Xa uza kweli xesha kunzima, abantu abasoloko andazi ukuba ndithini. Isiphumo clichés nantsingiselo okanye iinzame trite ukuba kukonwabisa. Ndiye ebezisoloko ingxaki ungasuki phrases- uhlobo oko akuthethi nto umntu esithi kubo, Okunene ukunceda umntu aziva. izinto ezidengileyo ezifana, "Chin phezulu" "Iyakuba ngcono." Ngokwenene? Wazi kanjani? Wena ke musa ukwenza abahlobo bakho na amalungelo ngokubanika ukukhanya, amathemba afukufuku ukuba ezingasekelwanga nantoni. Xa hits intlungu enzulu kufuneka rock inyaniso eqinileyo ukuze kusixhasa.

Ngexesha kwinkxalabo ngumhlaza, Christopher Hitchens wavakalisa inkxalabo efanayo kunye ngamabinzana athile nantsingiselo sizilahla ngeenxa. Uchitha amaphepha ambalwa ehlasela omnye wabo kwincwadi yakhe, Mortality. Uthi, "Ukuthi ngqo, Ndiyeke kancinane ukukhupha isaziso sokuba 'nantoni ingawubulali indenza bomelele.' "Yena uya mgama, "Kwihlabathi ezingenangqondo emzimbeni ... kukho zonke izinto ezininzi kakhulu ukuba bambulale wena, musa ukumbulala ukuba, aze akushiye kakhulu buthathaka. "Ayikwazi uvakalelwa nje uvuyo?

Oku kuvakala uxinezeleke, kodwa ndicinga Hitchens ilungile ngengqiqo. Kuyinto kunokwenzeka ukuba singaya zinto kunzima ukuba buthathaka kuphela sizise ngakumbi ukufa. Ndiya unokuthelekelela umntu ebuza umbuzo, “into njani le yoyikekayo ukwenza yandenza ndomelela?” Nokuba abantu abaninzi kaGawulayo kwaphulwa phantsi yinkohlakalo kwelizwe lethu owileyo. Nethemba singafa kuphela ukubethwa abaninzi kangaka de waphula, kwaye ngokwenene ekugqibeleni ezisiminxayo ngaphandle. Amabinzana xa evakala cute ngoku kubonakala yanto. Kodwa ke luvo kakuhle-intsingiselo Hitchens wahlasela wenyaniso? ndicinga njalo.

Xa Ntiyiso?

"Yintoni na ukumbulala indenza bomelele" kunokwenzeka, kodwa kuphela ukuba kukho into engaphaya kobomi. Ukuba le ubomi, kweli hlabathi, yaye eli qumrhu zonke kukho, Hitchens ilungile. Yinto ubuxoki. Bekuya kuba esithi, "Yintoni na Isixa imoto yam eyenza bomelele." Oko Maxa. Ningathanda ukuba ngoyaba inyaniso ukukholelwa ukuba. Kodwa ukuba izilingo yexeshana ezinye uhlobo lwentsingiselo obungunaphakade itshintsha yonke.

UPawulos usixelela, "Basebenzisane Zonke izinto okulungileyo kwabo bamthandayo uThixo, kwababiziweyo ngokwengqibo yakhe." Le vesi amaxesha axhatshazwe, kodwa ke omnye izithembiso ezininzi ezintle kuzo zonke iZibhalo. Oku akuthethi ukuba amaKristu sehlela. Sonke Sehlelwa zizilingo, kodwa ngeke ekugqibeleni koyiswa ngabo. Lintshaba zethu weengxaki, ezifana ukubandezeleka nokufa, babe ngabahlobo bethu noKrestu, ngenxa yokuba ekugqibeleni ukusebenza ngakwicala lethu.

Ngoko kanye na ezi zilingo etshabalalisayo kubenza sibe namandla? Nazi iindlela ezintathu (kunye overlap ebonakalayo):

1. Asenza kuxhomekeka uYesu

Xa ndiziva ngathi yonke ebomini bam uza kakuhle, intliziyo yam ngoko nangoko tshwa self-ukuxhomekeka. Oku aluze lutshitshe. Ndiqalisa ukuthandaza ngaphantsi kuba zinganegalelo bacinga mna kuswela nto. Ndibe nebhongo ngokuba bacinga ukuba isizathu yonke izakuba kakuhle. Ngaloo maxesha, Ndiya silibale ukuba uThixo waso izipho ezilungileyo, kwaye kusafuneka ukuba akuxhase kum. Ndicela ukuba kambe Mna selungelweni bonke beenceba zakhe.

Kodwa xa iimvavanyo indlela yethu, abonisa ukuba ubuthathaka bethu. Ukugula usikhumbuza indlela ethe thina, walala-offs zisikhumbuza ukuba umsebenzi onzima akuqinisekisi nantoni, nongquzulwano isikhumbuza ukuba kufuneka uYesu kwimimandla yonke yobomi bethu.

2 Korinte 12 na sisonwabiso kum ngamaxesha ubuthathaka. UPawulos uyayiqonda ukuba uThixo wamnika i silingo ukuba 'sihlale [yena] zigcwale niziingqondi. "Kwaye uthi ngesisulu ngovuyo ndafika yakhe, kwaye nguye umxholo zonke iintlobo izilingo. njani uPawulos ukwaneliseka nokuba vuyani zilingo? Ndicinga ukuba uPawulos uthi ukuba ezi zilingo kwenza kucace ukuba kufuneka ubabalo lukaThixo namandla. Self-ukuxhomekeka endandibuthathaka, kunye nokuxhomekeka Kristu amandla. Ngoko uPawulos uthi, "Xa ndibuthathaka, kuxa ndinamandla. "

2. Asenza ngakumbi uYesu

Siza asoze sikwazi ukunyamezela izilingo etshabalalisayo de siyaqonda ukuba intuthuzelo yethu nempilo olungileyo yintoni eyona nto ibalulekileyo. Intuthuzelo nempilo zizinto ezintle uThixo uyakuvuyela asinike. Kodwa ukuthanda kukaThixo ephambili ubomi bethu kukuba siya kufana uYesu. Kwaye ukuba ukulungele ukusebenzisa iimvavanyo ukufeza ukuba. Hebhere 12 uthi, "[uThixo] usiqeqeshela okusilungeleyo, ukuba sibuxhamle ubungcwele bakhe. "Uqeqesho ejimini kaThixo Buyinto amaxesha, kodwa Uya kusenza ngakumbi.

James 1:2 qatha engqondweni, apho usixelela ukuba "Kubaleleni ekuthini kuluvuyo, bazalwana bam, xa udibana neemvavanyo ezahlukahlukeneyo…"Isizathu sifanele ekuthini kuluvuyo umlinganiswa uKristu uvelisa. ukuthobeka zethu kubaluleke ngaphezu ulonwabo lwethu. Kubhetele ukuba buthathaka emzimbeni kwaye womelele ngokomoya.

3. Benza kudala kuba uYesu

iintliziyo zethu buthathaka sisono, kwaye sisoloko sizifumana ngokulangazelela ngaphezulu oko eli hlabathi. Kodwa xa uvuyo okwethutyana kweli hlabathi zithathwe kuthi, sisheke ziyakhunjuzwa ukuba Umhlaba ayikho ekhaya. ubumi yethu kwenye.

Ndiyakuthanda Salibala kwiihotele intle, kwaye xa ngaba ndizama ukuba ngokusebenzisa onke olunoncedo. Kodwa ke ukuba aphoswe umfazi wam, kwaye ke ndiyaqonda andinalo iimpahla bendizama ukuzisa, kwaye ke ndiyaqonda inkonzo Igumbi malunga nesiqingatha njengoko kulungileyo, njengoko yokupheka umfazi wam. Khumbuza ukuba kule hotele ayikho ekhaya. iminqweno ulindelo ukundenza elide sibekho kwikhaya. Le umhlaba apho thina, nezilingo kusikhumbuza ukuba iparadesi yethu kwenye, kunye neNkosi yethu. Akuyi kubakho iminqweno ulindelo eZulwini, kuba iNkosi yethu kuya kwanelisa yonke impahla yethu. Yena uza kuziphelisa iintlungu umgalele ubabalo lwakhe phezu kwethu ngonaphakade.

Ngoko ke kwixesha elizayo unomhlobo kweli xesha linzima, abakhuthaze ukuba kwezona meko ebuhlungu kusenza sibe namandla. Hayi iingcinga ezintle kwentembeko, kodwa ithemba lokwenene utshintsho lokwenene. Kwaye xa uza kusetyenziswa ngexesha enzima, makuthethe kusondela ngakumbi kuKristu. Musa ukoyika, uNdikhoyo unawe.

ithemba Ikholwa yeyona obungaphesheya kwengcwaba, kwaye kubomi elilandelayo siza kuba kunye naye. Ngoko ke nokuba yintoni ubulala thina kusenza namandla.

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