Vim li cas kuv tau sib yuav ib tug Dawb ntxhais

Thaum twg kuv rooj vag duab ntawm kuv tsev neeg rau kev sib raug zoo xov xwm, cov lus teb yeej ib txwm muaj kev lom zem. Feem ntau yog, "Koj tus tub yog li ntawd zoo nraug!"Los yog" ua li cas ib tug zoo nkauj tsev neeg!"Tab sis ib yam ntawm lub lwm yam ntau cov lus teb yog, "Yog koj tus poj niam dawb?"Cov neeg hais rau kuv ntawm qhia tau hais tias tej zaum dhau. Cov lus teb no yog. Kuv tus poj niam yog ib tug mix ntawm Hungarian, Italian, thiab Polish-uas rau feem ntau cov neeg cia li txhais tau tias yog, nws yog dawb. Qhov no yog sob rau ib co, tab sis shocking los yog txawm disappointing rau lwm tus neeg. Kuv tsis xav tias leej twg yuav tsum tau xav tsis thoob los yog chim los ntawm lwm haiv neeg kev sib yuav, tab sis kuv tseem xav los tham txog vim li cas kuv sib sab nraum kuv "haiv neeg.

Qhov kev txiav txim mus yuav ib tug neeg los ntawm ib tug txawv haiv neeg tom qab tsis yog ib tug tawv ib qho rau kuv. Kuv yeej tsis cia li zaum thiab sau tawm ib tug pros thiab cons daim ntawv teev. Tab sis, yog hais tias kuv puas tau, qhov tseeb hais tias kuv tus poj niam yeej tsis tau pom ib tug rov ntawm "Martin" yuav nyob rau hauv lub nrog qeb. Tab sis honestly, Kuv tsis agonize dua nws los yog nrhiav kev ntuas txog seb nws yog lawv xav tshuaj. Kuv yog ntseeg hais tias nws yog tus poj niam rau kuv mus yuav, txawm tias nws tsis yog dub.

Ib txhia yeej tsis xav txog marrying ib tug neeg uas tsis yog tus tib haiv neeg raws li lawv, li ntawd, cia kuv qhia rau koj vim li cas kuv puas tau.

cov miv nyuas

Yuav tsis ncaj ncees, Kuv yeej ib txwm yuav tsum tau yuav ib tug dub poj niam. Kuv pom cov poj niam ntawm txhua haiv zoo nkauj, tab sis dub ntxhais yog kuv tus "nyiam." Tiam sis thaum kuv tuaj txog rau ntawm kuv kawm ntawv qib siab hauv tsev kawm ntawv nyob rau hauv 2006, Kuv twb tsis nrhiav ib tug poj niam ntawm tag nrho cov. Kuv cia li xav kom loj hlob nyob rau hauv kuv txoj kev ntseeg thiab tau ib tug zoo kev kawm ntawv. Kuv thawj album twb cia li tawm tuaj, li ntawd, kuv muaj ntau yam ua kom pom tseeb rau ntawm. Tab sis raws li kuv tau ntsib cov neeg hauv tsev kawm ntawv, ib tug qib kaum npe Jessica yeej ntes tau kuv paub thiab peb los ua phooj ywg.

Peb khiav nyob rau hauv tib lub voj voog thiab peb twb tuaj koom tib lub tsev teev ntuj, li ntawd, peb pom txhua lwm yam ib heev. Thiab qhov ntau kuv tau paub nws, qhov ntau kuv twb kos rau nws. Nws yeej hlub Yexus thiab nws muaj no childlike kam mus ua xijpeem nws nug. Nws txoj kev khuv leej rau cov txom nyem cov neeg sib tw kuv thiab nws muaj ib tug lub siab hais tias teb rau cov lus. Li ntawd thawj xyoo, Kuv saib nws txi countless teev ntawm nws lub sij hawm pab nyob rau hauv peb lub tsev teev ntuj. Nyob rau sab saum toj ntawm tag nrho cov uas, Kuv hlub nyob ib ncig nws. peb kev sib tham, seb loj los yog ua dag, yeej ib txwm ntws tau yooj yim. Li ntawd, kuv thiaj li pib mus nug kuv tus kheej, "Kuv yuav yuav tus ntxhais no?"

nyiam Zoo Li Cas

Jessica tsis zoo li kuv xav kuv yav tom ntej tus poj niam mus nrhiav, tab sis honestly hais tias tsis ua cas rau kuv. Tsis tau kuv tsis ncaj ncees lawm, Kuv xav tias nws twb zoo nkauj los ntawm tus thawj lub sij hawm kuv tau ntsib nws. Thiab kuv yeej tsis tau pom zoo rau marrying ib tug dawb ntxhais. Kuv cia li tsis xav tias kuv yuav. Tab sis raws li kuv loj hlob nyob rau hauv kuv txoj kev ntseeg thiab kuv lub siab hloov, kuv nyiam pib hloov ib yam nkaus thiab. Kuv lub ntsiab nyiam yog tias kuv tus poj niam yuav godly, thiab Jessica yog. Yog li ntawd kuv wifed nws.

Tsis txhob rau ib tug lub sij hawm ntawd ua kuv xav tias zoo li kuv twb hauv. Nws pom tau tias zoo li hauv overlook ib tes dej num poj niam xwb vim ntawm nws haiv neeg. Kuv yeej tsis xav mus value kuv nyiam rau ib tug poj niam li cas kuv yuav tsum tau nyob rau hauv ib tug poj niam.

Muaj tsis muaj dab tsi tas lawm muaj nyiam, tab sis peb yuav tau tuav lawv nrog ib txhais tes. Kuv paub ib txhia neeg uas ntsia tsis pom tej zaum godly tus txij nkawm vim hais tias lawv tsis haum ib co random nyiam. Ib txhia ntawm peb cov nyiam tiag tiag tsis tseem ceeb hais tias ntau. Ib txhia ntawm peb cov nyiam yuav txawm yuav ruam, li ntawd, peb yuav tau xa tag nrho cov ntawm lawv rau vaj.

Thaum koj thiab koj tus txij nkawm yog nyob rau hauv nruab nrab ntawm cov teeb meem, daim tawv nqaij laus tsis. Lub cev thiab kev raws li txoj cai zoo li tsis tseem ceeb txaus. Koj xav kom lawv yuav tsum tau godly thiab humble. Thiab raws li kuv tus poj niam thiab kuv pib tsa peb thawj tus me nyuam, Kuv yuav tsis yuav ntau xav thov ua tsaug rau nws. Nws yog ib qho amazing niam thiab ib tes dej num cawv rau kuv tus tub-tsis cov neeg uas muaj dab tsi ua rau nws haiv neeg keeb kwm yav dhau. Nws yog OK xav tej yam uas nyob rau hauv ib tug txij nkawm, tab sis peb yuav tsum xa peb tej kev xav rau Vajtswv xav kom peb nyob rau hauv ib tug txij nkawm. Yuav ua li cas kuv xav thiab yuav tsum tau tshaj plaws yog ib tes dej num tus khub, thiab hais tias yog raws nraim li Vajtswv muab.

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  1. CLLTeb

    Zoo hais tias dawm. Kuv tus txiv yog Dawb thiab kuv Dub thiab kuv lossi tau nug dab tsi ua rau kuv xaiv ib tug neeg nyob sab nraum ntawm kuv haiv neeg. Kuv yeej ib txwm teb hais tias Vajtswv ua tus xaiv rau kuv thiab Nws tau ua xws li ib txoj hauj lwm amazing, zoo tshaj qhov kuv puas tau yuav tau ua li cas rau kuv tus kheej. Vajtswv yog zoo! Cia li ua li cas koj ua! 116! Yexus thawj txog thaum uas peb nyob rau hauv lub ntiaj teb!

    • ErickaTeb

      Tsaug rau qhov lub siab dawb paug dawm Lee. kuv pom zoo. Koj yuav muaj ib tug nyiam tab sis koj yuav tsum tuav nws nrog ib txhais tes vim hais tias raws li ib tug Christian koj thawj kev cog lus yog rau Tswv Yexus thiab koj tus txij nkawm muaj mus txhawb hais tias. tusyees yolked…

    • WadsworthTeb

      Great ncej dawm.
      Kuv muaj teeb meem saib koj blog rau kuv tus xov tooj. Cov nplooj ntawv zoo li tsau hindering sab laug-sab xis scrolling thiab cov lus ntawm qhov kawg ntawm txhua kab nkawd txiav tawm los ntawm kuv screen ces kuv tej zaum yuav tsis ua kev zoo siab ntawm ib co kab. Kuv tsis paub tseeb tias qhov no yog ib qho teeb meem nrog kuv browser los yog tej zaum ib tug ib yam me me nyob rau hauv lub blog tus teeb. Cia li xav coj nws mus cia li incase ib yam dab tsi yuav ua tau los ntawm koj kawg.
      tsaug.
      nyob twj ywm foom koob hmoov rau.

    • MariaTeb

      Kuv tus ntxhais hlub koj music. Ua tau, Kuv yuav tsum lees; Kuv ua heev:). Thaum nws thawj coj kuv mus ncig xyuas cov suab paj nruag nrog rau lwm yam peb nyiam, lacris) Kuv yog cia li zoo siab rau koj Godly cawv ntawm koj music. Tab sis kuv tseem yuav nyob dog dig ceeb toom. Wondering yog hais tias koj music manifested koj tus ua cim. Nyeem qhov no kuv ntseeg siab hais tias koj yog ib tug Vajtswv tus txiv neej. Kuv thov Vajtswv ntau ntau koob hmoov rau koj thiab koj zoo nkauj tus poj niam thiab adorable tub. Ntaub hais lus, thiab nyob rau hauv ib lub sij hawm uas muaj yog li ntawd ntau npaum li cas phem, haiv neeg twg yog cia li hais tias. Ib tug yog tiag tiag muaj hmoo muaj ib tug poj niam (Yog hais tias koj yog ib tug txiv neej) uas hlub Tswv Yexus thiab ua hauj lwm pab Nws txoj cai raws sab ntawm koj.

    • AdamCravenTeb

      amees!!! Kuv yeej tsis tshua to taub yog vim li cas ib txhia neeg overlooked ib tes dej num poj niam tsuas vim hais tias lawv tsis haum mus rau hauv ib tug ntawm lawv nyiam. Kuv muaj ib tug muam uas luag muab ib tug nyiam ua ntej kev zoo siab. Nws nws thiaj li mus mus rau lub zoo lo lus ntawm vaj tswv thiab thov Vajtswv txog nws thiab thov Vajtswv thiab thaum kawg nws tau txais nws cov lus teb thiab tam sim no kuv 2 ntxhais thiab ib tug zoo tswv hwm thiab paub ntshai tus tij laug-nyob rau hauv-txoj cai!! Koj yeej tsis yuav tsum muab koj nyiam ua ntej Vaj tswv vim hais tias txhua txhua lub sij hawm ib tug neeg lawv yeej nto qaub ncaug nyob hauv tswv lub ntsej muag thiab kuv nyiam ua ntej koj!!

  2. CarinaTeb

    Raws li Vajtswv ua, peb yuav tsum ua raws li. Kuv xav hais tias biblically hais lus peb yog tag nrho ib haiv neeg, ua ntej los ntawm Adas thiab Eva ces tom qab tag nrho cov xeeb leej xeeb ntxwv Nau-as. Nws yuav siv sij hawm ntau txhiab xyoo thiab pua pua ntawm tiam kom tau rov qab, tab sis peb tag nrho cov pib los ntawm tib lub qhov chaw. Ib haiv neeg, ntau hom neeg.

  3. BrittaTeb

    Kuv pom zoo kiag li! Ua ntej kuv tau ntsib kuv tus txiv kuv yeej ib txwm nyiam huv shaven liab hau, tab sis, ces kuv tau ntsib David. Nws yog ib tug do hau txiv leej tub nrog ib tug goatee ntev txaus rau kuv ntxias! Nws yog / yog txhua yam uas Vajtswv tau cog lus tseg rau kuv tias kuv xav pom nyob rau hauv ib tug txiv, tab sis yog hais tias kuv twb cia li nrhiav rau ib tug tej yam zoo li kuv yuav tau mus ntsib tsis tau tawm nyob rau hauv qhov zoo tshaj plaws Vajtswv tau rau kuv!

  4. David BTeb

    Kuv txaus siab rau qhov. Kuv tsis tos til lub tswv yim, qhov no yog yuav ua li cas peb ua txoj kev tshav ntuj nyob rau hauv lub txhua hnub, Phau ntawv no yog cowritten los ntawm kev mus txawv tebchaws thiab Jessica!

  5. AnneTeb

    Ua tsaug rau koj mus txawv tebchaws rau qhov no amazing tsab xov xwm. Yuav kom muaj kev ncaj ncees nrog koj, Kuv yog zoo nkauj xav tsis thoob thaum kuv pom tawm txog koj tus poj niam yog haiv neeg. Tab sis, Kuv ntseeg hais tias Vajtswv txoj kev npaj rau peb lub neej, yeej tsis phim li cas peb cia siab tias los yog xav. Yog li ntawd, no tsab xov xwm tau yaum kuv mus thov Vajtswv thiab tau txais kuv motives txoj cai; li ntawd thaum tus neeg txoj kev tuaj nrog kuv txoj kev, Vajtswv-kam, Kuv npaj txhij. Ua tsaug rau koj dua bro. Hlub koj thiab koj tus fam nyob rau hauv Tswv Yexus. Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau.

  6. RachelTeb

    Wow. Kuv ua tsaug rau koj qhib thiab ncaj ncees lub plawv ntawm cov ntawv no, raws li kuv paub hais tias nws tsis nyob txaus! Kuv tus txiv thiab kuv yog tib yam “haiv neeg” tab sis kuv pom qhov no tib yam controversy tshaj dag tej yam zoo li someones kev raws li txoj cai (zoo li cas ntawm txoj hauj lwm lawv muaj), yog hais tias lawv muaj cov me nyuam, dab tsi lawv yav tas los lawm, hais txog ntawm wether lawv yog nyob rau hauv Tswv Yexus los yog tsis. Kuv paub ib tug qhov tseeb kuv xav twb sib yuav kuv tus txiv tsis muaj teeb meem nws haiv neeg, raws li txoj cai, los yog tom qab. Vajtswv txoj kev hlub thiab txoj kev tshav ntuj npog lawm txhua yam thiab ua rau nws tag nrho cov tshiab thiab zoo nkauj. Thiab zoo li koj hais tias, NWS paub dab tsi peb yuav tsum tau ntau tshaj li peb ua peb tus kheej. Ua tsaug rau koj qhov no ncej!!

  7. CrystalTeb

    Kiag li zoo nkauj. Kuv hlub uas koj hais yuav ua li cas koj nyiam hloov thaum koj tej hloov. Vajtswv yog txaus, Nws muaj lub zoo heev rau peb txhua tus tab sis peb yuav tsum tau tawm ntawm peb tus kheej txoj kev kom peb yuav pom tau, tau txais thiab txaus siab rau lawv. Kuv yog ib tug dub poj niam uas yuav tsis tu tsawg dua txog haiv neeg. Kuv thov Vajtswv yog pom cov neeg raws li Vajtswv pom lawv thiab taug kev nyob rau hauv Nws lub siab nyiam. Tus ntawd yog nws. Nws yog peb txiag, uas yog peb yuav tsum tau ntxub lwm haiv neeg?

  8. mos lwjTeb

    Great blog hais tias cov neeg yuav tsum nyeem. Kuv Lebanese Armenian thiab kuv tus txiv yog dub thiab peb mus txog thiab yuav los ntawm ib tug ntau ntawm kev tu siab los ntawm kuv tsev neeg.
    Kuv yeej tsis muaj ib tug nyiam haiv neeg twg. Ua ntej kuv tau txais kev cawmdim Kuv muaj 3 loj kev sib raug zoo ntawm txawv haiv neeg thiab tom qab kuv tau txais kev cawmdim thiab loj hlob nyob rau hauv kuv kev sib raug zoo nrog cov Christ nws yog tag nrho hais txog kuv yog leej twg “hu ua” yuav tsum tau nrog; uas Vajtswv muaj “tsa” rau kuv.
    Loj hlob li nws tsis yog li ntawd ntau npaum li cas ib tug nyiam tab sis ib tug yuav tsum tau los ntawm kuv tsev neeg mus yuav nyob rau hauv kuv haiv neeg, tiam sis kuv tsis tu; kuv twb yeej ib txwm suav tias yog qhov dub yaj lawm…
    Yuav kom kuv txhua yam kom muaj nqi yog li cas tus Tswv lub siab nyiam yog rau kuv lub neej thiab thaum kuv tus txiv twb qhia rau kuv kuv muaj xws li ib tug kev sib haum xeeb thiab xws li ib tug kev paub hais tias kuv sawv kuv av. Peb tseem tabtom thov Vajtswv rau kuv tsev neeg lub siab yuav tsum tau softened tab sis nyob rau hauv lub kawg txhua yam uas tseem ceeb yog hais tias kuv nyob rau hauv Vajtswv lub siab nyiam thiab nws txoj kev thiab yog tsis muaj leej twg kuv xav be..I yog muaj kev ruaj ntseg thiab kev ruaj ntseg nyob rau hauv Nws lub siab nyiam.

  9. MichaelTeb

    Qhov no yog ib tug zoo ncej dawm. Kuv twb yeej tsis muaj txaus siab nyob rau hauv kuv tus kheej tias haiv neeg twg, Hispanic, tab sis raws li kuv twb zus ntxiv nyob rau hauv kuv txoj kev ntseeg nws tau ua ntau pom meej rau kuv hais tias daim tawv nqaij laus tsis muaj teeb meem ntau li ntau. Qhov no yog yus rov mus nyeem thiab kuv ua Vajtswv tsaug uas nws tau muab koj xws li ib tug zoo kawg poj niam mus pab koj tseem qhuas Nws. Tsaug rau qhov kev tshoov siab nyob rau hauv tag nrho koj cov lus!

  10. JarredTeb

    Kuv tus poj niam thiab kuv yog dawb neeg. Tus Tswv thawb peb mus rau hauv me nyuam los tu rau peb cov me nyuam thawj. Nyob rau hauv cov txheej txheem koj yuav xaiv dab tsi koj xav. Nws yog yuav luag zoo li tos ib tug menyuam dev. Xijpeem ib tug ntawm cov kev xaiv uas koj tau txais ua yog rau haiv neeg. Peb muaj tsis muaj teeb meem nrog tej haiv neeg, Txawm li cas los, qhov twg kuv los ntawm lawv NTXUB dub neeg. Yog li ntawd peb xaiv tsis tau txais yuav ib tug dub tus me nyuam vim hais tias ntawm lawv thiab txoj kev hais tias lawv yuav kho thaum peb coj lawv rov qab mus rau mus saib kuv pog thiab yawg. Kuv muaj ntau pw tsis nrog hais tias kev xaiv. Peb ua qhov zoo tshaj plaws? Tau peb tiv thaiv peb tus me nyuam los ntawm hais tias ntxub, los yog tau peb ua si Vajtswv nyob rau hauv peb lub neej? Peb yog xis nrog uas xaiv tam sim no, vim hais tias nws yog tshaj, tab sis koj xav li cas?

    • DeeDeeTeb

      Jarred-

      Kuv nyeem koj cov post… Kuv dub, thiab tau txais yuav los ntawm kuv niam kuv txiv uas yog dawb. Txawm tus kws txiav txim uas yuav ua licas rau hauv rooj plaub yog dub. Niam thiab Txiv twb tshee vim hais tias peb nyob nyob rau hauv ib thaj chaw uas kuv thiab ib tug ntawm kuv saws kwvtij tej zaum yuav tsis tau raws li guarded los ntawm tib neeg lub prejudices. Hais tau hais tias, lawv cia siab rau Vajtswv, thiab yeej ces yuav tsum teeb meem ntawm kev txhawj xeeb.

      Kuv xav thiab ntseeg tau hais tias koj thiab koj tus poj niam puas tau ua dab tsi yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws rau koj tsev neeg. Txhua qhov teeb meem no yog cim thiab Vajtswv muab peb ib qho kev ntsuas ntawm txoj kev hlub rau next lub neej me me thiab cov loj loj lub sij hawm. tsum yaum! Leej twg paub, tej zaum koj yuav tau txais rau lub sij hawm los txais yuav dua thiab xaiv ib tug dub (los yog lwm yam haiv neeg) tus me nyuam! Vajtswv yeej paub koj lub siab lub ntsws ces, thiab nws yeej paub nws txawm nyob rau hauv lub sij hawm no.

    • CeceTeb

      Jared,
      Kuv tuaj ntawm ib tsev neeg nyob qhov twg kuv dawb cov niam txiv tau txais 6 dub cov me nyuam. Kuv xav tias nws yog heev ncaj ncees rau koj tag nrho tiag tiag kom paub hais tias adopting sab nraum koj haiv neeg txhais tau tias koj yuav tsum tau heev txhob txwm hais txog lub hom phiaj rau koj tus me nyuam mus ua lawv kab lis kev cai, thiab tshawb lawv cia li tsaus tsaus. Yog hais tias Vajtswv tau tiag tiag hu ua koj mus nrhiav nyiaj ib tug dub tus me nyuam, ces nws yuav tsum tsis txhob yuav ib qho yooj yim rau koj tsev neeg cawv koj tawm ntawm qhov kev txiav txim. Txawm li cas los, cov lus nug yuav tsum tau nug, yog qhov kev txiav txim los txais yuav ntau ntxiv txog kuv, los yog tus me nyuam uas xav tau kev pab ib lub tsev? Kuv ua siab ntev nyiaj rau tag nrho cov backlash los ntawm cov phooj ywg thiab tsev neeg uas los nrog adopting ib tug me nyuam sab nraum kuv haiv neeg? Kuv yuav tus me nyuam kom tau tsa ceg nyob rau hauv ib txoj kev uas forces kom lawv muab up lawv yog leej twg rau ib tug tswv cuab ntawm kuv tsev neeg? Kuv tawm qhov chaw rau kuv tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau wrestle los ntawm lawv cov neeg ntawm nyob nruab nrab ntawm worlds? Yog haiv neeg teem nyob rau hauv txoj kev uas nyiam ntau cov kev txaus siab ntawm kuv ua dawb neeg los txais yuav tshaj qhov muaj tseeb tiag xav tau kev pab ntawm tus me nyuam? Yuav ua li cas koom no me nyuam los tu txheej txheem?
      Adopting ib tug me nyuam txhais tau hais tias ib tug tag nrho mindset ua haujlwm, thiab lub cev relocating yog cov ib puag ncig koj muaj nyob rau hauv tsis nyiam koj tus me nyuam cov kev xav tau. Kev sib raug zoo yuav tsum tau yuav tsum tau ua nrog cov neeg uas yog los ntawm ib tug foundations tias koj yuav tsis siab resonate nrog (ua dub). Peb nyob hauv ib lub ntiaj teb no ntxub lwm haiv neeg, thiab hais tias muaj yuav tsum tau ua li ntawd, paub los ntawm koj thiab tus me nyuam koj tsa. Yog hais tias koj tau xaiv los ua tsis paub hais tias, ces koj yog nyob rau hauv ntau txoj kev uas ua ib pliag rau koj tus kheej thiab tus me nyuam koj yuav. Adoption yog tsis yog hais txog koj tau txais mus rau cawm cov neeg pluag dub tus me nyuam. Nws yog hais txog koj raug kev mob siab tawm ntawm ib qho chaw ntawm kev hlub thiab tiag nyob tawm lub plawv ntawm lub moo zoo mus rau reconcile thiab hlub koj tus neeg nyob ze. Qhov no tsis yog hais txog koj, raws li ib tug dawb neeg.
      Nyob rau hauv ntau txoj kev uas cov no yog cov cia li ib tug ob peb lus nug uas koj yuav tsum tau confronting. Yog hais tias koj tseem tsis tau npaj txhij nyiaj mus dhau qhov no thiab thiaj li ntau npaum li cas, ces tsis adopting ib tug dub tus me nyuam yog tej zaum ib tug zoo kev txiav txim siab. Kuv muab tso rau ib tsab xov xwm hauv qab no uas tso cai rau koj mus nug tej no nyob rau hauv ib tug tob txoj kev caw haiv neeg mus rau hauv lub sib tham thiab tau txais ib ib nyuag ntsia ntawm adoptees thiab lawv tej kev kawm.
      Tsis yog txhua txhua zaj dabneeg yog ib tug kawm tau zoo zaj dab neeg thiab feem ntau lub sij hawm cov neeg tsis rau cov dab neeg hnov. Kuv muaj hmoo rau kuv yaam puab paub thiab kuv tsev neeg. Nyob rau hauv ntau txoj kev uas, Kuv tau raug tso cai muaj ntau yam possibilities mus tshawb kuv yog leej twg nrog ntau lub sij hawm, Txawm li cas los, Kuv tsis paub hais tias nws los nrog ib tug nqi thiab peb yuav tsum tau tawm qhov chaw rau cov uas yuav tsum tau tham txog.

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  11. KaraTeb

    haha! “Kuv lub ntsiab nyiam yog tias kuv tus poj niam yuav godly, thiab Jessica yog. Li ntawd, kuv wifed nws.” Qhov zoo tshaj plaws txoj kab nyob rau hauv lub blog. Zoo siab Vajtswv coj nej mus rau ib tug zoo poj niam. :)

  12. John EvangelTeb

    Nyob zoo dawm!
    Ntev lub sij hawm nyeem ntawv & mloog. Thawj lub sij hawm commenter. Kuv yeej hlub no tsab xov xwm.
    Kuv tsev neeg yog Nigerian, thiab kuv txiv xa kuv ib random ntawv nyeem ib Tuesday thaum sawv ntxov nyob 4am hais tias “Yog hais tias koj xav tau sib yuav, kom paub tseeb tias nws yog ib tug neeg los ntawm tib lub keeb kwm yav dhau raws li koj yog. Thaum feem ntau, tib lub teb chaws.”
    ntawm cov hoob kawm, Kuv tsis paub tias yuav hais li cas, vim hais tias peb yeej tsis tham txog qhov no ua ntej. #ua tau txawv txawv.
    Kuv tsis paub tias kuv yuav hlub kuv tus poj niam, thaum kuv npaj, hais txog ntawm complexion, haiv neeg keeb kwm yav dhau, lus tej, thiab lwm yam kev tau sib txawv. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj rau kuv yog hais tias nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev ib feem ntawm kuv tsev neeg – Vajtswv tsev neeg. Qhov ntawd yog txaus.
    tsaug dua!

  13. cov phooj ywgTeb

    Tsaug rau kev sib koom koj lub siab dawm. Peb yog tag nrho cov tib thaum peb sawb ntawm daim tawv nqaij. Vajtswv tau tsim ib tug sib npaug thiab uniquely raws li nws tsim tshwj xeeb. Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau koj thiab koj tsev neeg.

  14. JoshHaanTeb

    Tsis muaj dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm xws li koj hais tias dawm txog marrying ib tug neeg ntawm ib tug txawv haiv neeg. Yuav ua li cas tseem ceeb yog tias leej twg puas tau koj los yog kuv yuav hais tias lawv hlub Yexus (Mark 12:30 ESV) thiab hais tias lawv yuav hlub koj rov qab thiab hais tias peb hlub nws zoo li Vajtswv hlub lub Koom Txoos. Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau koj mus txawv tebchaws thiab koj tsev neeg

  15. MichaelJTeb

    Txaus neej puas yuav ua li cas tus Tswv yog lossi hloov lub “ob lub qhov muag ntawm peb lub plawv” dlhos nrog cov “ob lub qhov muag ntawm peb lub taub hau”. Kuv yuav txheeb cov kev sib tw, txawm tias kuv yuav tsis tau sib yuav tsis tau, vim hais tias ib tes dej num poj niam uas muaj ib lub siab xav mus thov nws tus Cawm Seej yog tseem ceeb tshaj txhua outwardly attribute. Nrog koj zoo siab rau koj tag nrho yog xyoo thiab tej zaum yuav Vajtswv tseem foom koob hmoov rau tus so.

  16. Arthur simuchileTeb

    Peb txhua tus muaj tib lub txiv tab sis txawv niam tib cov ntshav los ntawm yexus sau nyob rau hauv peb,daim tawv nqaij yog cia li daim tawv nqaij,tab sis yog dab tsi rau hauv peb tseem ceeb tshaj ,wonderfull Mr dawm Lee.may Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau koj thiab koj tsev neeg rau koj wonderfull kev tshoov siab.

  17. deidreBakerTeb

    Wow! Kuv tsis paub tias koj twb sib yuav lawm thiab hais tias nws yog ib tug dawb cov poj niam, raws li ib tug dub poj niam thiab ib tug poj niam ntawm Vajtswv, congrats rau nrhiav kev hlub muaj tseeb! Kuv nyiam li cas koj piav vim li cas koj sib yuav koj tus poj niam, thiab koj yeej tsis muaj ib yam nkaus thiab, tab sis koj zaj dab neeg yog amazing! yog li ntawd rau koj tij laug thiab koj zoo ntxim nyiam kawg tus poj niam Jessica, Kuv xav tias koj hais mav ntau ntau xyoo! Nco Blessed!

  18. ElizabethTeb

    Nyob zoo dawm,

    Koj ua ib tug zoo heev point! Kuv muaj kev kawm los ntawm koj tsab xov xwm hais tias nws tsis muaj nqi txog ntawm daim tawv nqaij laus tab sis dab tsi tseem ceeb yog yuav ua li cas tus neeg yog mus taug kev nrog tus Vajtswv thiab lawv lub plawv!! Ua tsaug rau koj sib koom ib tug zoo nkauj zaj dabneeg.

  19. Jimmy SorrellsTeb

    Uas ua rau zoo meej kev txiav txim zoo. Yuav ua li cas tsis ua kev zoo siab yog kev ntxub ntxaug. Txij li thaum muaj yog tsuas yog ib haiv neeg, yuav ntxub lwm haiv neeg yog yuav tsum tau tiv thaiv cov haiv neeg. Muaj ntau cov neeg pawg tab sis tsuas yog ib qho haiv neeg tab sis qhov no mas, yuav tsum muaj ib tug poob kev sib cav nrog cov neeg kuv tau sib tham txog nws nrog txawm tias nws qhov tseeb.

  20. JeffreyCravensTeb

    “Kuv yeej tsis xav mus value kuv nyiam rau ib tug poj niam li cas kuv yuav tsum tau nyob rau hauv ib tug poj niam.”

    Xws li ib tug yeej muaj tseeb thiab no: daim ntawv qhia. Kuv txiv yog dub, niam yog dawb, lawv tau raug sib yuav 35 xyoo. Thiab ib co ntxhib xyoo dhau tab sis nyob rau hauv nruab nrab ntawm cov neeg tsis sib haum, “daim tawv nqaij laus” feem ntau mas nws tsis ua cas. Tus Tswv tau siab dawb siab zoo thiab ncaj ncees.

    dawm, no ncej yog refreshing bro. Kuv yog ib tug lim tiam deb ntawm kev zoo siab yog kuv thawj thawj xyoo ntawm kev sib yuav mus rau ib tug tes dej num poj niam uas txoj kev sib tw kuv txhua txhua hnub nrog nws txoj kev khuv leej. Nws kuj tshwm sim yuav tsum tau ntawm latin, Fabkis txoj thiab Hawaii dlej. Yog li ntawd nyeem qhov no twb tau ntau menyuam.

    tsaug dua, Jeff.

  21. WalterTeb

    kuv xav tias tus tib xav sab nraum lub thawv kuv dub kuv tsis xav mus yuav nyob rau hauv kuv haiv neeg tsis kuv muaj kuv yog vim li cas kuv nyiam lwm hom ntawm cov poj niam

  22. MichelleTeb

    Ua tsaug rau koj sib koom thiab tu lub teeb nyob rau hauv no. seb dawb, dub, thiab lwm yam koj twb kov on dab tsi yog tiag tiag ib qho tseem ceeb. Tus ntsuj plig ntawm kev ntxub ntxaug tau mloog peb rau ib ntev lub sij hawm nyob rau hauv ib tug ntau ntawm cov chaw. Kuv ntseeg hais tias peb yog rhuav los ntawm nonetheless. Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau koj & koj loj hlob tsev neeg.

  23. BachizzleTeb

    Kuv muaj ib tug thought, Kuv yog ib tug ib txwm nyob american ( Indian) Kuv pom nws yuav ua li cas koj muaj thiab ua mus txawv tebchaws. Kuv kawm ntawm yav qab teb SEM. thiab cov neeg hais rau kuv thaum koj yuav mus tau txij nkawm? Kuv teb nrog “thaum lub sij hawm yog txoj cai thiab kuv txoj kev”. Kuv ua kom kuv ob lub qhov muag qhib thiab kuv hais “kuv xav tau ib tug godly tus poj niam uas yuav tsum yog li ntawd nyob rau hauv kev hlub nrog Yexus hais tias nws mam li saib rau nqi Nws lo lus”. Thiab cov haiv neeg qhov teeb meem tsis tuaj tab sis kuv hais tias nws yog ib qhov nyuaj rau nrhiav tau ib tug poj niam uas hwm Tswv Yexus yog lo lus uas yog haiv neeg american zoo li kuv vim hais tias ntawm cov kev cai sib nrauj thiab influences ntawm pentacostalism thiab matriarchial system nyob rau hauv haiv neeg american kab lis kev cai. Tsaug rau koj cov lus

  24. Cori ःTeb

    Kuv enjoyed nyeem ntawv no ncej dawm. Kuv yog ib tug kiv cua loj ntawm koj li, tab sis kuv nyiam lub fact tias koj yeej tau qhib hais txog qhov teeb meem ntawm haiv neeg. honestly, haiv neeg yuav tsum tsis txhob os thaum nws tawm los rau cov uas peb yuav. Qhov tshaj plaws xwb uas yuav tsum tau os yog hais tias lawv yog ib tug Christian, thiab yog hais tias lawv yog mus raws li nrog Vajtswv lub siab nyiam rau koj lub neej. Sab nraum ntawm tus yam, haiv neeg los yog lwm xim nqaij tawv yog ib tug sib txawv nyob rau hauv yuav ua li cas peb saib. Kuv tau sau hnub tim sab nraum ntawm kuv haiv neeg. Kuv dub thiab kuv tus ex yog Korean / Dawb. Nws yog yeej tsis ib qhov teeb meem rau peb, tab sis kuv nco ntsoov lub sij hawm thaum peb peb tau stares los ntawm lwm tus neeg. Nws yog ib qho nthuav kev, tab sis tsis muaj ntawm cov negativity (uas yog tsis ntau) yuav kom kuv tsis txhob yos ib tug neeg lwm tus sab nraum ntawm kuv haiv neeg los yog marrying lawv. Uas yog tsis ib qhov teeb meem nrog kuv, kuv tsev neeg los yog cov phooj ywg. Tus taw tes yog, peb tag nrho muaj peb nyiam, tab sis peb yuav tsum kub siab rau tej uas Vajtswv xav kom peb lub neej ua ntej. Zoo saib tias qhov no sib tham yog zoo.

  25. Ci ntsa iabTeb

    Kuv ua Vajtswv tsaug uas koj sau tau tsab xov xwm vim hais tias raws li ib tug tib Christian cov poj niam, Kuv to taub yuav ua li cas ib qho tseem ceeb nws yuav tsum tau siab qhib rau Vajtswv hais tias, xws li uas nws tso cai rau kom tuaj rau hauv koj lub neej thiab txawm yuav siv sij hawm tawm ntawm nws. Kuv zoo siab heev rau cov nqe lus uas koj tau ua “peb yuav tau xa peb tej kev xav rau Vajtswv xav kom peb nyob rau hauv ib tug txij nkawm”. Qhov no tsis pub dhau nws tus kheej yuav pab kuv mus kaw tawm kuv txoj kev xav thiab perceiving nyob rau hauv kev txiav txim siab rau tej uas Vajtswv xav kom rau kuv thiab kuv lub neej. Kuv dub thiab tau preferenced dub cov txiv neej; Txawm li cas los Vajtswv yog ua hauj lwm rau kuv lub siab nyob rau hauv cheeb tsam ntawd vim kuv pib mus nrhiav nws nyob rau hauv regards rau ib tes dej num tus txiv. Xav txog yuav ua li cas muaj coob tus neeg tau xaiv cov tsis ncaj ncees lawm neeg yuav los yog txawm tsis tau tawm rau leej twg Vajtswv muaj rau lawv tsuas vim hais tias ntawm lawv cov nyob rau hauv txwv tsis pub / nyiam. Great tsab xov xwm! Nws tau tiag tiag foom koob hmoov rau kuv thiab kuv paub hais tias yog li ntawd ntau lwm tus neeg.

  26. skateboardTeb

    Yog los ntawm sab qab teb thiab biracial, Kuv twb hais txog nrog kev tsis sib haum txog lwm haiv neeg sib tam ib tug ntau. Kuv yuav mus los ntawm ua ib tug zoo nkauj tus me nyuam ntawm Vajtswv rau li cas ib txhia xav yuam kev los yog ib tug derogatory term. Preciate koj hais lus tawm rau hauv no! Vam thiab cia siab kuv tus txiv yog li ntseeg ntawm kuv raws li koj thiab koj tus poj niam nyob ntawm txhua lwm yam! 116!

  27. JonTeb

    Zoo ncej kuv xav hais tias ib tug ntau ntawm cov sij hawm nws yog tsis tas hais tias peb xav tau ib tug tej yam xim los yog haiv neeg keeb kwm yav dhau, nws yog dab tsi koj yuav siv los. Los ntawm koj yog ib tug ntseeg Yexus thiab ua rau Vajtswv qhib koj lub qhov muag koj pom koj zoo tshaj plaws. Congrats bro.

  28. Daniel TroutmanTeb

    Kuv xav tias nws yog txias thiab ntse ntawm koj mus rau sau no ncej. Nws yuav pab cov neeg uas hlub tsis paub tsis tseem ceeb pawg zoo li haiv neeg los yog haiv neeg. 1 Khaulee 13 tsis hais dab tsi txog haiv neeg; nws hais txog kev ua siab ntev, kev txo hwj chim, thiab kev txawj ntse. Big ib ce rau tus poj ncej!

  29. yuavTeb

    Txoj cai rau! Qhov no yog ib txoj koob hmoov. Kuv twb tau nug, pom chim ntsej muag, thiab kuv twb hnov ​​folks tham yog vim li cas / ua li cas kuv tsawm los yog ua “whipped”. Kuv thov Vajtswv rau ib tug Vajtswv-fearing poj niam thiab Nws xa kuv nws. Kuv hlub kuv tus poj niam uas tshwm sim rau dawb (Kuv dub). nws & peb cov me nyuam yog kuv loj tshaj koob hmoov los ntawm Vajtswv thiab kuv yuav tsis xav kom nws ua lwm yam kev. Ua tsaug rau koj rau koj qhib siab dawb paug. Hlub tsis transcends tag nrho cov.

    zoo siab ntawm 116!

  30. MajorTeb

    Great zaj dabneeg dawm thiab congrats. Kuv tsis xav tias koj yuav tau ua qhia tau meej heev tias koj xaiv ntawm ib tug poj niam muaj tsis muaj dab tsi ua nrog ib yam dab tsi ua tsis ncaj ncees lawm los yog ploj lawm nyob rau hauv ib tug dub poj niam. Cov zaj dab neeg yoojyim ib tug tsis muaj dabtsis rau thaj chaw ntawd. Tsis tas li ntawd, nws yuav tsum tau ua kom meej tias tej zaum koj xaiv ntawm ib tug lub tsev teev ntuj thiab lub tsev kawm ntawv muab koj nyob rau hauv ib txoj hauj lwm yuav tsum tau nyob ib ncig ntawm tsawg dub poj niam. Muaj ntau dub nyob li minorities nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov chaw lub zej zog thiab qhov no muaj ib cov nyhuv rau tib haiv neeg kev sib yuav. Kuv tus kheej yuav hlub mus saib dub poj niam uas zoo dub cov txiv neej, tab sis kuv yuav tsis cam thawj uas Vajtswv tau tuaj koom ua ke. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws xav rau koj thiab koj tsev neeg b

  31. SeanTeb

    kuv tus poj niam & Kuv yog dawb… peb muaj 3 dawb cov me nyuam thiab 1 African tub (Ethiopia). Peb tau txais ib co ntawm cov tib cov lus nug thiab khib stares, tab sis peb paub peb tau raug tsa los ntawm Vajtswv los ua ib tug tsev neeg!
    Kuv txaus siab rau koj lub siab dawb paug thiab qhib siab dawb paug rau Vajtswv lub siab nyiam rau koj lub neej… uas kuv xav tias yog lub ntsiab point ntawm koj tsab xov xwm – Nrhiav Vajtswv lub siab nyiam es peb tus kheej nyiam!
    Qhov no biblical tswvyim yuav ua tau “theej & Document” mus rau txhua txhua nam ntawm ib tug ntseeg lub neej… thiab yuav tsum tau!

    Tsaug Tripp!

  32. J ः ollTeb

    dawm,
    Kuv npuaj teg rau koj kam muab koj cov “yog vim li cas” rau marrying sab nraum ntawm haiv neeg. Kuv thawj thought, raws li ib tug txiv neej sib yuav rau ib tug neeg Esxias poj niam, twb yog vim li cas koj xav tias qhov yuav tsum tau mus nrhiav pov thawj no rau leej twg. ntawm cov hoob kawm, kuv thiab kuv tus poj niam’ daim tawv nqaij laus yog zoo li, peb haiv thiab upbringing yog kom deb li deb los ntawm txhua lwm tus, leej twg yuav hais “yog vim li cas koj yuav nws?”Raws li koj hais, koj tus poj niam, yog LUB tus poj niam, LUB helpmate, rau lwm (yog hais tias kuv tus poj niam nyeem, “ZOO”) ib nrab hais tias Nws tau muab. Vajtswv coj tau cov neeg nyob rau hauv peb lub neej uas peb yuav tsum muaj, nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav ua rau peb ua rau peb zoo dua. Yog li ntawd yog dab tsi yog ib tug neeg zoo nkaus li sib txawv los ntawm kuv nyob rau sab nraum. Zoo li koj, peb txhua tus yuav tsum nrhiav cov neeg uas muaj ib tug Vajtswv nrhiav lub siab hais tias yog tus zoo nkauj tshaj plaws attribute ib tug yuav muaj.

  33. muajTeb

    Great ncej. Yuav kom muaj kev ncaj ncees Kuv ntseeg hais tias ntau ntau ntseeg tshwj xeeb ib Christian cov poj niam (Kuv tus kheej nrog) yuav tsum sib yuav los sis yuav tau sib yuav sai dua ntawd yog hais tias peb tau tshem ntawm ib co ntawm peb ntiav cov tswv yim. Cia li ntev tas los kuv twb pib thov Vajtswv Vajtswv Kuv xav kom koj zoo tshaj plaws. Peb yuav tsum tso siab rau peb Leej Txiv Saum Ntuj hais tias nws paub txog dab tsi peb yuav tsum tau. Kuv tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog kuv xav tau ib tug txiv uas ntshai Vajtswv thiab kuv hlub yuav ua li cas u hais tias tseem ceeb tshaj plaws supersedes haiv neeg txawm tias Vajtswv yuav foom koob hmoov rau peb nrog rau cov kev xav hauv peb lub plawv. Great ncej n Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau

  34. NicoleTeb

    Cov hauj lwm loj ntawm tsis tsuas yog tau hnov ​​txog koj tus kheej, tab sis ua li ntawd nyob rau hauv ib txoj kev uas lwm tus yuav to taub. Thaum peb pib hloov peb foundations nyob rau lub neej nyob rau hauv general, peb yuav pom ib tug ntau ntawm dab tsi peb “cia siab tias” muaj tsis muaj dab tsi ua nrog rau qhov yuav ntawm Leej Txiv. Cov los ze zog rau peb muaj nws, qhov ntau thiab ntau peb “cov miv nyuas” hloov vim hais tias lawv pib kab nrog Nws yuav thiab tsis tau peb tus kheej. Vajtswv Foom koob hmoov rau koj thiab koj tsev neeg. Cia li ua li cas koj yuav ua kuv tus kwv tij nyob rau hauv Tswv Yexus. Dub, dawb los yog liab doog, xim plays tsis muaj lub luag hauj lwm thaum nws los txog rau lub cev ntawm Tswv Yexus uniting. Kuv tau koob hmoov nrog ib tug amazing txiv neej ntawm Vajtswv, uas tshwm sim rau kuv tib haiv neeg, tab sis ntau tshaj tej yam uas nws yog ib tug txiv neej tom qab Vajtswv tus kheej lub plawv uas yog tag nrho cov uas tseem ceeb nyob rau hauv kuv phau ntawv.

  35. AndreaTeb

    tsaug dawm! Nws yog tiag tiag tau kuv xav txog kuv tus kheej nyiam thiab yuav ua li cas nyob rau ntawm lub sij hawm no kuv twb khaws cia ib caj npab ntev los ntawm ib co zoo gents cia li cos kuv tsis pom lawv txaus nyiam. Cov ntsiab lus rau cov teeb meem uas muaj nuj nqis. Tab sis tiag tiag txhawb los ntawm cov lus txhawb lwm haiv neeg kev sib raug zoo. Kuv xav kom kuv tsev neeg hais txog tej views. Yog hais tias kuv yuav ib tug txiv neej dub, nws yuav tsis yooj yim.

  36. JasonTeb

    Kuv xav tias nws yog zoo uas koj ntsia yav tag los daim tawv nqaij xim thiab haiv neeg. Kuv tsis tau sawv ntsug thaum cov neeg tuav mus rau ntawd thiab xav mus nyob rau hauv lawv cov haiv neeg txawm yog vim li cas. Peb yog cov neeg uas sib txawv ntxoov ntawm daim tawv nqaij tag nrho cov cuam tshuam los ntawm kev txhaum. Kuv tus hluas nkauj yog Mev thiab kuv dub tab sis kuv yeej tsis saib nws thiab pom ib tug Mev poj niam, Kuv saib nws thiab cia li pom ib tug poj niam, hais txog ntawm daim tawv nqaij xim los yog haiv neeg twg.

  37. MrsHendrixTeb

    Amen. Kuv foom koob hmoov rau los ntawm koj cov lus teb. Thaum peb muaj ib tug kev sib raug zoo nrog cov Christ, Nws lub siab nyiam yuav peb yuav thiab Nws lub siab nyiam yog rau koj tus poj niam koj tus poj niam lol…. (yog hais tias txawm ua kev txiav txim zoo). Nws tsim nws tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau koj nyob rau hauv vice-versa. Nws tej zaum catches ib tug ntau ntawm flack rau marrying ib tug “dub” yawg, tiam sis tus Tswv yeej paub raws nraim li cas lub neb ob leeg yuav tsum tau. Nrhiav Nws thawj thiab tag nrho tej yam no yuav muab ntxiv rau koj (xws li txoj cai tus txij nkawm).

    Nyob twj ywm Blessed kwv tij thiab mus txuas ntxiv yuav foom koob hmoov rau lwm tus neeg raws li zoo.

  38. Leilani BaileyTeb

    Vajtswv Foom koob hmoov rau koj Union dawm.
    Ua tsaug rau koj sib koom koj tus kheej kev.
    Gods sib khi lus tsis muaj ntawm cov xim los yog haiv neeg. Nws nyob mus ib txhis Hlub tshaj txhua yam..

  39. StacyTeb

    Yog li ntawd zoo siab koj muab tso rau qhov no. Raws li cov khoom ntawm ib tug lis-haiv neeg sib yuav thiab tus poj niam ntawm ib tug txiv neej uas tsis muaj kev cuam tshuam los ntawm lawv :) no lub npe yog heev tiag tiag rau kuv. Vajtswv tau foom koob hmoov rau kuv dhau kev ntsuas nrog kuv tus txiv, thiab nws kev mob kev nkeeg rau kuv xav muaj cov neeg muaj sia uas yuav tsis kam li cas Vajtswv muaj rau lawv vim hais tias ntawm lawv tus kheej ignorance / kev ntxub ntxaug.
    Favorite kab: “Li ntawd, kuv wifed nws.” LOL!

  40. NatalieTeb

    Yuav ua li cas ib tug zoo tsab xov xwm, thiab Txhij zoo siab tias muaj cov neeg tawm muaj xws li koj uas yog qhib qhov kev sib tham txog ib tug kawm zoo li no thiab ua tiag tiag nrog nws, vim hais tias muaj ib txwm mas, yuav tau ib tug stigma uas txuas mus rau lwm haiv neeg kev sib raug zoo.

    Kuv suav thiab kuv tus txiv yog dub, thiab cov kev nyuaj siab peb twb ces yuav tsum nrog peb taug txoj kev mus ua ke tau tawv thiab ib tug tiag tiag kev kuaj. Peb tau sib yuav hluas ib yam li koj thiab koj tus poj niam, kuv yog 21 thiab nws yog 24. peb muaj 2 ntxhais ua ke, thiab thaum Txhij tawm nyob ib leeg nrog lawv, Kuv mam tau txais nres nyob rau hauv txoj kev thiab neeg yuav zoo li “yog lub txiv dub?”

    Feem ntau ntawm tag nrho cov nriaj tau nrog kuv tsev neeg, vim hais tias lawv yeej tsis xav hais tias kuv xav yuav ib tug txiv neej dub. Peb muaj ib tug me me kab tshoob thiab ntau tshaj ib nrab ntawm kuv tsev neeg tsis kam tuaj. Tab sis Vajtswv yog amazing vim los ntawm tag nrho cov uas, kuv tsis tau hais lus txoj kev ntseeg twb sim thiab mus soj ntsuam, mindsets nyob rau hauv kuv tsev neeg tau raug muab pauv. Kuv txiv yog txais tam sim no, thiab kuv tsis hais lus yuav lees paub nws raws li nws tus tub nyob rau hauv kev cai lij choj tam sim no (uas yog ib tug lossis loj deal rau peb!) Muaj tseem ib txoj kev mus, tab sis ntau npaum li ntawd loj uas kuv muab tag nrho cov hwjchim ci ntsa iab rau Vajtswv. Cia nws dawm, koj nyob nraum ib kev tshoov siab rau lwm tus neeg thiab kuv thov Vajtswv hais tias Vajtswv tseem yuav foom koob hmoov rau koj, koj tsev neeg thiab koj ministry.

    PS: Koj yuav tsum tau tuaj down ua nyob rau hauv London, UK tej lub sij hawm!!

  41. LoganSharpTeb

    Heev zoo hais tias. Kuv tus poj niam yog neeg Mev, Kuv dawb. Haiv neeg yeej tsis tuaj mus rau hauv tus xav li cas rau kuv heev npaum li cas li cas koj hais tias thaum koj ntsib koj tus poj niam; Kuv pom kuv tus poj niam mob siab rau Vajtswv, nws muaj siab rau kev txhawb pab rau cov menyuam kawm thiab peb nyiam ib tug ntau ntawm cov tib movies thiab music thiab thov Vajtswv rau txhua tus lwm yam thaum lub sij hawm sib tam. Kuv tsis tau yog vim li cas cov neeg xav hais tias lwm haiv neeg ua txij ua nkawm “weird”.

    Tsaug rau kev sib koom uas nrog koj kiv cua thiab muab kev cia siab.

  42. NatashaTeb

    Qhov no yog txaus! Ua tsaug rau koj sib koom mus txawv tebchaws. Vajtswv txoj kev hlub twb tsis muaj kev xaiv li cas tab sis deliverance. Youre zaj dabneeg yog ib txoj koob hmoov.

  43. LeonMartinezTeb

    Zoo nkauj zaj lus tim khawv! Honestly no hais rau kuv thiab tab sis yog kuv twb tsis tau haiv neeg nyiam los yog tej yam li ntawd, nws tseem qhia rau kuv hais tias Vajtswv yuav muab dab tsi peb YUAV TSUM, tsis tas xav. Koj nyob nraum ib qhov tseeb kev tshoov siab thiab nyob zaj lus tim khawv ntawm lub neej-hloov hwj chim ntawm Vajtswv. Vajtswv Foom koob hmoov rau koj thiab koj zoo nkauj me ntsis fam!

  44. ReewantaeTeb

    Zoo tsab xov xwm, dawm! Thawj lub sij hawm commenter no!

    Koj yog rau taw tes thaum koj hais, “Kuv yeej tsis xav mus value kuv nyiam rau ib tug poj niam li cas kuv yuav tsum tau nyob rau hauv ib tug poj niam.” Tej zaum, Kuv xav tias overlooked raws li ib tug poj niam vim hais tias kuv cwm pwm thiab li cas yog ib txoj kev. Kuv yog dab tsi koj yuav hu “weird” los yog “txawv” raws li muaj coob tus neeg kuv paub. Ib txhia hais mav zoo li ib tug hluas nkauj uas yog ib tug me ntsis ntau rau hauv mainstream zam los yog ib tug neeg uas yog ib tug me ntsis ntau cov kev sib raug thiab outspoken dua kuv. Nyob rau lwm lub sij hawm, Kuv xav hais tias tej zaum kuv tabtom ua kuv tus kheej tsawg dua los ntawm kuv tus kheej me ntsis muaj kev sib cais tswv yim. Cov kev tsis raws li haiv neeg, tab sis ntau nyob rau hauv ib tug neeg lub keeb kwm yav dhau los lawv cov hom ntawm tsheb thauj mus los… vim hais tias kuv caij npav mus kawm ntawv, thiab kuv tsis txaus siab rau nws thaum ib tug txiv leej tub nws flirt nrog kuv nyob rau pej xeem kev thauj mus los. (Lub tswv yim yog hais tias yog raws li ib tug txiv neej caij tsheb npav los yog tsheb ciav hlau, koj tsis muaj nyiaj yuav tau ib lub tsheb thiab tsav ib tug, koj muaj me ntsis nyiaj los yog siv nws nyob rau hauv tej yam, thiab yog li ntawd muaj tsis muaj kev ua lag ua luam sim tham qab zib rau kuv. LOL… tab sis qhov no kuj tsis ncaj ncees lawm.) Kuv thov Vajtswv hais tias tus Tswv tau pab kuv nyob twj ywm nyob rau hauv Nws lub siab nyiam rau kuv lub neej, yog li ntawd thaum lub sij hawm los rau cov uas yam ib tug neeg mus nrhiav tau lub “zoo tshaj plaws,” Kuv mam li yuav npaj. :)

    Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau, bro.

  45. Lub rau hli ntujTeb

    Kuv lig pom zoo tias haiv neeg yuav tsum yog ib ntawm cov neeg txhais tes nyiam, tab sis kuv tsis pom zoo hais tias nws, los yog lwm yam 'nyiam’ yog meaningless thaum soj ntsuam nrog tej teeb meem. Tu siab, nyob rau hauv kuv kev, dab tsi ua rau kuv muaj yog ib tug txhais tes nyiam, thiab surrendered nws nyob rau hauv dej siab ntawm tus Vajtswv tus txiv neej ua ntej kuv,los ua ib tug loj qhov chaw ntawm nro nyob rau hauv kuv lub neej, ntau xyoo tom qab ntawd, thaum kuv tus txiv tau ntau ntawm qhov ceeb thawj, nyob rau saum toj ntawm yog dab tsi kuv twb xam tau tias yog yog ib tug nyhav dhau heev lawm ncej. Kuv twb yeej ib txwm tau attracted rau ntau kis las hom, li ntawd thaum kuv twb ntsib ntau heev tshaj dua qhov hnyav nce, kuv lees, Kuv twb sib deev muab tua. Uas coj mus rau kev tsis sib haum, thiab qhov teeb meem ua rau kuv nyiam ua ib tug roob. Es tsis txhob yog ib tug yooj yim lub cev nyiam kuv muab tso rau ib sab nyob rau hauv dej siab ntawm tus loj daim duab ntawm lub zoo txiv neej ntawm Vajtswv nws yog, qhov teeb meem peb twb muaj hais txog kuv tsis zoo siab txog nrog txiv neej pw, sparked txoj kev xav hais tias kuv 'muab’ ib yam dab tsi uas yog tangibly tseem ceeb thiab tsim nyog, thiab tam sim no twb ntsib muaj los ua ib tug dutiful thiab hlub kev sib deev tus khub rau ib tug neeg kuv yuav tsis teb rau lub cev. Tsuas yog Vajtswv xwb txoj kev tshav ntuj tau coj peb los ntawm li deb, tab sis, honestly, nws lub cev yog tseem muaj ib tug loj tig tawm, thiab kuv tseem xav tias kuv twb dai rau kuv nyiam thiab tos rau ib tug neeg uas haum kuv lub cev yam, raws li zoo raws li kuv xav tau rau ib tug Vajtswv tus txiv

  46. SheilaTurnerTeb

    Raws li ib tug multi-raced ib tug neeg, Kuv tau tsa kuv cov me nyuam mus saib cov ua cim los ntawm ib tug neeg thaum xaiv ib tug hluas nraug / hluas nkauj thiab tsawg dua txog xim ntawm daim tawv nqaij. Vim hais tias ntawm hais tias lawv tau sau hnub tim neeg ntawm tag nrho cov haiv neeg thiab tau raug ntau haiv neeg. Kuv saib yeej ib txwm tau raws li ntev raws li lawv kho lawv nrog rau kev hwm thiab hlub lawv, uas kuv qhia rau koj hais tias koj yuav tsis nrog hais tias ib tug neeg raws li nyob rau hauv daim tawv nqaij xim.

    Kuv yuav tsum hais tias kuv nyiam ib feem ntawm no blog tsab ntawv no yog txoj cai ntawm no, “Kuv yeej tsis xav mus value kuv nyiam rau ib tug poj niam li cas kuv yuav tsum tau nyob rau hauv ib tug poj niam.”

    Hais tias txoj cai muaj qhaub nws!!!!

  47. EricTeb

    Zoo xov xwm! Nws tsis yog txawm “dawb”! Thiab koj tseem tsis tau txawm “dub” dawm. Cov ntsiab lus uas bunk. Qhuas Vajtswv peb yog tag nrho cov ntawm ib tug Adamic haiv neeg. Txawm tias peb yog cov sib txawv ethnicities, peb sib raug zoo nrog rau hauv Tswv Yexus! Amen bro. Zoo tsab xov xwm. Ib ntshav. Ib Leej Tub.

  48. JessicaTeb

    txaus! Tsaug rau kev sau ntawv no. Koj muaj xws li ib tug kev txhawb, thiab kuv qhuas Vajtswv muaj godly khub niam txiv zoo li koj thiab koj tus poj niam tawm muaj. Tsis tas li ntawd, Kuv paub tseeb tias ua ke, koj muaj peev xwm mus cuag ib tug ntau ntau tus neeg tshaj li koj yuav tsum tau sib nrug. Khaws reppin Yexus.

  49. mention: Yog vim li cas Nws tau sib yuav ib tug Dawb ntxhais los ntawm kev mus txawv tebchaws Lee | 9jagirl4real

  50. LeesaTeb

    Qhov no yog li ntawd txaus nyeem! heev luaj. Kuv kuv tus kheej tau hais txog nrog cov disppointing thiab rasist comments. Kuv tus txiv yog dawb thiab kuv dub. Peb tib qhov los ntawm rau lig diffrent worlds. Kuv yeej tsis xav tias kuv xav yuav sab nraum kuv haiv neeg. Kuv txawm vainly thov Vajtswv hais tias Vajtswv yuav pom kuv ib tug txiv neej dub nrog dreads lol. Tab sis kuv ua tsaug rau Vajtswv nws paub tias dab tsi yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws rau kuv thiab foom koob hmoov rau nrog ib tug cia li txiv neej dawb tab sis kuv huab tais hauv ntiaj teb no! Txij li thaum peb twb tau sib yuav kuv tau lawm tiag tiag to taub dab tsi nws txhais tau hais tias hlub nyob rau hauv cov earthly lub cev. Tsis qhia rau tag nrho peb cov biz tiam sis peb tau raug tawm tsam nrog fertility cov teeb meem thiab kuv ua Vajtswv tsaug rau kuv tus txiv vim hais tias nws tau txuas ntxiv mus kom kuv. Peb hlub koj suab paj nruag thiab koj hauj lwm qhuab qhia. Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau koj thiab koj tsev neeg!

  51. kaileybrownTeb

    Kuv dawb, thiab kuv tus txiv yog dub. Thaum kuv paub nws feem ntau cov neeg tos kom txog thaum nws yoojyim rau hais “nws isnt dab tsi kuv yuav tsum!!” nws siv tau los ua kuv npau taws. Zoo li, uas yog koj mus txiav txim kuv lub neej. Tam sim no kuv cia li nqa xwb thiab hais tias “nws tsis yog dab tsi kuv yuav tsum yog, tab sis kuv paub 100% hais tias nws yog ib tug Vajtswv xa tuaj rau kuv” nws paub zoo koj aproach. Thiab cia li paub koj yeej muaj tseeb kiv cua paub yog vim li cas nws yog koj tus poj niam.

  52. TaylorTeb

    ****TRIP Lee ****

    uas “martin” Comment tau kuv dov rau hauv pem teb Luag…tab sis kuv twv yuav raug hu xav tias qhov no tag nrho Blog!! Tus txiv neej zoo li nyob rau hauv lub Sab nraum thiab Vajtswv zoo nyob rau hauv lub plawv. Kuv tus poj niam feem ntau quotes hais tias A womans lub plawv yuav tsum tau thiaj li muab zais rau hauv Vajtswv. Hais tias ib tug txiv neej muaj los mus nrhiav nws nyob rau hauv Kev txiav txim los yeej Nrhiav nws…

  53. JakeTeb

    Txhua tus uas tau raug cai raus dej rau hauv Yexus Khetos tau muab tso rau hauv Tswv Yexus, yog tej nuj nqis Jew tsis Greek, Scinthian tsis Barbarian. Qhov no yog qhov tseeb qhia nyob rau hauv dawb huv writ, Txawm li cas los, ntau ib tug believer tseem muaj “unrenewed” minds uas yog. Yog vim li cas haiv neeg tseem yog ib qho teeb meem. Kuv tseem yuav zus nyob rau hauv yug tseem ceeb kom txog rau thaum Khetos yuav tsim nyob rau hauv peb txhua tus.

  54. LeesaTeb

    Kuv tsis tau sib yuav tsis tau, tiam sis ib tug ntau ntawm kuv kwv tij txheeb ze thiab lawv sib yuav lawm rau cov neeg los ntawm txawv haiv neeg los ntawm tag nrho cov nyob ib ncig ntawm lub ntiaj teb no. Nws yog li ntawd txias uas cov tsev neeg yuav tsum ua los ntawm ntau yam thiaj li txawv tawv xim. Kuv xav tias lwm haiv neeg ua txij ua nkawm thiaj li zoo nkauj vim hais tias lawv nco ntsoov rau peb hais tias peb yog tag nrho cov Nws cov me nyuam sib npaug thiab beautifully tsim. Tus Tswv zoo nyob rau hauv lub plawv thiab yog li peb yuav tsum raws li cov tib neeg nyob rau hauv kev phooj ywg thiab kev sib raug zoo romantic.

  55. IaandjrlaadyarjTeb

    Qhov no tshwm sim thiab foom koob hmoov rau kuv nyob rau hauv ntau txoj kev. Kuv nyiam mus saib lwm haiv neeg khub niam txiv / sib yuav! Nws yog ib txwm tau kuv muaj siab raws li ib tug dub poj niam mus yuav sab nraum kuv haiv neeg. Kuv saib rau pem hauv ntej mus rau lub hnub kuv ntsib kuv tus txij nkawm nws paub tias nws twb txhais tes khaws thiab tsim rau kuv! Peb yuav tsum tau mus rau qhov chaw ntawd saum toj no tag nrho lwm yam uas peb tig mus rau Vajtswv thiab txais tag nrho Nws muaj rau peb. Kom paub meej nws yog OK mus nug los yog qhia rau Vajtswv yog dab tsi koj xav los yog zoo li. Khawb no Nws twb paub. Zoo tsis tau Nws paub dab tsi yog qhov zoo tshaj rau peb. Yog li ntawd peb yuav tsum tau xav txog dab tsi uas peb nug los yog thov Vajtswv rau. Yuav ua li cas koj xav tsis yog ib txwm zoo li cas koj xav tau! Ntseeg Vajtswv ua rau koj thov paub thiab tso cai rau Nws ua dab tsi nws ua!

  56. AmandaBTeb

    Kuv yeej zoo siab koj sib yuav Jessica. Nws yog ib qho amazing neeg nrog ib tug amazing lub plawv. Koj ob muaj ib tug amazing cawv rau tus neeg raws li ib tug sib yuav ob peb uas yog nyob rau hauv kev hlub nrog txhua lwm yam thiab Yexus. Cia li ua tsaug koj npaum li ntawd rau tom nrhiav rau ntawm lub plawv thiab tsis cov xim ntawm lub ntsej muag.

  57. PaulaTeb

    dawm, txhua yam kuv tau hais tias yog zoo heev, lus yuav tsis nthuav qhia txoj kev kaj siab nyob rau hauv muaj koj qhia nrog xws li transparency txog vim li cas koj sib yuav koj tus poj niam, Qhov no yog tiag tiag mus pab cov neeg uas saib los ntawm lwm foundations thiab uas tej zaum nrhiav txij nkawm nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej. Vajtswv tiag tiag paub dab tsi yog qhov zoo tshaj rau peb. Thov kom tus tswv tseem foom koob hmoov rau koj tsev neeg!

  58. dmoneyTeb

    dawm, ua tsaug rau koj cov lus qhuab qhia qhov tseeb rau cov tsis to taub thiab rau kuv tus kheej. tab sis yog kuv yog dub im yeej ib txwm pictured kuv tus kheej nrog ib tug neeg ntawm ib tug txawv haiv neeg. tab sis kuv Vajtswv tau maj mam soj ntsuam txog nrog kuv mus yuav ntseeg ntawm txhua haiv neeg thiab tias qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog nws lub siab qhia tias Yexus Khetos. Thats dab tsi tseem ceeb tshaj plaws. Ntxiv rau koj muaj tag nrho kev hlub thiab kev pab txhawb nqa ntawm kuv lub tsev lub tsev teev ntuj. peb yog tag nrho ntawm biracial khub niam txiv thiab mixed cov me nyuam. ntxiv rau kuv muaj ntau yam thiaj li mixed cov phooj ywg uas muaj overrunning lub teb chaws lol. txhij zoo siab rau koj rau sawv thiab qhia lub ntiaj teb no yog dab tsi lawv yuav tsum tau hnov :)

  59. SPTeb

    Kuv enjoyed nyeem ntawv no ncej, dawm. Nws hits ze rau lub tsev. Kuv kuj nyob rau hauv ib tug lwm haiv neeg sib yuav. Kuv dub (Jamaican, Native American, the ancestry can go on) and my husband is hungarian, german, etc.—so he’s white. I always knew I wouldn’t marry a black guy and I didn’t know what race my future husband would be. So just like you, I went to college not wanting to date but to grow as a Christ-follower and get an education and I met and fell in love with a special young white male.

    When we started dating, a few months in we knew we would get married some day and we did just that a few years later. I was privileged enough to grow up in a diverse area and have family members who were also in interracial relationships so, his skin color never phased me. I saw him for who he was; a godly man whose heart was full of love, humility and kindness. Nws ntsia yav tag los kuv daim tawv nqaij xim zoo li, saib kuv lub siab thiab pom kuv rau kuv yog leej twg rau ntawm lub hauv. Muaj tsis muaj tsis ntseeg hais tias Vajtswv coj peb ua ke. Kuv yuav tsis tau tes-khaws ib tug zoo dua tus txiv rau kuv tus kheej rau txhua lub hnub. Yog, Tej zaum kuv yuav tau kuv nyiam heev li cas kuv xav kuv tus txiv yuav, tab sis qhov tseeb yog, Vajtswv tiag tiag puas tau muab kuv npaum li ntawd ntau tshaj kuv tsim nyog thiab thiaj li ntau npaum li cas hais tias kuv yeej tsis paub kuv txawm xav.

    Muaj tej lub sij hawm thaum ua ib tug lwm haiv neeg ob peb mas ua tau txawv txawv nyob rau hauv tej lub sijhawm tab sis lub sij hawm dhau Kuv soj ntsuam-peb tag nrho los ntshav tib yam xim.

  60. JeffreyTeb

    “Muaj tsis muaj dab tsi tas lawm muaj nyiam, tab sis peb yuav tau tuav lawv nrog ib txhais tes.” Great quote nyob rau hauv txhua txhua cov hlab ntsha ntawm lub neej!

  61. MelodyeTeb

    Kuv ua tsaug rau cov neeg uas kam mloog Vajtswv saum toj no cov haiv neeg nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov cheeb tsam ntawm kev lub neej thiab cia lawv lub hlwb yuav tsum tau hloov los ua raws Nws lub siab nyiam thiab nws txoj kev. Kuv xav tias feem ntau peb tsis txawm paub lub thawv thiab tsis hais tias peb muab peb tus kheej. Kuv tsev neeg yog cov tub rog li ntawd, peb twb tau colorblind rau qhov cov tag nrho cov kev loj hlob. Txawm li cas los nyob rau hauv lub South nyiam thiab stereotypes kav zoo tshaj plaws, feem ntau… Kuv txawm muaj ib tug nyob ze yawg phooj ywg nyob rau hauv tsev kawm qib siab qhia rau kuv hais tias kuv yog tus zoo nkauj tshaj plaws, ntse, amazing ntxhais nws xav tau paub tab sis nws cia li tsis xav tias nws xav hnub ib tug ___( ntxig haiv neeg no)___ ntxhais. Kuv tu siab. Hah thiab kuv twb tsis nyiam nws nyob rau hauv hais tias txoj kev. Kuv zoo siab koj tso cai rau koj tus kheej rau lub caij nplooj zeeg nyob rau hauv kev hlub thiab yog nyob rau hauv lem mloog lus qhib koj zaj dabneeg li rau lwm tus neeg.

  62. JasonTeb

    Numbers 12:1-11…Tsis xav mus nrhiav pov thawj rau koj tus kheej rau cov txiv neej bro, nrhiav kev pab kom qhia koj tus kheej kev pom zoo rau tus Tswv. Ib tug siab dawb huv & siab ntseeg ntawm tus Tswv Yexus yuav rho tej xwb los yog lus tej tug txiv neej muaj peev xwm spek tiv thaiv koj.

  63. kangstawillzTeb

    Yo txawv tebchaws u yog cov man.I yuav kuj ua same.lol.I yuav yuav nyob rau hauv tus tswv thiab daim tawv nqaij xim haiv neeg,e.t.c yuav tsis tseem ceeb raws li ntev raws li nws ib tes dej num one.GOD foom koob hmoov rau u txiv neej.

  64. LindseyTeb

    Nws thiaj li txhawb tau nyeem no. Kuv dawb thiab kuv tus txiv yog dub, thiab peb nyob nyob rau hauv ib tug feem ntau yog neeg Mev neeg zej zog. peb muaj 2 zoo nkauj hluas nkauj tab sis raws li koj muaj peev xwm xav txog tej yam peb tau txais ntau ntawm looks. Peb tsev neeg yuav ua tau zoo nkauj tsis zoo ntawm lub sij hawm. Tab sis qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws peb twb kawm yog tias txawm muaj kev cai sib txawv (tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum nws tawm los rau raising cov me nyuam), qhov tseem ceeb tshaj yog kom peb lub siab lub ntsws thiab xav nrog Yexus.

  65. FortuneLawrenceTeb

    Kuv tabtom thiaj foom koob hmoov rau los ntawm koj tus ncej dawm!
    Kuv muaj ib lo lus nug tab sis yog. Kuv yog ib tug African(dub) poj niam thiab kuv xav dawb hais mav mus rau dub. Qhov ntawd yog feem ntau vim hais tias kuv tsis yog li ntawd nyiam nrog ib co ntawm cov kev cai nyob rau hauv kuv lub tsev lub teb chaws. Kuv yuav tsum hais, Kuv hlub dub cov txiv neej ib tug ntau tab sis zoo li kuv hais tias, kuv lub teb chaws muaj ib co tsis ntseeg. Koj puas hais tias kuv tsis ncaj ncees lawm nyob rau hauv ua li nyiam?

  66. JuliaTeb

    Great tsab xov xwm dawm. Kuv hlub koj hais dab tsi txog haiv neeg tsis yog ib tug teeb meem. Kuv dawb los yog tsawg kawg saib nws rau cov neeg feem coob. Kuv twb tsa nyob rau hauv ib tug biracial tsev…kuv niam yog Italian thiab yog Neeg Mev thiab kuv txiv yog dawb. Kuv tabtom tam sim no yos ib tug zoo kawg nkaus dub txiv neej uas tsis muaj ib qhov teeb meem nrog kuv tsis yog tus tib haiv neeg raws li nws. Nws pom kuv li zoo nkauj. Dub cov poj niam nyob rau lwm yam tes pom kuv raws li ib tug kev hem thawj. Lawv tsuas pom kuv li dawb…yog hais tias lawv tsuas paub qhov tseeb. Nws yuav tsum tsis txhob dab tsi haiv neeg koj yog txhua yam uas tseem ceeb yog tias 5he neeg u yuav yog ib tug believer heev. Tsaug dua rau hauv tsab xov xwm.

  67. DanielTeb

    Kuv siv siv verses thuam thuam no zoo ntawm kev sib yuav. “Adas thiab Evas yog feem ntau tej zaum cov tib xim / Xaxoo txiv xav kom nws yuav ib tug neeg los ntawm cov neeg uas ua Ixayees / Ixaj tus txiv mus rau yawm lengths mus nrhiav ib tug poj niam los ntawm 'nws cov neeg’ rau Isaac, thiab lwm yam…”

    Kuv kev sib tham nyob rau hauv no lub npe twb tsis zoo rau nej, tsis zoo xws luag thiab - heev frankly - baseless.

    Thiab ces Vajtswv hloov kuv lub siab thiab muab tso rau kuv nyob rau hauv ib qhov teeb meem nyob qhov twg kuv twb tsis muaj kev xaiv tab sis mus rau lean on Nws. Nws qhia kuv nws yog dab tsi tso siab rau Nws. Thiab hais tias yog thaum kuv pib khom nqi cov neeg nyob ib ncig ntawm kuv uas tseem cia siab rau Nws. Kuv txawm nta hlo los ze zog rau Vajtswv cov tibneeg - hais txog ntawm kab lis kev cai keeb kwm yav dhau - thiab poob rau hauv kev hlub nrog Nws cov thwj tim vim hais tias ntawm qhov kev hlub, txoj kev ntseeg thiab kev hlub lawv pom hais tias nws.

    Thiab hais tias yog yuav ua li cas no American twb mus marrying ib tug zoo nkauj, godly Brazilian ntxhais. Nws tau 10 lub hlis thiab Vajtswv tau qhia rau peb ob heev npaum li cas! Nws tau ib tug qab zib sib raug zoo uas tau muaj pov thawj tshaj thiab tshaj dua: Vajtswv lub txoj kev uas yog zoo tshaj plaws, thaum peb conceptions yog muab tso rau qhov kev xeem.

  68. TracyTeb

    Kuv muaj ib txwm xav yuav ua li cas ib tug me nyuam yim raug tov. Kuv paub kuv kuv yuav xav kom muaj siab ib tug haiv neeg los yog lwm cov. Nws yuav tsis tseem ceeb uas, Suav, Eskimo, Indian thiab lwm yam. Nws yog ib lo lus nug kuv yeej tsis tau hnov ​​nyob.

  69. ELVISNIXON.comTeb

    Great ncej

    Ib caveat:
    Hungarians yog Magyars. Magyars yog lineal xeeb leej xeeb ntxwv ntawm Attila lub Hun (li no lub sij hawm Hungarian) uas yog feem ntau xa mus rau raws li lub “Mongolian hordes” -Attila yog tseem yog ib qho ntawm feem nrov cov tub hluas npe nyob rau hauv Hungary- raws li yog Arpad- yog li ntawd lawv yog,technically, Neeg Esxias.

    Yog li ntawd koj yog txawm ntau ntau haiv neeg / ntau haiv tshaj li koj xav!

  70. BrendaFTeb

    Uas yog txaus! Nws haiv neeg honestly twb tsis nias rau kuv kom txog rau thaum kuv pom no ncej. Kuv dub thiab kuv tus txiv yog ib nrab dub thiab dawb (txawm hais tias nws zoo li yog neeg Mev) thiab kuv tau txais lus tso dag txhua lub sij hawm los ntawm cov neeg hais tias kuv tsis nyiam txiv neej dub. Oh thiab tsis txhob cia lawv saib kuv cov me nyuam. BOL! Nws yog ib txwm ib tug muab ob npaug rau nqa mus. Kuv tau raug sib yuav 7 xyoo thiab nws yog tseem funny rau hnub no. Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau koj tsev neeg tus txiv neej!

  71. TamaraCTeb

    Amen! Ua tsaug rau koj! Koj zaj lus tim khawv mus tag nrho ib ncig ntawm lub ntiaj teb no… Cov neeg xav tau. Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau koj!!
    Lus los ntawm lub teb chaws Yelemees, Teb chaws Europe!

  72. KeinyaTeb

    Kuv txaus siab rau qhov post npaum li ntawd. Kuv nyob rau hauv ib tug lwm haiv neeg sib yuav raws li zoo thiab kuv tus txiv thiab kuv ob leeg muaj dab neeg hais txog yuav ua li cas cov neeg uas tej zaum yuav paub peb thiab xav tias zoo li lawv paub peb zoo zoo nkauj cas kawm txog dab tsi peb tus txij nkawm zoo li los yog nyob rau hauv kuv cov ntaub ntawv pom ib tug pic ntawm kuv cov me nyuam (vim hais tias lawv tej zaum yuav kis rau nws saib ib leeg kom txog thaum koj paub tias lawv yog ib feem dub ces tej zaum koj yuav ntes tej me ntsis nta) thiab tam sim ntawd pom lawv yuav tsum yuav tsis muaj ib tug dub txiv thiab hais tias yog lawv expectation. Tsis tas li ntawd, kuv cov me nyuam kom haum hais lwm yam lus yog li ntawd tiag tiag confuses neeg txij li thaum peb lub xeem lub npe yog Lawrence. Muaj ib zaj dab neeg qab uas dhau lawm vim hais tias nws yog ib yam uas mixed haiv neeg heev (cia li tsis dub). Xijpeem, Kuv hlub tus Disease fact tias koj kov rau qhov no vim hais tias ib co, nws yog xws li ib tug lossis loj deal thiab txawm zog raws li muaj ib co muaj zog haiv neeg influences thiab pressures nyob rau hauv peb lub ntiaj teb (xov xwm, cov uas peb hlub txawm, cov phooj ywg, thiab lwm yam). Kuv txoj kev xav yog kev sib nrig sib rau koj li thiab ntau lwm tus neeg uas tswv yim. Ua tsaug rau koj!

  73. KeinyaTeb

    Los ntawm txoj kev, Kuv hlub cov song “zoo tshaj plaws” txog koj tus poj niam. Nws yog tiag tiag zoo nkauj thiab ua rau kuv xav seb kuv tus kheej kev sib raug zoo. Thx rau yawm suab paj nruag heev! :)

  74. DebbieTeb

    Kuv zoo siab rau nyeem qhov no thiab pom tias lwm tus neeg qhia kuv tib txoj kev xav ntawm kev sib yuav thiab “haiv neeg”, vaj tswv foom koob hmoov rau!

  75. JasonTeb

    1 Xamuyee 16:7…Tus Tswv hais plaub los ntawm lub plawv, vim li cas thiaj tsis peb? Peb yuav tsum ua li cas tus Tswv tau hais tias peb cov txheej txheem, tsis zoo li cas peb cev nqaij daim tawv xav / tsis tus qauv ntawm lub ntiaj teb no. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, los ntawm ib tug txiv neej tus foundations, tus txheej txheem rau ib tus poj niam yog Paj Lug tshooj 31, tsis laus tawv nqaij / tsis yog tus worldly txheem ntawm marrying hauv koj tus kheej “haiv neeg / haiv neeg twg.”

  76. TonyTeb

    Kuv txaus siab rau qhov vim hais tias kuv African American thiab kuv tus poj niam yog neeg Mev. Nws haiv neeg yeej tsis muaj ib tug zoo tshaj rau kuv, vim hais tias ntawm nws lub plawv rau tus Tswv. Peb tam sim no muaj ib tug me nyuam ntxhais. Thaum kuv saib kuv tus poj niam thiab tus ntxhais kuv tsis pom ib tug neeg Mev poj niam, los yog ib tug tov tus me nyuam. Kuv nyuam qhuav pom ob tug biggest koob hmoov nyob rau hauv kuv lub neej (sib nrug los ntawm tus Tswv Yexus). Tej zaum kuv txawm tsis nco qab tias peb yog ib lub lwm haiv neeg ob peb lub thiab tsev neeg. Nws tsis yog raws nraim ib qho yooj yim rau tag nrho cov sij hawm vim hais tias ntawm lwm tus neeg, tab sis kuv yuav tsis muaj nws lwm yam kev. Thov kom tus Tswv tseem yuav tau foom koob hmoov rau koj thiab koj tsev neeg!

  77. AndrewTeb

    dawm, ua tsaug koj npaum li ntawd rau qhov no. Kuv dawb, thiab los ntawm Cincinnati thiab qhov twg kuv loj hlob kuv yog feem ntau yog lub tsuas dawb me nyuam yaus nyob hauv lub thaiv. Kuv tus poj niam tau kiag li txawv upbringing. nws loj hlob nyob rau hauv uas nyob deb nroog Nebraska raws li ib tug Mexican. Kuv tsis tau txawm pib piav qhia txog ib co ntawm cov dab neeg nws yuav qhia rau kuv hais tias nws thiab nws cov kwv tij yuav tsum tau loj hlob mus nrog vim hais tias ntawm lub ntxub, stereotypes, thiab tiaj tawm ignorance ntawm cov neeg nws loj hlob mus nrog.

    Nws tau tsiv mus rau lub Nati kom nyob ze rau kuv. Nws tsiv muaj xav nws yuav tsis muaj kom muab tso rau mus nrog, hnov, los yog muaj kev yam uas nws tau mus los ntawm kev loj hlob. Wow, twb peb ob ceeb! Tej yam cov neeg yuav hais rau peb hais nyob rau hauv lub khw, ntawm lub tiaj ua si, los yog cia li tawm mus rau noj. Koj yuav xav hais tias peb nyob rau lub qhia tau tias, “Yuav ua li cas puas yuav Koj dabtsi.” Nws yog ib tug nriaj, peb txoj kev hlub khaws cia rau peb muaj zog, peb cov phooj ywg tau peb rov qab, thiab peb tus Vajtswv cia peb ua ke.

    Peb tam sim no muaj tau sib yuav rau 11 xyoo muaj 4 zoo nkauj me nyuam kom qhia rau nws. Peb tam sim no kuj nyob rau hauv tib me me uas nyob deb nroog Hauv lub zos qhov chaw uas nws loj hlob. Cov ntxub yog tsawg, tab sis cov zoo li yog tseem muaj. Qhov peb ib txwm hais / ua thaum twg peb muaj kev cov “tawm tsam” peb tsa cov neeg uas yog “zuj” peb nyob rau hauv kev thov Vajtswv. Phau Vajlugkub hais txog hlub koj tus yeeb ncuab li koj tus kheej, thiab tab sis yog kuv tsis xav txog cov neeg no mus yuav kuv cov yeeb ncuab, the concept of the scripture is still the same.

    hlub, we just need to show everyone love. No matter the race or background of a person, God loves them, and we are to be like Christ, so we too should love them.

  78. TakudzwaTeb

    Wonderful article Trip lee. As for i’m still single but since i was little i had interest in marrying a white woman because two of my uncles got married to white women. When i got saved i didn’t see any difference between black or white but as long as we are practicing the same Faith.

  79. Andrew AlmondTeb

    Wonderful post Trip. I’ve been struggling a lot recently with dating questions such as who I should date, and when, and why, and how to wait on God through all that stuff recently, and this post was very insightful. Tsaug rau sib koom.

  80. JennaTeb

    zoo ncej! dawm, you have a beautiful family, and I thank you for sharing your heart. Although my husband and I are both white, we grew up very differently. He is a true country boy and self-proclaimed redneck. I have always felt more comfortable around black people, even as a small child. I was never opposed to marrying a white man, but my preferences were definitely geared toward men in the hip-hop culture. People often ask us how we ended up together, and most people are shocked to find out my husband is white. He isn’t what I had envisioned for myself growing up, but he is everything I needed in a husband and father for our kids. The Lord has truly blessed me, and I can’t imagine my life any other way!

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  82. RGTeb

    No longer your heart or preference but what God has planned/willed. It’s amazing how God’s providence is revealed. I am Native American who grew up on a reservation and my husband is Mexican. We both grew up in different states yet we believed in the same Sovereign God who willed where he wanted us to serve HIM and made provision for us to meet. We now live near the reservation in my home state. I prayed (as a new Christian at the age of 8) that God would use me in my home church and I would never have known that God would grow me into a Pastor’s wife of this said church! tsis tau, I’m blessed to know that this same powerful God who created the world could also use us to show other His great love and grace. To come along side my husband as his helper to share the gospel to my own people.

    This was a great encouragement to me. And it’s great to hear how God can change a heart to do His will! Continue to do His work!

    Thank you for the songs and the truths you incorporate. Our family enjoys your music. Especially my teenage sons.

  83. halfNhalfTeb

    My husband is mexican, and I’m filipino. kuv paub 3 languages and learning a few more. My best friend is black and her husband is arabian. It is amazing to see a mixture of races at churches and even in groups.

    We really do just look at the content of one’s character. It’s neat to learn languages and see all of the beautiful cultures. In Christ there’s no Jew, Greek, Male nor female.

  84. mattTeb

    One of my more embarrassing “nyiam” looking back was for my wife to be a Denver Broncos fan.

    thankfully, God allowed me to grow in maturity before he brought my stunner to me.

  85. MariaTeb

    Kuv dawb, I got pregnant, first year of medical school with a black mans baby. At three months pregnant, God sent me a frienda brown Indian man. We were both just starting our medical school careers. What I was about to do was crazy enough. When he told his parents about me they threatened to withdraw all support, his brothers refused to speak to me. After a year and a half we got married we are still in school, raising our son and still have people confused. God is so good, at one of the most difficult times in my life, he gave me a friend, a godly man, to love me, all of me, kuv + baby. Heres to a real man. Heres to a very loving and gracious Father.

  86. Aleshia RobinsonTeb

    This is hypocritical but when I see an interracial couple in public I think nothing of it EXCEPT for when I see a Black man with a non-Black girl. I don’t even flinch if its vice versa but I do know that being a Black man in this society is harder than most. I used to work in a hotel alongside Black men and while guests treated me with respect and believed I could do my job with excellence, they flipped the switch with my Black co-workers right in front of me. I could deliver towels to their room but the guests wouldn’t open the door for them. I could check guests in with ease but they were asked “Kuv tsis paub. Can you handle this?” I could stand outside on break without bother but the police stopped them to askWhat are you guys doing?” People judge and treat Black men differently and I haven’t figured out why. So when I see a Black man with anyone else, my first thought isHe is trying to make life easier on himself.My second thought isHe wants his kids to have her features.But hey, who am I to judge? (Even though I do) I will most likely marry outside my race simply because of my LOVE of adventure so like I said in the beginning, this point is just straight hypocritical. At least you married yours for the right reasons.

  87. Lynn BurgessTeb

    I applaud Trip & Jessica Lee. Integration of the true church of Jesus Christ and “interracial” marriage within the church is the answer to racism in our culture. There is only one race, the human race, “male and female He created them…” (Chiv Keeb 5:2ib tug), and nowhere does scripture say to marry those of your same skin tone or eye shape.

  88. TionaTeb

    Thanks for the article! As a single black woman who loves God and seeks to live my life in a way that pleases him and reflects his love to others, I have prayed hard about this topic. The single men in the churches I have attended have mostly been non-black men. At times I feel like I am at the bottom of the totem pole, competing against the white, Asian and Hispanic women with long, flowing hair and features that I will never have. Even in looking through some of the Christian dating sites, I have noticed that a large percentage of the men with solid profiles indicate they are interested in pretty much all ethnicities except African-American.

    Your article was encouraging to me and spot on. I will trust God to provide in all areas of my life, including my relationships. tsaug!

    Thanks for your honesty!

  89. GrandmotherTeb

    Many, many years ago when my oldest son was about 2, we were driving through a black section of town and he commented that all the people were black and asked why was everyone black. I tried to explain that a long time ago people thought it was better if all the white people lived in one area and all the black people lived in one area. I further said that now we know it doesn’t make any difference what color your skin is. Out of the mouth of babes……nws hais tias, “yeah, the important thing is that we got skin!”

  90. tendekaiTeb

    marring a God fearing woman is the best you can ever do to have a happy family. well said trip what you want in a women is far more important than what she should look like.

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  92. KailaTeb

    I love that you were so open and honest with this post. I feel like the act of interracial marriage and dating is a topic people need be more open to discuss because in every generation I feel as though people have an issue with it. From my point of view I think it’s beautiful to see how love doesn’t discriminate.

    But I also think my openness toward it is because I have always grown up in a community where it wasn’t just one race and my parents never raised me to dislike anyone because of their skin. Tab sis, I did experience some slack my junior year when I took my best friend, who was white, to prom because my paternal grandmother isn’t fond of white people. Txawm li cas los, her reaction didn’t change my mind about who I should or shouldn’t date.

    I never had a preference on what race I dated. Tab sis, when my family found out I had a boyfriend and he was black, they were surprised. They were surprised because my immediate family has been living in a predominately white area for the past 10 years and they thought that would sway my relationships.

  93. danielTeb

    This was a very encouraging post. My wife is black/El Salvadorean. .. and I am a Korean man…. It is absolutely unheard of in Korean culture to marry outside of Korean race let alone a black/latina woman. As an odd interracial couple we have faced much adversity, but the only thing that mattered was Christ and our bond in Christ through friendship to courtship and now in our marriage.

    I never really post on things like this but this post did speak to me and confirm my resolve in how I council others who are in pursuit of finding a spouse in their ethnicity.

  94. KevinTeb

    I think this is an amazing story. I love how transparent you are because a lot of us try to hide things like wanting preferences, but i love how you said we have to submit them. I pray that God continues to show me things like this because I truly believe that it will help me to keep my heart and eyes on God and His Word and not just the appearance of the women around me.

  95. MJTeb

    STELLAR! Than you for sharing your love story. hluas, college students and young adults are in DESPERATE need of such examples! I know because I’ve been having a blast talking about sex, dating and relationships with them since 2003. Will definitely be sharing with them at https://www.facebook.com/FMUniversity.

    Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau, dawm!

  96. zacharybrunotteTeb

    I’m a white man with a black wife. We are still in our first year, but no regrets! We have our fist child on the way and we love our little family. Like Trip Lee, I pictured myself marrying a woman of my own race (I think its just natural). But I never once questioned it or thought of it to be “txoj cai” los yog “wrong.She is of God. Thats the only race that I look at!!

  97. JennTeb

    dawm,

    I remember when you and Jessica first started dating! I remain encouraged to see you two continuing on in God’s grace. This was a great blog and I think it may be freeing for many people as they choose to look at the heart of the person rather than the outer.

    Jenn :)

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  99. JoelTeb

    Amen tij laug

    Run hard and fast towards the savior and if you see someone, in the corner of your eye running in the same direction, you should take a second look

  100. RachaelTeb

    Absolutely love this! I’m sharing this with my parents. My parents have issues with the fact that I find myself interested in guys of a different race. Even though I have not always been interested in the most godly guys, there has been times when I was interested in a quite godly man, but because he was not white my parents completely dismissed and forbade any sort of relationship with them. I am definitely sharing this with them, hopefully this will open their eyes.

  101. MauriceTeb

    Never saw it that way. I’m not racist, but in my growing up, there was a notion they taught us in our culture that implied that white girls only love you and hate your family. They love to be closed in. So my grandparents always saidif you want us not to come to your wedding or not to pay you visits at your home, marry a white girl. Because she won’t allow us to get close to you.

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  103. LivyTeb

    It’s funny. Kuv dawb (part Hispanic, but no one would know by looking at me), and my husband is white, but he’s from the country and I’m from the city. He’s from the south, and I’m from the north. We aren’t THE SAME just because our skin tones are similar. We walk and talk and process things at different paces, and our families are really different, but we love each other, and God brought us together. Culturally, tab sis yog, it takes adjusting for both of us. uas, along with being equally yoked to serve the Lord, is what marriage is all about! Glad you spoke up!

  104. AmandaTeb

    dawm! First and foremost, your music is beautiful and awe inspiring. I love the message you preach in each and every single song. Continue the wonderful talent God has given you! Interracial relationships and marriages are absolutely gorgeous. It shouldn’t matter what race one is, but like you said, a Godly spouse. Kuv Caucasian, but have been attracted to African American men my whole life. My family is very, very, very accepting of this. :) Txawm li cas los, I pray that God sends me the right one, who has gentlemen and godlike qualities. I yearn for a man who says they love Christ more than they love me, respectful, and sweet. This has opened my eyes though to be open to all races instead of just black. God Bless both you and Jessica!

  105. TerriceTeb

    This was a great articlei really enjoy reading your blog. Thanks for sharing your stories and being so transparent. The Lord is using you in so many wonderful ways! Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau!

  106. SchiaTeb

    Wow, this article is awesome! Glory to God! dawm, you are a really good writer as well. I felt like I was reading a romance novel or something while reading your post. Lots of smiling andawwwwww!” LOL Thanks for being a godly influence on so many fronts.

  107. LeisleyAbrahamsTeb

    Thanks Trip that’s the best way it has been explained to me ever!!My girl friend and I are praying and waiting on the Lord for the next step.I’m black full blonde African and She’s white..I’m always getting questions as to why i like her and not girls my skin but all i see in her is a godly woman on fire for Jesus, Loves Jesus more than she will ever love me and that’s something I need in my life..You truly inspired me #wiseWordsTrip #NoWonderYouMyFavRapper

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  109. AprilCTeb

    I’m really glad that you took the time out to write this. This post is kind of random, never really thought about it (heck, I never even knew this page existed until today). Nonetheless, I’m glad you wrote itI think the part that sparked my interest the most was the whole preference issue. I was married to a man for 5 xyoo (peb muaj 3 children together) who didn’t want to be married anymore because in his wordsI wasn’t his preference (he would often use a chocolate ice cream / vanilla ice cream analogy to attempt to prove his pointhis preference was a woman with a um….”nicebodyI’ll leave it at that). The crazy thing is he actually does Christian rap—(????). Xijpeem, I’m glad to see that you went about the right wayputting God’s desires above your fleshly desires…..Xijpeem, continue to Love your wife like Christ Loves the Church….I’ll keep you all in my prayers…..

    Sincerely,
    April C.
    Greenville NC

  110. ANDRETeb

    Yep. Same reason i married a white girl. Ua tsaug rau koj sib koom. Good read. Gracefully put. God bless you and your family brother. Praise The Lord, foreal tho.

  111. TgirlTeb

    zoo, I think people are more shocked by the fact that the few GOOD BLACK men are wife-ing White women and not us MANY BLACK women. It’s sad that racial comments exist, but it just the way people feel, in especially, women- that are Black. I have double standards my boyfriend is Latino & I’m Black and that’s okay (for Black women to date outside of their race). On other hand, when I see a decent (which are very few) Black man with a White/Other woman, I be like DANG another one of our brothers gonenow that’s just speaking from the heart racism or not. nws yog dab tsi nws yog.

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  113. JeffTeb

    Hav dawm, thanks for the excellent and thoughtful response to a difficult question. Like you I wasn’t pursuing any wife when I met Michelle. She was available and I was available and we saw the world in the same ways. Our race is NOT the most different thing about us and our faith IS the thing that brings us unity. I only dated and had married a black women who I married more for obligation (tus me nyuam) and cultural expectation than mutual interest. Since I had no relationship with God aside from occasional church visits I believe I was ill prepared for marriage. While our skin color was the same we had very different values and after we separated and divorced God came into my broken heart to heal me. I am so thankful for my wife’s courage to look at my potential and not my past and love me beyond skin color. Our children and our church ministry will reflect the love of God for people from every walk of life. The point is the Kingdom as the world’s great equalizer and Jesus as Lord of all.

  114. JeffTeb

    Hav dawm, thanks for the excellent and thoughtful response to a difficult topic. Like you I wasn’t pursuing any wife when I met Michelle. She was available and I was available and we saw the world in the same ways. Our race is NOT the most different thing about us and our faith IS the thing that brings us unity. In the past I had dated and married a black women out of obligation (tus me nyuam) and cultural expectation (tsev neeg) than mutual affection. Since I had no relationship with God beyond church attendance, I was ill prepared for marriage. While our skin color was the same we had very different values and after we separated and divorced God came into my broken heart to heal me.

    I am so thankful for my wife’s courage to look at my potential and not my past and love me beyond skin color. Our children and our church ministry will reflect the love of God for people from every walk of life and our desperate need for his grace. The Kingdom is the world’s great equalizer and Jesus as Lord of all the nations. We will pray for your family and please pray for us too.

  115. kennedyTeb

    I joined trip I never think I can get someone as some site always for lieying and robbing people I was ignoring some sms containing emails but u can’t escape God’s plan thus was like exciting to me an I read it being back my policy was any where who loves me but not only my ethnic then I got white American lady who didn’t care about race,culture only person love & care about herwho is mewith God all is possible she is my really choice.

  116. kennedyTeb

    I joined trip I never think I can get someone honest as some site always for lier and robbing people I was ignoring some sms containing emails to contact them but u can’t escape God’s plan this was like exciting to me and I read it being black my policy was any where who loves me but not only my ethnic then I got white American lady who didn’t care about race,culture etconly person right person & care about herwho is mewith God all is possible she is my really choice.

  117. RyanTeb

    NEED ADVICE:
    I’m dating a girl who prefers black guysand I’m white. She assures me that she likes me a lot, but it’s still a huge insecurity to me. I hope to one day marry this girl. Is there anything to good read on this issue or any sort of advice?
    – tsaug

  118. MaleshiaTeb

    Yes Trip! I am a single black woman and a predominately white university and this type of conversation always comes up amongst my circle of black girlfriends. Although I have preferences for black men (I’m all for black love), I’m always open to dating outside of my ethnicity because you never know who God can use to make a difference in your life. I see people for who they are based on their personality, character, their values, and their beliefs more than anything as I’m getting to know them. Looks do matter and there are certain social contexts that may be misunderstood if the significant other was raised in a different ethnic culture, but these factors are not dealbreakers. If anything, they’ll make a relationship more interesting. Your story is such a beautiful love story that I too hope to experience someday. All in all, you can’t help who you fall in love with, regardless of if their black, dawb, yellow, Barney purple, or Ninja Turtle green. Love is universal and transcends all ethnicities. We as Christians are supposed to love all even with our differences. Sometimes your soul mate, true match, life partner, and best friend is someone who is completely opposite of who you ever imagined yourself being with. It makes me smile to hear that embrace how you were drawn to Jessica for the humble, compassionate, and God-fearing woman that she was and still is. Your union is a true testament that your shared faith in God transcends all differences. Be blessed.

  119. MarkTeb

    Hav, I feel you. I have Australian Aboriginal heritage and I always wanted to marry another Koori (Aboriginal) but because of culture and ancestral religions it made it very hard. I ended up marrying a Anglo Red head. But She LOVES Jesus and that’s what matters.

  120. ceceTeb

    God bless you and your family in Jesus name it does not matter what raise you are it matters on how they treat you and you are the best pastor ever real

  121. EzraTeb

    Chiv Keeb 15:12-14
    “And when the sun was going down, a deep sleep fell upon Abram; thiab, lo, an horror of great darkness fell upon him. And he said unto Abram, Know of a surety that thy seed shall be a stranger in a land that is not theirs, and shall serve them; and they shall afflict them four hundred years; And also that nation, whom they shall serve, will I judge: and afterward shall they come out with great substance.”

    According to the Song of Solomon 1:4-6:
    “I am black, but comely, O ye daughters of Jerusalem, as the tents of Kedar, as the curtains of Solomon. Look not upon me, because I am black, because the sun hath looked upon me: my mother’s children were angry with me; they made me the keeper of the vineyards; but mine own vineyard have I not kept.”
    Conversely Numbers 12:10-15 states that Mariam is cursed by God when she disrespects his prophet, thus Mariam was stripped of her hue or color becoming white as snow. The irony of this element is that Christians have murdered whole cultures and Caucasians claim they are the chose people, when the bible is Hebrew book about an Egyptian God who specifies that Israel/Jacob bore 12 sons and produced the tribe of Israel who are black, like all members of the Holy Lineage.

    I know who I am. And I am not opposed to Nubian people dating/marrying white people. I would never do it, but it just speeds up the process, so that peace can inherit the Earth instead of what we are enduring now.

  122. PKTeb

    I’m happy I found this post. I wish more people in interracial relationships expressed them9 in this manner versus having to put down other groups of people. In all honesty, the Lord has been working on my heart when it comes this subject. I used to not care at all about who someone was dating/married to racially speaking. Txawm li cas los, some negative encounters with interracial couples and the current anti-black woman movement left me jaded. But thank God for his grace, because He’s restoring my heart and opening my eyes to see people and marriage the correct wayeven the ones that express negative attitudes towards the ethnic group I belong to.

  123. AliTeb

    What I have to say is very sad .. I m from the eastern part of the world and my I married a white girl.
    its tough the cultrual difference.. We are getting divorce.

    My family doesnt wants to meet me and I never get adjusted in her family.
    She was the perfect women I can ever have, we are divorcing due to interracial issues..

    My parents are sick and they want to visit US and they cant live with my wife. I am the head of the household so I have to takecare of my family backhome.

    Im heartbroken, devastated right now becuase its happening now we are going thru divorce .

    I will always love her

  124. TheHonestTruthTeb

    Well i am a white Good man and i still Can’t meet a Good woman to settle down with since the women of today are so much Different than the past.

  125. EricTeb

    I really could care less what ethnicity your wife is, but it is incredible to hear you address this (or any) issue with such humility and poise. Thank you for seeking God first.

  126. BrookeTeb

    By all accounts are words could be no truer, for a believer or not. I must emphasize you use toward the direct,” I never cared, tiag tiag, what ethnicity my wife was to become, as I first choice would have seen her as black.Like many, I have stuggled in my Faith as seeking duty in His will, but I do believe with all that is me, that He will send me the desires of my heart ( not just a personal preference) because for me, I believe that is where apart of my patience and/or Faith is developing. As I do agree with YOUR story as it is YOUR testimony, I equally hold account to waiting for what seems the impossible because it lead by a desire, a need, not just a want. To be more specific: I would physically love to be in the company of David Beckham, Chris Hemsworth, and Ben Affleck (when single), but I have no desire to marry them; not when my heart desires the beauty, strength, character, and valor of the wonderfully-created black man! Had we remained in a world free from sin, this probably would not be a much concern, but in a world were such a beautifully-made human has been degraded, humiliated, chastised, disrespected, thiab lwm yam…I foresee no need not to complete my journey with him sent by Him. thiab ntsig, rau kuv, given today’s disconcerning examples of a black man, I want and need my son to see that what once was, (a good man like his father before he passed) can still and will be again…….

    Sincerely,
    B.

  127. MarwaTeb

    It is a very great joy and blessing to my life, i and my husband have begin childless for 8years now due to my inability for me to give birth and it has resolves to problems everyday in my home,so i visited a female friend in Florida,and she came up with an idea of adopting a child which i never had in mind,and now i got no choice than to apply for a child and to my surprises everything went easily and today i am happy with the Hansom little boy(Wisdom)i adopted from the Inter country child adoption center.

  128. MaryTeb

    This makes me very relief.That was a good decision to make. You never know when the right person comes around.No matter what race I will stick to that as an African American.That I don’t always have to be in my comfort zone that I can go out the box. I really appreciate this statement you gave . May God bless you and your family with many many more blessings in your life.

  129. MarcusTeb

    Great to all of you who have married children of God. We should marry people who know how to love us and that WILL love us! This info is for daters onlynot married couples; li ntawd,, if you’re married, stay married, PLEASE! If you are dating, then ask God to show who you are supposed to marrybecause you don’t know sincerely! People can play nice-nice/hypocrite well for different reasons and fool you, people can be good people(but not the right one for the road that God has for youNOT COMPATIBLE SPIRITUALLYeven 2 children of God may have 2 different roads that do not line up; remember the bible verses where I believe the disciples rebuked a man of God because he was not associated with them directly; Yexus’ answer shows that people can have acceptable missions to God, but be incompatible; then again, God told Hosea to marry a prostituteif my memory serves me correctly). Yog li ntawd, by choosing the wrong one(sometimes, a child of God can be the wrong one for you), you might miss out on blessings that might only be unlocked with the right one. You may even bring a curse to you; your kids might be sickly or some may die before you; you might not be the right parent for you child; you may be infertile or infertile for a long time; you love one another and something’s still not right; you might get someone who has fooled you(there are witches, wizards, hypocrites, violent abusers, uncaring naggers, cheaters, ascribers to open sex or LGBT lifestyles, mentally unstable people, ascribers to bestialitywho only use the family pet as a cover, atheists or agnosticswho have used religion to win you over, liars, the narcissistic or selfish, alcoholics and drugheads, conpeople and getting illegal money, pagans/satanists, lazy people, the childishnegatively speaking, ntawm cov hoob kawm, verbal abusers, cursers, people who will never repent, serial killers, pedophiles/incestuous people, thiab lwm yam. out there).

    You ask God, because He has a plan for you and because(if you divorce for whatever reason) it’s my sincere belief that you aren’t supposed to get married again until your spouse dies(or have sex again for those who are crafty). You’re not supposed get divorced period(except for sexual unfaithfulness), but you should be without sex or marriage if you do for whatever reason. Can you honestly say that if you(if you get a HORROR of a spouse and you can’t take itit shouldn’t happen even then, but what are most going to do) or your spouse is the reason why you get divorced that you can go without marital sex for a period that might go outside your sexual prime(this period could be several decades)?! THAT’S WHY YOU SHOULD ASK GOD WHO YOU SHOULD MARRY! It avoids sin later(because you may or may not get lucky, but He knows) and your Christian journey is maximized! What if God did not answer your marital issue(cov me nyuam, heev) prayersletting you reap what you’ve sown for choosing to marry for personal reasons only?!

  130. MarcusTeb

    On another issue: there are some marriages(unless you know God has signed off on themask Him to be sure; don’t guess) that could be asking for trouble: 1. BMWF marriages in America: we live in world of white progressive, objective racism! White racists are aggressive with racism more than any group that I’ve ever seen! And the black man is enemy number 1! They put disgusting things in your food, blacks and their kids may get filthy/germ-laced hugs and handshakes, spells/curses may be put on the man or his kids, cops profile and mistreat black men far more aggressively if a BMWF marriage is proclaimed as you are supposed to, they disown family, lawv “nepotizepure white family members(cov me nyuam, heev) and discriminate against mixed members(cov me nyuam) and the black man, they murmur against theirenemies”, they attack and/or kill black men, certain brother/sister relationships will become strained or inimical and almost all white brother/sister-in-laws will have no or an inimical relationship with their black counterpart, teachers subtly villify, thiab lwm yam. Can you imagine possibly your kids having no/a cheap relationship with their maternal family? At Christmas: white kids get a $150 gift from this member, but your kids get $25 gift or nothing. Can you imagine if something happened to your loved one(husband or child) and wondering whether your family had something to do with it and not being able to prove it? Many of these things can be expected; but also, these couples have to deal with the things that other marriages have to deal with, heev! Bills, domestic home/property care, family expenditures(sometimes unexpected), kids discussion(SPECIAL and requires more time than otherseven encouraging your child to realize that racist whites see them as black and maintaining a balance that he/she loves both parents and all people the same respectively), jobs, spending time with your friends so that they remain your friends, thiab lwm yam. There’s so much going on that makes the marriage unhappy, if God did not ordain it!

    2. Marriages where there’s a big gap in religious philosophy or where the main points of the religious teachings are opposite or not compatible. Just ask king Solomon. Christian and muslim. Christian and buddhist. Christian and hinduism. Christian and atheism. Christian and satanism(illuminati, freemasonry, and their other sects and ties). Be sure that God wants you there before entering, because God may use you to convert the person or someone else in your journey who will listen!

  131. JoshuaKirklandTeb

    dawm,

    I really admire your drive, determination, willingness, & txoj kev ntseeg. The fact that this disease you have has plagued you & really made life difficult for you is absolutely crazy! Txawm li cas los, you perserve & fight through all of that & continue to complete the things God ask of you. When I heard that the Unashamed Tour of 2012 was your last group tour, my mind began to wonder as to why you’re hanging it up. Once I found out that you had your fatigue disorder & that you were staring a pastoral internship, I began to understand that God had another purpose for you. When Rise was released, I was SOOOO excited! txiv neej, I was soooooo hype! To tell you the truth, The Good Life was the 1st Christian Hip-Hop album I listened to & purchased. Ever since then, I’ve been hooked onto hip hop music that praises Jesus. Your music has been so influential in my life. I pray that you continue to fight through your struggles and impact the kingdom! #116

  132. BlosamTeb

    Wonderful story. I am happy or you. I am married to my own ethnicity but that didn’t save me from miserable life I am living. I only kept my marriage to protect my kids future and God hates divorce. I live in a hell hoping to go to haven.

  133. LaKiKITeb

    Who are you trying to convince of your choice? You, or us? If you truly picked your wife, because of GOD this article would not exist. You don’t need permission. Yog, I am sure there were plenty of Black Godly women that were just as amazing as the woman you chose. But you didn’t want them, nor had an interest. Your desire was for your wife. This is fine. Just stop trying to justify it, as it is ridiculous and condescending.

    I AM Guessing only comments that cosign your status get posted, but I will try again. Free speech matters!

    • JamesTeb

      WOW REALLY. You need to go to God and get in the word. I dont think you know what you are talking about cause you clearly missed the point of this. Im thinking you dont realize the purpose of him doing this is to help and encourage others with the same situation. The way you came off sounds like its of resentment or ignorance or maybe even prejudence itself because you think he trying to throw it in peoples face he is with a white woman and thats not the case. It sounds like you mad he with a white girl period.

  134. TiffanyTeb

    What’s up Trip. This is Tee. I really enjoyed this article. Even though I’m years behind. lol. But honestly there is a reason I’m just seeing this. My husband is white and I too grew up imagining myself with a black man. But God created me to be different. Even growing up I was the cool kid on the block, known as one of the fellas. Then in college the fellas title change when they thought I was cute. But because I’m a officer that was to hard for a black man to support me on. So I got blessed at 30. 3 years strong with a beautiful little girl. I just pray the world can come together and know love has no color. Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau
    P.S. My Lil brother wife is Asian, married 9 xyoo. My mom calls us her melting pot of love.

  135. MillzTeb

    Good Morning,

    Both my wife and I appreciate such dialogue as we feel these types of narratives astouchyas they can be need to be addressed in our society and more importantly as Christians. I am a young black man myself, my wife, who is white, is seven year younger than I. We both love Christ deeply. As we truly believe that through prayers Christ gave us each other. We now are parents of four beautiful children in a blended family. This union God created for us certainly didn’t come with its obstacles we lost friends and family along the way that we still pray for. The truth is God’s plan for us is never what we intended. And the bible is chock-full of scenarios that speak on our God’s plan and His divine perfection. (Hosea/Gomer is a perfect example)

    I think the world view of interracial unions have been marred by the tapestry of prejudice, hate, many other wicked and evils things that have plagued the thoughts of mankind since our inception. It’s the reason why the bible which is the greatest love story of them all still resonates even after all these millennias.

    My wife and I have experienced this hatred first-hand from both our cultures and even others not our own. It’s even more interesting when it is from a person who claims to be Christian or those who haven’t processed their own ignorance. When these things occur to us we see it as a blessing because we realize just how close we are to hearing God’s voice and not our own. nws (Tswv Yexus) at those very moments hits us with Galatians 2:20, it is then we realize the fight we may want to have isn’t ours to fight. Does it make it easier to hear that? Tsis nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov, they only reveal more questions like: “ok, I can’t fight back but what about my children? How do I protect them from the hatred they see?

    That’s when you realize that your marriage was not only a personal, physical journey but a spiritual one.

    My wife and I are in our ninth year on marriage (insert applause) and we haven’t been more stronger and more united because we see our mission now, it couldn’t be so much more clearer. When the bible says we are the light of the world, we truly are! And some may not comprehend that, but then you find the few who say to themselves: “yeah! What you two have I want that!”

    To my brother Trip and his wonderful family and extended family I say this,

    Your journey has just begun my brother and sister . Be strong in the Lord and in the power of his might. He will guide you so long as you never stop running to Him.

    There will be many obstacles I know for certain you probably have already experienced them living in the South. But you are an example of the true beauty of our God, and Lord Jesus Christ. In love and marriage this shows best, for the bible says multiple times thatFor there is no respect of person with God” – Loos 2:11

    God Bless You and all the others on this post who name the name Jesus Christ

  136. DawnnTeb

    bro, I so appreciate and respect you on this post. I’ve heard my fair share of reasons why black men marry women of a different race/ethnicity. This is one of the few times I’ve heard a brothaexpress the importance of Godly attributes over comparisons of why women of one ethnicity are better than women of another ethnicity. And truly it is about Kingdom purpose over preference. May our God continue to bless you, your wife and family!

  137. Trinitee HudsonTeb

    My brother in Christ. I am so blessed by this article. Thank you for allowing the word to teach and settle issues people don’t understand.

    I am encouraged by your stance in your marriage but also your ministering truth. Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau koj thiab koj tsev neeg.

  138. Joshua FordhamTeb

    I do not feel that this article was needed. I have never seen a group of people feeling the need to justify the desire to marry white as I have seen in black people more specifically black men. I noticed that black people who date and marry non white groups do not justify why they married that non white person. If they do, it is not to the degree that black people who married white.

    I just have a hard time believing that all those races of women at that school that were serving God and loving him to the fullest didn’t catch your eye but the white girl, the woman who has been said to be black man’s kryptonite, caught your eye for marriage. You just wanted to marry white and trying to bring God into that as a means to not seem like every this was so God ordained when this behavior predates slavery.

    If you want to date white okay but to write an article means there is something not settling in your spirit.

  139. Joshua StormTeb

    I agree with you, dawm Lee. I have come to know that the whole person is comprised of spirit, ntsuj plig, and body. So we are spirit beings, with souls, and we live in a body. It is very unfortunate that most people look at thehouseyet what matters is the spirit/heart of the person. I’d just love to re-emphasize this for someone out there reading my comment here. A man is a spirit-being. He has a soul (emotions and thoughts) and he lives in a physical body.

    That white or black skin that most people are always quick to identify is just a house where we live. Mine is black, perhaps yours is black. To define people by the color of theirhouseis like judging the contents of a letter from the look of the envelope. The reason why they sayhis body was laid to restis because you are not your body, but rather you live in it. If we all appreciated these truths, there wouldn’t be any race or color issues. God is creative, he knew that this earth was his canvas, and he could never paint it all white, or all black. The beauty of art is in the blend of colors, not just one. That’s precisely why we ought to celebrate one another’s race instead of ranting about our differences. A cake contains a good amount of several ingredients including eggs, salt, sugar, thiab lwm yam. When they are blended together and baked, we get good cake out of that. Try to put salt, sugar, oil, and eggs in your mouth before baking and you’ll probably puke your guts out!

    So whether your wife/husband is yellow, dawb, green or whatever is nothing worth discussion. The point is whether y’all find a connection that y’all think is worth keeping all your lives. Period. I honestly think that people who segregate on basis of race are small-minded, and they can’t see whole person (ntsuj plig, soul and body).

  140. Biota MacdonaldTeb

    Love that you wrote about this! I’m in an interracial marriage myself, and in many ways I was able to relate with a lot of what you shared.

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