Vim li cas kuv yuav ib tug ntxhais dawb

Tav twg kuv rooj vag duab ntawm kuv tsev neeg nyob kev tawm, cov lus teb yuav tsum muaj kev lom zem. Yog tshaj, "Koj tus tub yog tus zoo nraug li!"lossis"zoo li cas ib tug zoo nkauj tsev neeg!"Tiam sis yog ib yam ntawm cov lwm hom lus teb, "Yog koj tus poj dawb?"Neeg nug kuv thaum pom tias tej zaum dhau. Cov lus teb no yog. Kuv tus poj niam yog tus muab ntawm Hungarian, Italian, thiab Polish — uas kom cov neeg cia li txhais tau hais tias yog, Nws yog dawb. Qhov no yog rau cov sob, tab sis, shocking los yog disappointing txawm rau lwm tus. Kuv tsis xav tias leej twg yuav tsum tau ceeb lossis chim los ntawm interracial marriages, tab sis, kuv tseem xav nrog koj tham txog yog vim li cas kuv yuav nyob nraum zoov kuv "haiv neeg.

Qhov kev txiav txim rau ib tug neeg ntawm ib tug txawv haiv neeg tom qab yuav tsis yog ib tug tawv rau kuv. Kuv yeej tsis zaum thiab sau tau tawm ib daim ntawv teev pros thiab cons. Txawm yog hais tias kuv puas tau, qhov tias kuv tus poj niam yeej ib txwm tsis pom ua pa ntawm "Martin" fact yuav nyob rau cov tej qeb. Honestly, tab sis, Kuv tsis agonize lawm nws los mus nrhiav kev pab tswv yim txog txawm yuav yog lawv xav tshuaj. Kuv yog convinced uas nws tau cov poj niam uas kuv yuav, Txawm tias nws tsis muaj dub.

Ib txhia yuav tsis xav txog marrying ib tug neeg uas tsis yog cov haivneeg tib yam li lawv, yog li cia kuv qhia rau koj paub vim li cas kuv ho.

Rua

Yuav tsum qhia qhov tseeb, Kuv yeej tuaj yuav ib tug poj niam dub. Kuv pom muaj nyob hauv txhua haiv zoo nkauj, tab sis tus hluas nkauj dub yog kuv "nyiam." Tab sis, thaum kuv los txog rau kuv kawm ntawv qib siab hauv 2006, Kuv tsis nrhiav ib tug poj niam hlo. Kuv cia li xav rau hauv kuv txoj kev ntseeg loj thiab tau txais ib qhov kev kawm ntawv zoo. Kuv thawj album twb cia li tawm tuaj, ces kuv yuav tsum pw kom ntau ntau lwm yam siab rau. Tab sis raws li kuv tau ntsib neeg hauv lub tsev kawm ntawv, ib tug los sis qib muaj npe Jessica no yeej ntes tau kuv paub thiab peb los ua phooj ywg.

Peb mus xeem khiav hauv lub voj tib yam thiab peb twb tuaj pub ntxiv tshaj qhov tib lub tsev teev ntuj, li ntawd, peb pom sib heev. Thiab qhov ntau kuv tau paub nws, yim kuv tug xis teb xis chaw rau nws. Nws yeej hlub Yexus thiab nws tas no lawv nrhiav childlike ua nws kom xijpeem. Nws compassion rau cov hais neeg sib tw kuv thiab nws muaj ib tug lub plawv uas teb cov lo lus. Dhau ntawd thawj lub xyoos, Kuv saib nws txi countless teev ntawm nws qho sij hawm nyob rau peb lub tsev teev ntuj. Tag nrho cov uas nyob saum, Kuv hlub nyob ib ncig nws. Peb sib tham, puas loj heev los yog ua dag, ib txwm ntws ntawm tau yooj yim. Vim li ntawd nws thiaj li yog mus nug kuv tus kheej, "Yuav tsum tau kuv yuav tus ntxhais no?"

Nyiam

Jessica tsis zoo li kuv xav pom kuv poj niam mus nrhiav, tiam sis honestly uas tsis txawv rau kuv. Tsis tau rau kuv lawm, Kuv xav tias nws yog qhov zoo nkauj ntawm thawj thawj zaug kuv ntsib nws. Thiab kuv ib txwm tsis txojcai marrying ib tug ntxhais dawb. Kuv cia li tsis xav tias kuv yuav. Tiam sis thaum kuv hlob nyob hauv kuv txoj kev ntseeg thiab hloov kuv lub plawv, Kuv xav pib hloov thiab. Kuv nyiam lub ntsiab yog tias kuv tus poj niam yuav godly, thiab Jessica. Li ntawd, kuv wifed nws.

Tsis txhob rau ib pliag puas tau kuv xav hais tias kuv nyob hauv. Mloog nws zoo dua li hauv rau overlook godly poj niam vim nws haivneeg pawg. Kuv yeej tsis xav kom tus nqi kuv nyiam rau ib tus poj niam lawm zoo li cas kuv xav tau rau ib tus poj niam.

Muaj dabtsi uas tsis tas uas muaj kev xav, tab sis, peb tau tuav lawv ib txhais tes qhib. Kuv paub qee leej neeg uas overlook godly ib txij neeg vim tias lawv tsis haum ib co random nyiam. Qee yam peb xav yeej tsis txawv ntawd npaum. Qee yam peb xav tej zaum tseem yuav plhom moj, vim li ntawd peb yuav tsum sau tag nrho cov vaj kom lawv.

Thaum koj thiab koj tus txij nkawm yog nyob nruab nrab ntawm cov teeb meem, laus tawv os. Yam lub cev thiab kev ua pej xeem Mes Kas zoo li insignificant. Koj xav kom lawv paub ceev godly thiab tug. Thiab thaum kuv niam thiab kuv pib sau peb cov me nyuam thawj zaug, Kuv tsis tau muaj ntau xav thov ua tsaug rau nws. Nws yog ib tug niam amazing thiab txhob godly rau kuv tus tub — tej nuj nqis ntawm cov uas yuav muaj dab tsi ua rau nws haiv neeg keeb kwm yav dhau. Ywm los xav yam nyob rau ntawm ib tus txij nkawm, tab sis peb yuav tsum xa peb siab nyiam rau dab Vaj tswv xav rau peb nyob hauv ib tus txij nkawm. Yam kuv xav thiab ntxiv tshaj yog ib tug tswv cuab godly, yog raws nraim Vaj tswv pab dab tsi.

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  1. CLLTeb

    Zoo hais tias txawv tebchaws. Kuv tus txiv yog dawb thiab dub yog kuv thiab kuv lossi tau nug li cas los kuv yog ib tug neeg lwm haiv neeg kuv xaiv. Kuv nco ntsoov teb lus tias Vajtswv ua tus xaiv rau kuv thiab nws ua tej kev amazing txoj hauj lwm, zoo tshaj rau kuv puas yuav tau ua li cas rau kuv tus kheej. Vaj tswv yog zoo! Cia koj ua li cas koj ua! 116! Yexus ua ntej txog cov mov nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb!

    • ErickaTeb

      Tsaug rau hli mus txawv tebchaws lub siab dawb paug. kuv pom zoo ib yam thiab. Koj yuav muaj ib tug nyiam, tiam sis koj yuav tau tuav nws nrog tus tes qhib vim thaum ib tug neeg uas ntseeg Yexus koj thawj Planning no yog Christ thiab koj tus txij nkawm muaj txhawb uas. Tusyees yolked…

    • OluwaseyiTeb

      Ntau lub tsev xa mus txawv tebchaws.
      Kuv muaj teebmeem saib koj blog rau kuv tus xov tooj. Cov nplooj ntawv zoo li tib tug hindering lauj-scrolling thiab lo lus kawg ntawm ib kab rau nkawd muab txiav tawm los ntawm kev tshuaj ntsuam kuv kom kuv tej zaum yuav tsis paub txog tej kab. Kuv tsis paub tseeb tias qhov no yog ib qho teeb meem nrog kuv browser los yog ib tug technicality tej zaum nyob rau hauv cov blog lub teeb. Cia li xav mus coj tau nws mus txog xwb incase ib yam dab tsi yuav ua tau los ntawm kev koj kawg.
      Tsaug.
      Nyob twj ywm blessed.

    • MariaTeb

      Kuv tus ntxhais hlub koj lub suab seev. Ua tau, Kuv yuav tsum lees; Kuv yuav ua ib yam nkaus thiab:). Thaum nws ua ntej nkag tau kuv mus ncig xyuas suab paj nruag nrog peb lwm txoj, LaCrae) Yog kuv cia li zoo siab rau koj Godly cawv ntawm koj lub suab seev. Tab sis kuv yeej tseem ceeb toom dog dig. Yog hais tias koj lub suab paj nruag manifested koj cim wondering. Nyeem qhov no kuv ntseeg tias koj yog ib tug txiv neej Godly. Kuv thov ntau ntau blessings rau koj thiab koj tus poj niam zoo nkauj thiab cov tub adorable. Ntaub ntawv hais lus, thiab nyob rau ib lub sij hawm qhov muaj yog siab phem npaum li, haivneeg tab ntawd yog. Ib tus neeg muaj hmoo tiag kom muaj ib tug poj niam (Yog hais tias koj yog ib tug txiv neej) leej twg hlub Yexus thiab pab raws li nws ib sab ntawm koj.

    • AdamCravenTeb

      ASMEES!!! Kuv yeej ib txwm tsis to taub vim muaj ib txhia overlooked godly poj cias vim lawv tsis haum rau ib tug lawv nyiam. Kuv muaj ib tus viv ncaug uas luag muab lub xum ua ntej zoo siab. Nws nws thiaj li mus lo zoo lus Vaj tswv thiab thov Vaj tswv hais txog thiab thov Vaj tswv thiab thaum kawg nws poob nws teb thiab kuv tam sim no 2 nieces thiab ib yawm yij yawm Vaj tswv fearing!! Koj yeej tsis yuav muab koj xav ua ntej Vaj tswv vim txhua zaus thaum ib tug neeg lawv mas yeej nto qaub ncaug rau Vajtswv lub ntsej muag thiab kuv xav ua ntej koj!!

  2. CarinaTeb

    Raws li vaj tswv ua rau yus, peb yuav tsum ua raws nraim li. Kuv xav biblically hais lus peb yog txhua haiv neeg ib, thawj tawm pob thiab tswv yim ces tom qab cov xeeb leej xeeb ntxwv uas Noah. Nws tau ntau txhiab xyoo thiab 175,000 tiam tom, tiam sis peb yeej tau pib los ntawm qhov chaw qub. Ib haiv neeg, muaj coob ethnicities.

  3. BrittaTeb

    Kuv pom kiag li! Ua ntej kuv ntsib kuv tus txiv uas kuv ib txwm najnpawb huv shaven liab hau, tab sis, ces kuv tau ntsib da-viv. Nws yog tus yawg laus do hau nrog lub goatee txaus rau kuv mus ntxias! Nws yog/yog txhua lo lus uas Vaj tswv yuav tsum tau cog lus kuv kuv yuav nrhiav ib tus txiv, tab sis, yog hais tias kuv twb cia li nrhiav ib yam tsos kuv yuav tau tu tawm on zoo tshaj plaws Vaj tswv tau rau kuv!

  4. David BTeb

    Kuv zoo siab qhov no. Kuv yuav tos til cov phaum, qhov no yog li cas peb hlub hauv cov naj nub, phau ntawv yog cowritten los mus txawv tebchaws thiab Jessica!

  5. EnaneTeb

    Ua tsaug koj mus txawv tebchaws no amazing Tshooj. Yuav tsum qhia qhov tseeb rau koj, Kuv tau coj zoo nkauj thaum kuv nrhiav kom paub txog koj tus poj niam cov haiv neeg. Tab sis npog, Kuv ntseeg tias tus vaj tswv lub hom phiaj rau peb lub neej, tsis nco ntsoov me qhov uas peb cia siab tias los sis xav tau. Li ntawd, qhov tsab xov xwm no tau thov nej tsam ces kuv mus thov thiab kuv motives tau zoo; kom thaum tus neeg txoj kev tuaj txog kuv txoj kev, Vaj tswv kam, Kuv khoom. Ua tsaug duas bro. Hlub koj thiab koj fam Yexus. Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov.

  6. RachelTeb

    Wow. Kuv yog thankful rau koj qhib thiab qhia qhov tseeb lub plawv rau no kawm, raws li kuv pom meej tiag nws twb tsis nov lawd kom txaus! Kuv tus txiv thiab kuv tseem zoo li qub “haiv neeg” tiam sis kuv pom tau no controversy tib yam li tej yam uas zoo li someones rau lawv kev ua dag (txoj hauj lwm uas lawv ua tau zoo li cas), Yog hais tias lawv muaj cov me nyuam, lawv yav tag los nws kuj zoo li cas, tsis hais leej twg wether lawv nyob rau hauv Christ los tsis. Kuv paub ib tug Disease fact kuv yuav puas tau sib yuav kuv tus txiv txawm nws haiv neeg, raws li txoj cai, los yog tom qab. Vaj tswv tus hlub thiab siab dav npog tag txhua yam thiab ua rau nws cov tshiab thiab zoo nkauj. Thiab ib yam li koj hais, NWS yeej paub qhov peb xav tau ntau tshaj li qhov peb ua peb tus kheej. Ua tsaug rau koj no ncej!!

  7. Siv lead uaTeb

    Zoo nkauj kiag li. Kuv nyiam heev tias koj hais li cas koj xav hloov thaum hloov koj tej. Vaj tswv yog txaus, Nws muaj cov heev tshaj txhua yam peb tab sis peb yuav tsum tau tawm ntawm wb txoj kev peb yuav pom, tau txais thiab txaus siab rau lawv. Kuv yog ib tug poj niam dub yuav tsis tas mus txog cov haiv neeg tsawg dua. Kuv thov saib cov neeg raws li vaj tswv pom lawv thiab taug kev nyob hauv nws yuav yog. Tus ntawd yog nws. Nws yog peb txiag, peb yuav tsum racist yog leej twg?

  8. MaralTeb

    Poj blog uas tib neeg yuav tsum tau nyeem. Kuv yog Lebanese Armenian thiab kuv tus txiv dub thiab peb mus thiab yeej yuav los ntawm txoj kev tu siab heev los ntawm kuv tsev neeg.
    Kuv yeej tsis muaj ib tug nyiam txog haivneeg. Ua ntej kuv tau rua kuv tau 3 kev loj muaj ntau haivneeg thiab tom qab kuv tau rua thiab hlob nyob hauv kuv cov kev sib raug zoo nrog cov Christ yog tas txog kuv yog leej twg “hu ua” nrog; neeg muaj vaj tswv “ordained” rau kuv.
    Loj hlob tuaj nws tsis npaum ib kev nyiam tab sis tus yuav tsum tau los ntawm kuv tsev neeg yuav tsis pub dhau kuv haivneeg, tiam sis kuv yeej tsis tu; Kuv twb yeej pom tias cov dub yaj lawm…
    Rau kuv mattered tag li yog tus tswv yuav dabtsi rau kuv lub neej thiab thaum kuv tus txiv txawm ices rau kuv kuv tau muaj zoo li no muaj kev sib haum xeeb thiab tej tus paub txog tias kuv sawv kuv hauv pem teb. Peb tseem thov Vaj tswv rau kuv tsev neeg lub siab lub ntsws kom tau softened, tiam sis thaum kawg tag nrho tias raws li koj pom ntawd yog kuv tus vaj tswv yuav thiab nws kev thiab yog qhov twg tsis muaj lwm kuv xav tau... Kuv nyob zoo thiab ruaj ntseg hauv nws yuav.

  9. MichaelTeb

    Qhov no yog ib qho zoo kawg thiab mus txawv tebchaws. Kuv twb yeej tsis muaj kev pom zoo xav kom kuv cov haivneeg, Hmoob, tab sis raws li kuv twb zus ntxiv nyob rau hauv kuv txoj kev ntseeg nws kuj yog khees dua rau kuv uas tawv nqaij laus lawm os li dhi. Qhov no yog refreshing nyeem thiab kuv ua vaj tswv tsaug uas nws muab rau koj zoo li no zoo kawg thiab poj niam kom pab koj ntxiv glorify nws. Tsaug rau qhov inspiration nyob rau hauv tag nrho koj lus!

  10. JarredTeb

    Kuv niam thiab kuv yog neeg dawb. Tus tswv raug thawb peb ua rau peb tus me nyuam thawj los tu. Nyob hauv txoj kev koj muaj cai xaiv seb koj xav kom. Nws tseem yuav luag zoo li de tawm ib tug menyuam dev. Lawm ib yam ntawm cov kev xaiv uas koj yuav tau ua yog haiv neeg. Peb tsis muaj teeb meem nrog lwm haiv neeg muaj, Txawm li cas los, qhov kuv tuaj lawv NTXUB cov neeg dub. Ces peb yuav txais yuav ib tug menyuam dub vim lawv thiab li tsis xaiv tias lawv yuav kho tau thaum peb coj nkawv rov qab mus ntsib kuv koob. Kuv muaj ntau wrestled nrog ntawd xaiv. Peb puas tau ua qhov zoo tshaj plaws? Peb tau tiv thaiv me nyuam peb ntawm tus ntxub, los yog peb ua si Vaj tswv hauv wb lub neej? Peb yeej ntawd xaiv xis tam sim no, vim nws yog lawm, tab sis dab tsi koj xav tias?

    • DeeDeeTeb

      Jarred-

      Kuv nyeem koj cov ncej… Kuv yog dub, thiab tau txais yuav los ntawm kuv cov niam txiv uas yog tus dawb. Txawm tus kws txiav txim uas yuav ua licas lub rooj yog dub. Niam thiab Dad nkawm tshee vim peb nyob rau thaj tsam uas kuv thiab ib tug ntawm kuv lwm saws kwvtij yuav tsis tau thaum guarded los ntawm tus neeg prejudices. Hais tias yog, lawv ntseeg Vaj tswv, thiab tsis tsimnyog lub sijhawm ntawm kev txhawj xeeb.

      Kuv xav thiab ntseeg tau tias koj thiab koj tus poj niam puas tau dab tsi yog qhov zoo rau koj tsev neeg. Yog ib lub cim thiab vaj tswv num qhia ib qho kev ntsuas tebchaws Nplog rau next lub neej me me thiab loj moments. Kom! Leej twg paub, tej zaum koj yuav txais tau cov uas muaj coob dua thiab xaiv ib tug dub (los yog lwm haivneeg) tus me nyuam! Vaj tswv paub koj lub siab ces, thiab nws paub lawm txawm nyob rau cov caij no.

    • CeceTeb

      Jared,
      Kuv tuaj ntawm ib lub tsev uas kuv niam thiab txiv dawb muaj tau 6 cov me nyuam dub. Kuv xav tias yeej ncaj ncees heev rau nej sawv daws hais tiag txog tias adopting sab nraum koj haiv neeg tias koj yuav tsum tau txhob txwm hais txog qhov uas koj tus me nyuam yuav muaj cov miv nyuas, thiab cov tshawb lawv cov blackness. Yog Vaj tswv tau tiag hu koj mus caum raising ib tug menyuam dub, ces nws yuav tsis yog yooj yim uas muaj feem xyuam rau txoj koj tawm ntawm qhov kev txiav txim siab koj tsev neeg. Txawm li cas los, cov lus nug yuav tsum nug, yog qhov kev txiav txim rau qhov xyaum ntau txog kuv, los yog tus me nyuam uas yuav tsum tau ib lub tsev? Kuv kuj ntxeem tau tag nrho cov kev backlash los ntawm tej phooj ywg thiab tsev neeg uas muaj adopting ib tug me nyuam sab nraum kuv haiv neeg? Kuv tabtom expecting tus me nyuam yuav tsum tsa hais hauv ib txoj kev uas forces kom lawv zam uas lawv yuav mus yuav ib tug nyob hauv kuv tsev neeg? Kuv yuav tawm hauv qhov chaw rau kuv tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau kom mus txog lawv tus kheej uas nyob ntawm worlds? Koom txoos teev nyob rau hauv txoj kev uas favors dua lub paj kuv yog muab dawb neeg coob dua qhov xav tau tseeb ntawm tus me nyuam? Koom li cas yog txoj kev los tu no?
      Adopting ib tug me nyuam txhais tau hais tias tseem mindset ua haujlwm, thiab lub cev relocating yog cov ib puag ncig koj tsis ces thaum koj tus me nyuam xav tau kev pab. Kev sib raug zoo yuav tsum muab ua tau nrog cov neeg uas tau los yog foundations uas koj yuav tsis qoos resonate nrog (nyob dub). Peb nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb racist, thiab cov uas tau ua kom paub los ntawm koj thiab tus me nyuam uas koj tu. Yog hais tias koj tsis paub thaum uas xaiv, ces koj muaj ntau txoj kev uas ua tau ib lub disservice rau koj tus kheej thiab cov me nyuam uas koj yuav. Tu ua tsi muaj hais txog koj tsis mus rescue dub tus menyuam tsis. Nws yog hais txog koj nyob kubsiab tawm ntawm qhov chaw tus hlub thiab hais tiag ua nyob tawm lub plawv txoj ntoo zoo reconcile thiab hlub koj tus neeg nyob ze. Qhov no tsis hais txog koj, ua ib tug neeg dawb.
      Nyob rau ntau txoj kev uas ib txhia lus nug cov no koj yuav tau confronting. Yog koj tsis npaj ntxeem no thiab heev tshaj ntawd, ces tsis adopting ib tug menyuam dub heev tej zaum muaj kev txiav txim siab zoo. Kuv tso tawm ib tsab xov xwm hauv qab no uas tso cai rau koj lo lus nug no yam uas nyob rau hauv ib txoj kev uas ntxaum inviting haiv neeg rau hauv cov kev sib tham thiab tsis muaj ib nyuag ntsia ntawm adoptees thiab lawv tej kev kawm.
      Tsis yog txhua zaj dabneeg no yog zaj dabneeg zoo thiab feem ntau zaus cov neeg tsis tus dab neeg txaus siab. Kuv muaj hmoo rau kuv yaam puab paub thiab kuv tsev neeg. Muaj ntau txoj kev, Kuv tau raug tso cai nrog ntau possibilities tshawb uas kuv muaj ntau yam txuj, Txawm li cas los, Kuv paub tias nws muaj ib tug nqi tawm thiab peb yuav tsum tawm mus rau cov uas yuav tham txog qhov chaw.

      http://colorlines.com/archives/2013/08/gazillion_voices_explores_race_and_identity_in_adoption.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+racewireblog+%28Colorlines.com%29&utm_content=FaceBook

  11. KaraTeb

    HAHA! “Kuv nyiam lub ntsiab yog tias kuv tus poj niam yuav godly, thiab Jessica. Li ntawd, kuv wifed nws.” Zoo kab hauv cov blog. Vaj tswv zoo siab ua koj ib tus poj niam zoo kawg thiab. :)

  12. John EvangelTeb

    Nyob txawv tebchaws!
    Ntev lub sij hawm nyeem ntawv & mloog. Thawj zaug commenter. Kuv yeej nyiam no Tshooj.
    Kuv tsev neeg yog Nigerian, thiab kuv dad xa kuv random phau ntawv nyeem ib Tuesday thaum sawv ntxov thaum 4 am hais “Yog koj xav sib yuav, kom nws cov neeg sab cov tom qab ib yam li koj. Nyob, lub teb chaws ib yam.”
    tau mas, Kuv tsis paub yuav hais li cas, vim peb twb tsis txhob tham txog qhov no ua ntej. #Ua tau txawv txawv.
    Kuv paub tias kuv yuav hlub kuv poj niam, Thaum twg kuv khoom, tsis hais leej twg complexion, haiv neeg keeb kwm yav dhau, tej lus, thiab muaj lwm yam tau txawv. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau kuv yog tias nws yog ib feem ntawm kuv tsev neeg – Vaj tswv lub tsev. Yog txaus.
    Tsaug dua!

  13. ViniTeb

    Tsaug rau sib koom koj lub plawv mus txawv tebchaws. Peb yog cov sib npaug thaum peb strip rau ntawm daim tawv nqaij. Vaj tswv tau tsim txhua ib Attendance thiab uniquely ua ntej nws tsim tshwj xeeb. Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov koj thiab koj tsev neeg.

  14. JoshHaanTeb

    Tsis muaj dab tsi tsis zoo ib yam li koj hais txawv tebchaws txog ib tug neeg ntawm ib haiv neeg txawv marrying. Matters dab tsi yog tias leej twg ever koj los yog kuv yuav kom lawv hlub Yexus (Kos 12:30 ESV) thiab hais tias lawv yuav hlub yus qab thiab hais tias peb hlub nws zoo li vaj tswv hlub cov tsev teev ntuj. Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov koj mus txawv tebchaws thiab koj tsev neeg

  15. MichaelJTeb

    Txaus lawm li tus tswv yog lossi hloov lub “qhov muag peb lub plawv” yuav dlhos tau nrog cov “qhov muag ntawm peb lub taub hau”. Kuv yuav qhia txog los ntawm txoj kev sib tw, Txawm tias kuv yuav tsis tau sib yuav tsis tau, vim tseem ceeb dua twg outwardly attribute godly ib tug poj niam uas muaj xav thov nws tus cawm seej. Pab koj zoo siab rau koj txhua lub xyoo thiab tej zaum yuav vaj tswv yuav foom koob hmoov rau so.

  16. Arthur simuchileTeb

    Peb yeej muaj tib leej txiv tab sis ntau leej niam cov ntshav tib Xus sau rau peb,daim tawv nqaij yog nqaij xwb,tab sis, yog dab tsi hauv peb matters tshaj ,wonderfull Mr dawm Lee.may Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov koj thiab koj tsev neeg rau koj wonderfull inspiration.

  17. deidreBakerTeb

    Wow! Kuv tsis paub koj muaj sib yuav thiab tias nws yog ib tug poj niam dawb, raws li ib tug poj niam dub thiab ib tug poj niam Vaj tswv, congrats rau pab tseeb hlub! Kuv nyiam li koj piav vim li cas koj yuav koj tus poj niam, yeej tsis muaj ib yam nkaus thiab, tiam sis koj zaj dabneeg no amazing! li ntawd rau koj tij laug thiab ntxim hlub koj niam Jessica, Kuv xav tias nej muaj ntau ntau xyoo! Yuav foom koob hmoov rau!

  18. ElizabethTeb

    Nyob zoo mus txawv tebchaws,

    Koj ua tau ib txoj zoo heev! Kuv tau kawm ntawm koj tsab xov xwm tias nws tsis txawv hais txog lub suab nrov ntawm daim tawv tiam sis matters seb yog li cas tus neeg tab tom mus kev rau Vajtswv thiab nws lub plawv!! Ua tsaug rau kev sib koom zoo nkauj zaj dabneeg.

  19. Jimmy SorrellsTeb

    Uas ua rau kev txiav txim zoo zoo meej. Yog dab tsis ntxim racism. Vim muaj tej no tsuas muaj ib haiv neeg, yuav racist no yuav tsis tiv thaiv cov haiv neeg. Muaj ntau pawg neeg ntau tiam sis tsuas muaj ib haiv neeg twg, tiam sis qhov no yog nkawd yuav tsum cav losing cov neeg kuv muaj sab laj nrog txawm tias nws yog qhov tseeb.

  20. JeffreyCravensTeb

    “Kuv yeej tsis xav mus value kuv xav tau ib tug poj niam nyob dab tsi kuv yuav tsum tau nyob hauv ib tus poj niam.”

    Zoo li no yeej muaj tseeb thiab no: nqe lus. Kuv txiv yog xim dub, leej niam yog dawb, lawv tau sib yuav 35 xyoo. Thiab ib co ntxhib xyoos dhau lawm, tiam sis nyob nruab nrab ntawm cov tsis sib haum, “laus tawv nqaij” feem ntau mas nws yeej tsis txawv. Tus tswv tau ntxim nyiam thiab tug.

    Txawv tebchaws, tsev xa no yog refreshing bro. Kuv yog ib lub limtiam twg txhob mus qhuas kuv thawj lub xyoos ntawm lub neej godly ib tus poj niam uas nyaav heev kuv txhua hnub uas nws compassion. Cas nws tseem mus yuav ntawm latin, Fabkis txoj thiab Hawaii ncaj ncees. Thiaj li nyeem qhov no muaj lawm ntau menyuam.

    Tsaug dua, Jeff.

  21. E-mailTeb

    Ua tsaug rau kev sib qhia thiab tu lub teeb rau hauv no. Seb dawb, dub nciab, thiab lwm yam uas koj twb kov ntawm li cas yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev. Tus dab racism muaj hindered peb tau ntev nyob rau ntau thaj chaw. Kuv ntseeg tias peb yuav coj thiab ua los ntawm nonetheless. thov Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau koj & koj tsev neeg cog.

  22. BachizzleTeb

    Kuv muaj ib tug xav, Kuv yog ib tug neeg american ( Indian) Kuv pom nws thiab li cas koj muaj dawm. Kuv kawm nyob rau yav qab teb sem. thiab cov neeg hais rau kuv thaum twg koj yuav mus sib yuav? Kuv teb rau “Thaum yog caij thiab kuv txoj kev”. Kuv yuav ua kom kuv lub qhov muag qhib thiab kuv hais “Kuv xav tau ib tug poj niam godly uas yuav kom hlub nrog Yexus hais tias nws mam tsim nws lo lus”. Thiab cov haiv neeg no los tab sis kuv hais tias yog nrhiav tsis tau ib tug poj niam uas honors Yexus yog lo lus uas yog native american zoo ib yam li kuv vim yog txoj kev sib nrauj thiab influences pentacostalism thiab matriarchial lawv nyob rau hauv haiv neeg american culture. Tsaug rau koj cov lus

  23. CoriHTeb

    Kuv enjoyed nyeem no ncej dawm. Kuv yog ib tug loj kiv cua cheem, tab sis kuv nyiam qhov Disease fact yog qhib txog qhov no ntawm haiv neeg. Honestly, haiv neeg tsis txawv thaum nws los txog rau qhov uas peb yuav. Tib qhov uas yuav tsum tau tej yam no yog hais tias lawv yog ib tug neeg uas ntseeg Yexus, thiab yog hais tias lawv cov kws dlhos nrog cov nyiaj Vaj tswv rau koj lub neej. Lwm cov yam, haiv neeg los sis tawv xim dab tsi cia li sib txawv rau peb zoo li cas. Kuv tau tham lwm haiv neeg kuv. Kuv yog dub thiab kuv tus ex yog Korean dawb. Yog tsis muaj qhov teeb meem rau peb, tab sis, kuv nco txog lub sij hawm thaum peb tau txais peb stares los ntawm lwm tus. Nws yog ib qho kev nthuav, tab sis tsis tau cov negativity (uas tsis ntau) yuav tiv thaiv kuv ntawm lwm tus neeg saab nrau kuv haivneeg yos los marrying lawv. Uas yog tsis tau qhov uas kuv, kuv tsev neeg los yog cov phooj ywg. Yog kis, peb muaj peb nyiam, tab sis peb yuav tsum xyuas rau dab Vaj tswv xav rau peb lub neej ua ntej. Pom tias kev sib tham no yog zoo zoo.

  24. Ci ntsa iabTeb

    Kuv ua vaj tswv tsaug uas koj sau tau tsab xov xwm vim li ib tug poj niam Christian tib, Kuv to taub tseem ceeb npaum li cas tseem yuav qhib siab rau vaj tswv hais dab tsi, nrog rau cov uas nws tso cai rau kom tuaj koj lub neej thiab tej zaum tseem yuav tawm ntawm nws. Kuv xav thov ua tsaug rau cov nqe lus uas koj yuav ua “peb tau xa cov ntaub ntawv peb siab nyiam rau dab Vaj tswv xav rau peb nyob hauv ib tus txij nkawm”. Qhov no li ntawm nws tus kheej yuav pab kuv nyob ntawm kuv txoj kev xav thiab perceiving thiaj li muaj siab rau dab Vaj tswv xav ua phem rau kuv thiab kuv lub neej. Kuv tabtom dub thiab muaj txiv neej preferenced dub; Txawm li cas los Vaj tswv ua hauj lwm rau kuv lub plawv nyob hauv thaj tsam ntawd txij thaum kuv pib mus nrhiav nws hauv regards rau tus godly. Xav txog pes tsawg leej ua tau xaiv cov neeg tsis ncaj ncees lawm yuav los sis tej zaum tseem tsis tau tawm on uas Vajtswv tau rau lawv vim lawv ua hauj/xav ib tsab. Tsab xov xwm zoo kawg thiab! Nws tau hais tiag foom koob hmoov rau kuv thiab kuv pom meej tiag ces lwm tus.

  25. KayKayTeb

    Nyob rau sab qab zog thiab biracial, Kuv twb dealt nrog tsis sib haum txog interracial yos heev. Kuv yuav mus nyob ze koj zoo nkauj tus me nyuam muaj vaj tswv li ib txhia xav yuam kev los yog ib lub sij hawm derogatory. Preciate koj hais lus hauv no! Vam tias kuv tus txiv yog accepting li kuv nrog koj thiab koj tus poj niam tau kev sib! 116!

  26. JONTeb

    Kuv xav hais tias muaj ntau lub sij hawm nws qho tsi tas tias peb xav ib yam xim los yog xov keeb kwm yav dhau, Yog koj tseem siv dab tsi los. Yog koj yog ib tug neeg uas ntseeg Yexus thiab tas cov vaj tswv qhib koj ob lub qhov muag koj nrhiav tau koj zoo tshaj plaws. Congrats bro.

  27. Daniel TroutmanTeb

    Kuv xav tias nws yog qhov chaw txias thiab ntse yuav sau no ncej. Nws pab neeg tias hlub tsis paub tsis tseem ceeb pawg xws li haiv neeg los yog haiv neeg. 1 Corinthians 13 tsis hais dab tsi txog cov haiv neeg; Nws hais txog lub siab ntev, humility, thiab txawj ntse. Kom raws sijhawm rau tus ncej loj loj!

  28. YuavTeb

    Muaj cai mus! Qhov no nws yog ib tug txwj. Kuv twb tau nug, pom chim sab, thiab kuv twb hnov hais lus folks/vim li cas kuv tsawm los ua “whipped”. Kuv thov ntuj rau ib tug poj niam God-fearing thiab nws xa kuv nws. Kuv hlub kuv poj niam zoo li yuav dawb (Kuv yog dub). Nws & peb cov me nyuam yog kuv txwj loj tshaj ntawm Vajtswv thiab kuv tsis xav kom muab lwm yam kev. Ua tsaug rau koj qhib cov siab dawb paug. Hlub transcends tag nrho.

    Zoo siab rau 116!

  29. LojTeb

    Yawm dab neeg txawv tebchaws thiab congrats. Kuv xav tias koj yuav tau muab qhia tau meej heev tias koj xaiv ib tus poj niam yuav tsum tsis muaj dab tsi ua rau ib yam khoom uas tau uas los uas ploj lawm rau ib tug poj niam dub. Zaj dabneeg yoojyim ib khoob lug nyob rau thaj tsam ntawd. Tseem, nws yuav tsum ua tseeb tias kab tias koj xaiv lub tsev teev ntuj thiab lub tsev kawm ntawv muab koj rau hauv ib txoj hauj lwm nyob ze poj niam tsawg dub. Ntau blacks nyob li Confidentiality rau txhua thaj chaw hauv zej zog thiab no muaj tus ntxim rau haiv neeg tib marriages. Kuv tej yuav nyiam saib cov poj niam uas nrog txiv neej zoo dub dub, tab sis kuv yuav tsis cam thawj nrog dab Vaj tswv tau koom ua ke. Xav tau zoo tshaj rau koj thiab koj tsev neeg b

  30. SeanTeb

    Kuv tus poj niam & Kuv cov… wb muaj 3 dawb rau cov me nyuam thiab 1 Neeg Asmeskas tub (Ethiopia). Peb tau txais qee yam ntawm cov lus qub thiab khib stares, tab sis, peb paub tias peb ordained los ntawm vaj tswv yog ib tsev neeg!
    Kuv ua tsaug koj lub siab dawb paug thiab ntsim rau tus vaj tswv yuav rau koj lub neej… nws kuv xav tias yog ib qho ntsiab tswv cheej nyob ntawm koj tsab xov xwm – Nrhiav tus vaj tswv yuav ntau dua li peb tus kheej nyiam!
    No biblical tswvyim yuav “tau theej & Document” kom txhua nam ntawm ib tug neeg ntseeg lub neej… thiab yuav tsum tau!

    Tripp tsaug!

  31. JHollaTeb

    Txawv tebchaws,
    Kuv npuaj teg koj kom lawv nrhiav tau qhia koj “vim li cas” rau marrying lwm haiv neeg. Kuv thawj xav, ua ib tug txiv neej sib yuav kom ib tug poj niam Es Xias, yog vim li cas koj hnov cov xav mus nrhiav pov thawj no rau leej twg. tau mas, kuv thiab kuv poj niam tus’ yog zoo li laus tawv nqaij, Peb haiv thiab upbringing yog so far from sib luag, leej twg yuav hais “koj yuav yuav yeej nws vim li cas?”Raws li koj hais, koj tus poj niam, yog tus poj niam, LUB helpmate, tug (Yog hais tias kuv tus poj niam nyeem ntawv, “ZOO DUA”) ib nrab uas nws tau muab. Vaj tswv theem hauv peb lub neej uas peb yuav tau, thiaj li yuav tauj xub peb ua kom peb zoo. Li ntawd, yog ib tug neeg zoo nkaus li txawv ntawm kuv nyob rau sab nraum. Ib yam li koj, peb yuav tsum tau tag nrho yuav nrhiav cov neeg uas muaj ib tug Vajtswv nrhiav lub plawv uas yog tus zoo nkauj tshaj attribute yuav muaj ib tug.

  32. keshTeb

    Qho zoo kawg thiab. Yuav tsum qhia qhov tseeb kuv ntseeg tias ntau ntau Christians tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tib Christian poj niam (Kuv tus kheej nrog) yuav tau sib yuav los yog ua puas tau sib yuav ntxov yog peb tua tau txais ntawm peb cov tswv yim ntiav. Nyuam qhuav tsis ntev los no kuv twb pib thov Vaj tswv uas kuv xav tau koj zoo tshaj plaws. Peb yuav tsum ntseeg peb Heavenly txiv tias nws paub peb xav tau dab tsi. Kuv tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog kuv xav tau ib tus txiv tias tshai Vaj tswv thiab kuv nyiam heev li cas u hais qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws supersedes haiv neeg twg txawm yuav foom koob hmoov peb muaj lub siab nyiam peb lub plawv. N ncej poj vaj tswv foom koob hmoov

  33. NicoleTeb

    Txoj hauj lwm ntawm koj xwb tsis hnov txog koj tus kheej zoo kawg thiab, tiam sis ua tau li hauv ib txoj kev uas lwm tus yuav to taub. Thaum peb pib hloov peb foundations rau lub neej nyob, peb yuav pom ntau yam peb “cia siab tias” muaj tsis muaj dab tsi ua nrog rau cov nyiaj uas leej txiv. Qhov closer peb yog nws, qhov ntau thiab ntau peb “rua” hloov tau vim hais tias lawv mus kab uas nws yuav pib thiab tsis peb txawj. Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov koj thiab koj tsev neeg. Koj ua dab tsi ua kom kuv cov kwv tij nyob Christ. Dub nciab, dawb los ntshav, xim plays txoj kev tsis muaj nqi thaum nws tawm kom Khetos lub cev tseem. Kuv muaj tau foom koob hmoov rau nrog ib tug txiv neej amazing Vaj tswv, uas cas yuav kuv tus qub haivneeg, tab sis ntau tshaj txhua yam uas nws yog ib tug txiv neej tom qab Vajtswv lub plawv uas kom matters hauv kuv phau ntawv.

  34. AndreaTeb

    Tsaug mus txawv tebchaws! Nws twb yeej tau txais kuv xav txog kuv tus kheej xav thiab li cas lub caij kuv twb cia ib caj npab ntev los ntawm ib co zoo gents cos kuv tsis deem xwb kom zoo saib. Ntsiab lus rau cov teeb meem uas muaj nuj nqis. Tiam sis yeej txhawb los ntawm cov lus txhawb kev sib raug zoo interracial. Kuv xav tias kuv tsev neeg koom cov views. Yog kuv yuav tau ib tug txiv neej dub, nws yuav tsis tau yooj yim.

  35. JasonTeb

    Kuv xav tias nws yog poj tias koj saib yav tas los cov tawv nqaij thiab haivneeg. Kuv tsis tau sawv thaum neeg tuav rau ntawd thiab xav los nyob ntawm nws haiv neeg txawm vim li. Peb yog cov neeg uas sib txawv vog ntawm tej tawv nqaij cov cuam tshuam dab tsi ua kev txhaum. Kuv tus ntxhais Mev thiab kuv dub tab sis kuv yeej tsis saib nws thiab pom ib tug poj niam Spanish, Kuv saib nws thiab cia li pom ib tug poj niam, tsis hais cov tawv nqaij los yog haivneeg.

  36. MrsHendrixTeb

    Asmees. Kuv yuav foom koob hmoov rau ntawm koj qhov lus teb. Thaum peb muaj ib cov kev sib raug zoo nrog cov Christ, Nws yuav yuav peb cov nyiaj thiab nws yuav nyob rau koj tus poj niam koj tus poj niam lol…. (Yog hais tias tej ntawd yuav ua rau kev txiav txim zoo). Nws los nws tseem ceeb yog rau koj hauv kev sib liam. Tej zaum nws catches hom kab mob flack ntau heev rau marrying ib “dub nciab” tug yawg, tiam sis tus tswv paub xyov zoo li cas rau neb ob leeg yuav tsum tau. Nrhiav nws thawj zaug thiab txhua yam uas yuav tsum tau chav unto koj (xws li tus zoo txij nkawm).

    Nyob laug Blessed thiab tseem yuav raug ib tug txwj rau lwm tus kom zoo.

  37. Leilani BaileyTeb

    Vaj tswv Bless npe mus txawv tebchaws.
    Ua tsaug rau qhov muab koj tus kheej kev.
    Gods neej covenant tsis txhaj xim los yog haiv neeg. Nws hlub ib txhis tshaj tag nrho..

  38. StacyTeb

    Li ntawd, zoo siab koj tso tawm no. Ntawm lub neej lis-haiv neeg thiab ib tug txiv neej uas tsis muaj kev cuam tshuam tog twg los ntawm nws tus poj niam :) no no lub npe tiag tiag rau kuv. Vaj tswv tau foom koob hmoov rau kuv dhau ntsuas nrog kuv tus txiv, thiab nws pains kuv xav hais tias muaj cov uas muaj sia yuav tsis kam dab Vaj tswv tau rau lawv vim lawv ignorance/racism.
    Txoj kab: “Li ntawd, kuv wifed nws.” LOL!

  39. NatalieTeb

    Cas ib yawm Tshooj, zoo siab tias muaj cov neeg nws txoj sia txhij koj uas yog qhib txog cov kev sib tham txog tus kawm li hais no es yog tiag tiag nrog nws nyiam, vim muaj ib txwm pom lawm hais tias muaj ib stigma uas txuas interracial kev sib raug zoo.

    Kuv suav thiab kuv tus txiv ib qhov dub dub, thiab cov struggles uas peb yeej ces yuav tsum raws peb lus ua ke tau tawv thiab ib tug ntawm ntsuam xyuas. Peb sib ib yam li koj thiab koj tus poj niam hluas, kuv yog 21 thiab nws 24. wb muaj 2 ntxhais together, thiab thaum twg txhij pw ib leeg nrog lawv, Kuv yuav tau tso tseg tsis nyob rau hauv txoj kev thiab thaum yuav zoo ib yam li “yog tus txiv dua dub?”

    Tag nrho cov nriaj tau nrog kuv tsev neeg feem coob, vim lawv yeej tsis xav hais tias kuv puas yuav tau ib tug txiv neej dub. Peb muaj ib tug me kab tshoob thiab ntau tshaj li ib nrab ntawm kuv tsev neeg tsis kam tuaj. Tab sis, yog Vaj tswv amazing vim los ntawm tag nrho cov uas, Kuv tsis tau hais lus txoj kev ntseeg twb tau sim thiab kuaj, mindsets nyob rau hauv kuv tsev neeg yuav tsum tau hloov. Kuv tus txiv yog txais tam sim no, thiab kuv tsis hais lus yuav lees tias nws ua nws tus tub nyob hauv txoj cai tam sim no (Nws yog ib tug deal loj loj rau peb!) Tseem tej txoj kev mus, tab sis, thiaj lawm progressed uas kuv muab tag nrho cov hwjchim ci ntsa iab rau vaj tswv. Kom nws tuaj mus txawv tebchaws, koj nyob nraum qhov inspiration rau lwm tus thiab kuv thov kom vaj tswv yeej tseem yuav foom koob hmoov koj, koj tsev neeg thiab koj ministry.

    PS: Koj yuav tsum tau tuaj ua nyob rau London, Qee lub sij hawm UK!!

  40. LoganSharpTeb

    Zoo heev hais tias. Kuv tus poj niam no yog Hmoob, Kuv yog dawb. Haiv neeg yeej tsis tuaj rau tus xav kom kuv rau heev npaum li cas koj hais thaum koj ntsib koj tus poj niam; Kuv pom kuv tus poj niam mob siab rau rau vaj tswv, nws xav minister rau me nyuam kawm ntawv thiab peb enjoyed ntau tus tib yam tsos thiab cov suab paj nruag thiab thov Vaj tswv sib thaum yos. Kuv tsis tau vim tib neeg xav hais tias yog interracial marriages “weird”.

    Tsaug uas koom nrog koj kiv cua thiab muab kev txhawb.

  41. LeonMartinezTeb

    Zoo nkauj los hais lus! Honestly no sab plhu laug rau kuv thiab tab sis yog kuv twb yeej tsis tau haiv neeg nyiam los yog dab tsi li ntawd, Nws tseem reassured rau kuv tias Vajtswv yuav muab li cas peb yuav, xav tsis tas. Koj nyob nraum lub cobcuab thiab los hais lus nyob ntawm lub neej hloov zog Vaj tswv. Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov koj thiab koj zoo me ntsis fam!

  42. ReewantaeTeb

    Tsab xov xwm zoo, Txawv tebchaws! Thawj zaug commenter no!

    Koj muaj taw tes kom txog thaum koj hais, “Kuv yeej tsis xav mus value kuv xav tau ib tug poj niam nyob dab tsi kuv yuav tsum tau nyob hauv ib tus poj niam.” Tej zaum, Kuv zoo li ib tug poj niam overlooked vim kuv cwm pwm thiab lub siab luv li cas yog ib txoj kev. Kuv yog koj yuav hu li cas “weird” los sis “txawv” raws li muaj coob tus neeg kuv paub. Ib txhia hais mav nyiam tus hluas nkauj uas yuav ntxiv me ntsis rau hauv mainstream zam los sis ib tug neeg muaj ntau me ntsis kev thiab outspoken tshaj qhov kuv yuav. Rau tej thaum, Kuv xav tias tej zaum kuv tabtom ua kuv tus kheej tsis muaj los ntawm kuv lub me tswv yim discriminating. Cov kev tsis zoo raws li haiv neeg, ntau dua, tab sis lwm tus keeb kwm yav dhau los cov hom kev tsheb thauj mus los… vim kuv caij lub tsheb thauj mus rau lub tsev kawm ntawv, thiab kuv tsis txaus siab rau nws thaum ib tug txiv leej tub nws los nrog kuv flirt rau ntawm pej xeem cov tsheb thauj mus los. (Tsab cai idea yog tias ib tug txiv neej caij lub tsheb thauj mus los yog tsheb ciav hlau, koj tsis muaj nyiaj yuav tau ib lub tsheb thiab tsav ib, koj muaj me ntsis nyiaj los yog siv nws rau yam uas tsis ncaj ncees lawm, yog li no lawm thiaj tsis ua hauj lwm rau kev hais lus qab zib rau kuv. LOL… tiam sis qhov nov kuj tsis ncaj ncees lawm.) Kuv yuav thov Vaj tswv hais tias tus tswv tau pab kuv nyob hauv nws yuav ua rau kuv lub neej, kom thaum lub caij los txog rau ntawd tej neeg kom paub cov “zoo tshaj plaws,” Kuv yuav npaj. :)

    Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov, Bro.

  43. JuniTeb

    Kuv lig pomzoo haiv neeg ntawd yuav tsum yog ib cov tes qhib nyiam, tab sis, kuv tsis pom zoo tias nws, los yog lwm yam ' nyiam’ yog meaningless thaum hais txog tej teeb meem. Tu, ntawm kuv kev, dab tsi ua rau kuv muaj yog ib tes qhib nyiam, thiab surrendered uas tus txiv neej Godly ua ntej kuv,los ua ib qhov loj ntawm nro hauv kuv lub neej, ntau xyoo tom qab, thaum kuv txiv gained ceeb thawj, rau saum dab tsi kuv twb pom tias yog ib tus neeg rog thiab. Kuv ib txwm lawm attracted mus ncaws ntau hom, ces thaum kuv tau ntsib ntau heev tshaj dua luj tsab, Kuv lees, Kuv muaj kev plees kev muab tua. Ntawd coj los sib ceg, cov teeb meem los ua kuv xum yuav ib lub roob. Tsis txhob yog ib tug yooj yim lub cev nyiam kuv tseg uas cov duab loj ntawm tus txiv neej zoo Vaj tswv los lawm., cov teeb meem uas peb muaj txog qhov kuv tsis tau txaus siab heev hais txog kev pw ua ke, sparked txoj kev xav ntawd kuv ' tiaj’ tej yam uas yog tangibly tseem ceeb thiab tsim nyog, thiab tam sim no muaj muag nrog rov muaj dutiful thiab hlub kev ua niam txiv koom tes nrog rau ib tug neeg kuv yuav tsis teb lub cev. Tsuas tebchaws Nplog tau coj peb deb li no, tab sis npog, honestly, nws lub cev tseem yog ib qho loj tig tuaj, and I still wish I had hung on to my preference and waited for someone who fit my physical type, as well as my need for a Godly husband

  44. SheilaTurnerTeb

    As a multi-raced individual, I have raised my children to look at the character of an individual when choosing a boyfriend/girlfriend and less about color of skin. Because of that they have dated people from all races and have been exposed to many cultures. My comment has always been as long as they treat them with respect and love them, who am I to tell you that you can’t be with that someone based on skin color.

    I have to say that my favorite part of this blog is this statement right here, “Kuv yeej tsis xav mus value kuv xav tau ib tug poj niam nyob dab tsi kuv yuav tsum tau nyob hauv ib tus poj niam.”

    That right there sums it up!!!!

  45. EricTeb

    Good news! She isn’t evenwhite”! And you aren’t even “dub nciab” Txawv tebchaws. Those terms are bunk. Praise God we are all of the one Adamic race. Even though we are different ethnicities, we are reconciled in Christ! Asmees bro. Good article. One Blood. One Son.

  46. JessicaTeb

    Txaus! Thanks for writing this. You are such an encouragement, and I praise God there are godly couples like you and your wife out there. Tseem, I’m sure that together, you are able to reach a lot more people than you would be able to apart. Keep reppin Jesus.

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  48. LeesaTeb

    This was so awesome to read! Txhawb heev. I myself have dealt with the disppointing and rasist comments. My husband is white and I am black. We both come from to totally diffrent worlds. I never thought I would marry outside my race. Kuv txawm vainly thov Vaj tswv hais tias Vaj tswv yuav pom kuv ib tug txiv neej dub nrog dreads lol. Tab sis kuv ua vaj tswv tsaug nws paub qhov yog qhov zoo tshaj rau kuv thiab foom koob hmoov rau uas tsis yog tus dawb txiv neej tab sis kuv cov vaj nyob ntiaj teb! Vim peb twb tau yuav kuv muaj yeej to taub txhais li cas hlub nyob rau hauv lub cev cov earthly. Tsis xav qhia txhua yam peb biz tab sis peb muaj tau chav uas muaj teeb meem fertility thiab kuv ua vaj tswv tsaug rau kuv tus txiv vim tias nws puas tseem xav kom kuv. Peb hlub koj suab paj nruag thiab koj ministry. Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov koj thiab koj tsev neeg!

  49. kaileybrownTeb

    Kuv yog dawb, thiab kuv tus txiv ib qhov dub dub. Thaum kuv ua kom paub nws cov neeg tos kom txog thaum nws yoojyim hais “nws tsis yog kuv tuaj!!” nws siv los ua kom kuv npau taws. Zoo li, koj mus txiav txim kuv lub neej yog leej twg. Ziag no kuv cia li shrug thiab hais “nws tsis yog kuv xav pom seb neb ib tug twg, tab sis kuv paub 100% tias nws yog Vaj tswv ib tug xa tuaj rau kuv” its nice to know your aproach. Thiab nyuam qhuav paub koj tseeb kiv cua paub vim li cas nws ua koj poj niam.

  50. TAYLORTeb

    ****TXAWV TEBCHAWS HLI ***

    Tias “Martin” Saib tau kuv dov rau hauv pem teb Laughing…tab sis kuv mas nws yeej zoo no Blog tag nrho!! Tus txiv neej uas tig rau sab nraum thiab vaj tswv ntsia lub plawv. Kuv tus poj niam heev quotes tias ib womans lub plawv yuav tsum yuav li nws nkaum hauv vaj tswv. Tias ib tug txiv neej twb mus nrhiav nws yeej nrhiav nws…

  51. jakeTeb

    Txhua yam uas tau muaj lawm baptised mus rau cov Christ muaj rau Christ, yog muaj tej nuj nqis Jew los yog lus, Scinthian los yog Barbarian. Qhov no yog qhov tseeb nyob hauv ntuj writ ices, Txawm li cas los, muaj ntau tus believer tseem muaj “unrenewed” minds that's. Vim li cas haivneeg tseem yog ib qhov teeb meem. Kuv yuav nyob yug pangs zus txog thaum cov Christ yuav ua rau peb sawv daws.

  52. LeesaTeb

    Kuv yuav tsis tau sib yuav tsis tau tab sis yog kuv loj heev thiab lawv tseem sib yuav rau tus ntawm nyias Asxis ntawm tag nrho cov neeg nyob ib ncig ntawm lub ntiaj teb. Yog hais tias tsev neeg yuav qhia kom paub uas muaj coob phua ntiag txawv xim txias li. Kuv xav interracial marriages zoo zoo nkauj li vim nws nco ntsoov qhia peb kom peb muaj tag nrho nws cov me nyuam ATTENDANCE thiab beautifully tsim. Tus tswv ntsia lub plawv thiab thiaj yuav tsum tau peb ua tib neeg nyob rau hauv ib txhia thiab kev sib raug zoo romantic.

  53. IAMDJLADYJTeb

    Qhov no inspired thiab foom koob hmoov rau kuv txoj kev ces. Kuv nyiam saib interracial kajsiab/marriages! Nco ntsoov tias kuv muaj siab ua poj niam yuav nyob nraum zoov kuv haiv neeg dub. Kuv tos ntsoov yuav ua lub hnub kuv ntsib kuv tus txij nkawm puas paub txog nws tes nqa thiab tsim tau rau kuv! Peb tau mus rau qhov chaw ntawd saum toj noj txhua txhia tus uas peb tig los Vaj tswv thiab yuav tsum ua txhua yam rau nws rau peb. Yog lawv ywm nug los qhia Vaj tswv qhov uas koj xav tau los sis nyiam. Khawb qhov no nws twb paub. Tau zoo dua nws yeej paub zoo tshaj rau peb. Li ntawd, peb yuav tsum tau mindful dab tsi, peb thov los yog thov Vaj tswv rau. Koj xav li cas no tsis yog ib yam koj xav tau! Ntseeg Vaj tswv tsim koj hmloog paub thiab cia nws ua nws ua li cas!

  54. AmandaBTeb

    Kuv yeej zoo siab koj yuav Jessica. Nws yog tus neeg uas muaj ib lub plawv amazing amazing. Koj ob tug muaj kev amazing cawv rau cov neeg uas ib tug txij nkawm uas tseem hlub nrog sib thiab tswv Yexus. Cia li ua tsaug heev npaum li cas rau hauv lub plawv thiab cov xim tsis saib ntawm lub ntsej muag.

  55. PaulaTeb

    Txawv tebchaws, txhua yam kuv hais tau zoo heev, lo lus tsis tau nthuav qhia cov kev kaj siab nyob nrog koj nyob nrog tej transparency txog vim li cas koj yuav koj tus poj niam, Qhov no yeej yuav pab cov saib lwm foundations thiab uas tej zaum pursuing lub neej yav tom ntej. Vaj tswv yeej paub zoo tshaj rau peb. Tej zaum tus tswv yuav foom koob hmoov koj tsev neeg!

  56. dmoneyTeb

    Txawv tebchaws, ua tsaug rau qhov tseeb rau cov misinformed thiab kuv preaching ntaub ntawv. tab sis yog kuv dub txhij txhua pictured kuv nrog ib tug neeg ntawm ib haiv neeg txawv. tab sis kuv Vaj tswv lawm maj mam soj ntsuam txog kev ntseeg Asxis tag nrho mus qhia tias qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog nws lub plawv uas cov Christ. Thats dab tsi tshaj matters. Ntxiv rau koj muaj daim ntawv qhia txog kev hlub thiab kev them nyiaj yug ntawm kuv lub tsev teev ntuj hauv tsev. peb cov uas muaj biracial cov niam txiv thiab me nyuam mixed. ntxiv rau kuv tau muaj coob mixed phooj ywg uas muaj overrunning lub teb chaws lol. zoo siab rau koj ntsug thiab qhia ntiaj teb seb lawv tau hnov txhij :)

  57. SPTeb

    Kuv enjoyed nyeem no ncej, Txawv tebchaws. Hits ze ntawm tsev. Kuv kuj nyob rau hauv ib lub neej interracial. Kuv yog dub (Jamaican, Native American, qhov tseeg mus) thiab yog kuv txiv hungarian, German, etc. — vim li ntawd nws yog dawb. Kuv yeej paub kuv tsis yuav ib tug yawg dub thiab kuv tsis paub dab tsi haiv neeg uas kuv tus txiv tom ntej yuav. Li ntawd, ib yam li koj, Kuv tau mus kawm ntawv qib siab tsis xav kom hnub tab sis hlob li Christ-follower thiab tau txais ib qho kev kawm thiab kuv tau ntsib thiab poob rau hauv kev hlub nrog tus tshwj xeeb cov dawb lau.

    Thaum peb pib yos, ob peb lub hlis nyob rau peb paub peb yuav tau ua ib hnub thiab peb puas tau xwb uas ob peb xyoo tom qab. Kuv yog privileged txaus mus hlob nyob ib cheeb tsam ntawm miv thiab muaj cov neeg hauv tsev neeg uas yog cov tseem nyob rau hauv cov kev sib raug zoo interracial li, nws daim tawv xim yeej tsis phased kuv. Kuv pom nws rau qhov uas nws; ib tug txiv neej godly lub plawv uas tau daim ntawv qhia txog kev hlub, humility thiab siab zoo. Nws ntsia yav tas los kuv daim tawv xim thiab, saib kuv lub plawv thiab pom kuv rau qhov uas kuv ob sab. Muaj tsis muaj tsis ntseeg Vaj tswv coj peb ua ke. Kuv tsis tau muaj tes-khaws ib tug zoo txiv rau kuv tus kheej rau tej hnub uas koj muab. Yog, Tej zaum lawm kuv xav thiab ua li cas kuv xav kuv txiv yuav, tiam sis tseem tseeb, Vaj tswv tiag puas tau muab rau kuv ntau li ntau tshaj qhov kuv tsim nyog thiab tias kuv ib txwm tsis paub kuv txawm xav ntau npaum li ntawd.

    Muaj ntau lub sij hawm thaum nyob ib ob peb interracial rau nkawd ua tau txawv txawv nyob rau tej lub sijhawm tab sis dhau lub sij hawm kuv soj ntsuam-peb yeej los ntshav ib yam xim.

  58. JeffreyTeb

    “Muaj dabtsi uas tsis tas uas muaj kev xav, tab sis peb yuav tsum tuav lawv ib txhais tes qhib.” Yawm tsocai rau txhua cov hlab ntsha hauv lub neej!

  59. MelodyeTeb

    Kuv yog thankful rau cov neeg uas yog kam mloog Vaj tswv saum lub neej nyob rau txhua fab ntawm lawv lub neej thiab tso cai rau lawv minds los tau conformed nws nyiaj thiab nws txoj kev. Kuv xav tias feem ntau peb tsis txawm xam pom tias lub thawv thiab tsis uas peb muab rau peb tus kheej. Kuv tsev neeg yog tub rog ces peb yeej tau colorblind rau tshaj qhov pheej loj tas nrho tuaj. Txawm li cas los nyob hauv lub qab nyiam thiab stereotypes reign supreme, feem ntau… Kuv kuj muaj ib tug zoo txiv leej tub phoojywg hauv kev kawm ntawv qib siab qhia kuv tias kuv yog tus uas zoo nkauj, ntse, amazing nws puas paub tus ntxhais tab sis nws xwb yeej tsis xav tias nws yuav hnub tim ib ___( ntxig rau haiv neeg no)___ ntxhais. UA RAU KUV LUB PLAWV. hah es kuv tsis txawm nws ua li ntawd mas. Kuv zoo siab koj pub koj tus kheej kom qaug rau hlub thiab muaj nyeg obediently qhib koj cov dab neeg mus rau lwm tus.

  60. JasonTeb

    Tooj 12:1-11…Tsis xav kom luj xyuas koj tus kheej kom txiv neej bro, mus nrhiav kev pab los qhia koj tus kheej uas pom zoo unto tus tswv. Ib lub plawv ntshiab & faithfulness ntawm tus tswv Jesus yuav rho tej xwb los yog lus yam txiv neej yuav spek rau koj.

  61. kangstawillzTeb

    Lob kiv hlua dawm koj yog tus txiv neej. Kuv tseem yuav ua tus same.lol.I yuav sib yuav nyob rau hauv tus tswv thiab tej tawv nqaij colour haiv neeg,e.t.c yuav tsis txawv li ntev raws li nws ib tug godly. Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov u txiv neej.

  62. LindseyTeb

    Nws thiaj txhawb nyeem qhov no. Kuv yog dawb thiab kuv tus txiv ib qhov dub dub, thiab peb nyob ze tsev qha ntawv saibxyuas hispanic. wb muaj 2 hluas nkauj zoo nkauj, tab sis thaum koj yuav xav txog tej yam peb tau txais ntau zoo li. Peb lub tsev neeg ua tau zoo nkauj tsis zoo rau lub caij. Tab sis, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj peb twb kawm yog tias txawm yog txawv txawv (tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum twg nws tuaj cuag raising cov me nyuam), qhov tseem ceeb tshaj yog kom peb lub siab lub ntsws thiab desires nrog Yexus.

  63. FortuneLawrenceTeb

    Kuv pomzoo li foom koob hmoov rau ntawm lub tsev xa koj mus txawv tebchaws!
    Kuv muaj tus lus nug ho. Kuv yog ib tug African(dub nciab) poj niam thiab kuv tsuas hais mav dawb dub. Uas yog feem coob vim kuv tsis nyiam no, nrog rau tej tus sawv hauv kuv lub teb chaws tsev. Kuv yuav tsum tau hais, Kuv hlub tus txiv neej dub heev tab sis kuv hais li, Kuv lub teb chaws muaj ib co ntseeg tsis zoo. Koj yuav hais tias kuv tsis ncaj ncees lawm kev txiav tej nyiam?

  64. JuliaTeb

    Tsab xov xwm zoo txawv tebchaws. Kuv nyiam li koj hais txog haiv neeg uas tsis yog ib qhov teeb meem. Kuv tabtom dawb los kawg mus cuag nws cov neeg feem coob. Kuv twb tsa ceg hauv ib lub tsev biracial…Kuv niam yog Italis thiab Hmoob thiab yog kuv dad dawb. Kuv tam sim no yuav yos ib tug zoo dub tug txiv neej uas tsis muaj qhov uas kuv tsis tau cov haiv neeg ib yam li nws. Nws pom kuv zoo nkauj ua. Cov poj niam dub ntawm qhov tod tes pom kuv li muaj. Lawv tsuas pom kuv li dawb…Yog hais tias lawv tsuas paub qhov tseeb. Nws tsis khoom li cas haiv neeg koj yog txhua yam uas raws li yog qhov 5he neeg u yuav yog ib tug believer heev. Tsaug dua li tsab xov xwm.

  65. DaniasTeb

    Kuv siv siv verses tsis tau sib yuav no qhia. “Pob yeeb thiab tswv yim tau cov tib xim tej zaum yuav / Samson tus dad xav nws mus yuav tus neeg ntawm cov neeg uas ua Ixayees / Isaac’s dad went to great lengths to find a wife from among ‘his peoplefor Isaac, thiab lwm yam…”

    My discussions on this topic were unkind, spotty and — quite frankly — baseless.

    And then God changed my heart and put me in a situation where I had no option but to lean on Him. He taught me what it is to trust in Him. And that’s when I started valuing those around me who also trust in Him. I drew closer to God’s people — regardless of culture background — and fell in love with His disciples because of the grace, faith and love they demonstrated.

    And that’s how this American ended up marrying a beautiful, godly Brazilian girl. It’s been 10 months and God has taught us both so much! It’s been a sweet relationship that has proved over and over again: God’s ways are best, when our conceptions are put to the test.

  66. TracyTeb

    I have always wondered how a child feels being mixed. I know for me I would want to be fully one race or the other. It wouldn’t matter which, Chinese, Eskimo, Indian etc. It is a question I have never heard addressed.

  67. ELVISNIXON.comTeb

    Qho zoo kawg thiab

    One caveat:
    Hungarians are Magyars. Magyars are lineal descendants of Attila the Hun (hence the term HUNgarian) who are often referred to as theMongolian hordes” -Attila is still one of the most popular boys names in Hungary- as is Arpad- therefore they are,technically, Asian.

    So you are even more diverse/multicultural than you thought!

  68. BrendaFTeb

    That was awesome! Her race honestly didn’t even click to me until i saw this post. I am black and my husband is half black and white (although he looks hispanic) and i get jokes all the time from people saying that i don’t like black men. Oh and don’t let them see my kids. BOL! It’s always a double take. I have been married 7 years and it’s still funny to this day. God bless your family man!

  69. TamaraCTeb

    Asmees! ua tsaug! Your testimony goes all around the worldPeople need that. thov Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau koj!!
    Message from Germany, Europe!

  70. KeinyaTeb

    I appreciate this post so much. I am in an interracial marriage as well and my husband and I both have stories about how people who may know us and feel like they know us pretty well somehow learn of what our spouse looks like or in my case sees a pic of my kids (because they could pass for his look alone until you know they are part black then you may catch certain little features) and immediately sees they must likely don’t have a black dad and that was their expectation. Tseem, my kids fluently speak another language so that really confuses people since our last name is Lawrence. There’s a story behind that too because he is of mixed race too (just not black). Xijpeem, I love the fact that you touched on this because for some, it’s such a huge deal and even struggle as there are some strong racial influences and pressures in our world (media, our loved ones even, friends, etc.). My feelings are mutual to yours and many others who commented. ua tsaug!

  71. KeinyaTeb

    Raws li, I LOVE the songGood Thingabout your wife. It’s really beautiful and makes me think of my own relationship. Thx for great music too! :)

  72. JasonTeb

    1 Xa-muyees 16:7…The Lord judges by the heart, so why dont we? We should make what the Lord has said our standard, not what our flesh wants/neither the standards of this world. Qhov no, from a man’s perspective, the standard for a wife is Proverbs chapter 31, not skin tone/not the worldly standard of marrying inside your ownrace/ethnicity.

  73. TonyTeb

    I appreciate this because I’m African American and my wife is Hispanic. Her race was never a factor to me, because of her heart for the Lord. We now have a baby girl. When I look at my wife and daughter I don’t see a Hispanic woman, or a mixed baby. I just see the two biggest blessings in my life (apart from the Lord Jesus). Sometimes I even forget that we are an interracial couple and family. It’s not exactly easy all the time because of other people, but I wouldn’t have it any other way. May the Lord continue to bless you and your family!

  74. AndrewTeb

    Txawv tebchaws, thank you so much for this. Kuv yog dawb, and from Cincinnati and where i grew up I was usually the only white kid on the block. My wife had completely different upbringing. she grew up in rural Nebraska as a Mexican. Kuv tsis tau txawm pib los piav cov dab neeg uas nws yuav qhia kuv yog vim nws thiab nws cov kwv tij muaj kom hlob nrog vim tus ntxub ib txhia, stereotypes, thiab tiaj tawm ignorance ntawm cov neeg uas nws loj los nrog.

    Nws nyuam qhuav txav los rau Nati yuav ze ntawm kuv. Nws nyuam qhuav txav los muaj nws yuav tsis tas yuav muab nrog xav, hnov, los yog muaj tej yam uas nws mus zuj zus mus. Wow, Yog peb ob tom! Tej yam uas tib neeg yuav hais rau peb hauv lub khw, ntawm lub tiaj ua si, los yog ua noj. Koj puas xav tias peb nyob ntawm tus yeeb yam, “Koj yuav ua li cas.” Nws yog ib tug nriaj, peb hlub cia peb muaj zog, cov phooj ywg peb muaj peb sab nraum, thiab peb cov vaj tswv cia peb ua ke.

    Peb tam sim no tau sib yuav rau 11 xyoo muaj 4 zoo nkauj los qhia rau nws cov menyuam. Peb tam sim no tseem nyob ntawd tib me me hauv lub zos uas nws hlob mus. Tus ntxub yog tsawg, but the looks are still there. The thing we always say/do whenever we experience theseattackswe lift those who areattackingus up in prayer. The Bible talks about love your enemy as yourself, and though I don’t consider these people to be my enemies, the concept of the scripture is still the same.

    Hlub, we just need to show everyone love. No matter the race or background of a person, God loves them, and we are to be like Christ, so we too should love them.

  75. TakudzwaTeb

    Wonderful article Trip lee. As for i’m still single but since i was little i had interest in marrying a white woman because two of my uncles got married to white women. When i got saved i didn’t see any difference between black or white but as long as we are practicing the same Faith.

  76. Andrew AlmondTeb

    Qho zoo txawv tebchaws. Kuv twb tau chav nrog yos lus nug xws li kuv yuav tsum hnub uas nyuam qhuav heev, thiab thaum twg, thiab vim li cas, thiab yuav tos txog vaj tswv los ntawm txhua qhov khoom nyuam qhuav, thiab cov ncej no kawg insightful. Tsaug rau sib koom.

  77. JennaTeb

    Qho zoo! Txawv tebchaws, koj muaj ib tsev neeg zoo nkauj, thiab kuv ua tsaug koj muab koj lub plawv. Txawm tias kuv tus txiv thiab kuv yog neb ob leeg dawb, peb loj los txawv heev. Nws yog ib tus tub lub teb chaws muaj tseeb thiab nws tus kheej proclaimed redneck. Kuv muaj ib txwm muaj kev nyiam nyob ib ncig ntawm cov neeg dub, Txawm tias ib tug me nyuam me me. Kuv twb yeej tsis txojcai marrying ib tug txiv neej dawb, tab sis kuv xav tau twv yuav raug hu geared mus rau cov txiv neej hauv lub nyuas hip-hop. Tib neeg feem ntau hais kom peb li peb twb ua ke, thiab neeg feem coob tseem ceeb los xyuas seb kuv tus txiv dawb yog. Nws tsis yog kuv muaj envisioned zoo li cas rau kuv tus kheej zuj zus, tab sis, nws yog txhua yam kuv xav tau ib tug txiv thiab txiv rau peb cov me nyuam. Tus tswv lawm tiag foom koob hmoov rau kuv, thiab kuv tsis tau xav txog tej yam pab txhua kuv lub neej muaj lwm txoj kev!

  78. Pav: Daim ntawv | Cov khoom pab kev sib raug zoo

  79. RGTeb

    Lub plawv lawm los yog nyiam tab sis dab Vaj tswv lawm los/willed. Nws yog amazing li cas providence tus vaj tswv yog ices. Native American uas loj los ntawm ib tug reservation yog kuv thiab kuv tus txiv yog Mev. Peb ob loj los nyob hauv ntau lub xeev tsis tau peb ntseeg hauv tib Sovereign Vaj tswv uas willed nyob qhov twg nws xav kom pab nws thiab ua ntaub ntawv rau peb raws li qhov. Peb nyob tam sim no nyob ze rau cov reservation hauv kuv lub tsev lub xeev. Kuv thov Vaj tswv (ua ib tug tshiab Ministries thaum muaj hnub nyoog 8) that God would use me in my home church and I would never have known that God would grow me into a Pastor’s wife of this said church! Tsis tau, I’m blessed to know that this same powerful God who created the world could also use us to show other His great love and grace. To come along side my husband as his helper to share the gospel to my own people.

    This was a great encouragement to me. And it’s great to hear how God can change a heart to do His will! Continue to do His work!

    Thank you for the songs and the truths you incorporate. Our family enjoys your music. Especially my teenage sons.

  80. halfNhalfTeb

    My husband is mexican, and I’m filipino. I know 3 languages and learning a few more. My best friend is black and her husband is arabian. It is amazing to see a mixture of races at churches and even in groups.

    We really do just look at the content of one’s character. It’s neat to learn languages and see all of the beautiful cultures. In Christ there’s no Jew, Greek, Male nor female.

  81. mattTeb

    One of my more embarrassing “nyiam” looking back was for my wife to be a Denver Broncos fan.

    Thankfully, God allowed me to grow in maturity before he brought my stunner to me.

  82. MariaTeb

    Kuv yog dawb, I got pregnant, first year of medical school with a black mans baby. At three months pregnant, God sent me a frienda brown Indian man. We were both just starting our medical school careers. What I was about to do was crazy enough. When he told his parents about me they threatened to withdraw all support, his brothers refused to speak to me. After a year and a half we got married we are still in school, raising our son and still have people confused. God is so good, at one of the most difficult times in my life, he gave me a friend, a godly man, to love me, all of me, Kuv + baby. Heres to a real man. Heres to a very loving and gracious Father.

  83. Aleshia RobinsonTeb

    This is hypocritical but when I see an interracial couple in public I think nothing of it EXCEPT for when I see a Black man with a non-Black girl. I don’t even flinch if its vice versa but I do know that being a Black man in this society is harder than most. I used to work in a hotel alongside Black men and while guests treated me with respect and believed I could do my job with excellence, they flipped the switch with my Black co-workers right in front of me. I could deliver towels to their room but the guests wouldn’t open the door for them. I could check guests in with ease but they were askedI don’t know. Can you handle this?” I could stand outside on break without bother but the police stopped them to askWhat are you guys doing?” People judge and treat Black men differently and I haven’t figured out why. So when I see a Black man with anyone else, my first thought isHe is trying to make life easier on himself.My second thought isHe wants his kids to have her features.But hey, who am I to judge? (Even though I do) I will most likely marry outside my race simply because of my LOVE of adventure so like I said in the beginning, this point is just straight hypocritical. At least you married yours for the right reasons.

  84. Lynn BurgessTeb

    I applaud Trip & Jessica Lee. Integration of the true church of Jesus Christ and “interracial” marriage within the church is the answer to racism in our culture. There is only one race, the human race, “male and female He created them…” (Genesis 5:2ib), and nowhere does scripture say to marry those of your same skin tone or eye shape.

  85. TionaTeb

    Thanks for the article! As a single black woman who loves God and seeks to live my life in a way that pleases him and reflects his love to others, I have prayed hard about this topic. The single men in the churches I have attended have mostly been non-black men. At times I feel like I am at the bottom of the totem pole, competing against the white, Asian and Hispanic women with long, flowing hair and features that I will never have. Even in looking through some of the Christian dating sites, I have noticed that a large percentage of the men with solid profiles indicate they are interested in pretty much all ethnicities except African-American.

    Your article was encouraging to me and spot on. I will trust God to provide in all areas of my life, including my relationships. Tsaug!

    Thanks for your honesty!

  86. GrandmotherTeb

    Many, many years ago when my oldest son was about 2, we were driving through a black section of town and he commented that all the people were black and asked why was everyone black. Kuv sim piav tias ub tib neeg xav tias yog zoo yog hais tias tag nrho cov dawb neeg nyob rau ntawm ib thaj chaw thiab cov dub neeg nyob rau hauv ib cheeb tsam. Kuv ntxiv hais tias tam sim no peb paub tias nws tsis ua kom muaj qhov txawv koj daim tawv xim dabtsi yog. Tawm ntawm lub qhov ncauj ntawm babes……Nws hais, “muaj, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tias peb tau txais ntawm daim tawv nqaij!”

  87. tendekaiTeb

    marring poj niam Vaj tswv fearing no koj puas yuav ua tau kom muaj ib tug neeg zoo siab qhov. txawv tebchaws thiab hais li cas koj xav rau ib cov poj niam tseem ceeb nyob deb tshaj nws yuav tsum tau saib dab tsi zoo li.

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  89. KailaTeb

    Kuv hlub uas koj tau ua tau rau kom qhib thiab ncaj ncees uas no ncej. I feel like the act of interracial marriage and dating is a topic people need be more open to discuss because in every generation I feel as though people have an issue with it. From my point of view I think it’s beautiful to see how love doesn’t discriminate.

    But I also think my openness toward it is because I have always grown up in a community where it wasn’t just one race and my parents never raised me to dislike anyone because of their skin. Tab sis npog, I did experience some slack my junior year when I took my best friend, who was white, to prom because my paternal grandmother isn’t fond of white people. Txawm li cas los, her reaction didn’t change my mind about who I should or shouldn’t date.

    I never had a preference on what race I dated. Tab sis npog, when my family found out I had a boyfriend and he was black, they were surprised. They were surprised because my immediate family has been living in a predominately white area for the past 10 years and they thought that would sway my relationships.

  90. danielTeb

    This was a very encouraging post. My wife is black/El Salvadorean. .. and I am a Korean man…. It is absolutely unheard of in Korean culture to marry outside of Korean race let alone a black/latina woman. As an odd interracial couple we have faced much adversity, but the only thing that mattered was Christ and our bond in Christ through friendship to courtship and now in our marriage.

    I never really post on things like this but this post did speak to me and confirm my resolve in how I council others who are in pursuit of finding a spouse in their ethnicity.

  91. KevinTeb

    I think this is an amazing story. I love how transparent you are because a lot of us try to hide things like wanting preferences, but i love how you said we have to submit them. I pray that God continues to show me things like this because I truly believe that it will help me to keep my heart and eyes on God and His Word and not just the appearance of the women around me.

  92. MJTeb

    STELLAR! Than you for sharing your love story. Youth, college students and young adults are in DESPERATE need of such examples! I know because I’ve been having a blast talking about sex, dating and relationships with them since 2003. Will definitely be sharing with them at https://www.facebook.com/FMUniversity.

    Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov, Txawv tebchaws!

  93. zacharybrunotteTeb

    I’m a white man with a black wife. We are still in our first year, but no regrets! We have our fist child on the way and we love our little family. Like Trip Lee, I pictured myself marrying a woman of my own race (I think its just natural). But I never once questioned it or thought of it to beright” los sis “wrong.She is of God. Thats the only race that I look at!!

  94. JennTeb

    Txawv tebchaws,

    I remember when you and Jessica first started dating! I remain encouraged to see you two continuing on in God’s grace. This was a great blog and I think it may be freeing for many people as they choose to look at the heart of the person rather than the outer.

    Jenn :)

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  96. JoelTeb

    Asmees nus

    Run hard and fast towards the savior and if you see someone, in the corner of your eye running in the same direction, you should take a second look

  97. RachaelTeb

    Absolutely love this! I’m sharing this with my parents. My parents have issues with the fact that I find myself interested in guys of a different race. Even though I have not always been interested in the most godly guys, there has been times when I was interested in a quite godly man, but because he was not white my parents completely dismissed and forbade any sort of relationship with them. I am definitely sharing this with them, hopefully this will open their eyes.

  98. MauriceTeb

    Never saw it that way. I’m not racist, but in my growing up, there was a notion they taught us in our culture that implied that white girls only love you and hate your family. They love to be closed in. So my grandparents always saidif you want us not to come to your wedding or not to pay you visits at your home, marry a white girl. Because she won’t allow us to get close to you.

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  100. LivyTeb

    It’s funny. Kuv yog dawb (part Hispanic, but no one would know by looking at me), and my husband is white, but he’s from the country and I’m from the city. He’s from the south, and I’m from the north. We aren’t THE SAME just because our skin tones are similar. We walk and talk and process things at different paces, and our families are really different, but we love each other, and God brought us together. Culturally, ho, it takes adjusting for both of us. Tias, along with being equally yoked to serve the Lord, is what marriage is all about! Glad you spoke up!

  101. AmandaTeb

    Txawv tebchaws! First and foremost, your music is beautiful and awe inspiring. I love the message you preach in each and every single song. Continue the wonderful talent God has given you! Interracial relationships and marriages are absolutely gorgeous. It shouldn’t matter what race one is, but like you said, a Godly spouse. I am Caucasian, but have been attracted to African American men my whole life. My family is very, very, very accepting of this. :) Txawm li cas los, I pray that God sends me the right one, who has gentlemen and godlike qualities. I yearn for a man who says they love Christ more than they love me, respectful, and sweet. This has opened my eyes though to be open to all races instead of just black. God Bless both you and Jessica!

  102. TerriceTeb

    This was a great articlei really enjoy reading your blog. Thanks for sharing your stories and being so transparent. The Lord is using you in so many wonderful ways! Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov!

  103. SchiaTeb

    Wow, this article is awesome! Glory to God! Txawv tebchaws, you are a really good writer as well. I felt like I was reading a romance novel or something while reading your post. Lots of smiling andawwwwww!” LOL Thanks for being a godly influence on so many fronts.

  104. LeisleyAbrahamsTeb

    Thanks Trip that’s the best way it has been explained to me ever!!My girl friend and I are praying and waiting on the Lord for the next step.I’m black full blonde African and She’s white..I’m always getting questions as to why i like her and not girls my skin but all i see in her is a godly woman on fire for Jesus, Loves Jesus more than she will ever love me and that’s something I need in my life..You truly inspired me #wiseWordsTrip #NoWonderYouMyFavRapper

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  106. AprilCTeb

    I’m really glad that you took the time out to write this. This post is kind of random, never really thought about it (heck, I never even knew this page existed until today). Nonetheless, I’m glad you wrote itI think the part that sparked my interest the most was the whole preference issue. I was married to a man for 5 xyoo (wb muaj 3 children together) who didn’t want to be married anymore because in his wordsI wasn’t his preference (he would often use a chocolate ice cream / vanilla ice cream analogy to attempt to prove his pointhis preference was a woman with a um….”nicebodyI’ll leave it at that). The crazy thing is he actually does Christian rap—(????). Xijpeem, I’m glad to see that you went about the right wayputting God’s desires above your fleshly desires…..Xijpeem, continue to Love your wife like Christ Loves the Church….I’ll keep you all in my prayers…..

    Sincerely,
    April C.
    Greenville NC

  107. ANDRETeb

    Yep. Same reason i married a white girl. Thank you for sharing. Good read. Gracefully put. God bless you and your family brother. Praise The Lord, foreal tho.

  108. TgirlTeb

    Qhov tshij, I think people are more shocked by the fact that the few GOOD BLACK men are wife-ing White women and not us MANY BLACK women. It’s sad that racial comments exist, but it just the way people feel, in especially, women- that are Black. I have double standards my boyfriend is Latino & I’m Black and that’s okay (for Black women to date outside of their race). On other hand, when I see a decent (which are very few) Black man with a White/Other woman, I be like DANG another one of our brothers gonenow that’s just speaking from the heart racism or not. yog nws yog dab tsi.

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  110. JeffTeb

    Hav dawm, thanks for the excellent and thoughtful response to a difficult question. Like you I wasn’t pursuing any wife when I met Michelle. She was available and I was available and we saw the world in the same ways. Our race is NOT the most different thing about us and our faith IS the thing that brings us unity. I only dated and had married a black women who I married more for obligation (tus me nyuam) and cultural expectation than mutual interest. Since I had no relationship with God aside from occasional church visits I believe I was ill prepared for marriage. While our skin color was the same we had very different values and after we separated and divorced God came into my broken heart to heal me. I am so thankful for my wife’s courage to look at my potential and not my past and love me beyond skin color. Our children and our church ministry will reflect the love of God for people from every walk of life. The point is the Kingdom as the world’s great equalizer and Jesus as Lord of all.

  111. JeffTeb

    Hav dawm, thanks for the excellent and thoughtful response to a difficult topic. Like you I wasn’t pursuing any wife when I met Michelle. She was available and I was available and we saw the world in the same ways. Our race is NOT the most different thing about us and our faith IS the thing that brings us unity. In the past I had dated and married a black women out of obligation (tus me nyuam) and cultural expectation (tsev neeg) than mutual affection. Since I had no relationship with God beyond church attendance, I was ill prepared for marriage. While our skin color was the same we had very different values and after we separated and divorced God came into my broken heart to heal me.

    I am so thankful for my wife’s courage to look at my potential and not my past and love me beyond skin color. Our children and our church ministry will reflect the love of God for people from every walk of life and our desperate need for his grace. The Kingdom is the world’s great equalizer and Jesus as Lord of all the nations. We will pray for your family and please pray for us too.

  112. kennedyTeb

    I joined trip I never think I can get someone as some site always for lieying and robbing people I was ignoring some sms containing emails but u can’t escape God’s plan thus was like exciting to me an I read it being back my policy was any where who loves me but not only my ethnic then I got white American lady who didn’t care about race,culture only person love & care about herwho is mewith God all is possible she is my really choice.

  113. kennedyTeb

    Kuv txuas mus txawv tebchaws los kuv yeej tsis xav hais tias kuv yuav tau ib tug neeg ncaj ncees li tej qub rau lier thiab robbing neeg kuv tug uas raug nqi ntau tej sms uas muaj emails mus nug lawv tab sis koj tsis tau kev khiav Vaj tswv lub tswv yim no yog li exciting rau kuv thiab kuv nyeem rau dub kuv txoj cai yog any where uas lov lawv kuv, tiam sis tsis zoo xwb kuv xov ces kuv tau dawb American poj niam tsis tas hais txog haiv neeg,nyuas thiab lwm yam… xwb ib leeg yog ib leeg & care about herwho is mewith God all is possible she is my really choice.

  114. RyanTeb

    XAV TAU TSWV YIM:
    Kuv tabtom yos ib tug hluas nkauj uas prefers dub hais mav… thiab kuv yog dawb. Nws cuabyeej kuv tias nws nyiam kuv heev, tiam sis nws tseem yog ib tug insecurity loj loj rau kuv. Kuv vam tias yuav muaj ib hnub yuav tau tus ntxhais no. Puas muaj tej yam zoo los nyeem ntawm no qhov teeb meem los yog tsi muaj tswv yim?
    – Tsaug

  115. MaleshiaTeb

    Muaj dawm! I am a single black woman and a predominately white university and this type of conversation always comes up amongst my circle of black girlfriends. Although I have preferences for black men (I’m all for black love), I’m always open to dating outside of my ethnicity because you never know who God can use to make a difference in your life. I see people for who they are based on their personality, character, their values, and their beliefs more than anything as I’m getting to know them. Looks do matter and there are certain social contexts that may be misunderstood if the significant other was raised in a different ethnic culture, but these factors are not dealbreakers. If anything, they’ll make a relationship more interesting. Your story is such a beautiful love story that I too hope to experience someday. All in all, you can’t help who you fall in love with, regardless of if their black, white, yellow, Barney purple, or Ninja Turtle green. Love is universal and transcends all ethnicities. We as Christians are supposed to love all even with our differences. Sometimes your soul mate, true match, life partner, and best friend is someone who is completely opposite of who you ever imagined yourself being with. It makes me smile to hear that embrace how you were drawn to Jessica for the humble, compassionate, and God-fearing woman that she was and still is. Your union is a true testament that your shared faith in God transcends all differences. Be blessed.

  116. KosTeb

    Hey, I feel you. I have Australian Aboriginal heritage and I always wanted to marry another Koori (Aboriginal) but because of culture and ancestral religions it made it very hard. I ended up marrying a Anglo Red head. But She LOVES Jesus and that’s what matters.

  117. IsaacTeb

    Blessed to know am not on the wrong track as I get close to the time I will make a choice on life partner!

  118. ceceTeb

    God bless you and your family in Jesus name it does not matter what raise you are it matters on how they treat you and you are the best pastor ever real

  119. EzraTeb

    Genesis 15:12-14
    “And when the sun was going down, a deep sleep fell upon Abram; thiab, lo, an horror of great darkness fell upon him. And he said unto Abram, Know of a surety that thy seed shall be a stranger in a land that is not theirs, and shall serve them; and they shall afflict them four hundred years; And also that nation, whom they shall serve, will I judge: and afterward shall they come out with great substance.”

    According to the Song of Solomon 1:4-6:
    “I am black, but comely, O ye daughters of Jerusalem, as the tents of Kedar, as the curtains of Solomon. Look not upon me, because I am black, because the sun hath looked upon me: my mother’s children were angry with me; they made me the keeper of the vineyards; but mine own vineyard have I not kept.”
    Conversely Numbers 12:10-15 states that Mariam is cursed by God when she disrespects his prophet, thus Mariam was stripped of her hue or color becoming white as snow. The irony of this element is that Christians have murdered whole cultures and Caucasians claim they are the chose people, when the bible is Hebrew book about an Egyptian God who specifies that Israel/Jacob bore 12 sons and produced the tribe of Israel who are black, like all members of the Holy Lineage.

    I know who I am. And I am not opposed to Nubian people dating/marrying white people. I would never do it, but it just speeds up the process, so that peace can inherit the Earth instead of what we are enduring now.

  120. PKTeb

    I’m happy I found this post. I wish more people in interracial relationships expressed them9 in this manner versus having to put down other groups of people. In all honesty, the Lord has been working on my heart when it comes this subject. I used to not care at all about who someone was dating/married to racially speaking. Txawm li cas los, some negative encounters with interracial couples and the current anti-black woman movement left me jaded. But thank God for his grace, because He’s restoring my heart and opening my eyes to see people and marriage the correct wayeven the ones that express negative attitudes towards the ethnic group I belong to.

  121. AliTeb

    What I have to say is very sad .. I m from the eastern part of the world and my I married a white girl.
    its tough the cultrual difference.. We are getting divorce.

    My family doesnt wants to meet me and I never get adjusted in her family.
    She was the perfect women I can ever have, we are divorcing due to interracial issues..

    My parents are sick and they want to visit US and they cant live with my wife. I am the head of the household so I have to takecare of my family backhome.

    Im heartbroken, devastated right now becuase its happening now we are going thru divorce .

    I will always love her

  122. TheHonestTruthTeb

    Well i am a white Good man and i still Can’t meet a Good woman to settle down with since the women of today are so much Different than the past.

  123. EricTeb

    I really could care less what ethnicity your wife is, but it is incredible to hear you address this (or any) issue with such humility and poise. Thank you for seeking God first.

  124. BrookeTeb

    By all accounts are words could be no truer, for a believer or not. I must emphasize you use toward the direct,” I never cared, really, what ethnicity my wife was to become, as I first choice would have seen her as black.Like many, I have stuggled in my Faith as seeking duty in His will, but I do believe with all that is me, that He will send me the desires of my heart ( not just a personal preference) because for me, I believe that is where apart of my patience and/or Faith is developing. As I do agree with YOUR story as it is YOUR testimony, I equally hold account to waiting for what seems the impossible because it lead by a desire, a need, not just a want. To be more specific: I would physically love to be in the company of David Beckham, Chris Hemsworth, and Ben Affleck (when single), but I have no desire to marry them; not when my heart desires the beauty, strength, character, and valor of the wonderfully-created black man! Had we remained in a world free from sin, this probably would not be a much concern, but in a world were such a beautifully-made human has been degraded, humiliated, chastised, disrespected, thiab lwm yam…I foresee no need not to complete my journey with him sent by Him. Thiab ntsig, rau kuv, given today’s disconcerning examples of a black man, I want and need my son to see that what once was, (a good man like his father before he passed) can still and will be again…….

    Sincerely,
    B.

  125. MarwaTeb

    It is a very great joy and blessing to my life, i and my husband have begin childless for 8years now due to my inability for me to give birth and it has resolves to problems everyday in my home,so i visited a female friend in Florida,and she came up with an idea of adopting a child which i never had in mind,and now i got no choice than to apply for a child and to my surprises everything went easily and today i am happy with the Hansom little boy(Wisdom)i adopted from the Inter country child adoption center.

  126. MaryTeb

    This makes me very relief.That was a good decision to make. You never know when the right person comes around.No matter what race I will stick to that as an African American.That I don’t always have to be in my comfort zone that I can go out the box. I really appreciate this statement you gave . May God bless you and your family with many many more blessings in your life.

  127. MarcusTeb

    Great to all of you who have married children of God. We should marry people who know how to love us and that WILL love us! This info is for daters onlynot married couples; so, if you’re married, stay married, PLEASE! If you are dating, then ask God to show who you are supposed to marrybecause you don’t know sincerely! People can play nice-nice/hypocrite well for different reasons and fool you, people can be good people(but not the right one for the road that God has for youNOT COMPATIBLE SPIRITUALLYeven 2 children of God may have 2 different roads that do not line up; remember the bible verses where I believe the disciples rebuked a man of God because he was not associated with them directly; Yexus’ answer shows that people can have acceptable missions to God, but be incompatible; then again, God told Hosea to marry a prostituteif my memory serves me correctly). Li ntawd, by choosing the wrong one(sometimes, a child of God can be the wrong one for you), you might miss out on blessings that might only be unlocked with the right one. You may even bring a curse to you; your kids might be sickly or some may die before you; you might not be the right parent for you child; you may be infertile or infertile for a long time; you love one another and something’s still not right; you might get someone who has fooled you(there are witches, wizards, hypocrites, violent abusers, uncaring naggers, cheaters, ascribers to open sex or LGBT lifestyles, mentally unstable people, ascribers to bestialitywho only use the family pet as a cover, atheists or agnosticswho have used religion to win you over, liars, the narcissistic or selfish, alcoholics and drugheads, conpeople and getting illegal money, pagans/satanists, lazy people, the childishnegatively speaking, tau mas, verbal abusers, cursers, people who will never repent, serial killers, pedophiles/incestuous people, thiab lwm yam. out there).

    You ask God, because He has a plan for you and because(if you divorce for whatever reason) it’s my sincere belief that you aren’t supposed to get married again until your spouse dies(or have sex again for those who are crafty). You’re not supposed get divorced period(except for sexual unfaithfulness), but you should be without sex or marriage if you do for whatever reason. Can you honestly say that if you(if you get a HORROR of a spouse and you can’t take itit shouldn’t happen even then, but what are most going to do) or your spouse is the reason why you get divorced that you can go without marital sex for a period that might go outside your sexual prime(this period could be several decades)?! THAT’S WHY YOU SHOULD ASK GOD WHO YOU SHOULD MARRY! It avoids sin later(because you may or may not get lucky, but He knows) and your Christian journey is maximized! What if God did not answer your marital issue(kids, heev) prayersletting you reap what you’ve sown for choosing to marry for personal reasons only?!

  128. MarcusTeb

    On another issue: there are some marriages(unless you know God has signed off on themask Him to be sure; don’t guess) that could be asking for trouble: 1. BMWF marriages in America: we live in world of white progressive, objective racism! White racists are aggressive with racism more than any group that I’ve ever seen! And the black man is enemy number 1! They put disgusting things in your food, blacks and their kids may get filthy/germ-laced hugs and handshakes, spells/curses may be put on the man or his kids, cops profile and mistreat black men far more aggressively if a BMWF marriage is proclaimed as you are supposed to, they disown family, theynepotizepure white family members(kids, heev) and discriminate against mixed members(kids) and the black man, they murmur against theirenemies”, they attack and/or kill black men, certain brother/sister relationships will become strained or inimical and almost all white brother/sister-in-laws will have no or an inimical relationship with their black counterpart, teachers subtly villify, thiab lwm yam. Can you imagine possibly your kids having no/a cheap relationship with their maternal family? At Christmas: white kids get a $150 gift from this member, but your kids get $25 gift or nothing. Can you imagine if something happened to your loved one(husband or child) and wondering whether your family had something to do with it and not being able to prove it? Many of these things can be expected; but also, these couples have to deal with the things that other marriages have to deal with, heev! Bills, domestic home/property care, family expenditures(sometimes unexpected), kids discussion(SPECIAL and requires more time than otherseven encouraging your child to realize that racist whites see them as black and maintaining a balance that he/she loves both parents and all people the same respectively), jobs, spending time with your friends so that they remain your friends, thiab lwm yam. There’s so much going on that makes the marriage unhappy, if God did not ordain it!

    2. Marriages where there’s a big gap in religious philosophy or where the main points of the religious teachings are opposite or not compatible. Just ask king Solomon. Christian and muslim. Christian and buddhist. Christian and hinduism. Christian and atheism. Christian and satanism(illuminati, freemasonry, and their other sects and ties). Nco ntsoov tias Vajtswv xav koj muaj ua ntej yuav mus, Vaj tswv yuav siv koj yuav hloov tus neeg los yog lwm tus neeg nyob hauv koj cov lus uas yuav mloog!

  129. JoshuaKirklandTeb

    Txawv tebchaws,

    Kuv yeej qhuas koj tsav, txiav txim, lawv nrhiav, & txoj kev ntseeg. Hais tias koj muaj mob tau plagued koj lub fact & yeej ua lub neej nyuaj heev rau koj yuav vwm kiag li! Txawm li cas los, koj perserve & sib ntaus los ntawm txhua qhov ntawd & tseem mus ua kom tiav tej vaj tswv hais kom koj. Thaum kuv hnov tias cov Unashamed ncig xyuas txog 2012 Yog koj li kawg ncig pawg saib, Kuv lub pajhlwb pib xav ua vim li cas koj nyob nraum dai nws. Thaum kuv pom hais tias koj muaj koj nkees heev tsis meej & no tias koj yog ib tug pastoral internship, Kuv to taub tias Vaj tswv muaj ib lub hom phiaj koj pib. Thaum twg sawv tawm, Kuv yog SOOOO tus pog! Txiv neej, Kuv yog li hype! Qhia rau koj paub qhov tseeb, Txoj hauj lwm zoo yog qhov 1 Christian Hip-Hop album kuv listened rau & muas. Ever vim ces, Kuv twb tau tau hooked mus rau cov suab paj nruag hip plhaw uas praises Yexus. Koj lub suab seev lawm ces influential hauv kuv lub neej. Kuv thov uas koj tseem pheej yuav mus tua los ntawm koj cov struggles thiab cov kev cuam tshuam cov kingdom! #116

  130. BlosamTeb

    Dab neeg zoo. Kuv zoo siab los yog koj. Kuv yuav mus kuv cov haivneeg tab sis uas tsis txuag kuv ntawm lub neej tu siab heev kuv nyob. Kuv tsuas cia kuv yuav tiv thaiv kuv cov me nyuam yav tom ntej thiab vaj tswv hates sib nrauj. Kuv nyob hauv lub ntuj raug txim hoping mus haven.

  131. LaKiKITeb

    Koj tseem tabtom mus convince kawm leej twg? Koj, los yog peb? Yog koj hais tiag nqa koj tus poj niam, vim yog Vaj tswv no tsab xov xwm no yuav tsis nyob ua ib ke. Koj tsis tau tso cai. Yog, Kuv yuav tsum muaj kom ntau dub Godly cov poj niam uas nyuam qhuav li amazing raws li koj xaiv tus poj niam. Tab sis koj tsis xav kom lawv, yuav tsis muaj ib qho nyiaj paj. Koj muaj siab heev rau koj tus poj niam. Qhov no yog qhov zoo. Cia li nres rau nrhiav pov thawj rau nws, thaum nws tseem tsis zoo thiab condescending.

    Kuv TABTOM Guessing tsuas lus uas cosign tau koj raws li txoj cai tau muab lo, tab sis, kuv yuav sim dua. Dawb hais plaub!

    • JamesTeb

      WOW TIAG TIAG. Koj yuav tsum tau mus cuag Vaj tswv thiab tau lo lus. Kuv tsis xav tias koj paub tias koj muaj lus dab tsi txog kev ua kom koj qhia meej tu cheej nyob ntawm no. Xav koj txhij tsis twb paub lawm lub hom phiaj ntawm qhov nws ua no yog los pab thiab txhawb lwm leej lwm tus uas muaj qhov teeb meem no tib. Txoj kev uas koj tuaj tawm suab nyiam nws cov resentment ignorance los yog tej zaum tseem prejudence xwb vim hais tias koj xav tias nws ua pov rau hauv haiv neeg lub ntsej muag uas nws muaj nrog poj dawb thiab uas yog tsis tau hais. Nws suab ib yam li koj chim nws muaj ib lub sij hawm tus ntxhais dawb.

  132. TiffanyTeb

    Dab tsi yog tuaj mus txawv tebchaws. Qhov no yog Tee. Kuv yeej enjoyed no Tshooj. Txawm tias kuv yog xyoo qab. Lol. Tab sis, honestly muaj yog tias koj kuv yuav cia li pom qhov no. Kuv tus txiv yog dawb thiab kuv ib yam nkaus thiab loj los imagining kuv nrog ib tug txiv neej dub. Tab sis, vaj tswv tsim kuv los yuav txawv. Twb loj hlob tuaj kuv tug tshis txias rau lub nplov, peb paub los lawm raws li ib tug ntawm cov fellas. Ces nyob hauv kev kawm ntawv qib siab tus fellas npe hloov thaum lawv xav tias kuv yog ntxim hlub. Tiam sis vim kuv yog ib tug neeg khiav dej num uas muaj zog mus rau ib tug txiv neej dub txhawb kuv ntawm. Ces kuv tau foom koob hmoov rau ntawm 30. 3 xyoo muaj zog rau cov me nyuam ib tug ntxhais zoo nkauj. Kuv tsuas thov lub ntiaj teb yuav tuaj ua ke thiab paub hlub yeej tsis muaj xim. Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov
    P.S. Yog kuv tus poj niam tij laug Lil Esxias, sib yuav 9 xyoo. Kuv niam hu kom peb nws cov lauj kaub melting kev hlub.

  133. MillzTeb

    nyob zoo sawv ntxov,

    Cov kuv niam thiab kuv txaus siab rau tej kev sib tham li peb xav tias cov zajlus ua “touchy” thaum nws yuav tau moog nyob hauv peb lub zej zog thiab ntau ceeb tshaj li cov Christians. Kuv yog ib tug hluas dub nraug kuv tus kheej, Kuv tus poj niam, leej twg yog dawb, yog xya xyoo uas yau dua rau kuv. Peb leej hlub tus Christ tsaug. Raws li peb hais tiag ntseeg tias los ntawm tej lus thov Christ muab peb sib. Peb tam sim no yog cov niam txiv ntawm plaub zoo nkauj tus me nyuam hauv cov tsev blended. Pab neeg no Vaj tswv tsim rau peb yeej tsis tuaj nrog nws obstacles peb xiam tej phooj ywg thiab tsev neeg raws li uas peb tseem thov rau. Qhov tseeb yog Vaj tswv lub tswv yim rau peb yuav tsis txhob peb npaj li cas. Thiab yog tus ntawv Vajtswv chock-full scenarios uas hais lus rau peb tus vaj tswv txoj kev npaj thiab nws perfection divine. (Hosea/Gomer yog ib tug piv txwv zoo meej)

    Kuv xav tias lub ntiaj teb pom ntawm interracial lub koomhaum tau raug marred los ntawm tus tapestry ntawm prejudice, ntxub, lwm yam siab phem thiab evils yam uas muaj plagued txoj kev xav ntawm noob neej vim hais tias peb inception. Yog vim li cas vim cov ntawv Vajtswv uas yog tus loj tshaj hlub zaj dabneeg txhua leej tseem resonates txawm tiam no millennias.

    Kuv niam thiab kuv muaj tej no hatred npe tes ob peb mus kuaj thiab txawm lwm tus tsis peb txawj. Yog xub nthuav nws yog los ntawm ib tug neeg uas ua Christian claims lossis cov neeg uas tsis tau puab le puab ignorance. Thaum tej no tshwm sim rau peb peb pom nws li ib txwj vim peb xam pom tias zoo yog vim li cas peb yuav tau hnov Vaj tswv lub suab thiab tsis peb txawj. Nws (Christ) Thaum cov tsw moments hits peb nrog Galatians 2:20, Nws yog peb xam pom tias qhov sib ntaus peb yuav xav tau tsis yog peb li mus tua. Yog nws ua ntawd hnov? tsis yog li, lawv tsuas qhia cov lus nug ntau tshaj li: “ua li, Kuv tsis tau cug tab sis zoo li cas hais txog kuv cov me nyuam? Li cas ua kuv yuav tiv thaiv lawv los ntawm cov hatred lawv saib?

    Yog thaum twg koj twb paub lawm tias koj lub neej yog tsis ib tus xwb, lub cev lus tab sis ib tug ib sab ntsuj plig.

    Kuv niam thiab kuv cov nyob rau hauv peb cuaj xyoo nyob rau lub neej (ntxig applause) Peb tsis tau ntau zog lawm thiab thiab united ntau vim peb mus saib peb lub hom phiaj tam sim no, nws tsis tau ntau li ntau dlaim phaj. Thaum tus ntawv Vajtswv hais tias peb yog lub teeb lub ntiaj teb, peb hais tiag mas! Thiab ib txhia yuav tsis hauv uas, tab sis, ces koj pom tus ob peb leej twg mus hais tau rau lawv tus kheej: “muaj! Neb ob tug tau li cas kuv xav tias!”

    Kuv cov kwv tij mus txawv tebchaws thiab nws tsev neeg zoo thiab cov txheeb ze kuv hais no,

    Koj qhov lus twb nyuam qhuav pib kuv tij laug thiab niam laus . Yuav muaj zog nyob hauv tus tswv thiab hauv lub hwj huam uas nws yuav. Nws yuav coj koj tsuav koj tsis txhob khiav rau nws.

    Yuav muaj ntau yam kuv paub tau tseeb koj ntshe twb ntsibtsum los lawm txog lawv cov nyob rau sab qab teb obstacles. Tab sis koj yog ib qho piv txwv ntawm kev zoo nkauj tiag peb Vaj tswv, thiab tswv Yexus Khetos. Hlub thiab lub neej qhov no qhia tau hais tias zoo, rau cov ntawv Vajtswv hais ntau zaug tias “Rau yog tsis muaj kev hwm cov neeg muaj vaj tswv” – Loos 2:11

    Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov koj thiab txhua lwm tus hauv no ncej uas lub npe lub npe Yexus Khetos

  134. DawnnTeb

    Bro, Kuv thiaj ua tsaug thiab hwm koj ntawm no ncej. Kuv twb hnov kuv ncaj ncees qhia tawm cov txheej xwm seb vim li cas txiv neej dub yuav poj niam rau lub txawv haivneeg. Qhov no yog ib qhov ob peb zaug kuv twb hnov ib tug kwv tij’ hais qhov tseem ceeb ntawm pas Godly hla counselor ntawm vim poj niam rau ib haivneeg no tsis zoo li cov poj niam uas lwm haivneeg. Thiab tiag nws lawm txog cov hom phiaj Kingdom nyiam. Tej zaum peb Vaj tswv yuav foom koob hmoov koj, koj tus poj niam thiab tsev neeg!

  135. Trinitee HudsonTeb

    Kuv cov kwv tij nyob Christ. Kuv pomzoo li foom koob hmoov rau ntawm qhov tsab xov xwm no. Ua tsaug rau tas cov lus qhia thiab khom rau tej neeg tsis to taub koj.

    Kuv yuav thov nej tsam ces yog koj stance nyob rau hauv koj lub neej tab sis tseem koj tseeb ministering. Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov koj thiab koj tsev neeg.

  136. Joshua FordhamTeb

    Kuv tsis xav tias qhov tsab xov xwm no yog haistia xav tau ntxiv. Kuv yeej tsis tau pom ib pab neeg puas muaj tus xav mus nrhiav pov thawj muaj lub siab yuav dawb raws li kuv tau pom cov txiv neej dub neeg dub li no. Kuv pom tias cov neeg dub uas hnub es yuav tsis dawb pawg tsis nrhiav pov thawj vim lawv yuav dawb uas tsis yog tus neeg ntawd. Yog hais tias lawv yeej ua li, yog tsis txog qib uas neeg dub uas yuav dawb.

    Kuv cia li muaj ib lub caij nyuab believing tias tag nrho cov kev Asxis tus poj niam nyob rau ntawd lub tsev kawm ntawv uas tau muab rau neeg yuav vaj tswv thiab nws kom cov fullest loving tsis ntes koj qhov muag tab sis tus ntxhais dawb, the woman who has been said to be black man’s kryptonite, caught your eye for marriage. You just wanted to marry white and trying to bring God into that as a means to not seem like every this was so God ordained when this behavior predates slavery.

    If you want to date white okay but to write an article means there is something not settling in your spirit.

  137. Joshua StormTeb

    I agree with you, Hli mus txawv tebchaws. I have come to know that the whole person is comprised of spirit, soul, and body. So we are spirit beings, with souls, and we live in a body. It is very unfortunate that most people look at thehouseyet what matters is the spirit/heart of the person. I’d just love to re-emphasize this for someone out there reading my comment here. A man is a spirit-being. He has a soul (emotions and thoughts) and he lives in a physical body.

    That white or black skin that most people are always quick to identify is just a house where we live. Mine is black, perhaps yours is black. To define people by the color of theirhouseis like judging the contents of a letter from the look of the envelope. The reason why they sayhis body was laid to restis because you are not your body, but rather you live in it. If we all appreciated these truths, there wouldn’t be any race or color issues. God is creative, he knew that this earth was his canvas, and he could never paint it all white, or all black. The beauty of art is in the blend of colors, not just one. That’s precisely why we ought to celebrate one another’s race instead of ranting about our differences. A cake contains a good amount of several ingredients including eggs, salt, sugar, thiab lwm yam. When they are blended together and baked, we get good cake out of that. Try to put salt, sugar, oil, and eggs in your mouth before baking and you’ll probably puke your guts out!

    So whether your wife/husband is yellow, white, green or whatever is nothing worth discussion. The point is whether y’all find a connection that y’all think is worth keeping all your lives. Period. I honestly think that people who segregate on basis of race are small-minded, and they can’t see whole person (spirit, soul and body).

  138. Biota MacdonaldTeb

    Love that you wrote about this! I’m in an interracial marriage myself, and in many ways I was able to relate with a lot of what you shared.

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