi.

      ndipo eya, mawu mwina pang'ono ambiri, koma ayenera kumwedwa ndi njere ya mchere, monga chirichonse.

      • Lokelani70anayankha

        Inenso mwaulemu samagwirizana ndi Kevin Ferere.
        Chinthu chokha chimene zatsimikiziridwa ndi kuti anasankha chikumbumtima kuti moyo wanu kwa Mulungu kudzera mu mau ake, Baibulo. Popeza, tapanga chisankho moyo wathu m'banja Mulungu, ndi mawu a Mulungu. Mfundo za nkhaniyi, sadzapulumuka nako kumvetsa lathunthu la blog ngati Mulungu sali oyamba m'moyo.
        Kupempherera mabanja ZONSE! Mulungu adalitse!

        • KevinFerereanayankha

          Ine ndapanga kusankha amazindikira kupeza Mulungu mwa ndekha osati ndi zimene munthu Wandiphunzitsa. Osadandaula, Ndinali monga inu.

          • AC

            Ine ndikanafuna kunena, inu simungapeze Mulungu. Baibulo linati ife tiri akufa. anthu akufa sangachite kanthu. Mulungu wapeza ife.

        • Lokelani70anayankha

          Oh… Pepani Kevin, muyenera kusokonezedwa. Mulungu ndimtumikira si Mulungu wodzilamulira ofuna. Nkhawa sichiri chifuniro cha Mulungu, koma wachikondi eachother mochuluka monga Iye amatikonda ife ndi! Monga ndalemba kale, kuika Mulungu patsogolo ndi zofunikira kwathunthu kumvetsa blog, ngati yankho lanu likutsimikizira mfundoyo wanga. Mulole chirichonse timachita kusangalatsa Mulungu. Mulungu Akudalitseni ndi kukhala wekha madzulo chodabwitsa.

        • Fru-Mukete Arnoldanayankha

          Hahaha, kupitiriza kufunafuna, mum'peza- kumbukirani chilengedwe chimatiphunzitsa Iye komanso. Pamenepo, Ine II kukupatsani tsenga, ungotenga Baibulo ndi kupita kuponyera ngati buku nkhani tingadziwe zonena zonse izo zimandipangitsa ngakhale kuloweza iwo Pamenepo, onani mabuku ena fanizirani zonena za. Koma ndithudi muyenera munthu kufotokoza inu somethings, musalephere chifukwa ndinu wosaka choonadi.

        • KevinFerereanayankha

          Ngati inu mwakhulupirira Mulungu monga mmene inu mukuti chiyani, n'chifukwa chiyani mukuona kufunika amuyese kwambiri? Ndilibe kwa Mulungu, chifukwa Iye ali mwa ine. Ine ndine Iye ndi ine. Koma pepani, simungathe kumvetsa kuti mungapirire?

        • KevinFerereanayankha

          zoipa wanga, typo: *Ndilibe kutsimikizira Mulungu. *

          Koma ndemanga tanthauzo limanena. Kaya uli mkati mwa inu, kuti ndiwe. Usaope kulandira choonadi kuti basi chifukwa inu mwaphunzitsidwa kuti chavuta.

  2. Addis Hunteranayankha

    100 % ndi inu! Inenso anakumana mwamuna wanga pa 20 ndipo patatha chaka chimodzi tinakwatirana. Ndalota kuti anakambirana chomwecho ndi alendo mwachisawawa, banja ndi abwenzi ndi Ndifuna kulimbikitsana inu kukhala okhulupirika kwa Ambuye ndi mkazi wanu wokondeka mu njira iliyonse yomwe ali discribed m'mawu. Ine ndi mwamuna wanga tsopano 30 zaka ndipo pamene ndikukuuzani anthu Ine ndakhala “N'zosangalatsa” m'banja pafupifupi 10 zaka iwo awonongedwa!!! “kwenikweni”?? Kupanga chimodzimodzi ndemanga olakwika okhudza “tikungotaya ubwana wathu” etc etc. Koma Mulungu wakhala wachifundo ndi wabwino kwa ife kuti ine sindinga kunena mmene ndilili wodalitsidwa kuti anakumana mwamuna wanga pamene ine ndinatero. Timamukonda reminising pa zaka koleji pamodzi, ndi kulota za zinthu zonse zazikulu zimene moyo ali nacho pa ife patsogolo! Tili ndi 2 Atsikana okongola ndi mwana panjira (kuti ife anapemphera modzichepetsa kwa chaka chino ndi Mulungu anapatsa) , (atually Ndine chifukwa lero ;-))..ndipo ife couldnt Onetsetsani kwambiri kuti Icho chinali Devine amakhala Mulungu kutiphunzitsa pamodzi.

    mwachibadwa, sitili angwiro (ngakhale anzanga amaganiza choncho chifukwa ife osa maso wamba mavuto akudziko kusakhulupirika, mwano ndi makani zonse), koma ife maganizo, mmene alili, dificulties ndalama etc, kusiyana ndi kuti timadalira Mulungu kuti atsogolere mapazi athu, ife kulemekezana wina ndi mnzake ndi kuyesetsa kuchita zinthu sadzataya CHIKHULUPIRIRO, kulankhulana, ndi kufunsa mzimu woyera kuti banja ndi individually..My mwamuna ndi munthu ambiri wapadera ndakhala anakomana ndi ife tonse kumvetsa kuti copezela cimwemwe m'banja si kuchita kapena kugula “zinthu” kuti eachother osangalala Podziwa kuti ndife ndani mwa Khristu, zotsatirazi malamulo ake za ukwati ndi kukondana mosayang'anira, kaya zofooka zathu kapena momwe ife mulole “ndikumverera” panthawi , podziwa kuti CHIMWEMWE nthaŵi zonse kutengeka akanthawi kochepa amene amachoka, koma chimwemwe chenicheni chimabwera kuchokera kwa Ambuye.

    Ine ndikukhumba iwe ndi mkazi wako zaka zambiri CHIMWEMWE Wodala!!!
    Ndimakonda nyimbo anu mwa njira ;)..

  3. Joshanayankha

    ulendo,

    Ndinu Mwachitsanzo Akhristu achinyamata amene akufuna kulemekeza Mulungu mmene iwo akusamalira akazi! Zikomo! Ine basi chinkhoswe, ndine 22, ndipo akuyembekezera kutumikira Ambuye m'banja kwa zaka!

  4. Johnny_renteriaanayankha

    Khulupirirani izi kapena ayi koma ine tinakwatirana pa zaka 18. Sindinali njira wokonzeka kukhala mwamuna m'lingaliro chuma ndipo ndili kale ndi atate. Koma ndinali chabe anapereka moyo wanga kwa Khristu ndipo ndinadziwa kuti akazi ndinali ndi chidzakhala wina kukula ndi ine. Anthu amandifunsa zinthu zomwezo komanso. Ndimaona wachisoni ngakhale kuti ukwati kuoneka ngati chinthu choipa. Today, Ndimaganiza kuti ndi Ine anazindikira kuti anthu akhala wodzikonda choncho kuti ganizo kutenga udindo wa munthu wina pafupi zosatheka. Ukwati si za pamene ndi chifukwa inu anakwatiwa koma amene kwagona banja. Ndipo izo ziyenera kukhala Khristu…

  5. Deboraanayankha

    ndikuganiza u R trip..i bwino ndi frnd amene anakwatira @ 19 (iwo hv wakwatiwa 4 6 yrs NW)N lkng @ iye tsopano ife tikuzindikira popanda kulandira yesu mu moyo wake dat ndi D anasankha bwino iye kuposa….Koma ndiyenera kuvomereza sindikutsimikiza wokonzeka 2 kupeza married..it Mtsikana wotere ine Ko sindikufuna 2 kukhala anazolowera 2 D cholakwika munthu 4 D moyo wanga wonse koma ndikudziwa Yesu silidzataya ndikupange D cholakwika kusankha…ine nthawizina ndikudabwa Y kukwatiwa pamene ndimadzuka zonse ndikufuna kuchokera kwa Yesu N iye sangakhoze konse brk hrt wanga?….chisankho Uri anali kulondola N ine gv u mwayigwira 4 zomwe!:)

  6. Lance Petersonanayankha

    zozizwitsa. mwana wanga tinakwatirana 2 1/2 zaka zapitazo kwa mkazi wodabwitsa Mulungu ndipo iwo anali limodzi ndi kucha ukalamba wa 19. nkhani yanu zinandikumbutsa iwo.

  7. Brandon Clementsanayankha

    Ndimakonda Ulendo uno! Ine ndinakwatira pa 22 ndipo ine mwamtheradi kukonda banja langa. Ndi oseketsa chifukwa ine basi analankhula zofanana ndi mafuta mtumiki za mwezi wapitawo. Iye anakoka lonse, “N'chifukwa kukwatira pamene mungakhale ndi mkaka kwaulere?” Funso ndi mtima wanga anathyola iye. Ndiye ine ndinapitirira anamuuza kuti mkazi wanga ng'ombe–kuti iye anali zozizwitsa ndi ndimamukonda.

    Zikomo kugawana!

  8. Louib2001anayankha

    Ambuye alemekezeke kuti m'bale ndi mkazi wanu wokondeka wokula. Ine ndikupemphera kuti Mulungu adzatsanulira mtima mosalekeza pa moyo wanu, chifukwa inu mwamvera mawu ake. ndine 28 ndipo takhala m'banja zaka pafupifupi ziwiri ndi mkazi wanga tili ndi banja losangalala ndi wokondeka 10 njenjete akale mwana. Ndinkafunitsitsa kukwatiwa wamng'ono, koma ine ndikukhulupirira sinali nthawi koma ine mpaka Ambuye anabweretsa chinthu wanga wabwino pafupifupi 5 zaka zapitazo (kukhala enieni tinakumana pa tsiku tinachita kubadwanso 31 Dis 2006). Sindinadziwe ife kumene zoyembekezeka kukhala pamodzi monga ndinachichotsera ake ngati mlongo wamba kwa mpingo. Ine ndine ndidalikuyimirirako akupanga kukula wanga wauzimu, koma zaka zitatu zapitazo maso anga anatseguka ndipo ena monga iwo amati ndi mbiri.

    Ndi mu uchimo Satana anthu kuti akwatiwe, kotero kuti iwo amakhala mu uchimo ndipo ife tikudziwa kale zimene zidzachitike. Kodi ife anayang'ana pa mlingo wa chilekaniro mu thupi lero? Nanga bwanji abale ndi mlongo chiwerewere mu mpingo, chifukwa cha zimene anthu kuchipembedzo.

    Ngati tidzamva mmene mizinda yathu imadzaza ndi chiwawa achinyamata ambiri, Kodi ife kaye ganizirani za zomwe muzu? Mphindi munthu kuwombola makhalidwe Mulungu kwa lingaliro zozungulira izi zonse unatha. Ngakhale makolo achikhristu wosazindikira kulimbikitsa zozungulira lingaliro ndi kuletsa ana awo kukwatiwa wamng'ono (pa zaka nkhawa mwachionekere). Pali zifukwa Ine ndibwereza”muyenera kupeza maphunziro, mwina mukamaliza ambuye ako ntchito yabwino, ndiyeno yambani kuganizira za ukwati”. phokoso wanzeru kodi sichoncho ? Choncho chimene chimachitika pamene mwana wanu wachikhristu amapita ku yunivesite ndipo akatero zimathera ndi bwenzi mnyamata / mtsikana wina yemwe mwina Mkhristu kapena osakhala?

    Chonde musagwiritse ine cholakwika(zina mwa zinthu Ndabwera kudutsa basi), chifukwa mawu pamwamba siligwira ntchito kwa onse. Maphunziro ndi wofunika kwambiri monga umaphunzira luso ntchito wawo kotero kuti ntchito ndi kusamalira mabanja awo tsogolo etc, koma ukwati adazolowera kusiya bwino chifukwa cha zimene konse m'dera mu moyo munthu asankha kutsatira, monga momwe zilili ukwati ambiri amalimbikitsa kukula i.e utumiki wopambana, akumathandizika wabwino, chuma ndi mndandanda akupitiriza. Kumbukirani awiri amakhala thupi limodzi ndi tikhoza kumutsatira 10 000 Oo, izo zikutanthauza kuti n'zogwirizana mulimonse akupempha Mulungu mokhulupirika iwo mudzachipeza, zozizwitsa…..

    Kufupi Ndikufuna kuti afotokoze zomwe Akhristu kuyamba kuphunzitsa ana athu ali mwana kufunika kwa moyo koyamba kwa Mulungu ndipo kachiwiri kufunika kwa banja( kwa iwo amene apatsidwa mphatso) kotero kuti iwo amakula amene akufuna kukondweretsa Mulungu m'dera lino. Apanso mwachita bwino m'bale wanga ndi onse okhala mawu a Mulungu. Khalani wodala.

  9. Annaanayankha

    Izi kwenikweni analankhula nane. ine ndiri 21 pa ubwenzi ndi ine sindingakhoze kukuuzani inu kangati Ine ndauzidwa kuti ndine “wang'ono kuganiza Thetsa pansi”, Ine ayembekeze kwa “moyo moyo loyamba”, kumaliza sukulu ndi kukhazikitsa ntchito ndisanayambe kulowa chibwenzi / banja. Muli ndi umboni zodabwitsa ndi mantha. Ine ndikukhumba iwe ndi mkazi wako moyo madalitso ndi chimwemwe pamodzi!

  10. anonymousanayankha

    ndine 20 ndipo sanakhalepo pa chibwenzi kotero ine sinditi kukwatiwa ndi 21 koma ine ndithudi kulemekeza mfundo zanu. Ine nawo nthawi zonse mindset “aliyense yake”. Ine ndikuganiza iwe ndi mkazi wako ndithu mtunda ndi Ndine amanyadira masitepe kuti anatenga isanafike ukwati. Ikukhala ngati awiri a inu anatenga kudzipereka mokhudzika, chimene ine anasangalala.

  11. Tony Doyleyanayankha

    odala kwambiri kuwerenga blog za ukwati ali aang'ono. mkazi wanga tinakwatirana pa 18 ndipo takhala m'banja mosangalala kwa 10 zaka tsopano. Zedi ife tiri nazo zina zokwera ndi zotsika, koma ine ndikukhulupirira Mulungu kutitsogolera likunena zaka zonsezi ndipo tsopano tili ndi mphamvu kuposa. Zikomo chifukwa umboni wanu chodabwitsa.

  12. kle Photographyanayankha

    Congrats ukwati wanu wamng'ono! Ine ndi mwamuna wanga anapita kupyola chinthu chomwecho pamene ife tinakwatirana 8 zaka zapitazo pa 20 zaka! Kotero, ife tikudziwa ndendende zimene inu mukupyolamo! Anthu anaganiza tinakwatirana chifukwa ndinali ndi pakati (Ine sindinali) kapena chifukwa iye anali mlendo oletsedwa (iye ndi nzika American). Tinalibe kwambiri anzathu mu ngodya athu monga iwo anali akuchita chinthu chilichonse. Koma tsopano pa 28 iwo akubwera apo ndi kuyesera “Lumikizanani.” Ndine wokondwa Mulungu wandidalitsa ndi mwamuna wanga amisinkhu wanga. Mulungu akudalitseni nonse!

    BTW Tikukhala mu dera DMV! (MD) mwina ife tonse akhoza kukumana kapena kupita ku mpingo pamodzi! Tikadali alibe abwenzi wokwatiwa lol.

  13. KevinFerereanayankha

    Ine sindikuganiza kuti chilichonse lichitidwa kubedwa kwa inu, chimene inu kungosiya. Ndizabwino kwa dongosolo mu Baibulo, koma izo ziri kwa inu azikuuzani moyo wanu, si bukhu; ngakhale malangizo amene amatipatsa.

    Ndi yotamandika kukhala wodzipereka ndi achinyamata, koma gawo la “unyamata chilakolako” ndi kuphunzira ndi kukula inu kuchokera chokumanako ndi chikhalidwe kuchita akazi osiyana. Kuphunzira zimene mukufuna ndipo sindimakonda kuchita, onani, ndi kumva; m'malo choyang'anira chanu kukhala choncho okha munthu mmodzi.

    Inu simungakhoze kwenikweni kuti inu mukudziwa kuti inu muli ndi zomwe inu muli bwanji, kapena ngakhale zimene mukufunadi, ngati simunakhala alumikizirana kwambiri ndi akazi ena koma kwa iwo kusonyeza kuti inu. Inu simukudziwa chimene Chikondi ngati simukudziwa zimene siziri.

    • mlendoanayankha

      Simufunikanso kudziwa zimene Chikondi si ngati mukudziwa zomwe Chikondi. Kodi mukudziwa ngati munthu kumakupatsani yabodza $100 bilu pokhapokha mukudziwa weniweni $100 bilu amaoneka ngati. Pali m'modzi yekha weniweni $100 bilu, monga kuphunzira kuti ndi mungadziwire pamene munthu kumakupatsani yabodza. N'chimodzimodzinso ndi chikondi. Pali onyenga ambiri kunja uko, koma ngati inu mukudziwa chimene kwenikweni ndi, ndiye mudzatha kanthu ndi yabodza. Popeza Mulungu ndi chikondi, chilichonse osapembedza sangakhale chikondi.

      • KevinFerereanayankha

        Choncho muyenera chibwenzi mozungulira ndi kukumana ndi kugonana ndi anthu ena. mfundo wanga ndendende. Kodi osapembedza ndi zotengera malingaliridwe. Mungayese kukhala mwamalamulo za izo chifukwa ndi makhalidwe kutero, Komabe, tiyenera kuiŵala mfundo zimenezi pokhala kuti pali kwambiri imvi m'dera pakati apambuyo.

        • Angeldoll1anayankha

          Sindikugwirizana ndi mawu anu kugonana ndi anthu ena- STD a, AIDS ndi mimba zapathengo, Kodi zotsatira kuchita zimenezi. Ngati munthu asankha kuchita zimenezi, iwo sakanakhoza kuphunzira za kudzipereka yoyenera ndi mfundo zozama ndi zauzimu za chikondi m'malo chilakolako. Komanso sindikugwirizana ndi maganizo anu za chibwenzi mozungulira pamaso mukufuna kuchita chifukwa “chibwenzi mozungulira” si chinthu chofunika kudziwa ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi kuchokera nonspouse ndi. Waumulungu chibwenzi / chibwenzi anapangidwa kwa anthu otchulidwa m'Baibulo pamene ali mutiple abwenzi, kugonana mwachisawawa ndi makhalidwe a nyama.

          • AJ

            Angeldoll1it ndi wokongola zilizonse za inu kuganiza kuti onse kugonana sanali m'banja kwenikweni kumabweretsa “STD a, AIDS ndi mimba zapathengo”… koma kumene, mukufuna simukudziwa kuti ngati inu simunakwaniritse kwa nthawi mutu wanu mu bukhu lanu yafumbi akale ndi kupeza zinachitikira moyo.

        • KevinFerereanayankha

          Umayang'ana kuti athane. Ngati ndinu wamkulu ndi nzeru zokwanira inu mudzapita izo mwanjira bwino. Mukamaphunzira kupewa chinachake, kwambiri inu kubwera kwa iwo. Muziganizira positives ndi ndicho chimene inu muti. Koma kumene chipembedzo chanu siliphunzitsa inu kuti.

    • Joshanayankha

      “chikondi chachikulu Palibe munthu ali nacho kuposa izi, kuti munthu ataya moyo wake chifukwa cha abwenzi ake.” (John 15:13) Inu mukudziwa chikondi ngati mukudziwa Khristu.

      • KevinFerereanayankha

        Chonde bwana, ngati inu muti regurgitate lemba, wamng'ono mungachite ndicho kutsatira maganizo anu kwa ilo. Ndi Buku, osati chiongoko kulankhula.

        • iyeanayankha

          kudzachitika lanu malemba ndi cholakwika ndi momwe iwe ukuganizira projecting nokha monga Mkhristu amene satsatira Baibulo “powatsimikizira” koma amasankha kutsatira malamulo anu ndi zokumbira ndi anasankhira, ngati chirichonse kutsatira zimene ziri za Mulungu ndi za….

          Zambiri zimene inu akudzinenera kuyima pa ndi chiphunzitso chabodza.

  14. Gabe Tavianoanayankha

    Ndakondwa kukuwonani kulemba mabulogu pano Ulendo! Zikomo kupemphera kwa ine sabata ino, Mulungu ndithudi wakhala wabwino.

    Chinthu amatengeka inu kukwatira achinyamata ndi kuti kumva Kwanu ndi kuyang'ana kuti chatsegulidwa kwa Mulungu kwambiri zaka wanu ochepa kuposa ena kuti adatsinzina Iye pa chifukwa yaitali. Inu mukudziwa kuti Mulungu ndi mbali ya ukwati wanu monga mmene awiri muli, ndipo ndicho chachikulu. Zikomo kugawana!

  15. Madeleine Farrell analembaanayankha

    Izi ndi zabwino ganizo ndondomeko. Ine ndinakwatira pa 17 ndi mwamuna wanga 19. Pa nthawi yomwe ife sanali Akristu, komanso, sitinali 'kuti’ kukwatilana. Komabe chifukwa ena tinachita. Ife takhala m'banja zaka pafupifupi 28 1/2 zaka tsopano, makolo a 5 ndi agogo a 2. Ndimakonda moyo wanga. Osati kuti panali nthawi m'banja mwathu kuti mmodzi wa ife ndimangofuna kuchokapo ndi sadzabwereranso, si kunena mkwiyo ndi kuipidwa sanali mbali ya moyo wathu wa tsiku ndi tsiku kwa kanthawi, kapena kuti kuganizira Chipangano alakwitsa kwambiri moyo wathu sunali ndondomeko ganizo. Koma ife anachita. Ndipo pamene chisudzulo si njira, MULUNGU chimabweretsa machiritso mu nthawi.

    Mwana wanga wamkazi anakwatiwa ali 20 ndipo panalibe munthu chilimbikitso iye konse kwa anthu. Iye sanali kumvetsa chifukwa chimene anthu amaona ndi yomalizira m'malo dalitso yake. Ngakhale pakati pa Akhristu.

    mwana wathu Komano tinakwatirana pa Khirisimasi nthawi, pa zaka 27. Monga sindinapeze msungwana bwino. Chinthu chimodzi.. ufulu mnyamata / mtsikana ati makalata lamanja mnyamata / mtsikana ngakhale pa nthawi lolimba. Monga gwiritsitsani The Cross.

  16. CLanayankha

    Ine sindikanakhoza kugwirizana kwambiri. Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti ukwati ndi woopsa komanso pali makamaka palibe chifukwa “liwiro” mu izo, koma ndi chinthu chomwe Mulungu amafuna kugwiritsa ntchito kudalitsa ndi kuyeretsa ife. Zikomo positi!

    >> Koma pamene ine ndinayang'ana mu Malemba ine sanapeze zinthu monga, "Banja liri imfa! Kuthawa!"kapena, "Ikani m'banja ndipo mpaka inu simungakhoze kuyika izo kenanso,"kapena, "Only kukwatiwa pamene inu muli wokalamba kwambiri ndi moyo,"kapena, "Play munda kanthawi ndiyeno amanyamula wabwino kwambiri."

    • amayianayankha

      Zikomo kwambiri chifukwa ulendo wanga blog – Ndikuganiza asanaganize chakudya adedrss inu (Ine anaika mu ndemanga wanga). Muli ndi wokondedwa banja, ndisanayiwale! Congrats pa chikumbutso wanu!

  17. Praisemovementanayankha

    Zikomo chilungamo chanu ndi “kupangitsa Yesu kuoneka bwino”. Wamisala kulemekeza njira inu livin'and bringin’ ulemerero kwa Mawu.

  18. Andrea Paige Jacksonanayankha

    Kuti ndi umboni wosangalatsa. Ndipo inu linaikidwa pa ine ndi chikumbutso mwamuna wanga chakhumi! (Tinakwatirana AKALE, ngakhale.) : )

  19. Jcsmsoulanayankha

    mulungu akudalitseni u m'bale! ndikudziwa ndendende mukutanthauza chiyani ngakhale ine ndawapeza Ambuye m'tsogolo ndipo ine ndikukhumba ine anakwatira munthu waumulungu thats wokhulupirika kwa mkazi wake! dayz izi ake kovuta kupeza kuti! ndi chifukwa china Ndikhulupilira ndi kupemphera ndimadzuka wokwatiwa ndi kupeza wina ndi chifukwa u osa kumva mlandu pamene akupanga chikondi pamene Uri anakwatira! mulungu akudalitseni u!

  20. Jazminanayankha

    Zikomo kwambiri yense adzaona ukwati dalitso. Okhawo amene kunyindira na kutowera Ambuye wathu Yesu Khristu. Ine anakwatiwa ali wamng'ono kwambiri ndi pa 28 zaka ine ndi mwamuna wanga 3 ana okongola ndipo miyoyo yathu amadzipereka kuti kupembedza ndi kulambira Atate wathu wakumwamba. Ukwati si kophweka ngakhale, iwo ali ndi zokwera ndi zotsika koma kudzera mwa chisomo ndi chifundo cha Mulungu ndi kupereka chifuniro chake munthu akhoza kukula. Zikomo kwambiri chifukwa nkhani yanu chodabwitsa ndi dalitso. My Ambuye apitirize tiyeni inu ndi akazi anu kukula ndifunse kwa nzeru zake ndi ambiri a madalitso ambiri mu mtima wanu.

  21. Tachy Musicaanayankha

    Ine ndinakwatira kotero “achinyamata” komanso, ndipo uyu ndi dalitso, ife nthawizonse pamodzi (kuphatikizapo mwana wathu kumene), ife kugawana zonse, ndi kuthandizana, ena ppl ndikuganiza kuti ngati inu kukwatiwa achinyamata kudzakhala kwa nthawi yochepa, koma ayamikike Mulungu ife pafupifupi 8 zaka anakwatiwa ndi zofunika kwambiri kuyesera servin’ Mulungu nthawi zonse…madalitso

  22. Agopylove09anayankha

    kuti ndi zozizwitsa!! im 25 ndipo ive munaganizapo zonse zimene abwera ndi kukhala mkazi wabwino komanso kugonjera ndi kukhala mulungu ngati malo anu ndi nthawi kupempha uphungu wake chifukwa cha iwo onse ndi chabe moona kulola Khristu amatsogolera ndi kulimbikitsana kuti ubwenzi nthaka olimba a khristu jesus..falling mu chikondi ndi mpulumutsi wathu woyamba alidi ayenera!! ndi ubwenzi wolimba ndi IYE alllows inu kukula ndi kudziwa zimene amakonda, ndiponso MULUNGU imafotokoza kuti chikondi chimene u kupereka kwa mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu.. kotero greatful kwa mpulumutsi ndani nthaŵi zonse amapereka ..<3

  23. Joe Stevensanayankha

    Ndine oldee amene akugwirizana kwathunthu ndi Triplee. Ngakhale kumene ndi zikwapu osiyana (mibado) kwa anthu osiyana. Ndipo aliyense ayenera kukwatira pa nthawi Mulungu m'njira. ndine 50 yrs akale, anakwatiwa wapamtima wanga pamene ndinali 23 ndipo iye anali 20! Tsopano 27 zaka ndi 1 Pasanathe mwezi umodzi, pali mosalekeza (zabwino) makombola pakati pa ife, akadali mozama mu chikondi, abwenzi ndi kuyenda limodzi mu cholinga cha Mulungu. Kodi kusinthanitsa m'badwo Ine m'banja 6 miyezi ingapo! Koma ngakhale ana anga ayenera kudziwa circumstacces awo si zofanana ndi wathu, kapena ndi timings ndi mapulani kwa iwo Mulungu chimodzimodzi.

  24. Femi miliyoneyaanayankha

    Ndine oldee amene akugwirizana kwathunthu ndi Triplee. Ngakhale kumene ndi zikwapu osiyana (mibado) kwa anthu osiyana. Ndipo aliyense anali kukwatira pa nthawi Mulungu m'njira. ndine 50 yrs akale, anakwatiwa wapamtima wanga pamene ndinali 23 ndipo iye anali 20! Tsopano 27 zaka ndi 1 Pasanathe mwezi umodzi, pali mosalekeza (zabwino) makombola pakati pa ife, akadali mozama mu chikondi, abwenzi ndi kuyenda limodzi mu cholinga cha Mulungu. Kodi kusinthanitsa m'badwo Ine m'banja 6 miyezi ingapo!

  25. Reverandjeffanayankha

    Ine ndikumudziwa uyu zonse bwino kwambiri… Monga chikondwerero chaka wathu wa 13 wa ukwati, ndipo ndine 35.. Ndinali anthu omwewo mafunso ine mwanjira yomweyo, koma ife tonse ankadziwa basi Mulungu anaziikira ndipo analipanga. Ife m'mphamvu mumiyoyo ya ena pa nthawi yofunika kwambiri pamene tinasamukira kukhala aliyense nangula ena, ndi nangula wamba Khristu. Mbali yabwino ndi pamene ife mwayi woti ndiyankhule kwa achinyamata amene akuvutika ndi maubwenzi / ukwati ndipo timalandira kuuza umboni modabwitsa !!! Monga momwe zilili, anali ena mwa zokambirana izi ndi JPaul zaka zingapo zapitazo.. dziko Small !!! Mulungu wapatsa anthu ofuna izo BWINO zoyendera, ndipo timayamikira nthiti wathu m'malo runnin pambuyo chickenbones. :)

  26. Bobshumakeranayankha

    Bambo anga & Amayi anali amitima yokoma sekondale ndipo iwo anakwatira pambuyo maphunziro (onse anali 18 zaka). Iwo adakali anakwatira lero sindinayambe kufotokoza bondo za moyo wathu pamodzi. Kukhala wamkulu amayamba ndi ukwati – ndi maganizo anu za chisankho chanu ofanana makolo anga. maukwati aumulungu ndi ochepa kwambiri m'zaka za m'ma….Mulungu adzakudalitsani ndi kusunga okondwa chifukwa osachepera 50 kapena 60 zaka!

  27. Jeffreycotton7anayankha

    Ndikukuthokozani ndi mkazi wako kwambiri akugawana nawo nthanoyi wanu. ine ndiri 21 ndipo ngati ine nditi kudzera pafupifupi zinthu yemweyo. Ine basi m'banja koma. Ndili kuti mindset chifukwa kudikira ngati inu ndi bwenzi lanu ali m'chikondi, onse ali wauzimu, zabwino, ndi wangwiro kudzera lililonse ena maso. Msungwana wanga ndi ine mosakayikira kuti ife kukwatiwa tsiku lina. Koma ngakhale ife tonse ndikufuna kukwatirana, iye ali wa kutenga nthawi yake; tili nthawi zonse mu mtundu dziko Munthu. Ndine wa ASAP ife sanalonjeze mawa mtundu munthu. Ndiye n'chifukwa kudikira? Iye ndi mtsikana wanzeru kwambiri. Iye amandikumbutsa mkazi wanu ndi nkhani yake pang'ono. Kuganiza kuti zinthu zikhoza mu njira zolinga sukulu ntchito. Koma amene ali kumbali ya nkhani ya ana atakwatirana. Ine nthawizonse ndimamuuza kuti sindikufuna kuti mwana wathu woyamba pafupi 30 zaka. Sindikufuna thupi langa tiyambe kupeza ofooka chifukwa cha msinkhu, zomwe zingakhale molimbika kwambiri zotopetsa kusewera kuzungulira ndi ana anga. Ndikufuna 7 pa kwambiri ndi 3 pa wamng'ono. Zabwino zake kuti tiyambepo ali wamakhalidwe. Koma ine adzapitiriza kuyesera kusiya m'manja mwa Mulungu ndi musadandaule ncacikuru.

  28. aneetarhanayankha

    zikomo Ulendo kwambiri N Jess, N aliyense Hu Deuteronomo watiuza chilimbikitso mu njira imodzi kapena D oda. tsopano ndine salinso mantha gettn anakwatira oyambirira makamaka considern D mfundo Deuteronomo ife tonse kukonda Mulungu. Mulungu bls u…

  29. mukapezaanayankha

    Jannon Fitzpatrick, Ndikuvomereza kuti Mulungu ndiye chikondi. Njira yokhayo kupeza chikondi chenicheni ndi kuona amene analenga chikondi. Pakati pa anthu tikhoza kulenga kanthu likungosonyeza kuti pokhapokha ngati tikugwiritsa Mulungu kutsogolera chikondi m'moyo wathu komanso. “chikondi chachikulu Palibe munthu ali nacho kuposa izi, chakuti munthu ataya moyo wake chifukwa cha abwenzi ake” Jhn 15:13. Chikondi si kupeza akhutitse kudzikonda (KevinFerere), kapena kupeza munthu amene angathe kukwaniritsa ndi yotithandiza zikhumbo magetsi mu ubongo wanu. Eti, chithunzi chanu kwa “Chilengedwe cha Adamu” patsamba lanu amachokera ku nthawi Kubadwa Kwatsopano panthawi imene malingaliro a chikondi ndi chibwenzi inasanduka chinachake kuti apeze munthu muzowawa kuti munthu wina. Kuti kupenta palokha ndi achikunja ponena kuti Adamu kufika kwa Mulungu ndipo anatenga gawo mu chilengedwe chake. The Izitu n'zovutitsa ichi, Michelangelo pa mapeto a moyo wake adawona chimene adachita ndipo analapa, oyesa kusakaniza Chikhristu ndi umunthu (Munthu kukhala muyeso wa zinthu zonse). mfundo za chikondi ndi kumene ine ndikuganiza inu akuchokera ? umene uli chinthu chomwecho iwo ankachita mu Greek, Kubadwa Kwatsopano, ndipo anthu lerolino. Alikodi “palibe chatsopano padziko lapansi pano”-Solomon, kuchokera m'Baibulo.

  30. Paulo Jonesanayankha

    Hei ulendo wakwatiwa kuyambira ndinali 22 ndi 28 tsopano. tikanangokhala anv wathu 6. Mulungu adzatidalitsa ndi 4 achinyamata. Ine ndikupemphera kuti amasunga kudalitsa inu ndi banja lanu.

  31. CLLanayankha

    Kodi wokondeka umboni kuti ubwino wa Mulungu ndi chimene Iye angachite m'moyo zimene kwathunthu wodzipereka kwa Iye. Ine ndi mwamuna wanga tinakwatirana wachinyamata (pa 24) ndipo ngati iwe ndi mkazi wako, Mulungu anaona kuti kutibweretsa ife pamodzi kwa ulemerero Wake. mwana wathu ndidakali wamng'ono, pa zaka 20 kale chaka chino…awonongedwa :-) ndipo ndithu wapeza chinthu chabwino mu mkazi wake Mulungu. Tinkafuna kanthu zina kwa iye ndipo ndi dalitso.

  32. Karendaanayankha

    Kodi nkhani yaikulu! Ine ndi mwamuna wanga atakwatiwa achinyamata komanso, ndinali 22 ndi mwamuna wanga 25. Ife basi chikondwerero 15 m'banja zaka. Yesu, watibweretsa ife pafupi limodzi monga banja kwa zaka, amatiphunzitsa “kufa kwa tokha” kuti chikondi bwino ndi imbonera. Kudzikonda ndi nambala wani wowonongayo mabanja ambiri.

    Zikomo chifukwa ndife kukhala kutsogolo mtima nkhani za mutu wa ukwati limakhudza Lemba!

  33. Michaelanayankha

    Ine ndi mkazi wanga kukwatira 21 komanso, ndipo izo zinali 11 zaka ndi 6 ana zapitazo (zamera / anatengera / oterewa). Sindinadziwe ndinali “wang'ono” kukwatira, Ndinangodziwa iye anali sindimafuna kukhala popanda! Mulungu wakhala wabwino.

  34. AJanayankha

    Kuwerenga pakati pa mizere: ife tinakonda Yesu ndipo tinali tentha mthupi.

    Ine aone nthawi zonse pakati pa Akhristu ndipo ndikuganiza mfundo monga izi kuti avine mozungulira ndi zolinga zenizeni za anthu oseketsa. Izo zikanakhala ochimwa monga kugonana, choncho wanzeru kuthamangira wa moyo wawo wonse.

  35. Claraanayankha

    Mulungu yemwe wayamba kuti Ukwati udzamangidwa ndithudi kuwona inu mwa izo zonse. Muli chilimbikitso kwa achinyamata chikhristu achinyamata ndi mabanja Ulendo. Mulungu akudalitseni!!

  36. JOBanayankha

    Ine anakwatiwa ali ndi zaka 21 M'chaka chomwecho monga inu ulendo Lee, mu 2009. Ndinakumana naye mu mpingo pamene ndinali 16 zaka ndipo takhala limodzi pafupifupi 8 zaka tsopano. Ife anatumikira Mulungu pamodzi ndi mautumiki AYCM, pofikira m'midzi ndi kulalikira mawu a Mulungu mu Philippines. Ife aliyense tsiku ndi tsiku zina “Ndimakukonda chifukwa ine kuona momwe mumakonda Mulungu”. Ine musati konse bondo kumufunsa kuti dzanja lake m'banja. m'mbuyomu 4 m'banja zaka wapindula.

  37. Isaacanayankha

    mawu a Mulungu ndi wapamwamba. Miyambo 18:22 bwino limatchula izi.
    ”Amene anapeza mkazi apeza chinthu chabwino, ndipo obtaineth mokomera Lord''.
    kudzachitika wanga kwa amene akufuna kukwatiwa ndi wamkulu komanso woyamba kupempha malangizo a Mulungu posankha bwenzi lamanja. Ife monga anthu shouldnt kusankha zathu ndi forcifully kupempha Mulungu kuti adalitse izo. m'malo, ife n'kupereka kumvera kwathunthu, kuyenerera chisomo cha Mulungu ndi kupempha chitsogozo kutsatira malangizo ake pa miyoyo yathu.

  38. SteveMcMillonanayankha

    Ndimalemekeza ichi kwambiri!! Ake Zimalimbikitsa chifukwa ndakhala kufuna anakwatira kuyambira ndinali 6 yrs akale ndi ambiri a anthu wondiviika pansi chifukwa. M'njira zambiri analenga kusowa chitetezo mwa ine. Zikomo chifukwa cha ichi!

  39. Terrianayankha

    Patangotha 35 zaka zapitazo ndinakwatira sukulu anga okwezeka wokomamtima. Tonse tinali 18, pafupifupi 19. Tinali naysayers ambiri ndi bambo anga ngakhale zoyembekezeredwa Ndikufuna kupeza ukwati ndi kupeza dokotala. Pamene Mulungu limakonza ukwati zilibe kanthu chimene m'badwo wa mkwati ndi mkwatibwi. madalitso ambiri!

  40. Missyanayankha

    Ine anakwatiwa achinyamata komanso (20 kukhala enieni). Tsopano pa 32, Ndikumva ngati kuti akhoza kukwatira zaka iliyonse ndipo nthawi iliyonse aliyense… ndipo Mulungu adzagwiritsa ntchito munthu amene akonda iye nthawi zonse kudzatunga Yekha pafupi ndi munthu amene… zonse muyenera kukhala ndi wokonzeka kukhala woyera monga Iye ali oyera. Ndicho chifukwa ine sindikukhulupirira pali “amene”… Anthu onse amene amasankha kukwatiwa, kukhala “winayo” chifukwa eachother :)

  41. Liseanayankha

    Zikomo kwambiri chifukwa cholemba nkhani! ndine 36 zaka ndipo ndakhala m'banja 19yrs…eya, ndinali 17 pamene ine ndinakwatiwa 18yr mwamuna wanga wakale! Tili ana asanu, kukonda Yehova ndipo amasangalala kwambiri :) ife anafunsa mafunso ngati amenewa nthawi zonse ndipo pamene izo zikhoza kukhala otchuka kusankha kapena kusankha koyenera kwa ambiri, Ndine wokondwa ndi zachinsinsi tsiku ndi tsiku kuti ife anasankha bwino kwa ife.

  42. Steffananayankha

    Zimenezi n'zodabwitsa. Ine ndikudziwa zambiri anthu amene amaganiza ichi ndi cholakwa chachikulu cha moyo wanu. ndine 22 ndi kuti pamenepa kuganizira ndi munthu Ndadziwa ndi okondedwa kuyambira sophomore chaka cha sekondale. Ndine zinthu ndithudi si dzuwa ndi utawaleza inu, kapena kodi ndikuyembekezera kuti akhale ine. Ndikuyikizani kwa zochotsa onse negativity ndi kuyang'ana pa chithunzi zazikulu ndi zimene anamva Mulungu kukutsogolerani. Ngati palibe wina aliyense okondwa kuti inu, Ndikukhulupirira ndine.

  43. Kim Hunteranayankha

    Ndinakumana ndi mwamuna wanga pa 14 tinakwatirana pamene ndinali 21 ndipo iye anali 23 takhala pamodzi 22 zaka m'banja 15 anthu 22 palibe kanthu kolakwika ndi kukwatiwa ana ake monga mmene munthu ayang'ana pa moyo….chifukwa kwenikweni lifr wanu ndi chimene inu kupanga izo….ndipo inde ine ndi mwamuna wanga adzapulumutsidwa amakhulupirira mulungu ndipo tikukhala moyo wathu kwa iye ndi Mulungu zinthu zonse zitheka makamaka yaitali healthly wachikondi ukwati kanthu ngati zosavuta, koma ndi mulungu mukhoza kupangitsa…….MUDALITSIDWE!!

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  45. Cherisseanayankha

    Dalitso kudziwa Ambuye ndi kumvetsa mawu ake. Ine ndikukhumba panali anthu ngati inuyo. Musalole Mdyerekezi ulesi. Ife tikudziwa iye ali mbhuto.

  46. GrantYounganayankha

    Ine ndi mkazi wanga anakwatira pamene tinali 22 ndipo ine ndinali chokuchitikirani chomwecho. Anzanu kuti anapulumutsidwa ndi wosapulumutsidwa ankafuna kuti ndidziwe ndinali moyo kukhala. wometa wanga amandikumbutsa za clubbing onse ndi kuvina ine ndikhoza kuchita. My “pafupi” abwenzi anafotokoza kuti pali nsomba zina m'nyanja kufufuza. Chabwino, timakha- tinakwatirana pa nthawi yomweyo 3 mabanja ena m'badwo wathu anachita! Ndife ochepa koma motsimikiza osati yekha ndipo akulimbikitsa kukumbukira kuti.

    Mwa chisomo cha Mulungu ife monga chikondwerero 3 Zaka ndipo zakhala zozizwitsa! Zikomo kugawana Ulendo!

  47. Markanayankha

    kudzachitika anga adzakhala ngati mukupita kukwatiwa achinyamata, inu bwino kudziwa zotsatira za kuchita zimenezi. N'zovuta kwambiri ngakhale mu kwambiri pa zinthu. Ngati simuli okonzeka ntchito chovuta inu munayamba ntchito ndi kwathunthu nsembe ndi kuthana ndi zambiri zokhumudwitsa ndi kupwetekedwa, Kodi si lowani chifukwa. Komabe, ngati mungathe kupirira (ndi anthu ena) ngati kungakhale kopindulitsa pa nthawi.

  48. Kevinanayankha

    Ndimakonda kaonedwe izi Baibulo pogwiritsa. Ndi osowa pakati American Christian, kumene nyumba chikhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe ali wotsutsa-ukwati, kuwona wachinyamata, ngakhale munthu wokalamba, ndi maganizo amenewo okhwima mwauzimu pa mtengo wa bungwe Mulungu. Zochokera zambiri zimene ine ndawerenga, kaonedwe izi zikumveka zachilendo kwa anthu, ngakhale mu mpingo chifukwa ife analola tokha luso kwa malamulo chikhalidwe cha tsiku osati choonadi cha Baibulo cha zimene Mulungu amagwiriziza kulemekezedwa ndipo zilemekezedwe. Ndikukupemphererani inu ulendo, kusunga kugawa uthenga wabwino ndi choonadi cha mawu a Mulungu anapanga yeniyeni ndi chenicheni m'moyo wa okhulupirira.

  49. PastorRobanayankha

    Ine ndikufuna kuti inu mukudziwa Ulendo- Lee ine ndinakwatira 2 miyezi ndinatembenuka 21. Kodi Mulungu zonse izo? Iye anali zonse izo ngakhale anthu kuganiza ndi maganizo awo pa chifukwa Sindiyenera kukwatira kuti Ine zinkafunika kudikira. Munthu wa Mulungu Ndakhala m'banja kwa 16 zaka tsopano ndi 2 Okongola atsikana ndipo ndili bwinobwino greatful kwa Mulungu Mulungu wanzeru, wolemekezeka wapatali ngale. Kukongola za umboni wanu chimatanthauzidwira inu kuti ndinene izo!!!

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  51. Mavisanayankha

    Ndili ndi malangizo kwa achinyamata onse. Ngati muli 18 kapena pa, kuyamba kufunafuna mwamuna kapena mkazi! Kugonana kunja ngati ukwati adzakuweruza kanthu koma amawasautsa, leaness moyo ndi thanzi zoipa, ubongo ndi thupi. Kukwatirana ndi chimwemwe ndi chilimbikitso zachuma! Mukhoza kwambiri mwachita ndi kusangalala lufe kwambiri ngati inu simuli nokha. mwina makolo anu tinasudzulana chifukwa iwo sanatsatire mitima yawo pa ubwana wawo! Ndilibe danga kufotokoza izo zonse, koma inu zimamangidwa kuti n'kudzagona. Kuyamba kupanga mndandanda yor ya ayenera kukhala ndi makhalidwe yomweyo nakakwatira aang'ono pamene muli mtima wako wonse kupereka. ndine 53 ndipo grayeful kwambiri kuti banja losangalala. Ine anakwatiwa pa 31 -nthawi chisoni ambiri ndi zambiri ngati adadzonga achinyamata njira njira mochedwa kwambiri. Hope kuchita ngati inu adzakhala wanzeru ndi unyamata wako ndi sangalalani ndi kupezeka mu izo!

  52. GOSPELMAGDOTCOManayankha

    Wokondedwa Ulendo Lee,
    Tikuyamikira kuwerenga nkhani zanu.
    Kodi inu kutipatsa chilolezo kuti amasulire nkhani yanu ku France ndi kufalitsa iwo pa webusaiti yathu: gospelmag.com?
    Zikomo kwambiri pasadakhale yankho lanu.
    Best mwa Khristu,
    Marcel

  53. Mercyanayankha

    Mzanga anandigulira bukuli pamene tinali achinyamata za kukhala wamng'ono, mayi olemekezeka achikristu. Indedi analimbikitsa akudikira mpaka atakwatirana ndi chirichonse ndipo anali mavesi mu. Vuto ndipo iye anapita mmwamba yekha kuti Mulungu sakufuna kuti ife tsiku. Ine analonjeza kuti ndine adzakhala ndi malire ndi anyamata (Ndikuganiza pang'ono ndine kwathunthu anachita ndi kuposa manyazi). Ine adzamupulumutsa zinthu zina banja koma osinthasintha m'mbuyomu 2 zaka Ine ndalandira maganizo. Ine ankasungulumwa. Ine ndinkadabwa chimene chiri cholakwika ndi ine, ndipo ngati ndiri wabwino mokwanira. Ine sindiri. Sindikudziwa lemba lililonse. Ndikufuna kuphunzira zambiri kwambiri. Ndakhala kuyesera ndipo sindikufuna kudziwana chabe iliyonse munthu chifukwa ine kukhala wokaika ndi awapeleke ine pansi njira Mulungu safuna ine pansi koma Ine amasukidwa. Ndi zokongola nthawi zonse kuona achinyamata m'chikondi. Ndi bwino ngati iwo anakwatira ndipo ine ndikudziwa kuti si zabwino nsanje koma aliyense limati “o, zidzafika nthawi yanu”. Ine ndikuganiza za nthawi zonse posachedwapa. Ndinakumana ichi munthu zabwino. Tili ndi umunthu ofanana kwambiri koma iye anati iye si kupita ku mpingo. Iye anati Akukhulupirira Mulungu ndi Ine ndikudziwa ine sindiri ungwiro ndekha koma ine sindingakhoze mwina koma chifukwa Ine sindikuganiza kuti iye kufunafuna mwachangu Mulungu ngati ine nditi bondo chinachake. Akazi sakuyenera kuyesa kusintha amuna ndinamva. Zimadzetsa mwala amati. Chabwino, Ndatopa podikira. Ine ndikulingalira ine kuphunzira njira yovuta. Ine sindiri kugonana ngakhale. ine ndiri 23 ndipo adakali kuima mwamphamvu pa zimene koma Ndasokonekera chifukwa Sindikuyenera mwamuna tsopano. Aliyense akulidziwa chimene iwo akufuna. Ndi zosasangalatsa kuti sindingathe kusiya kuganiza za anyamata. Ine tondovi zina. Ngati ine kukwatiwa mwamuna uyu ndi iye sanasinthe tiyenera omangidwa mgoli? Anthu ena zonse. Ndipo ine sindikunena ndalama. Ine ndikungofuna wina amene amandiyamikira. Ndi kwambiri kufotokoza.

    • Natalieanayankha

      Mercy:
      Inu mukadali okha 23! :) Musadandaule osati kupeza “Chabwino” chimodzi, palibe munthu mmodzi kunja uko ndi njira yabwino. Ndipo basi kulongosolerana: Ndinu ofunika IT. Pali chifukwa kuti inu muli ndi padziko lapansi pano. Ndinu wofunika kwambiri kwa Yesu, tingowerenga ndipo amati malonjezo Ake pamene inu kuyamba kuganiza kuti ndinu sikuthandiza. ndimaikonda ndi: “Sindidzaiwala kapena kukusiyani inu.”
      Wina Ndinadziwa posachedwapa tinasudzulana, ndi nkhani yaikulu mu ukwati wawo anali kuti iye anali wokhulupirira, ndipo sadali. Chigamulo muyenera kupanga adzakhala “ndi Mulungu sikuthandiza?” Mufuneni Ambuye ndi mtima wanu wonse, ndipo IYE adzakulozerani. Adzatsogolera inu. Iye adzapereka chilimbikitso muyenera pamene inu mantha ndi maganizo. Chinachake ndapeza kukhala othandiza kwambiri ndi Malembo mokweza ndisanagone bedi, ndipo makamaka ndikaona pansi ndi zikuphedwa ku mdani. Inu konse chomwe Mulungu ali pafupi.. ngati inu dikirani. Ine ndikudziwa kuti izo zikumveka molimbika ndi moona mtima, zosasangalatsa, koma ngati inu kufunafuna Ambuye, Iye adzasamalira inu mu nyengo. Pali chifukwa muli mu nyengo! Mukhoza kudabwa momwe Mulungu ntchito monga umboni othandiza atsikana ena achinyamata amene akulimbana ndi chinthu chomwecho! :) Ine ndikuyembekeza izi anathandiza njira zina! madalitso!

  54. Michealaanayankha

    Ine ndinakwatira pa 21 ndipo anali wokongola …
    Inu simungakhoze kuthandizira amene inu amam'konda kapena pamene inu amam'konda iwo,
    Sindinkaganiza kuti ine ndikanakhala mtundu chokwatirira achinyamata ndi kuphonya pa “zinthu zosangalatsa” mu moyo .. koma sindikuganiza sindina, Ine basi adagawa wanga “zinthu zosangalatsa” ndi munthu ndimamukonda ndi simukanati mulingalire moyo popanda.

  55. Gisselleanayankha

    Hi Ndine Gisselle Ndimachokera ku Honduras. ine ndiri 18 zaka ndi bwenzi langa ndi 19. ife ndi 15 miyezi yapitayo mu mpingo wake ku New York! Ndimakhala ku Honduras.. Choncho wakhala wautali ubale. Ndine chaka chachiwiri ku koleji ndi momwe iye. Ife tayankhula za kukwatira. Ndipo ena a abale athu ndi akulu ku mpingo wake amatithandiza ndi kutiuza ife ndi chinthu chopambana kuti tichite. Ndidakali osatetezeka za izo.. Mayi anga si lotseguka kwambiri za ine kukwatiwa ndi achinyamata moti alongo anga. Takhala tikupempherera kuyambira poyamba tiyenera kuganizira za ukwati kuthekera. Ngati mukhoza kulemba ine ku imelo yanga Ndikufuna kuthokoza!

  56. Jenniferanayankha

    Tinakwatirana 21 zaka zapitazo. ndinali 19 ndi mwamuna wanga 21. Ife ubwenzi wabwino ndi mzake ndi kwa Mulungu. ana atatu tiyembekezera mwachidwi lotsatira 20.

  57. Charlesanayankha

    Ine ndimangofuna kunena zikomo njira kutsogolo kuti kulalikira mawu Gods. Ine basi anaonera 'Fallin’ nyimbo kanema patapita tsiku kudutsa ndi mayesero ndi kumva ngati Mulungu analankhula bwino zimene ine ndikupita mopyola. The chodabwitsa Mphatso ya Grace kuti tikugwirizana sangathe anayeza kapena lache. Zikomo kwambiri chifukwa kachiwiri kutsegula maso anga kuti chinachake maziko mu kuyenda kwanga ndi Mulungu. Ine ndikupemphera kuti Mulungu adzakudalitsani mu utumiki.

  58. Chideraanayankha

    Pamene Mulungu akukuonetsani munthu ndi munthu ali ndi chilakolako chomwecho kwa Mulungu monga inu ndi wokonzeka kuyenda nanu njira zonse. zilibe kanthu m'badwo, kamodzi nthawi ifika inu kukwatira. The chinthu kuvomereza chabe pa zonse za njira zanu, iye ati mayendedwe ako (Miyambo 3:6). Basi masautso ndi chikondi kwa Mulungu, pa nthawi yoyenera iye ati imakupatsani womuthandizira anu amene angayime ndi inu mwa izo zonse. Kodi gawo osati kufuna, ndiye musati polekanitsa ndi Mulungu. Mu ZONSE za njira zanu kumuitanira, he'ell kupanga njira zako.

  59. Stacyanayankha

    mwamuna wanga 3/4 wakuda ndi kotala woyera.(Ndine mzungu). mwamuna wanga ine ndinakwatira wamng'ono ine 18 kupita ku 19 ndi mwamuna wanga 20. Anthu anatiuza ife kuti, tinayamba kupanga kulakwitsa ndi adzamtuma chilekano. Ife sanamvere tinakwatirana ndipo tsopano takhala 16 zaka. Mulungu akulodnoleza.

  60. jaysmithanayankha

    Kevin–inu ngati muli zinthu ochepa. Ndipo mukuchita njira yanu. Pitiliranibe, mwana! Pomaliza pake, kudzidziwa theka komanso ndi ambiri vattle ndi, ngakhale zolakwa iliyonse. madalitso!

  61. TheRealHonestTruthanayankha

    Bwino kwa anthu kunja uko kuti adalitsidwa ndi mwayi Wabwino kwambiri ndi mavuto NO matenda onse ndi kukwatirana ndi banja ndi ndalama zambiri ndithu kwambiri kukhala wothokoza kwambiri chifukwa chakuti iwo kwenikweni ayenera NO chifukwa chodandaula pamene ambiri a ife sindife kuti mwayi konse ngakhale ambiri mwa inu chiyani kukwatiwa wamng'ono amene pali ambiri a inu omwe adakali pamodzi lero.

  62. RachelSanchezanayankha

    Ine ndi mwamuna wanga tinakwatirana kale chaka chino. Iye 22, ndipo ndine 21. Ine ndinamufunsa nthawi zonse chifukwa ndikada “kuponyera ubwana wanga” kapena chifukwa Ndikufuna n'komwe kukwatiwa ku koleji. Ine n'zosadabwitsa kupeza ndemanga kwambiri zopweteka kwa akazi achikulire amene akuoneka kuti asanyoze ine. Ndi yowawitsa kuti ena sangathe kuti ndine kwenikweni kwenikweni kusangalala ubwana wanga ndi munthu wanga kwambiri akukondedwa dziko. Ndi zomvetsa chisoni kuti anthu (mibadwo ngakhale achikulire) ndikuganiza kuti ziri mwangwiro chabwino kwa anthu mu 20s awo kugona mozungulira, koma pamene iwo kukwatirana ndi ozunguza ndi choipa. Ife basi ndikuyembekeza banja lathu akhoza kulimbitsa ena kuti atenge adzatumpha ngati akuona kuti ali okonzeka, mosasamala zimene anthu akuwauza.

  63. Choonadi Sad Kwambirianayankha

    Ndiye pali ambiri a ife zabwino amuna osakwatira amene anali kwenikweni akuyembekeza kuti akumane ndi mkazi wabwino chokhazikika ndi, koma mwatsoka zikadali sizinachitikebe ife. Ndi amuna ndi akazi amene anali kwambiri odala kwambiri kuti anakumana ndi mnzake ndi kukhala ndi banja lomwe inu kwenikweni nawo kwambiri kukhala othokoza.

  64. alvina.rebornanayankha

    Zikomo ambiri Ulendo. Kwa zaka ine ndakhala ndikukuuzani ndine zitha kukwatira kale msinkhu winawake. Koma tsopano Ine ndikudziwa bwino.